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finally left gf

5+ years. Dope show when we first met. Turned into a pudgy s...
Trip insane hospital
  05/08/14
protips? how'd she react?
mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park
  05/08/14
pretty much what you expect. My final set of finals just en...
Trip insane hospital
  05/08/14
If I said that to my gf she would not cry, she would ERUPT i...
mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park
  05/08/14
play it any way you can and adapt, brother. Im not sure of y...
Trip insane hospital
  05/08/14
ty
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Chestnut electric whorehouse
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i will say, it's always easier to break up when both parties...
vermilion range
  05/08/14
100%. I have been distant for quite a while. You have to pl...
Trip insane hospital
  05/08/14
cr. It hasn't gone well when I've dumped chicks in a "g...
Disrespectful Thriller Location
  05/08/14
I learned this the hard way
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this
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Story of my life
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You need to do what's right for you. Your truth. SO TELL ME ...
mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park
  05/08/14
Is that actually pudgy? Seems in the realm of normal?
claret blood rage
  05/09/14
(pudgy) yes. i dated a 5'3 chick who was stacked and she wa...
submissive digit ratio
  05/09/14
This was a big deal. She claimed that her not going to the g...
Trip insane hospital
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gotta get one like mine who does it bc it feels good she's ...
submissive digit ratio
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yeahhhhh nukkaaaa
Trip insane hospital
  05/09/14
my gf is like this too, but for ice cream
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  02/17/17
My wife also says this and at times is about that weight
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  10/26/18
lol
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  05/08/14
damn, I got my hopes up that this would be ACP :(
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sAME
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Lol no he's a pussy with no balls which is why he's unemploy...
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tbf I'm not technically unemployed as defined by the BLS
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Ran here. Expected this post.
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tmfcr
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rach put in the html code that when acp makes a thread about...
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lol
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180 Describe her tears
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lol at "Netflix gf"
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What's funny is we all know what this means
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it's one of those terms, like xo's use of "shrew,"...
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want to make sure i am on same page define please
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another high IQ post from sealclubber
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Tragically descriptive
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Ballsy Need pics. TY.
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We need details, breh. Was this chick just a turd? Did yo...
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dont get me wrong, that much time spent with someone necessi...
Trip insane hospital
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ty brother, good luck. There are better women out there. At ...
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I have a similar situation. Girl has let herself go. Compl...
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very. Except this girl did cook for me, and was far more suc...
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1. What is her job 2. you made a point about above femini...
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1) wegmans pharmacist 2) I understand fully that this is ...
Trip insane hospital
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I'm in a similar spot. Can you tell me how you decided on th...
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my man, i had been feeling stifled for well over a year. My ...
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with 5+ years, was there backlash from friends and family? ...
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we havent told anyone yet. I expect insults hurled at me fro...
Trip insane hospital
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be strong, XObro
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you made the right choice for both of you. i was a sniveling...
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here's the thing about relationships like this. You have to...
Trip insane hospital
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oh i don't dispute it at all moving on from that was a bi...
submissive digit ratio
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im proud, brother. Things working out well?
Trip insane hospital
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yeah that was a few years back, was single for a while which...
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YES
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cr. if she's not going to care about how she looks before yo...
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Chances of getting back together in next 6 months?
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there is a 0% chance. "We" were planning to move a...
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that's good, bc there will be FAR less chance of some hookup...
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there is always a higher than 0% chance at first. hell, you...
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This is the counter-narrative to xo's theme of dumping your ...
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"Chub" becomes the new "hot" and "a...
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wut
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180 bro. I dumped a chick who went from 5'3 110 to 125 in th...
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bitch started distance running, i bet
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damn bro. way to suck ti up and do it. congrats
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* high five *
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this was supposed to be acp, but congrats
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Trip insane hospital
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I ended a 9 year relationship 2 weeks ago. 5 is weak brah
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tell us about it. i'm in a pretty good relationship, but th...
Exciting orchid gas station international law enforcement agency
  05/09/14
Four years later: single and miserable.
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I’m sorry, brother. No temporary happiness by way of b...
Trip insane hospital
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That sucks ass. Sorry dude.
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180
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congrats i just hope she hasn't been supporting u financi...
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While i do look like an asshole, im positive that I have los...
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  05/28/14
Update: Best decision of my life
Trip insane hospital
  01/13/17
Go on
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Had some fun relationships in between. Very much enjoyed the...
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  01/13/17
starting a business with your partner seems inadvisable
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Trip insane hospital
  10/26/18
Definitely inadvisable. Luckily dodged that bullet.
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tell us more!
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did you get back with organic nescac gf?
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what happened to your ex
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Pretty successful professionally. Lost some of that weight. ...
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She met and married someone in less than 3 years? WTF. Sound...
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Clock was ticking. Single females have it very easy till abo...
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180 for updating after all these years
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* It is right to give thanks and praise *
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the original netflix gf poast
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Congrats on making the right decision. It sounds like your l...
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In one way or another, most do. Find a girl who doesn't drin...
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"One of the guys" is a red flag I had to learn the...
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You give me hope
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nice moniker
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I was in a strange, dark, place at the time. Thank you.
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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:06 AM
Author: Trip insane hospital

5+ years. Dope show when we first met. Turned into a pudgy sloth (5'3 ish 127 pnds) by yr 3. She had a great job, but morphed into a jealous nagging somewhat overweight netflix gf at about yr 3. I trie dto get her in shape, tried to change everything about our failing relationship. Everyone expected marriage. Yesterday I dropped the hammer. It sucked, but was necessary. Guys, dont get married for the sake of it, its just a shitty idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523653)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:27 PM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

protips?

how'd she react?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525206)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:38 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

pretty much what you expect. My final set of finals just ended, I was in a good place - sat her down on the couch and just explained our situation. There was some impeccable advice impressed upon me here a few months ago as to how to go about it. Something along the lines of " we are, by every indication, miserable right now. I know all your friends are getting married, but we have significant baggage. We could try to get married to save our relationship, and then we'd be even more unhappy. We could try and have kids to save out failing marriage, and at that point were talking about divorce involving custody and real pure hatred. Its better off to just end this now, and not try and salvage an unsalvageable situation." There was an expected unearthly amount of crying, but all in all, she agreed with the reasoning. We have a few weeks left of living together, and ill be there the best i can. But right now i just feel freedom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525277)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:41 PM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

If I said that to my gf she would not cry, she would ERUPT in rage and anger

Congrats on your freedom, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525289)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:53 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

play it any way you can and adapt, brother. Im not sure of your situation, but I feel for you in a very real way. Not everyone can understand the everyday grind of a failing/ failed relationship that part of you believes may result in marriage because, well,...... everyone else is doing it and its just the next step. Honestly, fuck that shit. If she were to erupt in rage and anger, tell her, "this is why i cant do this anymore. you argue like your mom. im done just shutting my mouth to keep our relationship on a failing tilt." Also, who cares if she reacts in that manner. Soon enough after that conversation, you will be home free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525384)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:04 PM
Author: gold yarmulke native

ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525466)



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Date: May 13th, 2014 5:34 PM
Author: Chestnut electric whorehouse



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:50 PM
Author: vermilion range

i will say, it's always easier to break up when both parties are having a miserable time in a relationship as opposed to when one party is smitten and the other wants to get out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525363)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

100%. I have been distant for quite a while. You have to plant some seeds for something like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525401)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:23 PM
Author: Disrespectful Thriller Location

cr. It hasn't gone well when I've dumped chicks in a "good" relationship.

I'm just not the type to broadcast my discontent and feel that frequent hints and occasional explicit spelling out should be enough. Now I always make a show of it prior to the final dump, have the conversation about my unhappiness some time before it to give her a chance to get it in her head that she might be moving on/things aren't so great anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525617)



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Date: January 24th, 2017 10:32 PM
Author: Diverse purple fat ankles sex offender

I learned this the hard way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32452721)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: provocative elite dingle berry

this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525403)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: Lavender senate

Story of my life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525448)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:25 PM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

You need to do what's right for you. Your truth. SO TELL ME ABOUT THE NEW GUY.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525629)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:41 AM
Author: claret blood rage

Is that actually pudgy? Seems in the realm of normal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530810)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:45 AM
Author: submissive digit ratio

(pudgy)

yes. i dated a 5'3 chick who was stacked and she was dumpy looking up around 127. i dunno op's ex's situation, but if she *wasnt* stacked... ljl

u gotta realize that short chicks start showing an extra 5-10 real quick. 5'3 is probably closer to ideal around 105-110, so 127 is pretty bad. that's an extra 15% of her body weight - difference between 200 and 230 would be pretty huge too for a guy who's 6'3

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530833)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:42 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

This was a big deal. She claimed that her not going to the gym/ eating well was in response to my urging to do so. Which is a lie. And asinine. But whatever. The truth is .. and it is a truth i had to be involved in to believe.. is that girls actually see marriage/relationships as a goal. Once they think they have achieved it, they think its cool to stop trying. And I dont just mean wearing jeans when yall go out instead of a skirt etc etc, im cool with that. But im talking a serious lack of motivation to stay in shape and look good. Fuck that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532133)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:56 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio

gotta get one like mine who does it bc it feels good

she's hooked on working up a sweat, it's 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532200)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 4:02 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

yeahhhhh nukkaaaa

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532260)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 4:14 PM
Author: Exciting orchid gas station international law enforcement agency

my gf is like this too, but for ice cream

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532343)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 7:01 AM
Author: Poppy mad-dog skullcap



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Date: October 26th, 2018 11:03 PM
Author: vigorous amber menage main people

My wife also says this and at times is about that weight

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37104009)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:08 AM
Author: snowy alcoholic theater stage

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523655)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:10 AM
Author: Turquoise Stirring Hunting Ground

damn, I got my hopes up that this would be ACP :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523658)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:17 AM
Author: impertinent offensive coffee pot market

sAME

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523666)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:27 AM
Author: hyperactive opaque electric furnace locale



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:36 AM
Author: Jet-lagged low-t sweet tailpipe piazza

Lol no he's a pussy with no balls which is why he's unemployed and the female in his relationship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523676)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:27 PM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

tbf I'm not technically unemployed as defined by the BLS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525211)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:49 AM
Author: Fuchsia famous landscape painting



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Date: May 8th, 2014 11:14 AM
Author: Magical ungodly bawdyhouse



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:25 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac stain



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:27 PM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

Ran here. Expected this post.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525208)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Apoplectic pearl indian lodge



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:30 PM
Author: Mischievous Exhilarant Address

tmfcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525228)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:12 PM
Author: blue laughsome pocket flask death wish

rach put in the html code that when acp makes a thread about finally dumping his gf it'll be an automatic sticky

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25528236)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 8:40 AM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

lol

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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:54 PM
Author: Charcoal mind-boggling center associate



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:35 AM
Author: Jet-lagged low-t sweet tailpipe piazza

180

Describe her tears

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523675)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:47 AM
Author: passionate sickened resort



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:48 AM
Author: boyish haunted graveyard

lol at "Netflix gf"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25524071)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:52 AM
Author: carnelian cruise ship sneaky criminal



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:29 PM
Author: Frisky Lake Shrine

What's funny is we all know what this means

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525223)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:30 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio

it's one of those terms, like xo's use of "shrew," that just really let's your mind go wild and paint a masterpiece on a very unassuming canvas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525227)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:16 PM
Author: bright french chef

want to make sure i am on same page

define please

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525562)



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Date: May 12th, 2014 11:59 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac stain

another high IQ post from sealclubber

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25551007)



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Date: May 13th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: Khaki pit regret



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:09 PM
Author: Heady hissy fit

Tragically descriptive

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525499)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:48 AM
Author: Excitant mahogany meetinghouse becky

Ballsy

Need pics. TY.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25524074)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:48 AM
Author: Disrespectful Thriller Location

We need details, breh.

Was this chick just a turd? Did you feel bad about it or had she just ruined all the goodwill?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25524075)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:45 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

dont get me wrong, that much time spent with someone necessitates a certain amount of love (even if my concept of love is skewed past the point of normalcy). So that will always be there. And she is very sweet. But our arguments were vicious ... and excuse my forwardness, but I was always right from a logical perspective. She got complacent and let herself go somewhat. Then she had the nerve to complain about feeling lazy and fat. It got to the point where I would tell her she felt this was because she allowed herself to fall into the rut. Be proactive and pull yourself out. If you are fat - eat right and work out. If you sit on the couch all weekend - well stop fucking doing that. Also, as the years went on, I began saying "no" to her stupid requests. This didnt sit well with her. I was all about doing the dishes, laundry etc, I did my part. But I was finished putting her happiness ahead of mine. Period. You want equality in all aspects of life? Great job girls, you got that. Now dont expect to be pampered and coddled in our relationships cuz you cant have your fucking cake and eat it to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525314)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:47 PM
Author: Disrespectful Thriller Location

ty brother, good luck. There are better women out there. At least I hope so.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525330)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:58 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525428)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:59 PM
Author: ruddy flirting lay

I have a similar situation. Girl has let herself go. Complains that she has gained weight and doesn't exercise. She doesn't do shit about it.

Wants to quit her job and not work. Gets home before me but doesn't do any chores or even really cook anymore. Basically, I do the chores in the morning and she bitches about how I should cook for her.

Sound familiar?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525435)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:03 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

very. Except this girl did cook for me, and was far more successful that me ( as I am just on the brink of getting out of med/pharm/dent school). Still, its the bitching that festers and festers inside until you cant take it anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525461)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:09 PM
Author: gold yarmulke native

1. What is her job

2. you made a point about above feminism, but dude, ALL women are like that: they want equality in everything but still want to be pampered like a goddess

literally all forms of masculinity today are projected as a man who takes care of his woman BUT, also, is her total equal in there's no power balance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525496)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:47 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

1) wegmans pharmacist

2) I understand fully that this is the new normal. But ive gone through certain situations in the past 5 years that have allowed me to just stop giving a shit. I know whats fair, and i know whats not. If I cant find a girl who is cool enough to not only understand that mind set, but agree with it, then i dont need marriage and kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532154)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:48 AM
Author: crystalline multi-colored double fault

I'm in a similar spot. Can you tell me how you decided on this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25524076)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:47 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

my man, i had been feeling stifled for well over a year. My cynicism had grown to the point where my new normal was pure sarcasm. I wasnt happy. I was incredibly unhappy. When you get to that point, its time to leave.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525339)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:22 PM
Author: Exciting orchid gas station international law enforcement agency

with 5+ years, was there backlash from friends and family?

edit: do you expect there to be?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525186)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:48 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

we havent told anyone yet. I expect insults hurled at me from all angles. This is the exact opposite phone call people were expecting to receive from us.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525348)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:49 PM
Author: Exciting orchid gas station international law enforcement agency

be strong, XObro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525356)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:57 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio

you made the right choice for both of you. i was a sniveling beta bitch of a man a a few years back and had the choice made for me, and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525426)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

here's the thing about relationships like this. You have to be kind of a beta to even allow yourself to get that deep. If you can get out of it, theres some real growth in terms of passivity

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525446)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:03 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio

oh i don't dispute it at all

moving on from that was a big step toward no longer being bitchmade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525456)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

im proud, brother. Things working out well?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525470)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:16 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio

yeah that was a few years back, was single for a while which was 180 and now i have a 180 new gf and the knowledge that if shit goes south, there's nothing that says i have to stick it out

enjoy this period of singledom, it's incredible to just be free for a lil bit after drowning for a long time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525559)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:10 PM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

YES

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525504)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:25 PM
Author: Drab Disgusting Hell Doctorate

cr. if she's not going to care about how she looks before you get married it will only get worse. i cringe when i see those 30-40 something dudes with landbeast wives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525194)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:27 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525203)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:49 PM
Author: jet casino codepig

Chances of getting back together in next 6 months?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525357)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:58 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

there is a 0% chance. "We" were planning to move about 100 miles from our current place of residence. When shes gone in 2 weeks, shes fucking gone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525427)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:59 PM
Author: vermilion range

that's good, bc there will be FAR less chance of some hookups that rekindle things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525437)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:18 PM
Author: bright french chef

there is always a higher than 0% chance at first.

hell, you are still living together

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525580)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:11 PM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

This is the counter-narrative to xo's theme of dumping your gf, being lonely, and wanting her as she fucks a bunch of cocks.

Alternate universe: she gains even more weight and starts dating divorced bros 20 years older on OKCupid until she has a life crisis and moves to Napa for a year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525512)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:13 PM
Author: ruddy flirting lay

"Chub" becomes the new "hot" and "alpha" bro who dumped is shamed by his own bros. Willingly accepts "beta" label to stave off further harassment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525531)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:15 PM
Author: mentally impaired learning disabled trailer park

wut

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525544)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:51 AM
Author: carnelian cruise ship sneaky criminal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530858)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:15 PM
Author: at-the-ready aquamarine national

180 bro. I dumped a chick who went from 5'3 110 to 125 in the matter of months. That shit was not OK.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525552)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:19 PM
Author: bright french chef

bitch started distance running, i bet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525589)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:23 PM
Author: Kink-friendly fragrant new version business firm

damn bro. way to suck ti up and do it. congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525614)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:47 PM
Author: violent spot private investor

* high five *

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525789)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:48 PM
Author: cruel-hearted cumskin

this was supposed to be acp, but congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525792)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:07 AM
Author: Trip insane hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530622)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:47 AM
Author: lemon 180 therapy

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530843)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:53 AM
Author: deranged narrow-minded step-uncle's house love of her life

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530861)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: Spruce Zombie-like Multi-billionaire Stag Film



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103915)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:49 PM
Author: galvanic sanctuary

I ended a 9 year relationship 2 weeks ago. 5 is weak brah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532163)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 4:17 PM
Author: Exciting orchid gas station international law enforcement agency

tell us about it. i'm in a pretty good relationship, but the thought crosses my mind from time to time. after 5+ years, i don't even know how i would go about it. i'm sure most of her friends and probably all of my bros' gfs and wives would turn on me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532368)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: Exciting orchid gas station international law enforcement agency

Four years later: single and miserable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35872227)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:40 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

I’m sorry, brother. No temporary happiness by way of bumble/tinder? Brighter days are ahead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103870)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 11:40 PM
Author: razzmatazz property

That sucks ass. Sorry dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37104209)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:56 PM
Author: hyperventilating institution water buffalo

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532201)



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Date: May 13th, 2014 12:50 AM
Author: supple rigor pervert

congrats

i just hope she hasn't been supporting u financially during grad school and ur pulling the plug now that ur graduating because, u know, while ur motives may be righteous u'll look like a right dick to everyone else involved

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25551344)



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Date: May 28th, 2014 5:47 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

While i do look like an asshole, im positive that I have lost much more in this relationship in terms of opportunity cost. I also supported us for the first few yrs of the relationship. As an update, she has moved out. These past few weeks have been the best of my life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25645510)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:28 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

Update: Best decision of my life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368867)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: floppy translucent philosopher-king

Go on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368872)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

Had some fun relationships in between. Very much enjoyed the Tinder/Bumble etc game for years. Engaged to a sweet, happy, fitness girl who I am opening a practice with next year (same career - met at a conference). We travel a good amount and are planning on starting a family inside of three years. Couldn't be happier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368952)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: Spectacular very tactful dysfunction home

starting a business with your partner seems inadvisable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368964)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:43 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368992)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103892)



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Date: June 19th, 2019 9:17 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

Definitely inadvisable. Luckily dodged that bullet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#38413082)



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Date: June 19th, 2019 9:52 PM
Author: salmon parlor

tell us more!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#38413261)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Spectacular very tactful dysfunction home

did you get back with organic nescac gf?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368874)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: wonderful dilemma goyim

what happened to your ex

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369295)



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Date: January 24th, 2017 9:32 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

Pretty successful professionally. Lost some of that weight. Married a few steps down to what must be a nice enough guy. Friends tell me she's really gotten into insta and snap to show how happy she is. Worked out from both sides.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32452079)



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Date: April 18th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: Arousing turdskin stage

She met and married someone in less than 3 years? WTF. Sounds like a rebound.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35871704)



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Date: April 18th, 2018 11:32 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

Clock was ticking. Single females have it very easy till about 25/26- at which point the world judges harshly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35871725)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 7:36 PM
Author: flickering erotic school cafeteria

180 for updating after all these years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369538)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 7:44 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle mexican

i think he just wanted to claim credit for creating "netflix gf"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369580)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 8:35 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369772)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 8:49 PM
Author: carnelian cruise ship sneaky criminal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369833)



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Date: January 24th, 2017 10:42 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32452827)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 3:34 AM
Author: Trip insane hospital

Nope. This place was .. bizarrely .. instrumental in my break up. I owe a great deal of my happiness to xoxo. Just updating and giving thanks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32641914)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 3:35 AM
Author: Odious dog poop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32641917)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 5:14 AM
Author: Autistic cordovan temple background story

* It is right to give thanks and praise *



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32642034)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:59 PM
Author: Spruce Zombie-like Multi-billionaire Stag Film



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103985)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: bateful chest-beating set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35872002)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 8:35 PM
Author: submissive digit ratio

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369769)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 3:37 AM
Author: violent spot private investor

the original netflix gf poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32641920)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 3:53 AM
Author: Big green newt

Congrats on making the right decision. It sounds like your life is much better now. I always left these types of relationships at the first sign of things going south. Lately though I've just not bothered with women because I'm bitter toward them and think they're all going to transform into nagging bitchshrews in due time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32641957)



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Date: April 18th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

In one way or another, most do. Find a girl who doesn't drink too much, doesn't let her friends wield too large an influence, doesn't try and fashion herself as "one of the guys." It mostly a crapshoot, good luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35871692)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 12:06 AM
Author: Glittery light fortuitous meteor mad cow disease

"One of the guys" is a red flag I had to learn the hard way. There's no recovery from it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35871973)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:32 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

"I was cool with the guys" "Girls are too much drama" ... a non starter, run.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35875614)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:54 PM
Author: hairraiser angry boistinker

You give me hope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103951)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: demanding affirmative action crotch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37104080)



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Date: January 2nd, 2019 11:27 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

Hope all is well, brothers. Glad to see this place is still around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37517041)



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Date: January 2nd, 2019 11:29 PM
Author: vivacious sticky church building

nice moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37517053)



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Date: January 2nd, 2019 11:32 PM
Author: Trip insane hospital

I was in a strange, dark, place at the time. Thank you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37517074)