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finally left gf

5+ years. Dope show when we first met. Turned into a pudgy s...
Fiercely-loyal wrinkle
  05/08/14
protips? how'd she react?
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pretty much what you expect. My final set of finals just en...
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If I said that to my gf she would not cry, she would ERUPT i...
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i will say, it's always easier to break up when both parties...
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100%. I have been distant for quite a while. You have to pl...
Fiercely-loyal wrinkle
  05/08/14
cr. It hasn't gone well when I've dumped chicks in a "g...
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I learned this the hard way
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Is that actually pudgy? Seems in the realm of normal?
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(pudgy) yes. i dated a 5'3 chick who was stacked and she wa...
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This was a big deal. She claimed that her not going to the g...
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  05/09/14
my gf is like this too, but for ice cream
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My wife also says this and at times is about that weight
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damn, I got my hopes up that this would be ACP :(
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What's funny is we all know what this means
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it's one of those terms, like xo's use of "shrew,"...
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dont get me wrong, that much time spent with someone necessi...
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I have a similar situation. Girl has let herself go. Compl...
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with 5+ years, was there backlash from friends and family? ...
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we havent told anyone yet. I expect insults hurled at me fro...
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be strong, XObro
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oh i don't dispute it at all moving on from that was a bi...
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im proud, brother. Things working out well?
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Four years later: single and miserable.
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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:06 AM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

5+ years. Dope show when we first met. Turned into a pudgy sloth (5'3 ish 127 pnds) by yr 3. She had a great job, but morphed into a jealous nagging somewhat overweight netflix gf at about yr 3. I trie dto get her in shape, tried to change everything about our failing relationship. Everyone expected marriage. Yesterday I dropped the hammer. It sucked, but was necessary. Guys, dont get married for the sake of it, its just a shitty idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523653)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:27 PM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

protips?

how'd she react?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525206)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:38 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

pretty much what you expect. My final set of finals just ended, I was in a good place - sat her down on the couch and just explained our situation. There was some impeccable advice impressed upon me here a few months ago as to how to go about it. Something along the lines of " we are, by every indication, miserable right now. I know all your friends are getting married, but we have significant baggage. We could try to get married to save our relationship, and then we'd be even more unhappy. We could try and have kids to save out failing marriage, and at that point were talking about divorce involving custody and real pure hatred. Its better off to just end this now, and not try and salvage an unsalvageable situation." There was an expected unearthly amount of crying, but all in all, she agreed with the reasoning. We have a few weeks left of living together, and ill be there the best i can. But right now i just feel freedom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525277)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:41 PM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

If I said that to my gf she would not cry, she would ERUPT in rage and anger

Congrats on your freedom, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525289)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:53 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

play it any way you can and adapt, brother. Im not sure of your situation, but I feel for you in a very real way. Not everyone can understand the everyday grind of a failing/ failed relationship that part of you believes may result in marriage because, well,...... everyone else is doing it and its just the next step. Honestly, fuck that shit. If she were to erupt in rage and anger, tell her, "this is why i cant do this anymore. you argue like your mom. im done just shutting my mouth to keep our relationship on a failing tilt." Also, who cares if she reacts in that manner. Soon enough after that conversation, you will be home free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525384)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:04 PM
Author: erotic abode selfie

ty

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Date: May 13th, 2014 5:34 PM
Author: slap-happy native jewess



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:50 PM
Author: Startled deranged spot

i will say, it's always easier to break up when both parties are having a miserable time in a relationship as opposed to when one party is smitten and the other wants to get out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525363)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

100%. I have been distant for quite a while. You have to plant some seeds for something like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525401)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:23 PM
Author: Ungodly wonderful theatre

cr. It hasn't gone well when I've dumped chicks in a "good" relationship.

I'm just not the type to broadcast my discontent and feel that frequent hints and occasional explicit spelling out should be enough. Now I always make a show of it prior to the final dump, have the conversation about my unhappiness some time before it to give her a chance to get it in her head that she might be moving on/things aren't so great anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525617)



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Date: January 24th, 2017 10:32 PM
Author: mischievous dog poop

I learned this the hard way

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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: Yapping green institution new version

this

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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle lay

Story of my life

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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:25 PM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

You need to do what's right for you. Your truth. SO TELL ME ABOUT THE NEW GUY.

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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:41 AM
Author: swashbuckling metal sex offender base

Is that actually pudgy? Seems in the realm of normal?

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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:45 AM
Author: Electric crackhouse

(pudgy)

yes. i dated a 5'3 chick who was stacked and she was dumpy looking up around 127. i dunno op's ex's situation, but if she *wasnt* stacked... ljl

u gotta realize that short chicks start showing an extra 5-10 real quick. 5'3 is probably closer to ideal around 105-110, so 127 is pretty bad. that's an extra 15% of her body weight - difference between 200 and 230 would be pretty huge too for a guy who's 6'3

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530833)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:42 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

This was a big deal. She claimed that her not going to the gym/ eating well was in response to my urging to do so. Which is a lie. And asinine. But whatever. The truth is .. and it is a truth i had to be involved in to believe.. is that girls actually see marriage/relationships as a goal. Once they think they have achieved it, they think its cool to stop trying. And I dont just mean wearing jeans when yall go out instead of a skirt etc etc, im cool with that. But im talking a serious lack of motivation to stay in shape and look good. Fuck that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532133)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:56 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse

gotta get one like mine who does it bc it feels good

she's hooked on working up a sweat, it's 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532200)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 4:02 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

yeahhhhh nukkaaaa

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Date: May 9th, 2014 4:14 PM
Author: Spectacular pozpig

my gf is like this too, but for ice cream

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Date: February 17th, 2017 7:01 AM
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Date: October 26th, 2018 11:03 PM
Author: mind-boggling gaped puppy

My wife also says this and at times is about that weight

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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:08 AM
Author: alcoholic racy field

lol

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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:10 AM
Author: pontificating meetinghouse

damn, I got my hopes up that this would be ACP :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523658)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:17 AM
Author: Floppy Magical Telephone Nursing Home

sAME

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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:27 AM
Author: Lascivious House-broken Black Woman



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:36 AM
Author: chartreuse razzle stag film

Lol no he's a pussy with no balls which is why he's unemployed and the female in his relationship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25523676)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:27 PM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

tbf I'm not technically unemployed as defined by the BLS

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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:49 AM
Author: Excitant sickened hospital



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Date: May 8th, 2014 11:14 AM
Author: brindle overrated stage



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:25 PM
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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:27 PM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

Ran here. Expected this post.

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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: dull toaster state



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:30 PM
Author: brass histrionic step-uncle's house tattoo

tmfcr

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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:12 PM
Author: Milky Vibrant Principal's Office

rach put in the html code that when acp makes a thread about finally dumping his gf it'll be an automatic sticky

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Date: May 9th, 2014 8:40 AM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

lol

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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:54 PM
Author: jet water buffalo



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Date: May 8th, 2014 7:35 AM
Author: chartreuse razzle stag film

180

Describe her tears

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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:47 AM
Author: Walnut Adventurous Hall



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:48 AM
Author: Smoky stirring azn

lol at "Netflix gf"

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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:52 AM
Author: umber boiling water



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:29 PM
Author: Pearl Mediation

What's funny is we all know what this means

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525223)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:30 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse

it's one of those terms, like xo's use of "shrew," that just really let's your mind go wild and paint a masterpiece on a very unassuming canvas

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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:16 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Boyish Corner

want to make sure i am on same page

define please

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Date: May 12th, 2014 11:59 PM
Author: Gold naked pisswyrm mood

another high IQ post from sealclubber

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Date: May 13th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: Appetizing coiffed point cuckoldry



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:09 PM
Author: jade hissy fit temple

Tragically descriptive

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525499)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:48 AM
Author: Bearded ape property

Ballsy

Need pics. TY.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25524074)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:48 AM
Author: Ungodly wonderful theatre

We need details, breh.

Was this chick just a turd? Did you feel bad about it or had she just ruined all the goodwill?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25524075)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:45 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

dont get me wrong, that much time spent with someone necessitates a certain amount of love (even if my concept of love is skewed past the point of normalcy). So that will always be there. And she is very sweet. But our arguments were vicious ... and excuse my forwardness, but I was always right from a logical perspective. She got complacent and let herself go somewhat. Then she had the nerve to complain about feeling lazy and fat. It got to the point where I would tell her she felt this was because she allowed herself to fall into the rut. Be proactive and pull yourself out. If you are fat - eat right and work out. If you sit on the couch all weekend - well stop fucking doing that. Also, as the years went on, I began saying "no" to her stupid requests. This didnt sit well with her. I was all about doing the dishes, laundry etc, I did my part. But I was finished putting her happiness ahead of mine. Period. You want equality in all aspects of life? Great job girls, you got that. Now dont expect to be pampered and coddled in our relationships cuz you cant have your fucking cake and eat it to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525314)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:47 PM
Author: Ungodly wonderful theatre

ty brother, good luck. There are better women out there. At least I hope so.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525330)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:58 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525428)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:59 PM
Author: khaki kitty

I have a similar situation. Girl has let herself go. Complains that she has gained weight and doesn't exercise. She doesn't do shit about it.

Wants to quit her job and not work. Gets home before me but doesn't do any chores or even really cook anymore. Basically, I do the chores in the morning and she bitches about how I should cook for her.

Sound familiar?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525435)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:03 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

very. Except this girl did cook for me, and was far more successful that me ( as I am just on the brink of getting out of med/pharm/dent school). Still, its the bitching that festers and festers inside until you cant take it anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525461)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:09 PM
Author: erotic abode selfie

1. What is her job

2. you made a point about above feminism, but dude, ALL women are like that: they want equality in everything but still want to be pampered like a goddess

literally all forms of masculinity today are projected as a man who takes care of his woman BUT, also, is her total equal in there's no power balance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525496)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:47 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

1) wegmans pharmacist

2) I understand fully that this is the new normal. But ive gone through certain situations in the past 5 years that have allowed me to just stop giving a shit. I know whats fair, and i know whats not. If I cant find a girl who is cool enough to not only understand that mind set, but agree with it, then i dont need marriage and kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532154)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 10:48 AM
Author: Talented Startling Gunner

I'm in a similar spot. Can you tell me how you decided on this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25524076)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:47 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

my man, i had been feeling stifled for well over a year. My cynicism had grown to the point where my new normal was pure sarcasm. I wasnt happy. I was incredibly unhappy. When you get to that point, its time to leave.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525339)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:22 PM
Author: Spectacular pozpig

with 5+ years, was there backlash from friends and family?

edit: do you expect there to be?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525186)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:48 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

we havent told anyone yet. I expect insults hurled at me from all angles. This is the exact opposite phone call people were expecting to receive from us.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525348)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:49 PM
Author: Spectacular pozpig

be strong, XObro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525356)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:57 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse

you made the right choice for both of you. i was a sniveling beta bitch of a man a a few years back and had the choice made for me, and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525426)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

here's the thing about relationships like this. You have to be kind of a beta to even allow yourself to get that deep. If you can get out of it, theres some real growth in terms of passivity

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525446)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:03 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse

oh i don't dispute it at all

moving on from that was a big step toward no longer being bitchmade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525456)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

im proud, brother. Things working out well?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525470)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:16 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse

yeah that was a few years back, was single for a while which was 180 and now i have a 180 new gf and the knowledge that if shit goes south, there's nothing that says i have to stick it out

enjoy this period of singledom, it's incredible to just be free for a lil bit after drowning for a long time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525559)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:10 PM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

YES

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525504)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:25 PM
Author: alcoholic clown useless brakes

cr. if she's not going to care about how she looks before you get married it will only get worse. i cringe when i see those 30-40 something dudes with landbeast wives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525194)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:27 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525203)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:49 PM
Author: Marvelous antidepressant drug filthpig

Chances of getting back together in next 6 months?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525357)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:58 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

there is a 0% chance. "We" were planning to move about 100 miles from our current place of residence. When shes gone in 2 weeks, shes fucking gone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525427)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 2:59 PM
Author: Startled deranged spot

that's good, bc there will be FAR less chance of some hookups that rekindle things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525437)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:18 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Boyish Corner

there is always a higher than 0% chance at first.

hell, you are still living together

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525580)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:11 PM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

This is the counter-narrative to xo's theme of dumping your gf, being lonely, and wanting her as she fucks a bunch of cocks.

Alternate universe: she gains even more weight and starts dating divorced bros 20 years older on OKCupid until she has a life crisis and moves to Napa for a year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525512)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:13 PM
Author: khaki kitty

"Chub" becomes the new "hot" and "alpha" bro who dumped is shamed by his own bros. Willingly accepts "beta" label to stave off further harassment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525531)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:15 PM
Author: cracking orange gay wizard university

wut

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525544)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:51 AM
Author: umber boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530858)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:15 PM
Author: Splenetic Hairraiser Area

180 bro. I dumped a chick who went from 5'3 110 to 125 in the matter of months. That shit was not OK.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525552)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:19 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Boyish Corner

bitch started distance running, i bet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525589)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:23 PM
Author: mentally impaired theater stage

damn bro. way to suck ti up and do it. congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525614)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:47 PM
Author: black arousing bbw

* high five *

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525789)



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Date: May 8th, 2014 3:48 PM
Author: big-titted stead

this was supposed to be acp, but congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25525792)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:07 AM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530622)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:47 AM
Author: Unholy Private Investor Boistinker

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530843)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 11:53 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone confused feces

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25530861)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:48 PM
Author: shimmering regret market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103915)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:49 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy federal menage preventive strike

I ended a 9 year relationship 2 weeks ago. 5 is weak brah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532163)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 4:17 PM
Author: Spectacular pozpig

tell us about it. i'm in a pretty good relationship, but the thought crosses my mind from time to time. after 5+ years, i don't even know how i would go about it. i'm sure most of her friends and probably all of my bros' gfs and wives would turn on me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532368)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 12:55 AM
Author: Spectacular pozpig

Four years later: single and miserable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35872227)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:40 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

I’m sorry, brother. No temporary happiness by way of bumble/tinder? Brighter days are ahead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103870)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 11:40 PM
Author: Orchid Jew Indian Lodge

That sucks ass. Sorry dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37104209)



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Date: May 9th, 2014 3:56 PM
Author: Rambunctious stubborn international law enforcement agency bawdyhouse

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25532201)



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Date: May 13th, 2014 12:50 AM
Author: Insane godawful windowlicker

congrats

i just hope she hasn't been supporting u financially during grad school and ur pulling the plug now that ur graduating because, u know, while ur motives may be righteous u'll look like a right dick to everyone else involved

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25551344)



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Date: May 28th, 2014 5:47 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

While i do look like an asshole, im positive that I have lost much more in this relationship in terms of opportunity cost. I also supported us for the first few yrs of the relationship. As an update, she has moved out. These past few weeks have been the best of my life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#25645510)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:28 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

Update: Best decision of my life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368867)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: razzmatazz sepia garrison main people

Go on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368872)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

Had some fun relationships in between. Very much enjoyed the Tinder/Bumble etc game for years. Engaged to a sweet, happy, fitness girl who I am opening a practice with next year (same career - met at a conference). We travel a good amount and are planning on starting a family inside of three years. Couldn't be happier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368952)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: big cruel-hearted locale

starting a business with your partner seems inadvisable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368964)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:43 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368992)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:44 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103892)



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Date: June 19th, 2019 9:17 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

Definitely inadvisable. Luckily dodged that bullet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#38413082)



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Date: June 19th, 2019 9:52 PM
Author: Sexy Trailer Park Scourge Upon The Earth

tell us more!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#38413261)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: big cruel-hearted locale

did you get back with organic nescac gf?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32368874)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Exciting fanboi office

what happened to your ex

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369295)



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Date: January 24th, 2017 9:32 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

Pretty successful professionally. Lost some of that weight. Married a few steps down to what must be a nice enough guy. Friends tell me she's really gotten into insta and snap to show how happy she is. Worked out from both sides.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32452079)



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Date: April 18th, 2018 11:29 PM
Author: chestnut abnormal resort

She met and married someone in less than 3 years? WTF. Sounds like a rebound.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35871704)



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Date: April 18th, 2018 11:32 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

Clock was ticking. Single females have it very easy till about 25/26- at which point the world judges harshly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35871725)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 7:36 PM
Author: Disturbing son of senegal

180 for updating after all these years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369538)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 7:44 PM
Author: Soul-stirring olive electric furnace hominid

i think he just wanted to claim credit for creating "netflix gf"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369580)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 8:35 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369772)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 8:49 PM
Author: umber boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369833)



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Date: January 24th, 2017 10:42 PM
Author: Gold naked pisswyrm mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32452827)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 3:34 AM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

Nope. This place was .. bizarrely .. instrumental in my break up. I owe a great deal of my happiness to xoxo. Just updating and giving thanks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32641914)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 3:35 AM
Author: rough-skinned galvanic heaven toilet seat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32641917)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 5:14 AM
Author: diverse twinkling uncleanness

* It is right to give thanks and praise *



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32642034)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:59 PM
Author: shimmering regret market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103985)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Scarlet frozen address



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35872002)



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Date: January 13th, 2017 8:35 PM
Author: Electric crackhouse

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32369769)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 3:37 AM
Author: black arousing bbw

the original netflix gf poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32641920)



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Date: February 17th, 2017 3:53 AM
Author: bisexual set dopamine

Congrats on making the right decision. It sounds like your life is much better now. I always left these types of relationships at the first sign of things going south. Lately though I've just not bothered with women because I'm bitter toward them and think they're all going to transform into nagging bitchshrews in due time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#32641957)



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Date: April 18th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

In one way or another, most do. Find a girl who doesn't drink too much, doesn't let her friends wield too large an influence, doesn't try and fashion herself as "one of the guys." It mostly a crapshoot, good luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35871692)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 12:06 AM
Author: glittery transparent lettuce public bath

"One of the guys" is a red flag I had to learn the hard way. There's no recovery from it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35871973)



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Date: April 19th, 2018 2:32 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

"I was cool with the guys" "Girls are too much drama" ... a non starter, run.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#35875614)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 10:54 PM
Author: sable frisky national blood rage

You give me hope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37103951)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: tantric tanning salon friendly grandma



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37104080)



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Date: January 2nd, 2019 11:27 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

Hope all is well, brothers. Glad to see this place is still around

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37517041)



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Date: January 2nd, 2019 11:29 PM
Author: cerebral church building incel

nice moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37517053)



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Date: January 2nd, 2019 11:32 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal wrinkle

I was in a strange, dark, place at the time. Thank you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2562328&forum_id=2#37517074)