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Birthday dinner with friends has a humiliating end.

To set the context, I’m a (M42) HL married to a (F42) ...
Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse
  05/02/26
this is what usually leads to murder-suicides imo
stirring elastic band
  05/02/26
I hope not.
Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse
  05/02/26
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Motley Chocolate French Chef Business Firm
  05/02/26
Name indicates HL.
Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse
  05/02/26
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razzle-dazzle locus
  05/02/26
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Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse
  05/02/26
Need to know op's height
concupiscible stag film
  05/02/26
what is an HL and a LL?
Talking Plaza
  05/02/26
High libido and low libido. You need to get with the Dead B...
Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse
  05/02/26
i trust my bull and let him do the talking
Talking Plaza
  05/02/26
She doesn’t have “LL”, she’s just no...
Vivacious sadistic hospital
  05/02/26
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kink-friendly territorial crackhouse
  05/02/26
That’s a toxic thing to say.
Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse
  05/02/26
Porque no los dos?
Cordovan Pit
  05/02/26


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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:33 AM
Author: Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse

To set the context, I’m a (M42) HL married to a (F42) LL and have been really struggling with our sex life for around 10 years. She dictates all the terms of our sex life, and I work within her boundaries. She’s just not into sex, regardless of what happens.

Anyway, we had 10 close friends over for my wife’s birthday dinner and I was cooking for all, I worked my butt off on appetisers and mains, dinner went well, and everyone was happy….

After a little break I brought out the cake and was serving it up, and there was a little joke from one of her friends about my wife “putting out tonight because I worked so hard”. My wife quickly snapped back and said “No, it’s my birthday, I don’t need another chore to do”…

Everyone started laughing (our mismatched libido’s are known) and then the jokes kept coming, and it crushed me. The girls kept it going for about 15mins and couldn’t stop laughing. I didn’t react because didn’t want to cause a scene for her birthday, but it was pretty demoralising and felt betrayed.

I honestly think I’m done, there’s no point staying in a relationship with someone who’s just not in it at the same level. At 42, I still think there’s an opportunity to meet someone special, I’m just baulking because of the kids.

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/1bab9aj/birthday_dinner_with_friends_has_a_humiliating_end/



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:35 AM
Author: stirring elastic band

this is what usually leads to murder-suicides imo

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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:57 AM
Author: Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse

I hope not.

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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:38 AM
Author: Motley Chocolate French Chef Business Firm



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:14 PM
Author: Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse

Name indicates HL.

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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:58 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle locus



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:14 PM
Author: Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:16 PM
Author: concupiscible stag film

Need to know op's height

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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:17 PM
Author: Talking Plaza

what is an HL and a LL?



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:29 PM
Author: Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse

High libido and low libido. You need to get with the Dead Bedroom lingo dude.

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Date: May 2nd, 2026 2:31 PM
Author: Talking Plaza

i trust my bull and let him do the talking



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:36 PM
Author: Vivacious sadistic hospital

She doesn’t have “LL”, she’s just not at all attracted to “hubby”.

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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:37 PM
Author: kink-friendly territorial crackhouse



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 1:01 PM
Author: Mewling bossy roommate bawdyhouse

That’s a toxic thing to say.

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Date: May 2nd, 2026 6:21 PM
Author: Cordovan Pit

Porque no los dos?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2most#49860219)