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GF addmited cheating on me a year ago (What should I do?)

Were getting serious and have started discussing getting mar...
Harsh 180 Telephone Site
  11/15/13
Dump her right now. Literally right now.
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  11/15/13
this
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auto dump
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  11/15/13
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damn, i hope this is flame. sorry, brother. crazy decision t...
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  11/15/13
Not flame brother, I literally cannot stop thinking about it...
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  11/15/13
well if it's going to drive you irate, then obviously say fu...
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  11/15/13
you can't drop the bitch fast enough. you've already wasted ...
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  11/15/13
Do it. Dump her. Cheating in an LTR is an unforg...
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OP won't realize this until it's too late, but titcr
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Dumping isn't enough bro. You need to get revenge. And I don...
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Titcr, though NOT in the stupid, irrational way that'll get ...
Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse
  11/15/13
this sounds like something out of Its Always Sunny
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  11/15/13
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I don't hate her enough to hurt her, I'm just really disappo...
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  11/15/13
Don't get revenge, just dump her and forget her. She'll get ...
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  11/15/13
well you should hate her. if you don't, then you never care...
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  11/15/13
When you dump her, just calmly list every single unattractiv...
Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse
  11/15/13
That sounds catty. Attacking her character briefly and earne...
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  11/15/13
Yeah cr, I like your approach wrt attacking her character. ...
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  11/15/13
ty yeah i'm by no means saying go easy on he...
wine casino
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Tcr is definitely to say things that will crush her, but tha...
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  11/15/13
Nice
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  11/15/13
nah, tell her it's okay and that you understand; that it was...
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  11/15/13
180
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  11/15/13
This sounds like something Judge Judy would pwn you for.
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The passive aggressive "I feel sorry for you" line...
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  12/08/13
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  11/15/13
THIS THIS
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  11/15/13
tcr. stupid move on her part.
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  11/15/13
Dump her you dipshit there's no other option
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Its not that easy brother, I always expected her to be the m...
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  11/15/13
You do not want a rash, immature, cum-guzzling whore to comb...
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  11/15/13
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dude.
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gtfo
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(A uniter, not a divider)
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It was also repeated. One off dirty fuck is forgivable, but ...
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  12/08/13
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  12/09/13
Dude?
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Dude
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  12/09/13
If this is not flame. DUMP YOU DUMB FUCK YOU WILL BE GETT...
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  11/15/13
aggressive fuck ----> cum on face ----> immediate dump
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  11/15/13
This is a good "revenge" plan. Tell her you thoug...
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  11/15/13
0% chance OP has the balls to do this
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  11/15/13
A nice twist would be throwing a $5 bill at her in compensat...
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  11/15/13
180 this almost makes me want a chick to cheat on me so I ca...
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  11/15/13
I cannot claim credit. One of my bros did this IRL.
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  11/15/13
I did exactly this once. GF who cheated was feeling so guilt...
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  11/15/13
dump her and don't think twice.
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  11/15/13
I would dump her. This woman isn't marriage material. Or ...
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Marriage talks are definitely on hiatus, if my jealousy and ...
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  11/15/13
Dumb move. Dump immediately.
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CR
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THIS THIS THIS
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Starting to think this op is on dat tree man tip
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  11/15/13
She isn't sexually satisfied by you, brother. You're actuall...
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  11/15/13
This is very very cr advice
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  12/08/13
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how is this even a thread?
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  11/15/13
There really are RL bros who still marry chicks after being ...
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  11/15/13
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Is this more common in men or women?
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  11/15/13
Women are usually more forgiving here, and more likely to l...
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  11/15/13
Shouldn't the alpha have more self-control?
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  11/15/13
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Flame
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180
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  12/09/13
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  11/15/13
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  11/15/13
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  11/15/13
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Another 180 idea, some good ones ITT
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This is the only credited approach. Long aspie speeches only...
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CR.
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  11/15/13
(cuckold) There's zero reason for a guy without kids to...
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  11/15/13
Cheater, actually. I don't like the way "once a cheater...
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  12/08/13
trust is ruined, consequences will never be the same. dump.
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  11/15/13
YOU DUN GOOFED
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(what everyone thinks until their gf/wife does it)
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  12/08/13
June 21, 2014, Save the Date!
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I've been in this situation, but caught the girl a few weeks...
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  12/08/13
sounds like you're damned either way.
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  12/08/13
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  12/09/13
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(the woman mind)
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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:42 AM
Author: Harsh 180 Telephone Site

Were getting serious and have started discussing getting married/having kids. She admitted that she slept with some dude from her class a few times when we were in a LTR. Said he was feeling lonely because I got caught up in work and didn't visit her as often. What should I do bros?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442450)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:49 AM
Author: pink startled elastic band

Dump her right now. Literally right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442493)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:03 AM
Author: crimson cuckold

this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442562)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:57 AM
Author: cheese-eating smoky stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442870)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:44 AM
Author: Mauve bearded deer antler senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443271)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:57 AM
Author: canary odious stage gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443305)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:21 PM
Author: Buck-toothed mad cow disease pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443862)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:18 PM
Author: Boyish Unholy Ape Rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444222)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 8:11 PM
Author: Apoplectic green indian lodge dog poop

Dear god this. I haven't seen the rest of this thread but JFC I really hope it just ends blank bumping this comment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597928)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 3:27 PM
Author: clear shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603499)



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Date: August 15th, 2017 10:08 PM
Author: brass yapping den stock car



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#33998417)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 7:53 PM
Author: peach indecent knife

The biggest problem with staying with a gf that has cheated on you is the effect it wall have on YOU.

You will constantly be walking on eggshells and basically be bitchmade, worried about how if you spend too much time at the office she is gonna go fuck some other dude.

Dump now. I forgave a girl for just MAKING OUT with some other guy while I was on a business trip. It fucked up the entire relationship dynamic and I ended up having to cut her loose after wasting another 6 months with her and getting more emotionally invested.

Get more girls.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597846)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 3:28 PM
Author: clear shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603505)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:42 AM
Author: charismatic son of senegal

auto dump

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442451)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:44 AM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

/thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442462)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:45 AM
Author: Metal crackhouse dopamine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442466)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:45 AM
Author: bateful market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442470)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:55 AM
Author: Henna exhilarant field ladyboy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442519)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:22 AM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443652)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:18 PM
Author: Boyish Unholy Ape Rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444223)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:45 AM
Author: vigorous church building crotch

damn, i hope this is flame. sorry, brother. crazy decision that only you can make.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442471)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:47 AM
Author: Harsh 180 Telephone Site

Not flame brother, I literally cannot stop thinking about it, I think about it 24/7 to the point where its affecting my work. Its causing me a TON of anxiety.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442482)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:48 AM
Author: vigorous church building crotch

well if it's going to drive you irate, then obviously say fuck her and end it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442491)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:49 AM
Author: Metal crackhouse dopamine

you can't drop the bitch fast enough. you've already wasted too much time in this thread. start walking away and don't look back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442495)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:51 AM
Author: wine casino

Do it. Dump her.

Cheating in an LTR is an unforgivable offense and a harbinger of future infidelity. It's over. I'm sorry brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442502)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:56 AM
Author: Henna exhilarant field ladyboy

OP won't realize this until it's too late, but titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442527)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:12 AM
Author: Motley milky hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442617)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:19 PM
Author: Boyish Unholy Ape Rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444226)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:53 PM
Author: razzle sweet tailpipe

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444743)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:46 AM
Author: Erotic aphrodisiac parlor

Dumping isn't enough bro. You need to get revenge. And I don't mean cheat on her back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442473)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:51 AM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

Titcr, though NOT in the stupid, irrational way that'll get you pwned in court for something. Real revenge on a woman fucks with her head, not her property or something like that. You need to destroy her psychologically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442505)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:52 AM
Author: Harsh 180 Telephone Site

this sounds like something out of Its Always Sunny

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442514)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:59 AM
Author: canary odious stage gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443311)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:52 AM
Author: Harsh 180 Telephone Site

I don't hate her enough to hurt her, I'm just really disappointed and hurt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442510)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:54 AM
Author: wine casino

Don't get revenge, just dump her and forget her. She'll get the message and she'll feel hurt herself, like she fucked up bad (she did).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442518)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:55 AM
Author: mint cowardly keepsake machete digit ratio

well you should hate her. if you don't, then you never cared about the relationship to begin with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442521)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:55 AM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

When you dump her, just calmly list every single unattractive thing about her, physically or otherwise. "Well....it's been nice knowing you. If I were you, I'd try to drop the love handles and improve your blowjob skills before you find another guy. Maybe practice on a cucumber or take a class or something. Oh, and I wouldn't make him watch your shitty reality TV; he'll just be thinking about how stupid you are the entire time. Take care of yourself."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442523)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:01 AM
Author: wine casino

That sounds catty. Attacking her character briefly and earnestly, and ending with "I feel sorry for you" or something will hurt her a lot more because she'll blame herself. It will crush her and she will hate herself.

It's easier to forgive yourself when the other person is being an asshole.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442551)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:04 AM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

Yeah cr, I like your approach wrt attacking her character. A levelheaded, cool monologue about shit like "you really think you know someone...and then they show you they're no better than all the girls you wasted time on before"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442567)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:14 AM
Author: wine casino

ty

yeah i'm by no means saying go easy on her....quite the opposite. if you really want to hurt her, stab her soul.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442628)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:17 AM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

Tcr is definitely to say things that will crush her, but that, if repeated verbatim to her friends would not make you look like an asshole. Even quasi-romantic shit that will actually haunt her, e.g.: "it really hurts me to do this, because if you hadn't cheated, I really believe we could've had a great life together. A house...kids...the whole nine yards. I wanted to share all of that with you. But now I realize that all of it would be a lie in a way. I'd never be able to love you the way I used to....back when I thought I meant as much to you as you did to me. I'm just glad you did tell me, so that I can try to find someone who will really be mine."

^srsly, OP, say that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442641)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:22 AM
Author: wine casino

Nice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442669)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:36 AM
Author: pearl nighttime temple ceo

nah, tell her it's okay and that you understand; that it was your fault.

propose a few weeks later.

give her a fake diamond.

let her parents pay for the wedding.

dump at the altar.

fuck a bridesmaid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442719)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:29 AM
Author: wine casino

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442823)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 8:57 AM
Author: Big aggressive liquid oxygen

This sounds like something Judge Judy would pwn you for.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443210)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 11:19 PM
Author: Electric infuriating principal's office

The passive aggressive "I feel sorry for you" line doesn't work either.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24599419)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:46 AM
Author: bateful market

LOL what a stupid bitch. everything would have been perfectly fine if she didn't tell you, but she probably wanted to make you feel bad for some perceived slight. get rid of this whore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442475)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:05 AM
Author: Blathering alcoholic coldplay fan

THIS THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443219)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:57 PM
Author: adventurous gunner selfie

tcr. stupid move on her part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445150)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:48 AM
Author: wine casino

Dump her you dipshit there's no other option

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442490)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:51 AM
Author: Harsh 180 Telephone Site

Its not that easy brother, I always expected her to be the mother of my children, I have no idea what I'm going to do now. I don't think I should dump her right away as it might be a rash decision.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442501)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:52 AM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

You do not want a rash, immature, cum-guzzling whore to combine with your DNA, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442511)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:52 AM
Author: wine casino

Read what I said above. I know it's hard to throw away a relationship that has come this far but you can't trust her. How do you know she won't do it again sometime in the future when you're on a "business trip" or have been "working late" a lot and she's "lonely"? She broke down and is weak. It's over, I'm sorry. And honestly, it will hurt, but it's better than driving yourself insane contemplating it 24/7. Just do it.

At the very best, it's something that will always always always bother you, even if she never does it again. Trust me. You'll think about it when you're married and it will grate on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442512)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:53 AM
Author: Metal crackhouse dopamine

dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442516)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:56 AM
Author: Vivacious Splenetic Private Investor

dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442530)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 8:45 AM
Author: godawful office shitlib

Dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443194)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:49 AM
Author: Razzle-dazzle stubborn partner really tough guy

dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443288)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:18 AM
Author: provocative bossy potus

dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443631)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:24 AM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed

DUDE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443663)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:35 AM
Author: Arousing mood

Bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443696)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:09 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed

gtfo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443828)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:10 PM
Author: wine casino



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444856)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:23 PM
Author: bronze gas station

Dudebro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443874)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:30 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed

(A uniter, not a divider)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443931)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:26 PM
Author: violent halford travel guidebook

It was also repeated. One off dirty fuck is forgivable, but sleeping with a guy a few times - which means a lot of romantic / emotional liaisons inbetween is not, "i cheated on you" but rather a full out affair done while you are out doing the things an upright husband is supposed to do - making the dollar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443900)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:51 PM
Author: provocative bossy potus

(50-man gangbang doesn't count as long as nobody hits it twice cuck masterman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444071)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:20 PM
Author: Boyish Unholy Ape Rigpig

dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444231)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:34 PM
Author: carmine volcanic crater

Brah.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447116)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 7:26 PM
Author: Sickened jet-lagged trust fund

dude!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597666)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 7:48 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Abode Boiling Water

Jfc man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597810)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 3:32 PM
Author: clear shrine

homie...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603534)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 4:13 PM
Author: Insane haunting goal in life toilet seat

Dude?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603795)



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Date: August 15th, 2017 10:08 PM
Author: brass yapping den stock car

Dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#33998426)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 3:31 PM
Author: clear shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603529)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:50 AM
Author: Cerebral Free-loading Gaping

If this is not flame. DUMP YOU DUMB FUCK

YOU WILL BE GETTING CUCKED EVERYNIGHT BY DARNELL WHILE YOU CHANGE THE DIAPERS OF THE CHILDREN YOU THINK ARE YOURS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442498)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:55 AM
Author: Vivacious Splenetic Private Investor

aggressive fuck ----> cum on face ----> immediate dump

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442525)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:59 AM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

This is a good "revenge" plan. Tell her you thought about it a lot, and you can't leave her because you love her so much, transition to makeup sex, fuck her senseless, cum on her face, and then when she looks up at you and smiles, look her dead in the eye and say "lol yeah no, I just needed to nut real quick. Kthxbai" and walk out. Would scar her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442538)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 6:28 AM
Author: deranged haunted graveyard

0% chance OP has the balls to do this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443018)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:31 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed

A nice twist would be throwing a $5 bill at her in compensation, followed by "here you go, whore."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443940)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:22 PM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

180 this almost makes me want a chick to cheat on me so I can pull this off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444244)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:27 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed

I cannot claim credit. One of my bros did this IRL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444270)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:43 AM
Author: Fluffy Puce Menage

I did exactly this once. GF who cheated was feeling so guilty she let me do anal (which she never did before) then I immediately dumped her after. I'm one of the few xoxoers to have actually lived out the ATD meme.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443269)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:55 AM
Author: aromatic wild rehab multi-billionaire

dump her and don't think twice.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442526)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:02 AM
Author: Garnet box office

I would dump her. This woman isn't marriage material.

Or just keep dating her until you find a replacement.

At any rate, I wouldn't marry a chick with this kind of quality. Marriage and dating / fucking are two different animals and you should adopt a different standard when picking a wife vs girl friend.

At least that's how i think about things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442554)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:35 PM
Author: Bonkers Heaven Nibblets

How fucking dumb would he have to be to actually stay with this ho and continue to deal with this her bullshit and forfeit the actual opportunities to meet someone better while he "finds a replacement?" His GF isn't generating income for him. Step 1 is she is done here. Step 2 find a replacement. Actually that's Step 3, step 2 is fuck the necessary number of randoms and have a shitton of fun with your guys friends that you haven't seen as often as you would've if you were single.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445593)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:11 AM
Author: Harsh 180 Telephone Site

Marriage talks are definitely on hiatus, if my jealousy and internal rage as well as anxiety don't subside in the next few weeks I'm going to end things. If I do it wont be mean or revenge filled it'll simply be something like "I've honestly tried to forgive you but I can't, I think its best for both of us to go our separate ways"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442613)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:15 AM
Author: Deep salmon chad pozpig

Dumb move. Dump immediately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442633)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:51 AM
Author: aromatic wild rehab multi-billionaire

LOL @ "marriage talks" after something like this.

ATD is the only option.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442863)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:17 AM
Author: orchid wonderful locale

LOL

TITOCR. "Only"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442883)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:19 AM
Author: mischievous floppy skinny woman plaza

roll bread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442646)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:21 AM
Author: Slate Exciting Pisswyrm

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442662)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:30 AM
Author: snowy ticket booth depressive

ty. i was going through the thread thinking to myself "what happened to anal then dump on xo?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442691)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:21 AM
Author: Hairless Persian Orchestra Pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443236)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:31 AM
Author: gay glittery public bath international law enforcement agency

Find the dude. Fuck his ass. Then fuck her ass. Then fuck your ass. Then maybe even fuck my ass.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442697)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:34 AM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

Lol tyft

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442712)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:39 AM
Author: gay glittery public bath international law enforcement agency

I've been really wondering where Fuck My Ass the poster is lately

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442726)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:57 PM
Author: mustard hairraiser brethren

Fuck my ass.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24446905)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 7:23 PM
Author: gay glittery public bath international law enforcement agency

Good to have you back, I Literally Only Post "Fuck my ass"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597642)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 6:29 AM
Author: deranged haunted graveyard

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443020)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:19 AM
Author: provocative bossy potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443636)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:58 PM
Author: beta rebellious area



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445151)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:21 PM
Author: Sickened jet-lagged trust fund

THIS THIS THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447054)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:35 AM
Author: Vivacious Splenetic Private Investor

Starting to think this op is on dat tree man tip

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442714)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:03 AM
Author: Overrated cyan kitty

She isn't sexually satisfied by you, brother. You're actually lucky to have not been dumped yourself. Your saving grace is that she loves you. Who will always be there for her when things go wrong? Who will cook her dinners and send surprise gifts for her birthday? Darnell sure as fuck won't, and she reciprocates by using him as a sexual nigger slave to whom she feels no attachment, right? And when he lick her ass for a while, right, she gonna cum, right? You can't fuck for shit; you are shit! Might as well order your cock cage buddy because a cuck is a cuck. The thought of you lisping to your girlfriend about possibly maybe wanting to reconsider the marriage makes me fucking ill. Remember that your mom and dad would much rather their son suck cocks than be a fucking CUCK. Let that word sink in brother. Cuck. CUCKOLD. My son, a cuckold? I thought I raised him to be a man, but I see now that the rise of intellectualism has been a disaster for my bloodline. Truly, brother, consider the implications. This path leads you to raising other mens' children--conceived from the ecstasy your girl could never get from you. Please start eating your breakfast.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442925)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:11 AM
Author: Carnelian School Cafeteria Boltzmann

rofl. 974264

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442931)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 6:30 AM
Author: deranged haunted graveyard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443023)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:33 AM
Author: Diverse hot sex offender



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443257)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:47 AM
Author: Mauve bearded deer antler senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443283)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:56 AM
Author: Sapphire irradiated brunch giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443304)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:31 PM
Author: chartreuse juggernaut lettuce

jfc devastating

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443932)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:47 PM
Author: concupiscible painfully honest locus corn cake

thank you so much for this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444381)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:53 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

Wholly shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445119)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 7:38 PM
Author: comical primrose theater

This is very very cr advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597756)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 4:14 PM
Author: Insane haunting goal in life toilet seat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603800)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:08 AM
Author: slippery zippy alpha

how is this even a thread?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442927)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:14 AM
Author: Carnelian School Cafeteria Boltzmann

There really are RL bros who still marry chicks after being cucked. I even knew a girl who cucked her bf at least twice and he found out both times....I'd bet it happened more. They're married now, and every single one of his friends know he's a cuck. Lol just lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442933)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:33 AM
Author: Overrated cyan kitty

LOL. There's truly nothing more despicable. I would suggest suicide, but what's the fucking point? Cuckoldry is systematic and brutal in its destruction of weak genes. A cuck can only delay the inevitable extinction of his house by prolonging his own life (if it can even be considered life at that point). He does do a service to the community, however, by remaining on Earth as a testament to cuckoldry, and as a beacon of pity to any woman considering cucking her beta.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442943)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:48 AM
Author: Carnelian School Cafeteria Boltzmann

Dude, the girl in question gave a little speech at her friends engagement party. At one point she mentioned how she really admired her friends relationship, and felt she could really learn from her loyalty. Her look and tone were so guilty and I could sense that many of the guys there knew she was drawing attention to her own slutty past. L o fucking l at women...must have been truly humiliating for the cuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442957)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:54 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

scholarship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445135)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:35 AM
Author: thirsty fat ankles pit

Is this more common in men or women?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442946)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:42 AM
Author: Carnelian School Cafeteria Boltzmann

Women are usually more forgiving here, and more likely to look away when the dude is cheating. Obviously being a cuck is more shameful than being the girl married to the alpha womanizer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442950)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:46 AM
Author: thirsty fat ankles pit

Shouldn't the alpha have more self-control?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442956)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:50 AM
Author: Carnelian School Cafeteria Boltzmann

I'm not the right guy to talk to about monogamy at the moment, but yeah man, he probably should.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24442961)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 8:57 AM
Author: thirsty fat ankles pit

Flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443213)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:10 AM
Author: Blathering alcoholic coldplay fan

Terrible flame but good thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443224)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:20 AM
Author: provocative bossy potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443640)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:24 AM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443660)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:30 AM
Author: excitant foreskin

Make her breakfast for the rest of the week, then when you're finally ready to dump

Don't serve breakfast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443252)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:56 AM
Author: Sapphire irradiated brunch giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443301)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:23 PM
Author: Buck-toothed mad cow disease pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443871)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:25 PM
Author: histrionic internal respiration tanning salon

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443888)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:27 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443904)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:32 PM
Author: chartreuse juggernaut lettuce

<>

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443943)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:55 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445138)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:20 PM
Author: Boyish Unholy Ape Rigpig

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444234)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 9:38 AM
Author: talented stag film

[cuckold LeBron James]

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443264)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:00 AM
Author: Iridescent coiffed national sound barrier

This is hard, but all rational posters agree: you must dump her.

You say you both wanted to get married, possibly have kids. Well enough. But ask yourself, "Do I want my children to be raised in a home where there is a good chance of infidelity?" What happens when you are locked in a marriage with this woman, and she cheats on you? You will be miserable, she will be miserable, and worst of all, your children will be miserable.

Nonetheless, I do not think you should hate this woman. We should pity, not hate, those who do not have honor or virtue. Men of wisdom know this is true.

Finally, you must consider her position, as well. The only way to dignify her choice to betray you is to honor its consequences: immediate termination of your relationship. If she wanted to be with you forever, she would not have cheated on you. Maybe she regrets that decision, but something deep inside her caused her to do what she did. That cause lies dormant like a viper under a rock - you must avoid it!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443316)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:22 AM
Author: Blue tattoo

Not that big a deal in the grand scheme. If you like her, just transition to open relationship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443650)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:40 AM
Author: mischievous floppy skinny woman plaza

I did this, except it was open for me while she was still desperately trying to do what she could to get me to come back completely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443710)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 11:42 AM
Author: Racy step-uncle's house yarmulke

are you really going to leave a woman you intended to marry because she had the courage to confess to a mistake she made a long time ago and clearly regrets and has felt a lot of guilt over? a mistake that was partially your fault for abandoning her?

the vindictive chorus ITT is insane. i thought the misogyny on this board couldn't get any worse, but wow, just wow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443716)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:05 PM
Author: red kitchen round eye

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443805)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:21 PM
Author: Pea-brained dull messiness sandwich

I have to agree. She clearly at least exhibited guilt and remorse.

She even knew this could be the result and went ahead and told him.

If you love someone, forgiveness happens.

I'm afraid that the OP will have regrets down the line if he dumps her.

Yeah, what she did was shitty, but her confession makes her a 180 in my book.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443859)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:21 PM
Author: Blue tattoo

Yep

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443865)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:25 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed

Many here don't appear to be sufficiently intellectual to appreciate this. Instead they subscribe to an oppressive, traditionalist, patriarchical, heteronormative value set. A feminist male would understand that his mate is a free individual that owns her self and her body and support her decision to share that body with other people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443894)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:44 PM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445068)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:56 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

Ty.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445144)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 2:46 PM
Author: Mauve bearded deer antler senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603234)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:31 PM
Author: balding idiotic location

I disagree with most of your poast. If this chick had slept with the dude just once, then perhaps she can approach with the "I am sorry. It was a mistake."

OP's gf was probably not thinking it was a mistake as her head hung over the edge of the bed as her classmate proceeded to throat fuck her and finger blast away a few times. She didn't think it was a mistake as her mascara began to run down her cheeks and started to experience respiratory failure as an eggplant size cock was blocking her windpipe.

Bro: From a man that has a history of cheating, dump her. Get a new one, and start fresh. She will more than likely do it again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443939)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:34 PM
Author: gay glittery public bath international law enforcement agency

ROFL @ eggplant sized cock windpipe

this thread is really doing it for me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443951)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:35 PM
Author: mind-boggling twinkling feces

This shitlib use of the word "mistake" is so annoying. A mistake in this context would be getting really drunk at a party and hooking up. One time thing. Compromised decision-making. Maybe...MAYBE excusable or something that can be overcome.

That's not what happened.

OP's GF admits to sleeping with someone "a few times". Translation: they were fucking like jackrabbits for weeks if not months. That's not a mistake. That's a whole bunch of mistakes, each of which is worse than the last because after each time she had the opportunity to sit down and reconsider her actions, yet decided to keep on cheating.

And that's the point here. Her reaction to routine relationship stress was to cheat. Guess what? There's going to be more relationship stress in the future. What then? Will she cheat again? Likely. But one doesn't even need to answer that question because the really critical point here is that OP *knows* that she will quite possibly cheat again, and that is going to haunt him in perpetuity. It's going to cause him stress and anxiety, and it's ultimately going to lead to him mistrusting her and treating her accordingly (which will lead to stress and anxiety for her).

He should move on.

EDIT: And please note I am not challenging your highly questionable premise that the OP was "partially at fault for abandoning her". That's the shit all women who cheat say, whether true or not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443963)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:41 PM
Author: Pearly Drunken Philosopher-king

The thing with cheating is that, not only will he suspect her now, but she'll suspect him now as well. She will contantly be thinking about how OP might believe he has a cheating get-out-of-jail-free card. She will be suspicious of his late work nights, or the business trip he needs to take with one of his shrew colleagues. Her distrust based on her own actions will taint the relationship nearly as much as the OP's reasonably mistrust.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444001)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:50 PM
Author: brilliant beady-eyed institution

Agree completely with this and prior post.

This is now toxic, and you have to cut and run. It absolutely sucks--OP was thinking about kids with this woman!--but she fucked it up. He has to run, and he has to let her know that she was the one who fucked this up, and that while he's hurting a lot now, that this is the right decision and that there is no chance of a future together. Clean break, bro, or you'll be pining for making breakfast together or whatever the happy memories are.

In my experience, cheaters cheat, and they think that everyone else cheats, too. You will NEVER be able to trust her again, and I guarantee that she already doesn't trust you because of her own shitty behavior.

(Also, multiply "a few times" by 5-10x. This was hot, illicit, 3x/hour sex. You cannot marry this woman.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444068)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:00 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

17564

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445164)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:52 PM
Author: turquoise bisexual base

To be fair,

A mistake? Like she was walking down the sidewalk on a particularly cold and blustery winter day and she slipped on a patch of black ice and fell on her ass but in between her ass and the sidewalk was the erect penis of a guy she had been flirting with for a few weeks and her vaginal lips spread out in midair and purely by coincidence she stuck the landing perfectly and then tried to get up but slipped and fell a few more hundred times? And there were a lot of black ice patches and fortuitous dicks that winter?

Quite the mistake.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444074)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:20 PM
Author: gay glittery public bath international law enforcement agency

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444236)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:26 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444267)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:28 PM
Author: provocative bossy potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444277)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:03 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445183)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:45 PM
Author: Pea-brained dull messiness sandwich

exercising poor judgment is also considered a mistake. It doesn't have to be completely out of your control.

JFC...you seem insufferable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444375)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:01 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

Oh what an intellectual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445171)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:42 PM
Author: mischievous floppy skinny woman plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444665)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:41 PM
Author: dark theatre death wish



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445057)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:44 PM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

JFC instant classic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445072)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:55 PM
Author: Lascivious mental disorder

really love the evocative imagery that is planted in my mind because of the word "black" here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445139)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:58 PM
Author: beta rebellious area



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445152)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:02 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

Rofl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445178)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 2:49 PM
Author: Mauve bearded deer antler senate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603258)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:03 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

190

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445181)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:20 PM
Author: Boyish Unholy Ape Rigpig

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444237)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:28 PM
Author: provocative bossy potus

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444275)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 11:20 PM
Author: Electric infuriating principal's office

lol flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24599425)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:35 PM
Author: Erotic aphrodisiac parlor

ATK

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443962)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:05 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

<>

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445198)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 12:36 PM
Author: chartreuse juggernaut lettuce

Wouldn't it be great if OP immediately cut off all contact and literally acted like she did not exist? Like after being unable to get a hold of OP for days, she shows up at his work and waits outside for him to come out, then he just walks past her without a word and into the open arms of another chick he's started to date.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24443965)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:30 PM
Author: Razzmatazz idiot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444284)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 3:45 PM
Author: Dead Multi-colored Meetinghouse

Another 180 idea, some good ones ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445075)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:09 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad

This is the only credited approach. Long aspie speeches only prove how much you care / how much of a worthless faggot you are

There is one fate worse than being hated for the mentally unstable: being ignored

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445238)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:44 PM
Author: Bonkers Heaven Nibblets

CR.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445644)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:18 PM
Author: ungodly state

Skimming over the "dump her immediately" posts, I didn't see one that said "this happened to me, bro, I dumped her immediately and it was the best decision I ever made."

Cheating happens. It's up to you to decide if you can forgive her. If you can't, dump her and move on. You love her, but you're not so attached to her that this will lifefuck you, and you might still meet another girl you want to marry.

Here's the thing about forgiving her though- it's not just about forgiving her for fucking some other dude a few times a year ago, it's about forgiving her for being a cheater. You found out that she's not as good of a person as you thought she was. She betrayed you, and that's not just a one-time (or multiple times) mistake that will never happen again, it's a character flaw. It's obviously not something she's proud of, and she wishes she weren't that kind of person, but she is. If you can accept that, and she's willing to address it, maybe you can move past it.

I read somewhere once that success full forgiveness isn't as much about how you deal with cheating in the past, but how you would deal with potential cheating in the future. That sounds like intellectual cuckold flame, but I think it's about whether you accept a deep imperfection in her as a partner. Some women nag, some women are spendthrifts, some women are dullards, and their partners find ways to deal. Some women aren't loyal and suck another guy's cock when they're lonely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444218)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:20 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed

(cuckold)

There's zero reason for a guy without kids to even consider forgiving this. None whatsoever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444233)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:36 PM
Author: ungodly state

Cheater, actually. I don't like the way "once a cheater, always a cheater" is used to justify ending a relationship that may be worth saving, but there's some truth to it. If you're caught, or confess, it's not like you've suddenly realized cheating is wrong and will never do it again. In my experience, people who cheat want something that can never be satisfied even in a perfect relationship, and it's a struggle to suppress that need for the sake of a relationship. You also have to accept that your partner knows that about you, and won't tolerate things that would be acceptable from a non-cheater.

As far as whether he should consider staying with her, man, it's hard to find a girl you'd want to marry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444315)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:47 PM
Author: stirring psychic

"it's hard to find a girl you'd want to marry."

This is what everyone ITT can't wrap their head around. Yeah it's easy to say just ATD and find a new marriable woman but that's such a fucking process. I've never been cheated on though so I don't really know what I would do here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444703)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:58 PM
Author: brilliant beady-eyed institution

Bro, you don't want to marry her anymore BECAUSE she cheated. She's no longer the one -- that's precisely why it sucks. The breakup is a formality; the damage has already been done. That's why people are saying to do it and get it over with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444783)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 8:57 PM
Author: comical primrose theater

Suck it up you bitch, and march forward into the unknown. You'll be just fine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24598227)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:21 PM
Author: Boyish Unholy Ape Rigpig

trust is ruined, consequences will never be the same. dump.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444241)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:25 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed

YOU DUN GOOFED

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444260)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:28 PM
Author: Stimulating Coral Blood Rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444274)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:29 PM
Author: Boyish Unholy Ape Rigpig

lol @ 90%

OH, WHAT A CREATIVELY ANACHRONISTIC SCHOLAR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444279)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:30 PM
Author: duck-like mexican half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444283)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:03 PM
Author: Curious Stage Place Of Business

(what everyone thinks until their gf/wife does it)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445180)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 1:49 PM
Author: Lascivious mental disorder

of course women confess to assauge their own guilt. it does nothing to help the relationship, so I would dump on those terms (she is selfish). What is even more selfish than her fucking another dude (you dont own her body or her orgasms) is that she robbed you of the intellectual stimulation at the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444392)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 4:11 PM
Author: Alcoholic French Church Police Squad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445257)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:34 PM
Author: Appetizing self-absorbed friendly grandma

well definitely NOT a ms. phil hartman murder-suicide. i would definitely NOT do that b/c that's crazy and also illegal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444627)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:40 PM
Author: trip black woman library

to be a contrarian i suppose, what's the big deal if everything else is really good? monogamy/exclusivity is pretty unnatural. you don't own her. she doesn't own you. so many people mess around.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444655)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:51 PM
Author: stirring psychic

I really kind of envy people who don't get jealous, who can handle open relationships or polyamory, because it's really hard to shake the idea that social norms and hookup culture have so fucked serious relationships that no one can reasonably expect monogamy because there are just so many easy ways to get laid now. So being play with it before it happens would just be great. Jealousy really eats away at people, myself included.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444728)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 2:53 PM
Author: stirring psychic

This shit depresses me so much. That you can invest YEARS of your life into a marriage track relationship and have it fucked into oblivion by one shitty decision. Life is flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24444744)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:14 PM
Author: laughsome jew



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447007)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:17 PM
Author: ebony hall

it's not really that perplexing...

a bigger buff dude came along and end of story.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447030)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 9:01 PM
Author: comical primrose theater

Shit happens, move on pal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24598275)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 5:38 PM
Author: balding idiotic location

You and Scotty should get a beer:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOCRBxVzjPE

(SFW)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24445601)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:11 PM
Author: ebony hall

"Said he was feeling lonely because I got caught up in work and didn't visit her as often. "

lol so she cheated and you're to blame?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24446986)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:38 PM
Author: vibrant theater stage

This is why you marry them promptly, and not pussyfoot around. Autodump. She'd do the same for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447141)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: galvanic tank

yeah marrying this chick real fast would have solved everything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447152)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:40 PM
Author: galvanic tank

keep us poasted if not flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447155)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:43 PM
Author: Harsh 180 Telephone Site

We're still together for the moment but I will probably end things soon unless my attitude takes a complete 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447175)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:41 PM
Author: Disturbing roast beef

she confessed, you need to deal

if its driving you crazy, do a time out and see what happens

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447163)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:44 PM
Author: Harsh 180 Telephone Site

Yeah a small break might be Ideal, I’m trying to ascertain whether my feelings for her stem from love or simply due to the fact that we’ve spent a lot of time together and have a history.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447181)



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Date: November 15th, 2013 10:45 PM
Author: Vermilion national security agency business firm

How long ago was it? If this was really early on, maybe you could forgive her. On the other hand, why did she tell you this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24447189)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 7:21 PM
Author: swashbuckling home

cuck update pls

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597630)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 7:56 PM
Author: ivory bull headed corner

June 21, 2014, Save the Date!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597856)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 7:44 PM
Author: comical primrose theater

I've been in this situation, but caught the girl a few weeks after it happened. I dumped her but then succumbed to weakness and got back together for a few months. That was a mistake.

If you dump her now, you'll suffer some terrible and acute suffering for about six months. If you stay with her, you'll enjoy, I think, a lesser but perpetual gnawing that will eat you away for the rest of your years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597795)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 8:09 PM
Author: crimson cuckold

sounds like you're damned either way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597916)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 8:44 PM
Author: comical primrose theater

No, the correct option is a clean break. (I did this after we got back together.) Take the shirt term suffering and move on. Better than the perpetual shame, as posters above described.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24598130)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 8:07 PM
Author: Bipolar Bat Shit Crazy Point

She doesn't want to marry you but doesn't have the balls to dump you. She told you because she wants you to dump her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24597903)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 9:14 PM
Author: swashbuckling home

cr

any dood that would be having this sort of internal debate under the circumstances is exactly the sort of beta pussy a chick would feel bad about dumping

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24598397)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 9:16 PM
Author: Vermilion national security agency business firm

Seems right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24598422)



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Date: December 8th, 2013 11:21 PM
Author: Electric infuriating principal's office

Drop her.

Drop her on her head.

If you can't trust her now how do you things will be when things really get tough in your marriage? And the fact that she even mentioned that your work and your visiting schedule had anything to do with it is proof that she doesn't take any responsibility for anything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24599431)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 2:42 PM
Author: Copper love of her life

This is the bullshit excuse of either a weak person, or one who doesn't really want you so much as she wants stability. Either way, it's a problem, unless you have seen genuine personal growth on her part in the interim. If you can be sure of the latter, then I guess it might be salvageable, but this is a serious problem.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603211)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 2:52 PM
Author: Aqua thriller cuckoldry

Stay with her, cheat on her, then dump her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603285)



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Date: December 9th, 2013 2:53 PM
Author: Supple shaky coffee pot

the truth is that most people will eventually cheat and most marriages are doomed from the start. at least you get to enter marriage with open eyes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24603294)



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Date: December 14th, 2013 10:37 AM
Author: Soul-stirring Preventive Strike Candlestick Maker

this thread has convinced me that if i ever cheat on a bf (never happened yet) i can NEVAR confess to it...gotta take it 2 da grave

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#24638240)



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Date: August 15th, 2017 10:07 PM
Author: shivering turdskin affirmative action

(the woman mind)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#33998403)



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Date: August 15th, 2017 10:24 PM
Author: maroon space dragon

Oh come on.

The STANDARD advice on xo to a cheatmo who is thinking of confessing to his wife/gf is not to do it and take the secret to his grave.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#33998541)



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Date: August 15th, 2017 10:22 PM
Author: jet low-t lodge doctorate

WRONG. i'd ask watch it happen again

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2414452&forum_id=2#33998528)