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Socially anxious bros: Do you avert eye contact when lying?
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Date: September 15th, 2014 11:58 PM Author: Red chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336554) |
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Date: September 15th, 2014 11:59 PM Author: curious volcanic crater parlor never back down until the other person has incontrovertible proof, then go on the offensive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336563) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:01 AM Author: aqua immigrant genital piercing CR. If this isn't obvious you're not fit to lie. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336576) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:03 AM Author: Red chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336587) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:12 AM Author: curious volcanic crater parlor i'm a sociopath, but generally, people are very reluctant to call others out for lying, so even if you suspect that the other person thinks/knows you are lying, you can wait them out and the lie becomes the truth you both accept. if they do call you out on a lie and cite evidence, seize on one or two incorrect facts in their evidence and fight them on those points, make the whole argument about those issues, and when you are able to demonstrate the falsity of those minor claims, act like you have conclusively demonstrated the truth of your whole fabrication. if they have absolute, incorruptible proof of a lie, either feign embarrassment and admit to lying, but lie about you reason for doing so ("those weird texts on my phone were planning a surprise birthday party for you") or continue to deny that you are lying and attack them for not believing you, snooping, or something else ("i can't believe you don't trust me, this is just like the time that you [unrelated bullshit]"). |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:12 AM Author: Laughsome feces aka be julia (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336670) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:15 AM Author: curious volcanic crater parlor bluesmoke used to be great at leading people down subthread wastelands arguing some minor facet of a pwning. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336687) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:16 AM Author: Metal shrine shrewmo, box, and 29 also great at this. scratching my head to think of what all those posters have in common (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336697) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:22 AM Author: curious volcanic crater parlor focusing on minor specifics and attacking to change the subject are complete desperate bitch moves, but sometimes you can gaslight your way out of being exposed as a complete fraud by fighting on the details. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336736) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:23 AM Author: Metal shrine oh i just meant everyone mentioned was an (xo wo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336744) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:56 AM Author: curious volcanic crater parlor yeah- i'd say one should only do it when flailing about and preserving a lie is more important than preserving your honor, but y'all xo women do it for sport. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336956) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:43 AM Author: Red chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336875) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:52 AM Author: curious volcanic crater parlor oh, this is dvp. well, here's a tip: kill yourself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336931) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:54 AM Author: Metal shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336942) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:09 AM Author: Laughsome feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26337034) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:16 PM Author: irradiated gaming laptop mad-dog skullcap i pulled this exact same tack when my wife found some girls' numbers that I was working on the sly. basically made up a lie and just attacked her with the trust issue. it worked. she broke down crying and i kicked her out. lol. she came back begging and never brought it up again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26339519) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:00 AM Author: Blathering impertinent weed whacker garrison I avert my eyes always. People always think I'm lying. It's actually really shitty. The vast majority of people do not realize that empirical studies have shown that averted gaze is actually a SPS indicator of whether someone is lying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336574) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:02 AM Author: Red chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336583) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:09 AM Author: Blathering impertinent weed whacker garrison Usually I force myself to make eye contact, but it doesn't seem to help much because they can see it makes me visibly uncomfortable. Other times I'll just say fuck it, look at whatever makes me feel most comfortable (i.e., something off in the distance), slide and let it do what it do. The two strategies are roughly equally disastrous on average. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336631) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:44 AM Author: Red chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336880) |
Date: September 15th, 2014 11:59 PM Author: Laughsome feces yeah maybe when i'm caught in a lie and i don't have time to react. otherwise, when i know i'm going to be lying, i compose myself and stare right at them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336559) |
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Date: September 15th, 2014 11:59 PM Author: Disturbing Sepia Heaven Macaca Yes, but I do it when telling the truth too, so it's all good (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336561) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:00 AM Author: Metal shrine (truly socially anxious bro) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336572) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:16 AM Author: Beady-eyed turdskin cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26337079) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:00 AM Author: Metal shrine just do never lie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336573) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:07 AM Author: ocher very tactful step-uncle's house what if a mobster wants to know if u really meant it not flame that Sicilians were spawned by niggers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336620) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:09 AM Author: Metal shrine lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336640) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:41 AM Author: yapping home dog poop (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26337175) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:06 AM Author: excitant indian lodge Just believe that what you are saying is true.
Give specific details.
Act normal. |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:26 AM Author: Slippery Brindle Public Bath (George costanza) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26337132) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:21 AM Author: slimy supple police squad lodge I just avert eyes at all times. Socially anxious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336728) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:45 AM Author: Laughsome feces flame? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336888) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:04 PM Author: Red chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26339442) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:11 PM Author: Fragrant institution Alternative: When you're probably gonna have to lie, do it by phone. When you have to be in person, say in a context where you don't have to look at a person. Be walking alongside them or grabbing something from the fridge or w/e. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26339488) |
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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:12 PM Author: swollen internet-worthy son of senegal masturbator why is this a thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26339500) |