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345 days of sobriety.. move out of Sober Living House?

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my ...
puce state giraffe
  12/12/16
DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!! DO NOT FU...
Floppy immigrant depressive
  12/12/16
fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a n...
Diverse wild cuck
  12/12/16
If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you'...
hairraiser brunch lettuce
  12/12/16
what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?
Blue sandwich
  09/18/18
how do you already have another fiancee
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  12/12/16
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Magenta persian
  12/12/16
BAC
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multi-colored church
  12/12/16
AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on get...
Dull adulterous field travel guidebook
  12/12/16
yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are ...
puce state giraffe
  12/12/16
JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is als...
Dull adulterous field travel guidebook
  12/12/16
For the love of God THIS
vermilion talented national boistinker
  12/12/16
so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will i...
puce state giraffe
  12/12/16
Yes
Dull adulterous field travel guidebook
  12/12/16
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Diverse wild cuck
  12/12/16
how would u react if the relationship starts failing
histrionic skinny woman
  12/12/16
you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online
disrespectful chartreuse corner
  12/12/16
wtf no
cerise spot
  12/12/16
uhh no WMTP
bull headed address headpube
  12/12/16
3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In ...
unholy gay heaven boiling water
  12/12/16
Don't get married
multi-colored church
  12/12/16
LJL @ addictionmos
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  12/12/16
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Razzle jew stage
  12/12/16
Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in so...
Dull adulterous field travel guidebook
  12/12/16
Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.
Glittery toilet seat
  12/12/16
i haven't posted about her
puce state giraffe
  12/12/16
You gotta give it to us now.
Glittery toilet seat
  12/12/16
did u meet in recovery bro
titillating hospital
  12/12/16
nope. she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even ...
puce state giraffe
  12/12/16
Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?
Floppy immigrant depressive
  12/12/16
hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.
shaky gaming laptop
  12/12/16
You haven't even lived with her? Jfc you're still in the...
boyish chapel gunner
  12/12/16
i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for...
clear indirect expression parlour
  12/12/16
jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude
Bronze shivering office
  12/12/16
I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should de...
Fishy azn
  12/12/16
i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of ...
puce state giraffe
  12/12/16
Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that liv...
Fishy azn
  12/12/16
good advice.
puce state giraffe
  12/12/16
was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parse...
puce state giraffe
  12/12/16
titcr
Diverse wild cuck
  12/12/16
"stinking thing" "normie" "earthlin...
ruddy new version water buffalo
  12/12/16
it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that peo...
Diverse wild cuck
  12/12/16
It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than...
Dull adulterous field travel guidebook
  12/12/16
yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus th...
Diverse wild cuck
  12/12/16
Lmao...3.5 months Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Razzle jew stage
  12/12/16
*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!
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  12/12/16
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Bronze shivering office
  09/18/18
What the fuck is wrong with you Also weren't you in rehab...
seedy point scourge upon the earth
  12/12/16
pretty sure it was for meth
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  12/13/17
What did you use brother?
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  12/12/16
Lol at me a year ago. Getting amazing blowjobs and making i...
sadistic school
  12/13/17
So how did this turn out? Lol.
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  01/27/18
Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. Y...
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:15 PM
Author: puce state giraffe

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my fiancee. I plan to move in some time in January, when I will have a full year of sobriety.

Then I talked to the house manager. He thinks I'm moving way too fast with this getting married thing (i've known the girl for 3.5 months) and it might complicate things to put me in a higher risk for relapse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119515)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:27 PM
Author: Floppy immigrant depressive

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

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DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119629)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:44 PM
Author: Diverse wild cuck

fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a new moniker. and yet your distinct stench of horrible poasting has soiled that blank slate inside a single week. sad!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120369)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:17 PM
Author: hairraiser brunch lettuce

If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you've known for 3.5 months. You are moving too fast.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119540)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:49 AM
Author: Blue sandwich

what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830800)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: twisted crackhouse foreskin

how do you already have another fiancee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119545)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:00 PM
Author: Magenta persian



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119953)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: buff chad doctorate

BAC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120670)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: multi-colored church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120675)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: Dull adulterous field travel guidebook

AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on getting married to a girl you've known for 3.5 months?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119548)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: puce state giraffe

yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are lifelong steps and I'm still going to 2-3 meetings a week)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119559)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:24 PM
Author: Dull adulterous field travel guidebook

JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is also early on in sobriety

Seriously though if you've been using a long time you're brain is still recovering - in several years you'll look back at yourself with only 1 year sober like you look at your 16 year old self

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119592)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: vermilion talented national boistinker

For the love of God THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119729)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:50 PM
Author: puce state giraffe

so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will improve more later?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119869)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:57 PM
Author: Dull adulterous field travel guidebook

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120510)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:58 PM
Author: Diverse wild cuck



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120514)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: histrionic skinny woman

how would u react if the relationship starts failing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:23 PM
Author: disrespectful chartreuse corner

you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119587)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: cerise spot

wtf no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119619)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:03 PM
Author: bull headed address headpube

uhh no WMTP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119981)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: unholy gay heaven boiling water

3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In any event, guard your sobriety first. Sounds like you have worked Steps. I'm more of a CBT/SMART guy, but whatever works. Keep doing that. Nothing can make you do or feel anything; you make that choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119615)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: multi-colored church

Don't get married

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119617)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:29 PM
Author: lascivious rose tanning salon

LJL @ addictionmos

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119644)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: Razzle jew stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120469)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:31 PM
Author: Dull adulterous field travel guidebook

Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in sobriety who is newly sober as well.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119672)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:34 PM
Author: Glittery toilet seat

Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119700)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: puce state giraffe

i haven't posted about her



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119727)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:59 PM
Author: Glittery toilet seat

You gotta give it to us now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119948)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:04 PM
Author: titillating hospital

did u meet in recovery bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119992)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: puce state giraffe

nope.

she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even drink. has two masters degrees. both parents are doctors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120025)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:25 PM
Author: Floppy immigrant depressive

Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120180)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: shaky gaming laptop

hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119711)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: boyish chapel gunner

You haven't even lived with her?

Jfc you're still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. You're fucking crazy man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119717)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: clear indirect expression parlour

i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for only 3 months. they were married 9 months after they started dating. their marriage lasted less than a year and the guy got financially fucked having to pay for an attorney, interim support, etc. his physical appearance went all to hell due to the stress, gained weight, started smoking again, etc.

so don't say you weren't warned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120034)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:09 PM
Author: Bronze shivering office

jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120048)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:12 PM
Author: Fishy azn

I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should definitely have a kid, move cities, and do a career change at the same time you try to live on your own sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120067)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:24 PM
Author: puce state giraffe

i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of SLE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120173)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:33 PM
Author: Fishy azn

Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that living alone will not have.

You might make the case that she will hold you accountable and help talk you out of relapsing, but I still think the cons outweigh the pros.

And youre not proposing just living with her but marrying her.

Flame and all, but still -- at year one, you should trust your sponsor more than your stinking thinking. You need to re-learn all the practical living shit and you propose doing that while also learning how to be married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120240)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:38 PM
Author: puce state giraffe

good advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120304)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:39 PM
Author: puce state giraffe

was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parser?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120311)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:51 PM
Author: Diverse wild cuck

titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120434)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:07 PM
Author: ruddy new version water buffalo

"stinking thing" "normie" "earthling" why should he trust some random person who has no professional training in substance abuse, psychology, or anything else? This is the craziness of AA. also their retarded sayings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120616)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:50 PM
Author: Diverse wild cuck

it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that people in recovery should avoid initiating romantic relationships for the first 12 months of sobriety.

it's pretty self-evident as to why. so why in the hell do you think it's a good idea to MARRY someone you met after only 8 months in recovery?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120426)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:01 PM
Author: Dull adulterous field travel guidebook

It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than not. Even after a year sober your brain is still like an infant and recovering from years and years of drug abuse. You don't realize it until you look back - but much like he thought he was batshit crazy at 3 months sober - in several years he'll look back at right now and think he was batshit crazy at 1 year sober....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:02 PM
Author: Diverse wild cuck

yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus thinks he's exempt from what's tantamount to the 13th step. there's a reason it is, and should be, strongly discouraged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120578)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: Razzle jew stage

Lmao...3.5 months

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120464)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:56 PM
Author: Soul-stirring mustard community account elastic band

*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120485)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:15 PM
Author: buff chad doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120683)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:48 AM
Author: Bronze shivering office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830797)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:18 PM
Author: seedy point scourge upon the earth

What the fuck is wrong with you

Also weren't you in rehab for video games? Do you call not playing video games being "sober"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125833)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:26 PM
Author: passionate mother set

pretty sure it was for meth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911944)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:19 PM
Author: alcoholic philosopher-king

What did you use brother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125851)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: sadistic school

Lol at me a year ago.

Getting amazing blowjobs and making idiot decisions

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911927)



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Date: January 27th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: offensive heady kitty cat haunted graveyard

So how did this turn out? Lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#35257377)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: rebellious genital piercing kitchen

Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. You think your ancestors spent more than three months courting their mates ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911977)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:35 AM
Author: know-it-all carnelian brethren locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830768)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 10:06 AM
Author: know-it-all carnelian brethren locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36831683)



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Date: September 21st, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: know-it-all carnelian brethren locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36854991)