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345 days of sobriety.. move out of Sober Living House?

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my ...
at-the-ready menage mediation
  12/12/16
DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!! DO NOT FU...
Amethyst racy parlor pistol
  12/12/16
fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a n...
Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap
  12/12/16
If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you'...
Sapphire coffee pot
  12/12/16
what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?
ebony histrionic rigor round eye
  09/18/18
how do you already have another fiancee
Trip Circlehead Property
  12/12/16
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anal clear hell
  12/12/16
BAC
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  12/12/16
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impertinent spectacular feces locale
  12/12/16
AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on get...
soul-stirring lilac spot
  12/12/16
yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are ...
at-the-ready menage mediation
  12/12/16
JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is als...
soul-stirring lilac spot
  12/12/16
For the love of God THIS
Slate dingle berry
  12/12/16
so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will i...
at-the-ready menage mediation
  12/12/16
Yes
soul-stirring lilac spot
  12/12/16
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Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap
  12/12/16
how would u react if the relationship starts failing
cerebral library faggot firefighter
  12/12/16
you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online
Floppy Quadroon
  12/12/16
wtf no
180 flushed meetinghouse
  12/12/16
uhh no WMTP
Razzle white tank shrine
  12/12/16
3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In ...
Umber roast beef theatre
  12/12/16
Don't get married
impertinent spectacular feces locale
  12/12/16
LJL @ addictionmos
Useless slap-happy field son of senegal
  12/12/16
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heady walnut hall
  12/12/16
Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in so...
soul-stirring lilac spot
  12/12/16
Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.
hideous stimulating mental disorder
  12/12/16
i haven't posted about her
at-the-ready menage mediation
  12/12/16
You gotta give it to us now.
hideous stimulating mental disorder
  12/12/16
did u meet in recovery bro
Pink Aromatic Brunch Cuckold
  12/12/16
nope. she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even ...
at-the-ready menage mediation
  12/12/16
Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?
Amethyst racy parlor pistol
  12/12/16
hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.
Razzmatazz demanding affirmative action masturbator
  12/12/16
You haven't even lived with her? Jfc you're still in the...
copper bonkers gay wizard
  12/12/16
i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for...
Bossy Vivacious Stage Internal Respiration
  12/12/16
jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude
Nofapping party of the first part lay
  12/12/16
I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should de...
excitant institution boltzmann
  12/12/16
i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of ...
at-the-ready menage mediation
  12/12/16
Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that liv...
excitant institution boltzmann
  12/12/16
good advice.
at-the-ready menage mediation
  12/12/16
was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parse...
at-the-ready menage mediation
  12/12/16
titcr
Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap
  12/12/16
"stinking thing" "normie" "earthlin...
Razzle-dazzle duck-like bawdyhouse faggotry
  12/12/16
it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that peo...
Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap
  12/12/16
It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than...
soul-stirring lilac spot
  12/12/16
yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus th...
Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap
  12/12/16
Lmao...3.5 months Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
heady walnut hall
  12/12/16
*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!
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  12/12/16
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Nofapping party of the first part lay
  09/18/18
What the fuck is wrong with you Also weren't you in rehab...
lascivious philosopher-king
  12/12/16
pretty sure it was for meth
Talented incel
  12/13/17
What did you use brother?
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  12/12/16
Lol at me a year ago. Getting amazing blowjobs and making i...
brilliant house
  12/13/17
So how did this turn out? Lol.
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  01/27/18
Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. Y...
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:15 PM
Author: at-the-ready menage mediation

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my fiancee. I plan to move in some time in January, when I will have a full year of sobriety.

Then I talked to the house manager. He thinks I'm moving way too fast with this getting married thing (i've known the girl for 3.5 months) and it might complicate things to put me in a higher risk for relapse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119515)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:27 PM
Author: Amethyst racy parlor pistol

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

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DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119629)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:44 PM
Author: Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap

fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a new moniker. and yet your distinct stench of horrible poasting has soiled that blank slate inside a single week. sad!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120369)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:17 PM
Author: Sapphire coffee pot

If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you've known for 3.5 months. You are moving too fast.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119540)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:49 AM
Author: ebony histrionic rigor round eye

what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830800)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: Trip Circlehead Property

how do you already have another fiancee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119545)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:00 PM
Author: anal clear hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119953)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: disturbing arousing indirect expression boistinker

BAC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120670)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: impertinent spectacular feces locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120675)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: soul-stirring lilac spot

AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on getting married to a girl you've known for 3.5 months?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119548)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: at-the-ready menage mediation

yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are lifelong steps and I'm still going to 2-3 meetings a week)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119559)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:24 PM
Author: soul-stirring lilac spot

JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is also early on in sobriety

Seriously though if you've been using a long time you're brain is still recovering - in several years you'll look back at yourself with only 1 year sober like you look at your 16 year old self

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119592)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: Slate dingle berry

For the love of God THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119729)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:50 PM
Author: at-the-ready menage mediation

so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will improve more later?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119869)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:57 PM
Author: soul-stirring lilac spot

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120510)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:58 PM
Author: Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120514)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: cerebral library faggot firefighter

how would u react if the relationship starts failing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:23 PM
Author: Floppy Quadroon

you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119587)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: 180 flushed meetinghouse

wtf no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119619)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:03 PM
Author: Razzle white tank shrine

uhh no WMTP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119981)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: Umber roast beef theatre

3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In any event, guard your sobriety first. Sounds like you have worked Steps. I'm more of a CBT/SMART guy, but whatever works. Keep doing that. Nothing can make you do or feel anything; you make that choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119615)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: impertinent spectacular feces locale

Don't get married

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119617)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:29 PM
Author: Useless slap-happy field son of senegal

LJL @ addictionmos

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119644)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: heady walnut hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120469)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:31 PM
Author: soul-stirring lilac spot

Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in sobriety who is newly sober as well.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119672)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:34 PM
Author: hideous stimulating mental disorder

Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119700)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: at-the-ready menage mediation

i haven't posted about her



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119727)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:59 PM
Author: hideous stimulating mental disorder

You gotta give it to us now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119948)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:04 PM
Author: Pink Aromatic Brunch Cuckold

did u meet in recovery bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119992)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: at-the-ready menage mediation

nope.

she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even drink. has two masters degrees. both parents are doctors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120025)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:25 PM
Author: Amethyst racy parlor pistol

Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120180)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: Razzmatazz demanding affirmative action masturbator

hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119711)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: copper bonkers gay wizard

You haven't even lived with her?

Jfc you're still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. You're fucking crazy man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119717)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: Bossy Vivacious Stage Internal Respiration

i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for only 3 months. they were married 9 months after they started dating. their marriage lasted less than a year and the guy got financially fucked having to pay for an attorney, interim support, etc. his physical appearance went all to hell due to the stress, gained weight, started smoking again, etc.

so don't say you weren't warned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120034)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:09 PM
Author: Nofapping party of the first part lay

jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120048)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:12 PM
Author: excitant institution boltzmann

I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should definitely have a kid, move cities, and do a career change at the same time you try to live on your own sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120067)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:24 PM
Author: at-the-ready menage mediation

i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of SLE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120173)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:33 PM
Author: excitant institution boltzmann

Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that living alone will not have.

You might make the case that she will hold you accountable and help talk you out of relapsing, but I still think the cons outweigh the pros.

And youre not proposing just living with her but marrying her.

Flame and all, but still -- at year one, you should trust your sponsor more than your stinking thinking. You need to re-learn all the practical living shit and you propose doing that while also learning how to be married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120240)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:38 PM
Author: at-the-ready menage mediation

good advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120304)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:39 PM
Author: at-the-ready menage mediation

was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parser?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120311)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:51 PM
Author: Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap

titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120434)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:07 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle duck-like bawdyhouse faggotry

"stinking thing" "normie" "earthling" why should he trust some random person who has no professional training in substance abuse, psychology, or anything else? This is the craziness of AA. also their retarded sayings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120616)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:50 PM
Author: Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap

it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that people in recovery should avoid initiating romantic relationships for the first 12 months of sobriety.

it's pretty self-evident as to why. so why in the hell do you think it's a good idea to MARRY someone you met after only 8 months in recovery?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120426)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:01 PM
Author: soul-stirring lilac spot

It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than not. Even after a year sober your brain is still like an infant and recovering from years and years of drug abuse. You don't realize it until you look back - but much like he thought he was batshit crazy at 3 months sober - in several years he'll look back at right now and think he was batshit crazy at 1 year sober....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:02 PM
Author: Lime Disgusting Crackhouse Mad-dog Skullcap

yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus thinks he's exempt from what's tantamount to the 13th step. there's a reason it is, and should be, strongly discouraged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120578)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: heady walnut hall

Lmao...3.5 months

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120464)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:56 PM
Author: titillating rambunctious karate abode

*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120485)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:15 PM
Author: disturbing arousing indirect expression boistinker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120683)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:48 AM
Author: Nofapping party of the first part lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830797)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:18 PM
Author: lascivious philosopher-king

What the fuck is wrong with you

Also weren't you in rehab for video games? Do you call not playing video games being "sober"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125833)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:26 PM
Author: Talented incel

pretty sure it was for meth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911944)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:19 PM
Author: Territorial french skinny woman stage

What did you use brother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125851)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: brilliant house

Lol at me a year ago.

Getting amazing blowjobs and making idiot decisions

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911927)



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Date: January 27th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Shaky Supple Address Boiling Water

So how did this turn out? Lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#35257377)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: Nighttime magical therapy trump supporter

Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. You think your ancestors spent more than three months courting their mates ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911977)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:35 AM
Author: motley temple foreskin



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Date: September 18th, 2018 10:06 AM
Author: motley temple foreskin



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Date: September 21st, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: motley temple foreskin



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