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NYC Dating - Is Default Non-Exclusive?

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outnumbered bateful karate
  09/16/14
having sex in nyc is like shaking hands
Milky cruise ship associate
  09/16/14
Or so you've heard since you're a virgin azn
lavender swashbuckling jewess hell
  09/16/14
coppin dat white privilege, u mad?
Milky cruise ship associate
  09/16/14
Unless you are co workers or close friends of friends, you c...
Trip bossy scourge upon the earth
  09/16/14
what do being co-workers or close friends of friends have to...
Amber theater stage twinkling uncleanness
  09/16/14
because you can blow off a girl you are dating if she expect...
Trip bossy scourge upon the earth
  09/16/14
so what then? you just continue the charade even if you're n...
Amber theater stage twinkling uncleanness
  09/16/14
3-5 months? That's insane and not normal
opaque talented site electric furnace
  09/16/14
Julia is that you?
Aphrodisiac avocado church mad-dog skullcap
  09/16/14
most people talk about it before then, but there is no assum...
Trip bossy scourge upon the earth
  09/16/14
Yeah I guess. I've just never had the exclusive talk later t...
opaque talented site electric furnace
  09/16/14
I have no reason to doubt the truth of your assertion, but t...
Sienna hateful codepig senate
  09/16/14
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Mind-boggling flirting institution
  09/16/14
then you text someone else ape. If you are catching feeling...
Trip bossy scourge upon the earth
  09/16/14
This weirds me out -- I'm a guy who never did the online dat...
Pearl heady point
  09/16/14
more like within the last few hours. girls like bluesmoke li...
Milky cruise ship associate
  09/16/14
lmao
Amber theater stage twinkling uncleanness
  09/16/14
Or will literally try to shank me or something.
Mahogany Church Building
  09/16/14
?
outnumbered bateful karate
  09/16/14
"grandma and grandpa fucked other people during their f...
Contagious silver bawdyhouse mood
  09/16/14
i think its contextual. if you are seeing a girl once a wee...
Vigorous Faggot Firefighter Whorehouse
  09/16/14
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outnumbered bateful karate
  09/16/14
LOL at thinking you're going to close for the first time on ...
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outnumbered bateful karate
  09/16/14
Obviously, but remember your audience here...social nuances ...
Racy sanctuary
  09/16/14
nyc shrews don't get fucked by 50+ men per year by being exc...
Razzle spot philosopher-king
  09/16/14
it's up to the person who wants exclusivity to bring it up. ...
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  09/16/14


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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:17 PM
Author: outnumbered bateful karate



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:18 PM
Author: Milky cruise ship associate

having sex in nyc is like shaking hands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339181)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:57 PM
Author: lavender swashbuckling jewess hell

Or so you've heard since you're a virgin azn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339810)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:24 PM
Author: Milky cruise ship associate

coppin dat white privilege, u mad?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340345)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:18 PM
Author: Trip bossy scourge upon the earth

Unless you are co workers or close friends of friends, you can safely assume non-exclusive unless someone has the exclusive talk - at least for the first 3-5 months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339180)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:21 PM
Author: Amber theater stage twinkling uncleanness

what do being co-workers or close friends of friends have to do with anything?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339209)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:08 PM
Author: Trip bossy scourge upon the earth

because you can blow off a girl you are dating if she expects more than you want to give - unless you have to see her professionally or socially.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340287)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:48 PM
Author: Amber theater stage twinkling uncleanness

so what then? you just continue the charade even if you're not interested just to avoid awkward professional/social settings?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340478)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:50 PM
Author: opaque talented site electric furnace

3-5 months? That's insane and not normal

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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:52 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac avocado church mad-dog skullcap

Julia is that you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339779)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: Trip bossy scourge upon the earth

most people talk about it before then, but there is no assumption based on going out once a week and fucking. If you spend every weekend together and 2 nights a week, you should probably talk about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339805)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: opaque talented site electric furnace

Yeah I guess. I've just never had the exclusive talk later than 6 weeks, but it guess I'm just an insecure beta

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339871)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 3:20 PM
Author: Sienna hateful codepig senate

I have no reason to doubt the truth of your assertion, but this sounds absolutely insane and not conducive to a stable society. The firs time I get shit-drunk and want to hook up with a girl I have been seeing, and doesn't answer my messages because she was with some other dude, my ape tendencies would kick into high gear. How the fuck do people deal with this shit?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339964)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:01 PM
Author: Mind-boggling flirting institution



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:07 PM
Author: Trip bossy scourge upon the earth

then you text someone else ape. If you are catching feelings and want to lock it down, then lock it down.

If you just want a girl for booty calls, then dont catch feelings like a beta.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340284)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:19 PM
Author: Pearl heady point

This weirds me out -- I'm a guy who never did the online dating thing. I would have trouble with the fact that there was always a decent chance the girl I was fucking just fucked someone else within the last few nights.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339194)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:21 PM
Author: Milky cruise ship associate

more like within the last few hours. girls like bluesmoke like to eat 3 meals a day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339208)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:23 PM
Author: Amber theater stage twinkling uncleanness

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339223)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:13 PM
Author: Mahogany Church Building

Or will literally try to shank me or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339501)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:26 PM
Author: outnumbered bateful karate

?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339251)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:29 PM
Author: Contagious silver bawdyhouse mood

"grandma and grandpa fucked other people during their first five months of dating"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339263)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:11 PM
Author: Vigorous Faggot Firefighter Whorehouse

i think its contextual. if you are seeing a girl once a week on a Tuesday vs. her spending the night at your house Fri and Saturday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339491)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: outnumbered bateful karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339505)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:20 PM
Author: Cerebral cream famous landscape painting center

LOL at thinking you're going to close for the first time on a Tuesday night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340324)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: outnumbered bateful karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340364)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:15 PM
Author: Racy sanctuary

Obviously, but remember your audience here...social nuances arent their strong suit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339508)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: Razzle spot philosopher-king

nyc shrews don't get fucked by 50+ men per year by being exclusive, brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339504)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:12 PM
Author: razzmatazz community account kitchen

it's up to the person who wants exclusivity to bring it up. that said, there is no way for us to tell what she expects from you and what the circumstances of your not meeting her expectations might be. assess those two factors and act accordingly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340302)