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EPAH, how is your ex-wife doing? What else is going on?

Regale us with tales of your life.
stimulating messiness senate
  03/23/17
She's doing fine. Coming up on 80 days or so. It's kinda w...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/23/17
nice. When will she get out? Any new big paydays on the h...
stimulating messiness senate
  03/23/17
She already got out, but will probably be in a "sober l...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/23/17
How can you surf but you cant swim?
Curious Blue Background Story Property
  03/23/17
life jacket?
stimulating messiness senate
  03/23/17
seems awkward but i guess that could work
Curious Blue Background Story Property
  03/23/17
Swim lessons for the childrens, not for me.
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/23/17
oh geez i really misread that!
Curious Blue Background Story Property
  03/24/17
can you confirm that she literally did suck dick for crack o...
coral electric legend
  03/23/17
She may have just been doing it for pleasure
Excitant unhinged pistol
  03/23/17
...
gaped adventurous sanctuary windowlicker
  03/23/17
Wait- do you not know how to swim?
Territorial chrome queen of the night athletic conference
  03/23/17
lol, I figured he meant rugrat swim lessons
180 hell
  03/23/17
Why do you think he married a black woman?
awkward claret wagecucks
  03/24/17
(rimshot)
diverse garrison
  03/24/17
didn't LORD HALFORD save her?
chocolate demanding lay private investor
  03/23/17
Yeah
Haunting pontificating foreskin
  03/23/17
TRULY a Saint.
chocolate demanding lay private investor
  03/23/17
...
Territorial chrome queen of the night athletic conference
  03/24/17
Boondock saint
Multi-colored step-uncle's house
  03/24/17
whats going on with that big verdict that got tossed and is ...
Spectacular Translucent Meetinghouse
  03/23/17
Still on appeal but don't out me breh
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
godspeed, won't out you
Spectacular Translucent Meetinghouse
  03/24/17
wait was that chick you poasted a pic of your ex wife?
mildly autistic public bath crotch
  03/24/17
I've posted pics of roughly 50 cute WOCs. The finest is my e...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
lol it was on the beach or something
mildly autistic public bath crotch
  03/24/17
That's her. Big fakes?
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
yeah she had a rockin bod
mildly autistic public bath crotch
  03/24/17
Why the FUCK would you marry her again? If you want to pla...
rebellious lodge
  03/24/17
awwww id watch a gritty art house film based on your marria...
Glittery philosopher-king sandwich
  03/24/17
Whenever I hear boring memoir stories on Fresh Air I think, ...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
how much sobriety will she have to have before you let her m...
Vivacious lake gay wizard heaven
  03/24/17
A year or so I guess idk
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
that's insanely risky. there's a good chance she'll do it ag...
fiercely-loyal swashbuckling sweet tailpipe gas station
  03/24/17
Depends on how long. Another 10 years and the kids are out o...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
Better to be motherless than to have a crack whore of a mom ...
hairraiser learning disabled rehab
  03/24/17
Y'all got a sister?
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
Haha sorry but nope. Anyway, you're a good dude, prob too...
hairraiser learning disabled rehab
  03/24/17
Calm down, dr phil
Multi-colored step-uncle's house
  03/24/17
Something weird happened to me when I became a mom. It's li...
hairraiser learning disabled rehab
  03/24/17
Lol, same thing happened to me, only mine's more like increa...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
...
rebellious lodge
  03/24/17
are your kids in therapy so they don't wind up being addicts...
Vivacious lake gay wizard heaven
  03/24/17
They were for a couple months. Therapist said "there f...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
tbh, therapists who don't specialize in addiction don't real...
Vivacious lake gay wizard heaven
  03/24/17
Yeah this is very cr. I think they'll obv need to talk to s...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17
Completely not what I am saying at all. letting her move in...
hairraiser learning disabled rehab
  03/24/17
Will you get a prenup if you marry her again now that you've...
Bronze striped hyena
  03/24/17
Yeah, I would think a prenup would be in order. Wonder if y...
vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse
  03/24/17


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Date: March 23rd, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: stimulating messiness senate

Regale us with tales of your life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899279)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

She's doing fine. Coming up on 80 days or so. It's kinda wild b/c she's not exactly back to normal; like a wild animal that you catch and try to tame.

Nothing else exciting. Just coaching a lot of LL, going to swim lessons, stuff like that. Poasting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899347)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:09 PM
Author: stimulating messiness senate

nice. When will she get out?

Any new big paydays on the horizon?

How is coaching LL? Did you play baseball in HS or college?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899372)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 6:59 PM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

She already got out, but will probably be in a "sober living environment" for six months or so while she becomes domesticated again.

I think if this class gets certified, we'll settle within a few months for millions and billions.

Love it. I have more fun than the kids do. Played 1B in high school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32900963)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:15 PM
Author: Curious Blue Background Story Property

How can you surf but you cant swim?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899412)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:16 PM
Author: stimulating messiness senate

life jacket?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899414)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:18 PM
Author: Curious Blue Background Story Property

seems awkward but i guess that could work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899429)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 6:57 PM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

Swim lessons for the childrens, not for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32900945)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:25 AM
Author: Curious Blue Background Story Property

oh geez i really misread that!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905983)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:17 PM
Author: coral electric legend

can you confirm that she literally did suck dick for crack or did you give her enough spending money to cover all that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899420)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:18 PM
Author: Excitant unhinged pistol

She may have just been doing it for pleasure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899426)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:20 PM
Author: gaped adventurous sanctuary windowlicker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899452)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:21 PM
Author: Territorial chrome queen of the night athletic conference

Wait- do you not know how to swim?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899459)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:29 PM
Author: 180 hell

lol, I figured he meant rugrat swim lessons

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899540)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:07 AM
Author: awkward claret wagecucks

Why do you think he married a black woman?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903657)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:42 AM
Author: diverse garrison

(rimshot)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906127)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:08 PM
Author: chocolate demanding lay private investor

didn't LORD HALFORD save her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901052)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: Haunting pontificating foreskin

Yeah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901181)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: chocolate demanding lay private investor

TRULY a Saint.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901187)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:57 AM
Author: Territorial chrome queen of the night athletic conference



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905269)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: Multi-colored step-uncle's house

Boondock saint

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906356)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:13 PM
Author: Spectacular Translucent Meetinghouse

whats going on with that big verdict that got tossed and is on appeal or whatever?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901083)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

Still on appeal but don't out me breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903747)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:29 AM
Author: Spectacular Translucent Meetinghouse

godspeed, won't out you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905044)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:11 AM
Author: mildly autistic public bath crotch

wait was that chick you poasted a pic of your ex wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903682)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

I've posted pics of roughly 50 cute WOCs. The finest is my ex and future wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903743)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: mildly autistic public bath crotch

lol it was on the beach or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903746)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:20 AM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

That's her. Big fakes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903759)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:52 PM
Author: mildly autistic public bath crotch

yeah she had a rockin bod

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906657)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:58 AM
Author: rebellious lodge

Why the FUCK would you marry her again? If you want to play house let her move back in, but you're a stupid mother fucker if you remarry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905275)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:43 AM
Author: Glittery philosopher-king sandwich

awwww

id watch a gritty art house film based on your marriage/life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906142)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:45 AM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

Whenever I hear boring memoir stories on Fresh Air I think, "man have I got a story for you Terry."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906154)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:27 AM
Author: Vivacious lake gay wizard heaven

how much sobriety will she have to have before you let her move back in?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906017)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:41 AM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

A year or so I guess idk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906116)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:52 AM
Author: fiercely-loyal swashbuckling sweet tailpipe gas station

that's insanely risky. there's a good chance she'll do it again. even if the odds are "only" 10%, the consequences are terrible for both you and the kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906212)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:54 AM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

Depends on how long. Another 10 years and the kids are out on their own. Better than being motherless I think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906219)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:06 PM
Author: hairraiser learning disabled rehab

Better to be motherless than to have a crack whore of a mom who has no issues abandoning her kids.

You have to think about what sort of message you're sending to your kids by letting her move back in and remarrying her. There are consequences to her actions and one of them is that she doesn't get to live a normal family life and pretend nothing happened just because she swears she's sober this time. You're risking more instability in their lives by letting her back in. I know you're a great dad but I also unfortunately think you care too much about your ex to stay strong enough to make sure she's far away from these kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906310)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

Y'all got a sister?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906321)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:46 PM
Author: hairraiser learning disabled rehab

Haha sorry but nope.

Anyway, you're a good dude, prob too good in that you want to give her the benefit of the doubt. Wish you luck and for the kids' sake, I hope she really is changed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906603)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:14 PM
Author: Multi-colored step-uncle's house

Calm down, dr phil

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906363)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:48 PM
Author: hairraiser learning disabled rehab

Something weird happened to me when I became a mom. It's like whenever I see news stories about child abuse or hear about somebody commuting suicide who had kids, I have this visceral reaction. Like I can understand in the abstract how you're an addict or so depressed that you can't think rationally so you abandon your kids. But it makes me just so angry. I guess it's called having feelings or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906623)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 1:27 PM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

Lol, same thing happened to me, only mine's more like increased empathy for babby doods than increased blaming/judginess at the bad guy (not saying that's not justified 100%, just saying that's how mine's manifested). Like I can't watch news stories about babbies getting hurt or cancer-pwned or anything like that, and cry all the time during movies about babbies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906960)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:50 PM
Author: rebellious lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906644)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: Vivacious lake gay wizard heaven

are your kids in therapy so they don't wind up being addicts or codependents themselves?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906320)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:09 PM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

They were for a couple months. Therapist said "there fine; you can still bring them here if you want, but I don't think they really need it." A therapist who I was paying money said this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906331)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: Vivacious lake gay wizard heaven

tbh, therapists who don't specialize in addiction don't really understand it well. when they're older they might get some benefit from talking to someone who specializes in counseling families of addicts. i don't agree with nutella that there's no hope for addicts and that they all deserve to be punished forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906353)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:15 PM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

Yeah this is very cr. I think they'll obv need to talk to someone as they get older. But they still in elementary school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906366)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:22 PM
Author: hairraiser learning disabled rehab

Completely not what I am saying at all. letting her move in and remarrying her and essentially having things go back to a normal family after a year is insane and risks more instability for the kids. The consequences for her abandoning her entire family is that she needs to prove she can stay sober living on her own for at least 2-3 years, ideally even longer. I don't think she should be punished forever. She can have a relationship and visitation with the the kids but she doesn't get to live with them in their home after just a year of being sober. After all, EPAH has said she relapsed after many years of sobriety when she abandoned them the last time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906405)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: Bronze striped hyena

Will you get a prenup if you marry her again now that you've come into more $? If not, are you worried she'll leave you for half?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906357)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 1:24 PM
Author: vibrant disrespectful bawdyhouse

Yeah, I would think a prenup would be in order. Wonder if you can prenup as to custody? Recent CA bar takers pls advice thank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906935)