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EPAH, how is your ex-wife doing? What else is going on?

Regale us with tales of your life.
apoplectic fantasy-prone kitchen
  03/23/17
She's doing fine. Coming up on 80 days or so. It's kinda w...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/23/17
nice. When will she get out? Any new big paydays on the h...
apoplectic fantasy-prone kitchen
  03/23/17
She already got out, but will probably be in a "sober l...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/23/17
How can you surf but you cant swim?
Excitant maize stead bbw
  03/23/17
life jacket?
apoplectic fantasy-prone kitchen
  03/23/17
seems awkward but i guess that could work
Excitant maize stead bbw
  03/23/17
Swim lessons for the childrens, not for me.
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/23/17
oh geez i really misread that!
Excitant maize stead bbw
  03/24/17
can you confirm that she literally did suck dick for crack o...
electric coral resort
  03/23/17
She may have just been doing it for pleasure
slippery saffron french chef dog poop
  03/23/17
...
Hairraiser Codepig Associate
  03/23/17
Wait- do you not know how to swim?
Irradiated hissy fit
  03/23/17
lol, I figured he meant rugrat swim lessons
contagious ruby crotch cuck
  03/23/17
Why do you think he married a black woman?
Free-loading dashing ticket booth
  03/24/17
(rimshot)
judgmental coiffed rehab
  03/24/17
didn't LORD HALFORD save her?
At-the-ready Church Building
  03/23/17
Yeah
comical hell shitlib
  03/23/17
TRULY a Saint.
At-the-ready Church Building
  03/23/17
...
Irradiated hissy fit
  03/24/17
Boondock saint
Cheese-eating pink pit windowlicker
  03/24/17
whats going on with that big verdict that got tossed and is ...
Vivacious crawly dingle berry school cafeteria
  03/23/17
Still on appeal but don't out me breh
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
godspeed, won't out you
Vivacious crawly dingle berry school cafeteria
  03/24/17
wait was that chick you poasted a pic of your ex wife?
flatulent church
  03/24/17
I've posted pics of roughly 50 cute WOCs. The finest is my e...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
lol it was on the beach or something
flatulent church
  03/24/17
That's her. Big fakes?
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
yeah she had a rockin bod
flatulent church
  03/24/17
Why the FUCK would you marry her again? If you want to pla...
Cordovan marvelous market party of the first part
  03/24/17
awwww id watch a gritty art house film based on your marria...
big chartreuse hunting ground locus
  03/24/17
Whenever I hear boring memoir stories on Fresh Air I think, ...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
how much sobriety will she have to have before you let her m...
provocative alcoholic black woman native
  03/24/17
A year or so I guess idk
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
that's insanely risky. there's a good chance she'll do it ag...
dead milk
  03/24/17
Depends on how long. Another 10 years and the kids are out o...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
Better to be motherless than to have a crack whore of a mom ...
bearded meetinghouse striped hyena
  03/24/17
Y'all got a sister?
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
Haha sorry but nope. Anyway, you're a good dude, prob too...
bearded meetinghouse striped hyena
  03/24/17
Calm down, dr phil
Cheese-eating pink pit windowlicker
  03/24/17
Something weird happened to me when I became a mom. It's li...
bearded meetinghouse striped hyena
  03/24/17
Lol, same thing happened to me, only mine's more like increa...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
...
Cordovan marvelous market party of the first part
  03/24/17
are your kids in therapy so they don't wind up being addicts...
provocative alcoholic black woman native
  03/24/17
They were for a couple months. Therapist said "there f...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
tbh, therapists who don't specialize in addiction don't real...
provocative alcoholic black woman native
  03/24/17
Yeah this is very cr. I think they'll obv need to talk to s...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17
Completely not what I am saying at all. letting her move in...
bearded meetinghouse striped hyena
  03/24/17
Will you get a prenup if you marry her again now that you've...
Passionate copper deer antler dragon
  03/24/17
Yeah, I would think a prenup would be in order. Wonder if y...
Wild Lodge Stain
  03/24/17


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Date: March 23rd, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: apoplectic fantasy-prone kitchen

Regale us with tales of your life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899279)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

She's doing fine. Coming up on 80 days or so. It's kinda wild b/c she's not exactly back to normal; like a wild animal that you catch and try to tame.

Nothing else exciting. Just coaching a lot of LL, going to swim lessons, stuff like that. Poasting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899347)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:09 PM
Author: apoplectic fantasy-prone kitchen

nice. When will she get out?

Any new big paydays on the horizon?

How is coaching LL? Did you play baseball in HS or college?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899372)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 6:59 PM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

She already got out, but will probably be in a "sober living environment" for six months or so while she becomes domesticated again.

I think if this class gets certified, we'll settle within a few months for millions and billions.

Love it. I have more fun than the kids do. Played 1B in high school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32900963)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:15 PM
Author: Excitant maize stead bbw

How can you surf but you cant swim?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899412)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:16 PM
Author: apoplectic fantasy-prone kitchen

life jacket?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899414)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:18 PM
Author: Excitant maize stead bbw

seems awkward but i guess that could work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899429)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 6:57 PM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

Swim lessons for the childrens, not for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32900945)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:25 AM
Author: Excitant maize stead bbw

oh geez i really misread that!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905983)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:17 PM
Author: electric coral resort

can you confirm that she literally did suck dick for crack or did you give her enough spending money to cover all that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899420)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:18 PM
Author: slippery saffron french chef dog poop

She may have just been doing it for pleasure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899426)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:20 PM
Author: Hairraiser Codepig Associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899452)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:21 PM
Author: Irradiated hissy fit

Wait- do you not know how to swim?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899459)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:29 PM
Author: contagious ruby crotch cuck

lol, I figured he meant rugrat swim lessons

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899540)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:07 AM
Author: Free-loading dashing ticket booth

Why do you think he married a black woman?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903657)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:42 AM
Author: judgmental coiffed rehab

(rimshot)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906127)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:08 PM
Author: At-the-ready Church Building

didn't LORD HALFORD save her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901052)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: comical hell shitlib

Yeah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901181)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: At-the-ready Church Building

TRULY a Saint.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901187)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:57 AM
Author: Irradiated hissy fit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905269)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: Cheese-eating pink pit windowlicker

Boondock saint

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906356)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:13 PM
Author: Vivacious crawly dingle berry school cafeteria

whats going on with that big verdict that got tossed and is on appeal or whatever?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901083)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

Still on appeal but don't out me breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903747)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:29 AM
Author: Vivacious crawly dingle berry school cafeteria

godspeed, won't out you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905044)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:11 AM
Author: flatulent church

wait was that chick you poasted a pic of your ex wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903682)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

I've posted pics of roughly 50 cute WOCs. The finest is my ex and future wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903743)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: flatulent church

lol it was on the beach or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903746)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:20 AM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

That's her. Big fakes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903759)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:52 PM
Author: flatulent church

yeah she had a rockin bod

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906657)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:58 AM
Author: Cordovan marvelous market party of the first part

Why the FUCK would you marry her again? If you want to play house let her move back in, but you're a stupid mother fucker if you remarry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905275)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:43 AM
Author: big chartreuse hunting ground locus

awwww

id watch a gritty art house film based on your marriage/life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906142)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:45 AM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

Whenever I hear boring memoir stories on Fresh Air I think, "man have I got a story for you Terry."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906154)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:27 AM
Author: provocative alcoholic black woman native

how much sobriety will she have to have before you let her move back in?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906017)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:41 AM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

A year or so I guess idk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906116)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:52 AM
Author: dead milk

that's insanely risky. there's a good chance she'll do it again. even if the odds are "only" 10%, the consequences are terrible for both you and the kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906212)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:54 AM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

Depends on how long. Another 10 years and the kids are out on their own. Better than being motherless I think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906219)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:06 PM
Author: bearded meetinghouse striped hyena

Better to be motherless than to have a crack whore of a mom who has no issues abandoning her kids.

You have to think about what sort of message you're sending to your kids by letting her move back in and remarrying her. There are consequences to her actions and one of them is that she doesn't get to live a normal family life and pretend nothing happened just because she swears she's sober this time. You're risking more instability in their lives by letting her back in. I know you're a great dad but I also unfortunately think you care too much about your ex to stay strong enough to make sure she's far away from these kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906310)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

Y'all got a sister?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906321)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:46 PM
Author: bearded meetinghouse striped hyena

Haha sorry but nope.

Anyway, you're a good dude, prob too good in that you want to give her the benefit of the doubt. Wish you luck and for the kids' sake, I hope she really is changed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906603)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:14 PM
Author: Cheese-eating pink pit windowlicker

Calm down, dr phil

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906363)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:48 PM
Author: bearded meetinghouse striped hyena

Something weird happened to me when I became a mom. It's like whenever I see news stories about child abuse or hear about somebody commuting suicide who had kids, I have this visceral reaction. Like I can understand in the abstract how you're an addict or so depressed that you can't think rationally so you abandon your kids. But it makes me just so angry. I guess it's called having feelings or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906623)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 1:27 PM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

Lol, same thing happened to me, only mine's more like increased empathy for babby doods than increased blaming/judginess at the bad guy (not saying that's not justified 100%, just saying that's how mine's manifested). Like I can't watch news stories about babbies getting hurt or cancer-pwned or anything like that, and cry all the time during movies about babbies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906960)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:50 PM
Author: Cordovan marvelous market party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906644)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: provocative alcoholic black woman native

are your kids in therapy so they don't wind up being addicts or codependents themselves?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906320)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:09 PM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

They were for a couple months. Therapist said "there fine; you can still bring them here if you want, but I don't think they really need it." A therapist who I was paying money said this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906331)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: provocative alcoholic black woman native

tbh, therapists who don't specialize in addiction don't really understand it well. when they're older they might get some benefit from talking to someone who specializes in counseling families of addicts. i don't agree with nutella that there's no hope for addicts and that they all deserve to be punished forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906353)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:15 PM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

Yeah this is very cr. I think they'll obv need to talk to someone as they get older. But they still in elementary school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906366)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:22 PM
Author: bearded meetinghouse striped hyena

Completely not what I am saying at all. letting her move in and remarrying her and essentially having things go back to a normal family after a year is insane and risks more instability for the kids. The consequences for her abandoning her entire family is that she needs to prove she can stay sober living on her own for at least 2-3 years, ideally even longer. I don't think she should be punished forever. She can have a relationship and visitation with the the kids but she doesn't get to live with them in their home after just a year of being sober. After all, EPAH has said she relapsed after many years of sobriety when she abandoned them the last time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906405)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: Passionate copper deer antler dragon

Will you get a prenup if you marry her again now that you've come into more $? If not, are you worried she'll leave you for half?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906357)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 1:24 PM
Author: Wild Lodge Stain

Yeah, I would think a prenup would be in order. Wonder if you can prenup as to custody? Recent CA bar takers pls advice thank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906935)