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Why Julia is crazy
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Date: April 18th, 2012 8:49 AM Author: umber principal's office It seems like there's a lot of speculation about why she does what she does, and based off my experiences interacting with her here and a few times off-board, I think I understand (to a degree) what her deal is.
So basically, about 2.5 - 3 years ago, not exactly sure, I white-knighted for her a bit in a thread where she was getting ripped up, and then interacted with her in a friendly way for a few more posts. Now, don't mistake the intention here - I fully realized she was crazy and probably full of shit at the time, but for some reason I either felt bad for her or thought people were overreacting.
She immediately started asking who I was, what I did, etc, and wanting to share stories about herself and more information. She asked me several times if she could contact me off XO, and I finally relented and gave her my throwaway gmail. She immediately hopped on there and started gushing out all kinds of details of her personal life, history, yada yada, as well wanting to know about me. I lied and told her I was a med student even though I worked in finance at the time.
This is where it got weird as she went on long crazy tangents about ex-boyfriends with me barely responding at all, spending a looooong time discussing the fact that one dude made X amount of money (I don't remember what, but I was loling at the salary she claimed for his position, which I guess she assumed I would have no knowledge of since she thought I was in med school), whining about men in general, and then finally rolling around to discussing XO.
But no matter what we discussed, the trajectory of the conversation would be that Julia would outline some sad story, then talk about how aspie and fucked up she was, then gently prod me to disagree. Eventually I stopped placating her with "yeah, that sounds unfair," type comments and she would actually get agitated. I understandably got bored and weirded out by this after about a half hour and signed off. During this period the ratio of words typed was probably 150 or so by me to several thousand by Julia. Brothers, if I had the transcript I would post it.
She tried to talk to me several more times (and usually like just a few seconds after I had logged into the account) and would pick up right in the middle of a rant, as in "So I was telling you about ____, and I remembered this one email he sent me four years ago where he tried to make me feel so stupid. Maybe I am dumb and aspie compared to him, I'm sure I am, I really screwed that up. Why would he try to hurt me like that?" That's not an actual quote, but the shit was along those lines and she would just launch into it, with me barely knowing what the fuck she was talking about.
I never actually responded to her again, but that didn't stop her from trying. She'd punch through several long, weird paragraphs at a time over gchat as if we were old, intimate friends, completely unprompted, until I finally blocked her and stopped using that account altogether.
Anyway, none of that is too insightful, but I think it says something about why she posts the way she does. She holds herself in incredibly high regard - it's hard to get a sense of this without talking to her live and just letting her roll, but she thinks she is truly a rare unicorn. She loves, and I mean LOVES discussing herself with men, who then tell her she's special/attractive/intelligent. This isn't the kind of Swiss Miss 'wanting acceptance from the bros' type of mentality, this is full blown obsession with receiving praise from men. Probably some armchair psychology there since her dad did seem to be an abusive and absentee bastard and she's worked in multiple industries were recognition from men was the thrust of her career, but I digress.
She goes about collecting this male attention in the way I described - outlines a sob story, negs herself, then waits patiently for you to say "nah, you're cool." The slightest hint of complementary attitude from the dude will send her to cloud nine and instigate rants about how baddass she actually is, and how she'd basically be running the world by this point (given the 1/10 billion combo of playmate looks and genius IQ she possesses), but she's been fucked over by her parents and a series of guys who held her back.
So in sum, XO is just kind of a platform for her to try to recruit dudes to listen to her crazy shit off-board and also to discuss herself generally. I think if you read her threads with the understanding that she's basically a wild egomaniac trolling for validation, the lies and weird insisted points make a lot of sense.
tl;dnr: Julia crazy, csb |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:17 AM Author: Fiercely-loyal beta abode this is repost, right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489526) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 4:22 PM Author: Cocky Painfully Honest Ceo Tastes like copypasta to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20491756) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 6:19 PM Author: Obsidian Liquid Oxygen I dont know which is sadder: That you reposted the same, insane screed you did 2 yrs ago, or that other posters are gullible enough to believe it.
Post the g chats, OP. Of course you won't, because it never happened. I haven't g chatted with any posters in years, and even then, there are only 3 posters with whom I have done so, and I have every last chat saved.
There are a million legitimate reasons to criticize me, so it's particularly pathetic that you've had to resort to this same fake screed TWICE to do so. HTH. |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 6:21 PM Author: Bronze Orchestra Pit name the posters (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20492481) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 6:25 PM Author: Obsidian Liquid Oxygen Bloodacre, Twist, Doobs. I doubt any of them wrote this screed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20492519) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 6:26 PM Author: violet gaping DESCRIBE your conversation with Doobs
DESCRIBE your conversation with twist.
Please describe any an all connections between the two conversations in which twist commented on doobs or doobs commented on twist.
TYIA |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 6:27 PM Author: Bronze Orchestra Pit interesting trio ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20492546) |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 12:23 AM Author: Frum coldplay fan "there are only 3 posters with whom I have done so, and I have every last chat saved."
Post for verification purposes. |
Date: April 18th, 2012 8:57 AM Author: Chest-beating Hall I predict 115 posts ITT with Julia accounting for 45 of them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489499) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 8:58 AM Author: Splenetic indecent cruise ship chad Including 2 of the 3 so far. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489502) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:00 AM Author: vermilion godawful location tbf u can't throw a rock around here w/o hitting someone who thinks s/he is exceptional and living far below his/her potential and just wants to be recognized god damnit because if the world were fair s/he'd be heralded as one of teh greatest minds of the 21st century
but yeah julia is particularly bad |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:21 AM Author: Chest-beating Hall Fair, but most of us went to top schools and did quite well compared to average.
Julia, otoh, got an MBA from an institution with the same clout as the University of Phoenix (though she will talk for hours about how Tbird is extreeeeeeeeemly respected). Yet even with an mba her jobs and hobbies seem to revolve universally around her looks (stripper, "news anchor" on third rate "financial website," belly dancing instructor on YouTube (lol), online walk-out-onto-your-screen advertisement girl (double-lol), etc.) and she has no real job to cling to. All she has is some test that says she's smart and Scores (see what I did there!) of jobs (including prostitution!!!) that require no brains whatsoever and only require a pretty face.
She's a sad person and I feel bad for her. It's like she wanted her life to go a certain way so badly and now she's battling the fact that her only asset (and hence her only connection to some world and life she views as "prestigious") is fading as her skin dries up and she will soon be shut out of the only thing she was ever good at--using her looks.
But at least she can feel smart on here debating endlessly into the night about black swans... |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:31 AM Author: vermilion godawful location cawgs will be cawgs man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489555) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 1:58 PM Author: Cocky Painfully Honest Ceo Oh come on. Thunderbird isn't that bad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20490612) |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 1:24 AM Author: Razzle meetinghouse Agreed. Was invited through a friend to their alumni monthly thing in Shanghai. They had good turnout, most everyone is banking good $, and TBird actually gives out a lot of full scholarships + stipends so you do have students with 700+ GMATs who choose that school over others. Though, from what I observed, that seemed to be more appealing to foreign applicants who already graduated from the top undergrads in China and could give a fuck about MBA prestige. Shit, I've witnessed first hand how just being the #1 student in your HIGH SCHOOL gives huge leverage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20495802) |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 1:27 AM Author: Obsidian Liquid Oxygen yeah, in the end the scholly $$ made the difference in my decision.
had i gone to kellogg p/t, instead, i would've just been deeper in debt and prob not making better money. i make more than the avg kellogg grad now -- most people on my team are columbia mba b/kellogg grads and are at the same organization, making similar money. |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 1:27 AM Author: Yellow greedy azn parlour the name is very ttt. thunderbird (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20495816) |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 1:41 AM Author: Razzle meetinghouse Means nothing to people who graduated from UIBE in China. They already have the name brand they need, so from what I've seen, Thunderbird for free or highly discounted is more appealing vs. any other b-school not named Harvard. Again, just observation from the alumni I met here.
Now, if I was American and going to work in America. Yeah, Thunderbird doesn't seem to make much sense. But, internationally it absolutely has a good network and won't hold anyone's career back. |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:12 AM Author: concupiscible pistol party of the first part seems plausible bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489521) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:15 AM Author: Lemon Pit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489523) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:17 AM Author: Hideous ratface double fault She's 30, eggs are shriveling, evolution telling her that she's not worth propagating, so she's panicking and getting irrational. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489527) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:19 AM Author: Vigorous red spot faggot firefighter did she happen to mention whether she had any twist pics? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489531) |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 1:32 AM Author: Excitant sick resort love of her life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20495841) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:32 AM Author: awkward dysfunction Credited screed, bro
My limited interactions with her on the bort show her bluesmoke aspie obsession with having the last word, up to and including the point of selfpwnage
Its painful to watch |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 6:06 AM Author: self-absorbed tattoo lol @ me being aspie. sorry you dont understand what that means bro :)
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:40 AM Author: Smoky Public Bath She is still better than 90% of women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489573) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:41 AM Author: awkward dysfunction Don't whiteknight too hard, breh...you'll hurt yourself (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489575) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:47 AM Author: Smoky Public Bath lol @ thinking I'd never mix IRL and xoxo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489586) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:48 AM Author: Sinister gaming laptop tanning salon breath of fresh air to hear that on here. good for you, kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489593) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:41 AM Author: contagious crimson indian lodge idiot Well she does recognize that she has issues. That alone makes her unique. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489576) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:47 AM Author: Smoky Public Bath tbf, she admits some issues to ignore her real ones (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489588) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:48 AM Author: Sinister gaming laptop tanning salon "she admits issues" to get more attn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489594) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:48 AM Author: contagious crimson indian lodge idiot Such as... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489596) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:50 AM Author: Smoky Public Bath relax, im whiteknighting bro
if you dont see her flaws then sorry bro |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:52 AM Author: contagious crimson indian lodge idiot Wut? I obviously see that she is flawed, I just think the fact that she admits she is a little crazy is better than the rest of the female poasters who refuse to acknowledge this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489605) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 11:15 AM Author: Smoky Public Bath I agree with this, but the oher xoxo females are MIND FUCKING RETARDED. I mean, pics of u getting fucked and choked? LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489831) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 4:31 PM Author: ungodly box office reminder:
http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1918329&mc=21&forum_id=2 |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:47 AM Author: Sinister gaming laptop tanning salon You describe her just as she is on the board. Also, did you ever actually talk to her... i.e., with voices? (question from an old... I ask bc more can be discerned with actual speech) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489587) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 4:21 PM Author: talented sticky business firm nibblets i heard her on voice chat. she sounded very pleasant actually. the OP definitely seems more like a loser than julia. she just has typical amerikan women problems. he on the other hand must have the same personality as Dick Cheney. ---boor. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20491747) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:50 AM Author: Flushed offensive lodge Meh, I like her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489601) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 9:57 AM Author: Poppy cuck ticket booth whoa, whoa. you're telling me a girl who constantly seeks attention from even the loser bros on this board *might* have dad issues? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20489612) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 11:10 AM Author: Bateful school cafeteria it is sad watching women grow even crazier and crazier with age as they get older, uglier, and realize their worth in society is quickly evaporating
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Date: April 18th, 2012 11:30 PM Author: umber principal's office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20494925) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 1:47 PM Author: disturbing plum den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20490548) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 2:01 PM Author: Out-of-control sanctuary g-chat saves the convos. why can't you post? If not, u are flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20490628) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 2:13 PM Author: Obsidian Liquid Oxygen This ass clown posted the very same thing 2 years ago, at which time I also asked him to post the chat convos. He won't, because none ever happened. I haven't g chatted with any xo ers in years, but even so, it was with only 3-4 posters and I have every single convo saved. Lol @ the OP. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20490704) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 2:14 PM Author: Smoky Public Bath lol @ u having saved chats from years ago (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20490716) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 2:15 PM Author: Out-of-control sanctuary g-chat auto saves them retard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20490719) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 2:21 PM Author: Dun stirring lay U say this like u've made some profound discovery about her nature, but all u seem to have uncovered is that she is a narcissist. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20490766) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 4:34 PM Author: ungodly box office well, im female and i like julia, but she does seem desperate to be validated, a large amount of the time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20491836) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 4:35 PM Author: violet gaping i would like to hear moar stories from this poaster. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20491843) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 4:37 PM Author: amber university blood rage Posting in a 100 post thread also Julia has a 145 iq but was baffled by the GMAT, discuss. Also, posting in a 150 post thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20491864) |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 12:30 AM Author: Bipolar degenerate baffled? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20495469) |
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Date: April 18th, 2012 6:26 PM Author: self-absorbed tattoo oh god who could possibly care this much (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20492528) |
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Date: April 19th, 2012 1:49 AM Author: Thirsty mind-boggling clown here comes the subthread... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1926953&forum_id=2#20495881) |
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