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Laid off at 55 in Tech

OK, this one's a doozy. And my first autoadmit post. Lookin...
Sadistic clear brunch
  09/18/25
run some numbers on renting out house and taking mortgage on...
sooty cocky parlour
  09/18/25
also are you gay (important)
sooty cocky parlour
  09/18/25
Because if you are this bro can offer you a way to make some...
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  09/19/25
How would paying men for sex help me?
Sadistic clear brunch
  09/19/25
Think bigger
gaped pink center
  09/19/25
True, gotta spend money to make money.
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  09/19/25
salesforce will hire you if ur that unhirable i know boom...
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  09/18/25
Race?
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  09/18/25
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  09/18/25
Flame exposed here
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Debated going Indian here. Asian felt too easy.
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just jumped the shark
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u maed it
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Can you live off the side gig? Maybe focus on it and make m...
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Wtf is this? How did a 55 yr old nonlawyer find this site? W...
swashbuckling principal's office
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My friend told me about it.
Sadistic clear brunch
  09/18/25
He is gay, isn't he
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We met through the nude bodybuilding community
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You're bald
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he sld at least switch to SPYD or SHCD and cop dat dividend
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Date: September 18th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

OK, this one's a doozy. And my first autoadmit post. Looking for some financial advice and input from the great sages among you.

Based in San Francisco. Was just laid off from my job at a software company after 13 years there. Am not hopeful for being immediately hired in tech again soon, if ever. So Im assuming worst case scenario that Im not working a well paid job or perhaps any job anytime soon (Im talking years). Here is my current financial picture:

401K accounts (Fidelity and Vanguard): $950,000, with about 50% in VWENX (balanced 60/40 US stock/bonds), 40% in FXAIX ETF (tracks S&P 500), 10% in FBALX (balanced 60/40 US stocks/bonds).

Brokerage Account: $1.25 million, with about 70% in VTI, 10% in VGT, 10% in VOO + VOOG, and varying amounts in XYZ (Block), NVDA, IBIT. $50,000 in BND (Vanguard total Bond ETF).

Cash: $450,000 (a chunk of this is meant for emergency fund, and home maintenance (new roof, at the very least)).

Home Mortgage remaining: $640,000, 2.5% interest.

Home Value: $1.6 million, according to Zillow. At the peak in 2022, Zillow estimated it to be $2.1 million.

Total annual expenses: $70,000 (this includes mortgage, property taxes, insurance, utilities, food, etc). Im frugal.

I want to downsize and sell the house, and will pay CASH for a condo with a target of $900,000. But will likely hold out for a few years for, HOPEFULLY, improvement in the housing market.

Oh, and I have had a side gig for the past 20+ years that has reliably brought in about $25K-30K/year (pre-tax).

No other liabilities. Single. Child independent and working. No intention of ever leaving SF.... unless im desperate and really running out of money.

Oh yeah, and I have $330,000 in previous tax losses that I can harvest ahead, due to some significant losses in individual stocks (now I stay away from individual stocks and stick with ETFs).

My BIG question is..... what do I do with that $400,000 in cash? I have a real fear of not finding another well paid job at a tech company again b/c of my age (and alot of the assets Ive accumulated was due to the success of my last company's IPO). Ive worked in tech for a while, but in pre-sales (not engineering/product). Once I downsize and sell the house to pay cash for a condo, I will be relieved of a mortgage and my annual expenses will be much lower. But what's the best way to put my cash to work now, while optimizing returns and minimizing risk, since Im not working now and may not be for a while????

Thanks for any input!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282695)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 8:38 PM
Author: sooty cocky parlour

run some numbers on renting out house and taking mortgage on condo

also

> Home Value: $1.6 million, according to Zillow. At the peak in 2022, Zillow estimated it to be $2.1 million.

literally never seen any bay area home value decrease except for a very brief period in 2008

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282791)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 8:47 PM
Author: sooty cocky parlour

also are you gay (important)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282805)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:24 PM
Author: Cerebral Awkward Old Irish Cottage

Because if you are this bro can offer you a way to make some cash. Hint: it involves sex with men for money. However, if you're not this can still be on the table.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284064)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

How would paying men for sex help me?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284088)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 1:32 PM
Author: gaped pink center

Think bigger

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284284)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 2:11 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

True, gotta spend money to make money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284436)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 8:40 PM
Author: ebony contagious chapel patrolman

salesforce will hire you

if ur that unhirable i know boomer tech guys that got jobs at colleges writing custom software to integrate into salesforce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282794)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 8:50 PM
Author: Hilarious state



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282809)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 8:42 PM
Author: cerise autistic property crotch

How are u set as far as azn pussy is concerned?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282796)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:48 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

Involuntary celibate for approximately the last 15 years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282938)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:54 PM
Author: Sapphire trip sanctuary

Race?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282958)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:54 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

White

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282961)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:55 PM
Author: Jet narrow-minded gay wizard

Flame exposed here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282966)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:06 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

Debated going Indian here. Asian felt too easy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282998)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:30 AM
Author: Jet narrow-minded gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283719)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:52 PM
Author: Cerebral Awkward Old Irish Cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284157)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:38 AM
Author: magical yellow striped hyena

just jumped the shark

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283739)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 8:46 AM
Author: lemon business firm

u maed it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283504)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 8:58 PM
Author: fighting demanding tattoo

Can you live off the side gig? Maybe focus on it and make more money at it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282819)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:51 PM
Author: swashbuckling principal's office

Wtf is this? How did a 55 yr old nonlawyer find this site? Were you googling Obama's LSAT or something?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282945)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:52 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

My friend told me about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282951)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Cerebral Awkward Old Irish Cottage

He is gay, isn't he

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284066)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 1:07 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

We met through the nude bodybuilding community

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284209)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:53 PM
Author: laughsome gas station

You're bald

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282953)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:15 PM
Author: Scarlet stimulating stag film



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:53 PM
Author: Primrose home masturbator

just get the 70k in expenses down to like 50k and dont ever work again lmao. also focus on your side gig bs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282955)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:27 AM
Author: Self-absorbed base circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283225)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:53 PM
Author: Sapphire trip sanctuary

State your console history

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282956)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 9:55 PM
Author: Jet narrow-minded gay wizard

How is this situation a "doozy"? It seems pretty banal. Do you think your situation is especially complicated or bad? Just stop working and go full S&P and live off your investments if you only spend 90k per year and have no dependents

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49282963)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:47 AM
Author: Self-absorbed base circlehead



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Date: September 19th, 2025 2:38 AM
Author: federal rehab

he sld at least switch to SPYD or SHCD and cop dat dividend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283297)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:07 PM
Author: Dashing area milk

You need to get into an SMB. Think home services/car wash/storage unit/franchise shit. It will be way below what you’re accustomed to but use that equity to find something with a solid cash flow that you can sell in 10-15 years when ready to retire.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283001)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:16 PM
Author: Apoplectic chest-beating codepig private investor

Target gov and gov contractor roles.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283026)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:20 PM
Author: Canary Hairraiser Space Depressive



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:42 AM
Author: cobalt multi-colored casino



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Cerebral Awkward Old Irish Cottage



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:20 PM
Author: medicated affirmative action athletic conference

Don't sell the house with the 2.5% mortgage. WTF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283038)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:38 AM
Author: snowy goal in life point

Yeah - assuming this is flame but the house is basically free money and there's almost no way buying a condo with a maintenance fee is lower cost.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283233)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:48 AM
Author: Self-absorbed base circlehead

I paid off my home with a 3% mortgage and don't gaf what financial experts think. I'm not moving anywhere and only owed 100K on it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283241)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:23 PM
Author: Godawful disturbing heaven

how did you get a .edu email address and xo account at age 55

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283044)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:28 PM
Author: Scarlet stimulating stag film



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:43 PM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:40 AM
Author: cobalt multi-colored casino

Good schools give you an edu for life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283235)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 8:52 AM
Author: ruddy famous landscape painting



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: magical yellow striped hyena



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:28 PM
Author: arousing amber stock car

🎯 Your Big Question: What to Do With $400,000 in Cash?

Let’s divide this into buckets based on your needs and timeline.

🪣 1. Short-Term Cash Reserve (~$100K–$150K)

This covers:

Emergency fund (ideally 1.5–2 years of expenses since you're not working): ~$105K–$140K

Home maintenance (roof, etc.): Reserve ~$25K–$50K depending on condition

Best options:

High-Yield Savings Account (HYSA) – e.g., Marcus, Ally, SoFi, etc. (currently ~4.5%–5%)

Treasury Bills (3–6 months) via TreasuryDirect or brokerage

Money Market Fund – e.g., Vanguard VMFXX or Fidelity SPAXX (~5%)

Goal: Keep this liquid, safe, and accessible.

🪣 2. Mid-Term Holding (~$300K–$350K)

This is capital you won’t touch until you sell your house and downsize into a condo (likely in a few years).

This is the chunk you want to grow conservatively while minimizing drawdown risk, since you may need to deploy it for a cash purchase.

Best options:

Laddered Treasuries or CDs (1-3 years) – rolling ladder with staggered maturities

Short-term or ultra-short bond ETFs – e.g.:

Vanguard Short-Term Bond ETF (BSV) – low volatility

iShares Short Treasury Bond ETF (SHV)

Vanguard Ultra-Short Bond Fund (VUBFX)

Multi-asset conservative ETF – e.g., Vanguard LifeStrategy Conservative Growth (VSCGX) (~40% stocks, 60% bonds), if you want a slight growth tilt

Avoid: Long-duration bonds, volatile equities, or speculative assets for this pool.

📈 Strategy for the Rest of Your Portfolio

Let’s think beyond the $400K cash and align your entire portfolio for early retirement readiness since you're possibly in a "coast FIRE" or semi-retired mode.

1. Brokerage Investments

You’ve got:

~$1.25M in mostly ETFs (VTI, VGT, VOO, VOOG, NVDA, IBIT, BND)

Suggestions:

Reduce concentrated bets in NVDA and IBIT — trim gradually to lower risk

Target more balance: Add more BND or VTIP for stability

Use tax-loss harvesting and $330K carryforward losses:

Trim winners (like NVDA) and offset gains

Rebalance without tax hit

2. 401(k) Allocation

Since you’re not working and might not touch this until 59.5 or later, let this ride a bit more growth-heavy. But given market cycles, you could:

Keep 60/40 allocation

Or go 70/30 in FXAIX + BND for a slight growth tilt

You’ll want to consider eventual Roth conversions during low-income years (now?) — we can get into that if you're interested.

🏡 Should You Sell Your House Now or Wait?

Your instinct to hold for a better market makes sense, as long as you don’t urgently need to tap equity.

Pros of waiting:

You have low mortgage rate (2.5%)

SF market might rebound somewhat

Delays a taxable event (cap gains)

But don’t wait too long if:

Maintaining the home becomes burdensome

Market continues to soften

You can find a great condo now (condo prices may be more attractive than SFHs)

Just remember:

Once you sell and buy a condo for cash (~$900K), you’ll free up ~$600K in equity.

That equity becomes part of your investable portfolio (with no mortgage burden).

🧮 Are You "Work Optional" Now?

Let’s run the numbers assuming you never work full-time again:

Total Investable Assets (excl. home): ~$2.65M (401k + brokerage + cash)

Net home equity: ~$960K

Total annual expenses: $70K (less if no mortgage)

Side income: $25K–$30K

So, your net draw is only ~$40K–$45K/year.

At a 3.5% withdrawal rate, you'd need:

$1.15M–$1.3M, and you have ~$2.65M+

✅ You're already financially independent (or very close). You could “coast” without a full-time job and supplement from your side gig.

✅ Final Recommendations

🔒 For the $400K Cash:

Bucket Amount Where to Park It

Emergency + Home $100K–$150K HYSA or money market

Downpayment Reserve $250K–$300K Treasury ladder, BSV, SHV, or VSCGX

💡 Other Actions:

Rebalance brokerage portfolio – trim risk assets (NVDA, IBIT), shift toward more BND or VTIP.

Harvest capital gains using your $330K tax loss carryforward.

Evaluate Roth conversion strategy – could save on taxes long-term.

Monitor housing market – but don’t be afraid to sell/move early if the right deal pops up.

Don’t rush to go back to tech — explore freelance, consulting, or even nonprofit work if it’s fulfilling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283053)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:49 AM
Author: magical yellow striped hyena

do me next: i have $1million and im gay, tyia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283775)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:53 PM
Author: arousing amber stock car

That's exciting! With $1 million, you've got a lot of options, and the fact that you're gay doesn't necessarily change how you might want to spend it, but I imagine your lifestyle and values might influence some decisions.

If you're looking for financial advice, or maybe more personal/spiritual or community-based guidance, here are some categories to consider:

1. Investing in Your Future:

Real Estate: You could purchase property, either as an investment or to have a place that feels truly yours. A cozy apartment in the city or a vacation home in a place like Palm Springs or Provincetown could be options.

Stocks & Bonds: If you want your wealth to grow over time, investing in the stock market, bonds, or even more niche markets like cryptocurrency or start-ups could be good options. Consider working with a financial advisor to help diversify your portfolio.

Retirement Planning: If you haven’t already, putting money into retirement funds like a 401(k) or an IRA could help ensure long-term stability.

2. Philanthropy & Community Support:

LGBTQ+ Causes: There are countless LGBTQ+ organizations and causes that could benefit from your support, like The Trevor Project, GLAAD, or local advocacy groups. Investing in building community and supporting mental health or homelessness services could be very fulfilling.

LGBTQ+ Businesses: You could also invest in queer-owned businesses or startups, helping others in the community thrive and ensuring you’re supporting a more inclusive economy.

3. Personal Fulfillment & Experiences:

Travel: You could visit places that cater to LGBTQ+ communities, such as Ibiza, Mykonos, or places with vibrant gay scenes like New York or Berlin. You could even do a European tour, seeing historical LGBTQ+ landmarks.

Luxury Purchases: If you enjoy finer things, perhaps some splurge-worthy items like designer clothes, watches, or a high-end car could bring you joy.

Art: Investing in art can be both an emotional and financial investment. You could buy pieces from up-and-coming LGBTQ+ artists or pieces that resonate with your identity.

4. Health, Wellness, and Growth:

Therapy & Coaching: Especially in the LGBTQ+ community, sometimes therapy and coaching can be transformative in navigating relationships, identity, or personal growth. A good therapist or coach can help you process things and work through life transitions.

Physical Health: You might want to invest in a gym membership, a personal trainer, or even retreats focusing on mental and physical wellness. Maybe a yoga retreat in Bali or something that helps you recharge.

5. Giving Back to the Arts & Culture:

LGBTQ+ Film Festivals or Theater: You could help fund or sponsor queer art, films, and theater, or even contribute to LGBTQ+ film festivals or events.

Creating a Scholarship: Establish a scholarship for LGBTQ+ students, or support artists and creators in your community.

Ultimately, your money should serve you—whether that's securing your future, investing in personal happiness, or improving the lives of others in the LGBTQ+ community. How do you imagine your life changing with that kind of financial freedom?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284163)



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Date: September 18th, 2025 10:34 PM
Author: excitant halford cruise ship

LEARN TO CODE

Oh wait....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283063)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:26 AM
Author: Self-absorbed base circlehead

Just retire

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283224)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:34 AM
Author: Blue electric furnace

Try a national lab, they’re hiring and welcome older more dependable people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283228)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 1:34 AM
Author: Wine lodge filthpig

Hey brother how you doing, I live in SF too. Let’s start a business.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283263)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 2:07 AM
Author: Twinkling at-the-ready rigor

Are you 100% Asian?

Either way count me in.

BTW you around right now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283286)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 2:33 AM
Author: Wine lodge filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283295)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 8:59 AM
Author: Twinkling at-the-ready rigor

What's your throwaway?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283520)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 2:36 AM
Author: federal rehab

wtf wld u stay in SF, are u a fag and need SF ass?

u have enough money and i guess if u buy a condo outright then u dont have housing costs but it sounds like if u cant get a decent jerb then u will just be ass raping urself financially staying in SF instead of going to mexico, pattaya, or wherever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283296)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 4:18 AM
Author: sooty cocky parlour

s t e a m w o r k s

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283341)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 2:40 AM
Author: federal rehab

You aren't also factoring in ur SS payments which u can start taking in just 7 years, u prob are gonna get 2k a month no?

u are actually set even in faggy SF since ur mortgage rate is good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283299)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 6:34 AM
Author: hyperventilating clown church

you're too young to retire-- use your best contacts for a lateral move and do it now-- if u don't nobody will will find u attractive, not the least of whom is urself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283401)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 8:13 AM
Author: federal rehab

ljl good goy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283471)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 8:17 AM
Author: Self-absorbed base circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283477)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 8:45 AM
Author: lemon business firm

my first autoadmit post tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283500)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 8:59 AM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283519)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:01 AM
Author: Scarlet stimulating stag film



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Cerebral Awkward Old Irish Cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284069)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 1:09 PM
Author: zombie-like market



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Date: September 19th, 2025 8:53 AM
Author: ruddy famous landscape painting

just retire and do the TT lifestyle

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283513)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: lilac digit ratio institution

What are they saying on Reddit, which is where op stole this from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283691)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:22 AM
Author: lemon business firm

Not true he said it's his first autoadmit post. It's right there in the text.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283698)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:25 AM
Author: ruddy famous landscape painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283701)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 11:26 AM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283869)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 1:49 PM
Author: gaped pink center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284354)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:23 AM
Author: Charismatic site partner

Redditors steal autoadmit content and repost it there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283699)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Doobsian Wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283706)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 11:26 AM
Author: Sadistic clear brunch

I’ve heard about this happening a lot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283872)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 1:41 PM
Author: laughsome gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284323)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 1:50 PM
Author: gaped pink center

Cr. Never seen the reverse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284356)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:25 AM
Author: Dead tantric trust fund

These kind of posts remind me of how unambitious I am -- I would retire yesterday. No side gig nothing. Just fucking retire.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283703)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:34 AM
Author: Shivering Boistinker Gaping

seriously. people who need some kind of shitty W2 job to feel "fulfilled" (lol) are the worst, they are the fucking boomer idiots sitting in management roles who won't retire because they are too stupid and uninteresting to do anything else.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283724)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: olive lascivious national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283728)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:51 PM
Author: Godawful disturbing heaven



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Date: September 19th, 2025 11:13 AM
Author: appetizing slap-happy shitlib factory reset button

move to Kyrgyzstan and live like a demigod

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283834)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Cerebral Awkward Old Irish Cottage

Why Kyrgyzstan

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284072)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 12:31 PM
Author: federal rehab

they have the hottest men https://www.dreamstime.com/kyrgyz-man-bishkek-kyrgyzstan-portrait-kyrgyz-man-bishkek-kyrgyzstan-image192031974

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284093)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 1:47 PM
Author: lemon business firm

i have a hat just like that i call it my Poasting Hat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49284340)



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Date: September 19th, 2025 11:16 AM
Author: ivory exciting address



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5777382&forum_id=2id.#49283841)