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Damn. Wife can't have kids for 2+ years. Now I really want to knock her up.

She may not ever be able to have kids. A couple years ago sh...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
lol at waitcucks
avocado wonderful dilemma
  06/13/17
Go fuck yourself
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
u suk my cock
avocado wonderful dilemma
  06/13/17
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flushed site preventive strike
  06/13/17
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Alcoholic Codepig
  06/13/17
Mfcr
boyish chest-beating gaping
  06/13/17
Yikes. Would you/her be open to an egg donor?
multi-colored naked stage
  06/13/17
Yeah absolutely. Her cousin offered but the husband is the e...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
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know-it-all mind-boggling menage
  06/13/17
Eh. I probably would have at one point but now I'd prefer to...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
Not sure if pregnancy complications are connected to the egg...
multi-colored naked stage
  06/13/17
what were you waiting for? if your wife was in her 30s and y...
ocher school
  06/13/17
She's 29 and we've known for over a year that it wasn't happ...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
Fuck. I wish I'd knocked her up when she was 27. That's a go...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
you're not in the wrong here then man, sorry if i came off p...
ocher school
  06/13/17
Thanks for the encouragement brother. She has a particularly...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
Freeze embryos. It will give her 2 years and you will always...
Sable Histrionic Resort
  06/13/17
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swashbuckling sienna sneaky criminal
  06/13/17
That's a 180 idea, though I'm not sure if it's possible in t...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
She needs to be producing eggs. If she can have her period, ...
Sable Histrionic Resort
  06/13/17
You can still have your period without ovulating. You need t...
multi-colored naked stage
  06/13/17
Figure out if the medication damages the eggs themselves or ...
orange free-loading hell yarmulke
  06/13/17
Ty will do. The 2 year waiting period would be nice, but it'...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
cr The vast majority of women have no problems getting pr...
Zippy Pervert Shrine
  06/13/17
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red ungodly dingle berry jewess
  06/13/17
While I'm generally against Mandy's freeze and dither option...
Zippy Pervert Shrine
  06/13/17
Sorry brother. Potentially in a similar boat myself. What'...
Alcoholic primrose idiot bawdyhouse
  06/13/17
She has an autoimmune disease and is currently taking medica...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
Why do you have to wait two years?
Mischievous university lettuce
  06/13/17
She just got knocked up by Jamal and after Jamal Jr is deliv...
Deep chocolate theater stage
  06/13/17
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mildly autistic maize church building national security agency
  06/13/17
It's an estimate. If she enters remission soon it may be a m...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
explain why u went from NO CHILD to WANTING child
Slippery main people
  06/13/17
My wife really wants a baby. I always wanted to have a baby ...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
what is financially ready or w/e to you? to me it's no de...
Slippery main people
  06/13/17
and own a nice house with reasonable mortgage payments/paid ...
Sable Histrionic Resort
  06/13/17
pretty fucking high standards.
Slippery main people
  06/13/17
i know dammit, i know
Sable Histrionic Resort
  06/13/17
Basically the same as your standards. Originally I was leani...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
Hope those Napa trips were worth it
Alcoholic Codepig
  06/13/17
Jesus. The wife is under 30 and seems to have a legitimate i...
multi-colored naked stage
  06/13/17
Uh no. That is not the biggest argument in favor of marrying...
Alcoholic Codepig
  06/13/17
I'm a female, so that's not really something I worry about i...
multi-colored naked stage
  06/13/17
Is this Shrewmo? What a weird thing to say.
Rose meetinghouse factory reset button
  06/13/17
I edited, but it's not that weird. The married-young couples...
multi-colored naked stage
  06/13/17
Why do you need to be married to do that?
Rose meetinghouse factory reset button
  06/13/17
No NAPA trips here man.
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/13/17
Update: wife and I discussed it. This is the first time I've...
aromatic purple corn cake telephone
  06/14/17


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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:29 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

She may not ever be able to have kids. A couple years ago she wanted to get pregnant but I wanted to wait. Now I'm worried that we may not have another chance. I had absolutely no interest in having a child until recently. I'm not particularly religious, but I'm begging God to allow us another opportunity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546164)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:32 PM
Author: avocado wonderful dilemma

lol at waitcucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546186)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:33 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

Go fuck yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546195)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:33 PM
Author: avocado wonderful dilemma

u suk my cock

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546199)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:47 PM
Author: flushed site preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546327)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:42 PM
Author: Alcoholic Codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546877)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:59 PM
Author: boyish chest-beating gaping

Mfcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547060)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:40 PM
Author: multi-colored naked stage

Yikes. Would you/her be open to an egg donor?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546261)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:19 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

Yeah absolutely. Her cousin offered but the husband is the epitome of prole jackass and said no. Maybe he's under the impression that I'd need to fuck his wife? Her sister also offered, but if I remember correctly she had some complications with her first pregnancy and may not be the ideal choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546618)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:27 PM
Author: know-it-all mind-boggling menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546700)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:37 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

Eh. I probably would have at one point but now I'd prefer to just use a turkey baster. Would be too weird.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546818)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:49 PM
Author: multi-colored naked stage

Not sure if pregnancy complications are connected to the eggs, though?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546965)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:43 PM
Author: ocher school

what were you waiting for? if your wife was in her 30s and you intentionally made her wait, you're kind of weird and shortsighted

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546284)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

She's 29 and we've known for over a year that it wasn't happening. I'd be willing to wait until my 40s but we agreed to do it once she turned 30.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546640)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

Fuck. I wish I'd knocked her up when she was 27. That's a good age to have a kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546803)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: ocher school

you're not in the wrong here then man, sorry if i came off presumptuous. pre-natal medical care is so freaking advanced now.; odds are if you want to have a baby, it's gonna happen one way or another

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546812)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:01 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

Thanks for the encouragement brother. She has a particularly aggressive case, but it does not typically prevent women from becoming pregnant. The biggest issue is that she's taking a drug that is best discontinued 2 years in advance, however a washout procedure has been developed that can be administered during the first trimester and appears to eliminate the complications associated with that medication.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547075)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:44 PM
Author: Sable Histrionic Resort

Freeze embryos. It will give her 2 years and you will always have the surrogate option.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546298)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:46 PM
Author: swashbuckling sienna sneaky criminal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546319)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

That's a 180 idea, though I'm not sure if it's possible in this case. I will investigate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546645)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: Sable Histrionic Resort

She needs to be producing eggs. If she can have her period, she should be able to do IVF and freeze embryos. I know people can get damage from childbirth or other issues that make childbirth dangerous, this avoids the issue entirely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546845)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:50 PM
Author: multi-colored naked stage

You can still have your period without ovulating. You need to check to see if your wife is ovulating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546977)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:30 PM
Author: orange free-loading hell yarmulke

Figure out if the medication damages the eggs themselves or an embryo (more likely). But who knows if you can take her meds with fertility drugs needed for ovulation to freeze eggs. Worst case though, if you do have to wait 2 years, but she if she has no fertility problems, she will easily get pregnant witthin 3 months. It's easy for women in early-mid 30s to get knocked up as long as they time intercourse to ovulation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547332)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 7:00 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

Ty will do. The 2 year waiting period would be nice, but it's no longer absolutely necessary since a washout procedure can minimize complications even when the medication is taken until the pregnancy is discovered. Right now the biggest issue is that the disease still needs to be aggressively medicated until it enters remission or improves enough to allow for management with milder drugs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547570)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 7:04 PM
Author: Zippy Pervert Shrine

cr

The vast majority of women have no problems getting pregnant in their early 30s. It's only after 35 and then 40 that fertility drops first substantially and then drastically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547599)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: red ungodly dingle berry jewess



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546806)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Zippy Pervert Shrine

While I'm generally against Mandy's freeze and dither option in this case its a good idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547360)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:46 PM
Author: Alcoholic primrose idiot bawdyhouse

Sorry brother. Potentially in a similar boat myself. What's the reason for not trying now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546321)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:27 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

She has an autoimmune disease and is currently taking medications that should be discontinued as much as two years before becoming pregnant, though I did just read that there's a washout procedure that can be used even if the drug isn't discontinued until the pregnancy is discovered that minimizes the risk of complications.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546690)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 4:58 PM
Author: Mischievous university lettuce

Why do you have to wait two years?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546412)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:14 PM
Author: Deep chocolate theater stage

She just got knocked up by Jamal and after Jamal Jr is delivered she has a 6 month vacation scheduled in Jamaica.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546560)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:14 PM
Author: mildly autistic maize church building national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546570)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 7:03 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

It's an estimate. If she enters remission soon it may be a matter of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547591)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:12 PM
Author: Slippery main people

explain why u went from NO CHILD to WANTING child

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546537)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:34 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

My wife really wants a baby. I always wanted to have a baby just wanted to wait until we were set financially before doing so. We can't predict if or when an opportunity will disappear, so we no longer have the option to do it at our convenience. I'm gonna knock her up the first chance I get.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546787)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:35 PM
Author: Slippery main people

what is financially ready or w/e to you?

to me it's no debt, $$$ in bank, and neither wife or I working in anything like BIGLAW (ideally in-house + govt with 2 incomes getting us north of 300K_

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546795)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:42 PM
Author: Sable Histrionic Resort

and own a nice house with reasonable mortgage payments/paid off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546864)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:43 PM
Author: Slippery main people

pretty fucking high standards.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546885)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:48 PM
Author: Sable Histrionic Resort

i know dammit, i know

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546957)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 7:05 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

Basically the same as your standards. Originally I was leaning towards paid off house, but at this point I'm willing to knock her up no matter what our financial situation looks like.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547604)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:43 PM
Author: Alcoholic Codepig

Hope those Napa trips were worth it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33546889)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 5:52 PM
Author: multi-colored naked stage

Jesus. The wife is under 30 and seems to have a legitimate issue with fertility. One of the biggest arguments in favor of marrying young is so you can do fun couple-no-kids trips like these Napa trips. Cut the OP some slack.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547002)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:01 PM
Author: Alcoholic Codepig

Uh no. That is not the biggest argument in favor of marrying young. The biggest argument in favor of marrying young is you don't want Chad-damaged goods.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547073)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:04 PM
Author: multi-colored naked stage

I'm a female, so that's not really something I worry about in a spouse.

Still, edited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547106)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:05 PM
Author: Rose meetinghouse factory reset button

Is this Shrewmo? What a weird thing to say.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547117)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:08 PM
Author: multi-colored naked stage

I edited, but it's not that weird. The married-young couples I know all took heaps of trips pre-kids and said that was a big argument in favor of marrying young - spending time as a young, childless couple with all of dat disposable income and sleep and freedom.

But, then again, the people I know enjoy things like international travel and seeing plays and going out to eat and don't think too much about how GC or shrewy they're being.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547156)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:13 PM
Author: Rose meetinghouse factory reset button

Why do you need to be married to do that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547198)



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Date: June 13th, 2017 6:12 PM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

No NAPA trips here man.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33547195)



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Date: June 14th, 2017 12:09 AM
Author: aromatic purple corn cake telephone

Update: wife and I discussed it. This is the first time I've actually told her that I'm interested having a kid soon. Because her health is our number one priority, we may opt for surrogacy instead since it would not carry as high a risk miscarriage, medically necessary abortion or compromises to my wife's healthcare. We are going to get the ball rolling on having her eggs cryopreserved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3646022&forum_id=2#33550414)