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MARRIED bros -- how'd you decide to marry?
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Date: January 27th, 2012 10:31 AM Author: blathering pea-brained location corn cake and why did you think it was going to work? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19846835) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 11:40 AM Author: Aromatic institution toaster wanted to have kids
she's generally a chill, rational person |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 11:51 AM Author: Big citrine cumskin goal in life how long were you married before you had a kid? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847082) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 11:53 AM Author: blathering pea-brained location corn cake what do you mean rational? i mean, i think my gf is rational about big things, but day-to-day she can be emotionally erratic (for example she was pissy for a few hours b/c i smelled like cigs the other day). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847091) |
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Date: June 15th, 2017 8:53 PM Author: Electric sooty hell old irish cottage To be fair, smoking is disgusting and prole. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33568507) |
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Date: June 16th, 2017 1:54 AM Author: vengeful philosopher-king brunch (Effette LA twink @ Urth Cafe) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33570623) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 11:43 AM Author: Multi-colored House We started living together and after awhile we figured why the fuck not. At that point in our lives we were both broke as fuck and had like 140k worth of student loans hanging over our heads. I get how people with actual assets can have qualms about getting married, but when you are dirt poor you have nothing to lose really. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847045) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 6:04 PM Author: Vivacious Tan Indian Lodge how'd you pay for the wedding then (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19848788) |
Date: January 27th, 2012 12:00 PM Author: overrated senate pure stupidity. ended badly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847117) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 6:04 PM Author: chrome native Say more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19848795) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 12:00 PM Author: Medicated Blue Weed Whacker temporary insanity (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847119) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 12:03 PM Author: Dead out-of-control station met a cool chick, engaged at about 6 months, married at about 15 months.
married for 6 years, 2 kids |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 12:06 PM Author: misunderstood razzle-dazzle bawdyhouse She's chill, only gets nutty about twice a year. Has good genes, tall, blonde, blue eyes. Dated for about two years, engaged for one. Married 2 years now. Just had a kid.
When they're not crazy and they're good looking it's a no brainer. |
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Date: June 15th, 2017 8:58 PM Author: Shimmering pit mad cow disease 180. natural blonde? blonde peach fuzz on a woman's body is so sexy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33568558) |
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Date: June 15th, 2017 10:55 PM Author: marvelous cheese-eating idiot field Lol gook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33569569) |
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Date: June 15th, 2017 10:56 PM Author: metal rigpig Lol at this faggot marrying a total slut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33569575) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 12:25 PM Author: blathering pea-brained location corn cake aren't all women kinda crazy though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847224) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 12:27 PM Author: misunderstood razzle-dazzle bawdyhouse Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.
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Date: January 27th, 2012 5:04 PM Author: chrome native Most Schopenhauer is 180. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19848484) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 5:27 PM Author: Erotic cordovan cruise ship LOL this makes no sense.
His support for "women are between children and men" is "compare children to men". WTF? |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 12:26 PM Author: Charismatic coral legend Subject: When it was finally legalized. (Earl) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847225) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 12:36 PM Author: Chest-beating Stage Juggernaut Knocked her up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847263) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 1:28 PM Author: soggy salmon kitty box office Hey me too! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19847469) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 6:11 PM Author: awkward swashbuckling heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19848817) |
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Date: June 15th, 2017 7:27 PM Author: mewling haunted graveyard Update? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33567855) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 7:15 PM Author: galvanic persian In order of importance - intelligent companionship, loyalty, toughness, and a strong sex drive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19849089) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 8:26 PM Author: diverse national quadroon (guy who's not into CGWBT/not a beta fag) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19849418) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 10:37 PM Author: mauve fragrant stock car Loyalty and strong sex drive = 180
Intelligent companionship = meh. Unnecessary and counterproductive.
Toughness = who the hell wants a tough chick? That's like wanting a dood. I don't want a girl who's like Hemingway or John Wayne. |
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Date: June 16th, 2017 12:33 AM Author: Sepia exhilarant mother Not tough = fine as long as nothing bad ever happens. Tough I take here as meaning mature/rational/future-time-oriented. My wife was way tougher in her 20s but staying home with kids led her to regress and become a less mature and resilient person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33570323) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 10:51 PM Author: thriller fishy church athletic conference Honestly I probably did it because it was easier than breaking up. Sometimes it seems like a good decision, sometimes not. C'est la vie. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19850320) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 10:53 PM Author: Odious rusted state Realized that she could put up with my shit and (mainly) brought out the best in me. Good sex was also critical. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19850327) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 10:55 PM Author: floppy buff faggotry den only cr post itt
edit: ok knocked her up one was legit too. different, but legit. |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 11:01 PM Author: Odious rusted state thanks I guess. kids matter too. you have to pick a woman who would be good for that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#19850372) |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 11:06 PM Author: mauve fragrant stock car Yep. I'm realizing that picking a good woman for marriage has very little to do with how much you two "click" and has a lot more to do with how good she is in bed, how well she puts up with your shit (i.e. she is patient and knows when to keep her mouth shut) and is good with kids.
A successful marriage has nothing to do with having shit in common, being from similar educational or socioeconomic backgrounds, or even having similar values apart from religious values, if one is so inclined. |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 11:10 PM Author: Odious rusted state Generally agreed but you have to remember that personality match matters. Similarly educational and socioeconomic background matters as well, as they inform the values and objectives of someone.
Example: I could never have married someone who grew up a poor, because their desire for gross material tokens of success is antithetical to my background. Does that mean I automatically excluded all poors? no, just the 99% who lacked my general worldview and educational achievement.
Also, check family and remember that the apple almost NEVER falls too far from the tree |
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Date: January 27th, 2012 11:28 PM Author: mauve fragrant stock car I guess this makes sense. I guess I'm not so much concerned with personality as long as the girl lacks certain very negative personality traits. I can get along with pretty much any nice girl.
I guess I also understand where you're coming from re: socioeconomic status. But not all poors are like that. I know a few people who grew up in humble situations who have remained down to earth and frugal even despite achieving a good degree of financial success. In this regard I get along much better with a nice girl from a working class background who doesn't strive than with a chick from an upper middle class or lower upper class background who is very socially and professionally ambitious.
But other than those sorts of factors, I don't care about personality all too much. I can get along with most everyone. |
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Date: June 16th, 2017 3:50 PM Author: Titillating Costumed Space Genital Piercing was GK running a married male schtick at some point? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33574504) |
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Date: June 15th, 2017 7:32 PM Author: floppy buff faggotry den Colleges give you a better financial aid package. I actually did not think it was going to work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33567881) |
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Date: June 16th, 2017 1:56 AM Author: vengeful philosopher-king brunch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33570629) |
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Date: June 16th, 2017 3:47 PM Author: jade big-titted trailer park black woman I decided to marry my wife about two months after we met. Every young and in love couple thinks they've got something special that others don't. We had something special, but this really was different and we both knew it. This wasn't either of our first times. She'd been left at the altar and I'd been left in a faraway place. I thought I knew what love was before her. Now I realize that I didn't have a clue.
After our first date we cleared our calendars and hung out non stop except when working. We hadn't spent a free minute apart since meeting. She was hilarious and fun to hang out with. Unlike many of my former girlfriends, my friends loved hanging out with her. We became boyfriend/girlfriend a week after our first date and said 'I love you' by the end of the second.
She introduced me to her entrie extended family after eleven days together. They thought I was great. Her grandmother, the most important woman in her life, immediately liked me. I won over her dad, a former firefighter, when a drunk driver hit her and I made it to the scene within a minute of the police. I told him that she was going to be OK and that I loved her. I asked for his permisson to marry her three weeks later while frying a Thanksgiving turkey. He said yes.
We were married the following March. It's been the best five years of my life. We sit up late at night laughing at one another's jokes, both of us trying to fight off sleep because we're having too much fun. We've faced a lifetime of problems during those five years but all they've done is bring us closer together.
I married this girl because I never have to lie or pretend to be something I'm not. We've got the type of love everybody single hopes they'll find and every couple wishes they had. I married her because it would have been criminal not to. I married her because we've got something truly special. |
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Date: June 16th, 2017 4:24 PM Author: jade big-titted trailer park black woman Guy who works in oil, has a full metal and wood shop, and loves his wife here, sup? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1859332&forum_id=2#33574873) |
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Date: June 16th, 2017 4:25 PM Author: Deep Cobalt Locus Is working in oil supposed to be impressive?
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