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Your SAHM wife: "We need a maid, also we do chores 50/50."

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Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
M O D S !
Galvanic vermilion nursing home faggot firefighter
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Fragrant Theatre
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racy geriatric box office
  10/24/17
that would be getting off easy in 2017. Raising a child is m...
heady impertinent theater stage really tough guy
  05/21/17
(faggot white knight)
Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
(the real problem)
Lavender cowardly generalized bond sanctuary
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Lake Market Goal In Life
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Lake Market Goal In Life
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Territorial legal warrant coffee pot
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Nudist deep location
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chest-beating locale
  10/23/17
lulz
Topaz curious senate
  05/21/17
I agree. Wife pays for maid and we split chores.
appetizing jew
  05/21/17
Actually cr. Wife is sahm and the days I take her for even ...
big silver parlor queen of the night
  05/23/17
i have two mexicans clean my house once a week and i am nagg...
mustard legend church building
  05/21/17
get your shit together and you won't get snapped at. nobody ...
heady impertinent theater stage really tough guy
  05/21/17
you don't read real well, do you
mustard legend church building
  05/21/17
get your shit together and remember to load the dishwasher.
heady impertinent theater stage really tough guy
  05/21/17
when was your adams apple shaved?
mustard legend church building
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Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
I live in an apartment; lifted two hours; and am eating a pi...
Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
which poker site?
Avocado Vengeful Masturbator
  05/21/17
fulltilt so fake $
Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
lol at you taking that like a bitch.
Glittery Office Juggernaut
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Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
i ignored her and she loaded the dishwasher. should i have ...
mustard legend church building
  05/21/17
(outted as shitirish)
Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
No, violence is completely unnecessary when you have your fe...
Glittery Office Juggernaut
  05/21/17
(My Life)
impressive bateful affirmative action messiness
  05/21/17
My brother, I have one mexican, but I am in your shoes. Abou...
impressive bateful affirmative action messiness
  10/24/17
lol @ having a SAHM wife
concupiscible bronze ladyboy reading party
  05/21/17
*having a wife
Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
Cr. Gay marriage is the way to go.
concupiscible bronze ladyboy reading party
  05/21/17
tcr. It is a terrible deal in the modern world.
Nudist deep location
  05/21/17
Lol at letting some 300lb negress raise your kids so your wi...
impressive bateful affirmative action messiness
  05/21/17
105 lb au pair, actually. Wife only works 3 days a week too....
concupiscible bronze ladyboy reading party
  05/23/17
yeah bro you see how awful those slave masters kids turned o...
Insecure Business Firm Roast Beef
  05/23/17
whats the point of a SAHM wife if youre not gonna be alpha a...
charismatic french mood house
  05/21/17
whats the point of a wife when GC lets you hire escorts, mai...
Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/21/17
escorts are flame, but yeah maids and delivery are cool. com...
charismatic french mood house
  05/21/17
(beta nowig faggit)
dun laughsome mediation
  05/21/17
ok
charismatic french mood house
  05/21/17
Fuck this gay earth
impressive bateful affirmative action messiness
  05/21/17
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Lake Market Goal In Life
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Fragrant Theatre
  05/21/17
Literally bought or prepared every meal consumed by all hous...
Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe
  05/21/17
CR. You're better off waiting longer and getting in deeper w...
Glittery Office Juggernaut
  05/21/17
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Lavender cowardly generalized bond sanctuary
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chest-beating locale
  10/23/17
I can't wait to tell our marriage counselor about all this ...
Outnumbered Plaza
  05/21/17
Cr I think I know why he needs a marriage counselor
Territorial legal warrant coffee pot
  05/21/17
It's actually been pretty useful. I admit I was skeptical, ...
Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe
  05/21/17
If YOU like this marriage counselor, don't plan on going to ...
racy geriatric box office
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Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/29/17
LOL. Had 1x1 sessions with marriage counselor this week and...
Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe
  06/14/17
leaves wife, moves in with gay marriage counselor
seedy telephone
  10/22/17
(rene girard)
Stimulating house-broken deer antler clown
  10/22/17
lol at this shit
Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/23/17
Jesus
concupiscible bronze ladyboy reading party
  05/23/17
Lol what a beta cuck loser Are you Jewish?
coral histrionic bbw personal credit line
  05/23/17
LOL, will provide an update if anyone is curious. EDIT: S...
Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe
  10/22/17
Let’s hear it
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Outnumbered Plaza
  10/22/17
I'm guessing the person she's seeing on her own is Dr. Darne...
Nubile Peach National
  10/23/17
It's a referral from another friend who was much more seriou...
Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe
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Lol laundry is epic flame. It's as hard as microwaving somet...
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  10/22/17
Laundry is the biggest bitch of a chore when you have two li...
Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe
  10/23/17
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Very Tactful Karate Meetinghouse
  10/23/17
Seconded... as a single dad.
racy geriatric box office
  10/24/17
was she always one to "want medals" for small task...
Gay tank
  10/23/17
No, per above she was sulking because I called her out about...
Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe
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Lake Market Goal In Life
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Reminder: my wife makes 4-6x's as much money as me on a give...
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Lake Market Goal In Life
  05/24/17
What's yours is ours and what's mine is mine.
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  10/22/17
Having one of these days myself. It's Monday; how are you &...
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  10/24/17
Better than a maid is getting cleaners in once every two wee...
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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:14 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361781)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:15 PM
Author: Galvanic vermilion nursing home faggot firefighter

M

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361789)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:06 AM
Author: Fragrant Theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34508633)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:49 AM
Author: racy geriatric box office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34514847)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:16 PM
Author: heady impertinent theater stage really tough guy

that would be getting off easy in 2017. Raising a child is much more difficult and time consuming than working some job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361799)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:16 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life

(faggot white knight)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361807)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:21 PM
Author: Lavender cowardly generalized bond sanctuary

(the real problem)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361863)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:24 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361900)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:26 PM
Author: Nudist deep location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361928)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 8:21 PM
Author: cerise excitant gas station fat ankles



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380022)



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 12:19 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34501665)



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 12:38 PM
Author: Territorial legal warrant coffee pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34501802)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:28 AM
Author: Nudist deep location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34508750)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:41 AM
Author: chest-beating locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34508835)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 10:17 PM
Author: Topaz curious senate

lulz

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33362633)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 10:59 PM
Author: appetizing jew

I agree. Wife pays for maid and we split chores.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363206)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 9:34 PM
Author: big silver parlor queen of the night

Actually cr. Wife is sahm and the days I take her for even half of the time is a test in endurance. Chores are basically me at night while they sleep. It's nbd as long as you stay on top of them daily.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380568)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:17 PM
Author: mustard legend church building

i have two mexicans clean my house once a week and i am nagged constantly about chores.

i'm currently in the middle of a 300 hour biglaw month and i got snapped at today because i forgot to load the dishwasher.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361810)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:18 PM
Author: heady impertinent theater stage really tough guy

get your shit together and you won't get snapped at. nobody wants to hear a man complain about his job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361825)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:19 PM
Author: mustard legend church building

you don't read real well, do you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361829)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:20 PM
Author: heady impertinent theater stage really tough guy

get your shit together and remember to load the dishwasher.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361841)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:21 PM
Author: mustard legend church building

when was your adams apple shaved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361850)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:21 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361856)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:18 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life

I live in an apartment; lifted two hours; and am eating a pizza in my underwear playing online poker up $50; clerk in a CoA and I have legal test cyp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361828)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:28 PM
Author: Avocado Vengeful Masturbator

which poker site?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361952)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:33 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life

fulltilt so fake $

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33362026)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:21 PM
Author: Glittery Office Juggernaut

lol at you taking that like a bitch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361867)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:22 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361875)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:22 PM
Author: mustard legend church building

i ignored her and she loaded the dishwasher. should i have thrown something at her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361876)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:23 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life

(outted as shitirish)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361884)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:32 PM
Author: Glittery Office Juggernaut

No, violence is completely unnecessary when you have your female locked down. Throwing a plate at her can't reverse engineer years of beta behavior that have led her to the point where she felt it was OK to bitch about the fucking dishes while you slave away supporting the family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33362018)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:24 PM
Author: impressive bateful affirmative action messiness

(My Life)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363425)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 6:15 AM
Author: impressive bateful affirmative action messiness

My brother, I have one mexican, but I am in your shoes. About to get on train for another 14 hours of hell. Remember, I have the easy job

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34515513)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:18 PM
Author: concupiscible bronze ladyboy reading party

lol @ having a SAHM wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361821)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:20 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life

*having a wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361840)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:21 PM
Author: concupiscible bronze ladyboy reading party

Cr. Gay marriage is the way to go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361854)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:26 PM
Author: Nudist deep location

tcr. It is a terrible deal in the modern world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33361936)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:26 PM
Author: impressive bateful affirmative action messiness

Lol at letting some 300lb negress raise your kids so your wife can be a "career" woman

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363430)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 8:48 PM
Author: concupiscible bronze ladyboy reading party

105 lb au pair, actually. Wife only works 3 days a week too.

I'm guess on the weight but I've got an eye for these things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380211)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 9:04 PM
Author: Insecure Business Firm Roast Beef

yeah bro you see how awful those slave masters kids turned out after mammy was raising from infancy to adolescence. solid logic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380315)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:38 PM
Author: charismatic french mood house

whats the point of a SAHM wife if youre not gonna be alpha about it and have her do all the housework

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33362077)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:52 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life

whats the point of a wife when GC lets you hire escorts, maids, and delivery?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33362254)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 10:59 PM
Author: charismatic french mood house

escorts are flame, but yeah maids and delivery are cool. companionship is also cool though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363213)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:02 PM
Author: dun laughsome mediation

(beta nowig faggit)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363244)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:02 PM
Author: charismatic french mood house

ok

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363248)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:43 PM
Author: impressive bateful affirmative action messiness

Fuck this gay earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33362137)



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Date: June 14th, 2017 10:49 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33560026)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 9:55 PM
Author: Fragrant Theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33362295)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 10:58 PM
Author: Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe

Literally bought or prepared every meal consumed by all household members since Friday including my parents. Cleaned entire house Friday night and again tonight (not like scrubbing toilets or mopping, but did dishes, wiped down table, kids chairs, counters, vacuumed, picked up play room) and I've been telling her all weekend I have work to do that I just now got to late as fuck Sunday night when I'm already getting shitty emails. She is acting like she deserves a medal for doing the dishes yesterday and doing three loads of laundry today. She also took off to go shopping for a total of like 7 hours between Sat and Sun leaving me to care for two preschoolers with my septuagenarian parents who are way past the physical condition to keep up. And she's literally "mad that I'm mad." I can't wait to tell our marriage counselor about all this on Tuesday.

I have to remind myself like ten times a day how expensive a divorce would be and how much less I would see my kids. But every woman I see under 30 wearing yoga pants that is height/weight proportionate could have me in a matter of seconds if just she smiled and waved me over to her. It's really hard to see how this lasts past when the kids are old enough to want to hang out with friends more than us.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363200)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:00 PM
Author: Glittery Office Juggernaut

CR. You're better off waiting longer and getting in deeper with this MAF shrew.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363231)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:21 PM
Author: Lavender cowardly generalized bond sanctuary



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363405)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:43 AM
Author: chest-beating locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34508842)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:03 PM
Author: Outnumbered Plaza

I can't wait to tell our marriage counselor about all this on Tuesday.

jfc you sound like a woman

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363273)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:04 PM
Author: Territorial legal warrant coffee pot

Cr I think I know why he needs a marriage counselor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363275)



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Date: May 21st, 2017 11:19 PM
Author: Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe

It's actually been pretty useful. I admit I was skeptical, and this was like the third one we'd tried--the first two were laughably bad. But he just says everything I say, and she is exposed as the selfish ingrate she is when she can't defend her actions. I'm shocked she hasn't turned on the guy and tried to get out of it or demanded we see someone else, but it's a) he's pretty clearly gay though hasn't come out to us, and b) he's been very careful to break her down slowly and he's tried to balance it out with giving me shit for being too closed off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33363391)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 8:57 PM
Author: racy geriatric box office

If YOU like this marriage counselor, don't plan on going to him for very long. You need to feign that you're really not finding this one helpful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380269)



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Date: May 29th, 2017 6:01 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33422493)



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Date: June 14th, 2017 11:31 PM
Author: Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe

LOL. Had 1x1 sessions with marriage counselor this week and his advice to me was basically "you can do way better than this bitch. Tell her to shape the fuck up or kick her to the curve. You been way too tolerant of her bullshit and you need to figure out what's wrong with you that would lead you to think you have to put up with this." I felt like the beta-est cuckiest cuck that ever cucked a cuck. But I'm 60% sure at this point that his only goal is to try to get into my pants.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33560398)



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 12:35 PM
Author: seedy telephone

leaves wife, moves in with gay marriage counselor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34501784)



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 12:41 PM
Author: Stimulating house-broken deer antler clown

(rene girard)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34501817)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 8:23 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life

lol at this shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380030)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 9:01 PM
Author: concupiscible bronze ladyboy reading party

Jesus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380294)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 9:13 PM
Author: coral histrionic bbw personal credit line

Lol what a beta cuck loser

Are you Jewish?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380399)



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 12:50 PM
Author: Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe

LOL, will provide an update if anyone is curious.

EDIT: Sorry I lost this tab.

So she cut off counseling like two weeks after this. It was prompted partly because she found something on my phone that she mistook as evidence of infidelity, and though I ultimately proved it wasn't she basically used it as an excuse to say she was tired of trying. I should also add that my original post in this thread wasn't at all representative of our normal split of housework and she was basically throwing a fit that week because we talked about my parents visiting in counseling that week and I said some harsh and real shit that she struggled to accept.

We teetered very close to the edge of divorce all summer, but we both ultimately had to admit to ourselves that the prospect of being divorced and sharing custody, splitting up our stuff sounds awful. I.e. neither of us actually wants out or envisions a better life apart. We're just sick of each other's shit and have a hard time picturing how things can fixed between us, even though we both agree that's the best possible outcome.

Then at the end of the summer, due mainly to a bunch of emotional albeit normal shit with our oldest, she finally admitted that she needed to get her shit fixed and we went back to counseling and she's seeing someone on her own. She's actually been doing a shitload of work around the house while also having gone back to work part-time and taking on other responsibilities at kids' school.

She's basically taken forever to confront the fact that she's very depression prone and it's not my job to fix it for her. But I do want to be supportive and help her feel better, and I am too quick to get annoyed with her, which makes things get worse. These days, we aren't anything like happy or comfortable, like when we're alone together there's a constant undercurrent of tension. But it still feels a thousand times better than it did in the spring because 1) we can talk about stuff at least occasionally without a counselor mediating, and 2) our new counselor is a huge upgrade and has been even more ruthless calling her on her shit and forcing us to confront the actual problems, and wife's been able to handle it because new counselor is a woman. At the time of my original poast ITT last May I would have put our odds of divorce within two years at like 80%, and I'd say it's down to something like 50-60% now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34501863)



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 12:55 PM
Author: Slimy cuckold

Let’s hear it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34501882)



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 1:19 PM
Author: Outnumbered Plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34502055)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 12:15 PM
Author: Nubile Peach National

I'm guessing the person she's seeing on her own is Dr. Darnell T. Johnson, BBC.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34509009)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 1:30 AM
Author: Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe

It's a referral from another friend who was much more seriously depressed, and they see each other there every week, so I'm pretty sure she goes. Also, my wife is pretty racist in her taste in guys. She'd be much more interested in a Chad, but if she cheated it would be with some betafag that wrote her poetry and claimed to love eating pussy. Her issue is that she can't enjoy her own body unless she gets past all her insecurity baggage, and that means she turns sex into an emotional litmus test for herself and her feelings about the relationship. She is disgusted by modern app slutdom, and if we were to break up the first thing she would do is sign up for eharmony, because the point would be to set herself up for disappointment and conflict.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34515025)



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 1:00 PM
Author: yellow kitty cat dilemma

Lol laundry is epic flame. It's as hard as microwaving something. Push a button, take an hour to recuperate, repeat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34501909)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 AM
Author: Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe

Laundry is the biggest bitch of a chore when you have two little kids and they go through 50 garments per week each because they get everything dirty.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34507426)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:36 AM
Author: Very Tactful Karate Meetinghouse



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:52 AM
Author: racy geriatric box office

Seconded... as a single dad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34514857)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 11:39 AM
Author: Gay tank

was she always one to "want medals" for small tasks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34508824)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 1:32 AM
Author: Boyish tripping pisswyrm giraffe

No, per above she was sulking because I called her out about being shitty to my parents and completely taking for granted everything I do for her family in counseling that week.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34515031)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 8:08 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33379915)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 8:17 PM
Author: deranged lascivious stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33379996)



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Date: May 23rd, 2017 9:03 PM
Author: Insecure Business Firm Roast Beef

Reminder: my wife makes 4-6x's as much money as me on a given year and we split the chores evenly.

I would lose my shit if I was sole breadwinner and my SAHM bitched at me about some inconsequential shit, but then again i wouldn't be foolish enough to have a SAHM for a wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#33380308)



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Date: May 24th, 2017 7:49 PM
Author: Lake Market Goal In Life



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Date: October 22nd, 2017 12:56 PM
Author: kink-friendly theater police squad

What's yours is ours and what's mine is mine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34501886)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:48 AM
Author: Galvanic vermilion nursing home faggot firefighter

Having one of these days myself. It's Monday; how are you "so tired" already?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34514844)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 7:00 AM
Author: rose old irish cottage pozpig

Better than a maid is getting cleaners in once every two weeks or so to do the worst jobs. Its pretty cheap too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3621989&forum_id=2#34515709)