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Dear Prudence: HELP! My 19-year-old nanny exercises in her underwear in our hous

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fighting boiling water
  07/23/17
Have to be a Slate plus member
Black irradiated goyim
  07/23/17
turn off java
big citrine theater
  07/23/17
. Adventures in babysitting: Last week, I decided to work fr...
saffron incel
  07/23/17
lol at this ubercuck running to his wife to tattle on a 19yo...
crusty pink bawdyhouse
  07/23/17
I hate shrews
mahogany vivacious heaven
  07/23/17
lol'd irl at your 2nd sentence, ty
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Doobsian mad cow disease
  07/25/17
100% chance she was fat
Supple Gas Station
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this
bonkers abnormal office newt
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Chest-beating Adulterous Parlor
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Floppy Resort Boistinker
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Definitely fat,
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soul-stirring generalized bond
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Confused awkward stag film haunted graveyard
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Date: July 23rd, 2017 3:58 PM
Author: fighting boiling water

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Date: July 23rd, 2017 4:00 PM
Author: Black irradiated goyim

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Date: July 23rd, 2017 4:09 PM
Author: big citrine theater

turn off java

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Date: July 23rd, 2017 5:13 PM
Author: saffron incel

. Adventures in babysitting: Last week, I decided to work from home after a meeting instead of driving back across town to work. When I came home, I walked in on my 19-year-old female nanny working out in our home gym in just her underwear. This seems not-very-comfortable, but I didn't really care because the kids were napping.

I did tell her that she should probably plan ahead and bring workout clothes, which she can store in our house and launder if she’d like. I told my wife about this when she got home, and she was livid. The girl’s mom is a family friend, and my wife wants to talk to her.

My thoughts are that our nanny is an adult and is great with the kids, who love her. This might make her quit or affect our relationship with her negatively. Her behavior was odd but certainly not reckless in any way.

Do you feel further discussions are warranted?

A: I think it’s perfectly fine for you to slightly strengthen your initial recommendation from “You should probably keep gym clothes at the house instead of working out in your underwear” to “We’d like you to wear gym clothes if you’re working out in the house.” I think it should come from you, since your wife is currently “livid” and you’re not trying to communicate to your nanny that she’s done something borderline unforgivable. But you should say it when you’re all together so that it’s clear this message is coming from the both of you.

It is perfectly reasonable to ask anyone who looks after your children that they wear a shirt and shorts, even if the children are napping. You’re not trying to police her off-hours attire or demand she wear leggings and a turtleneck to the beach, nor are you demanding she apologize. You’re just letting her know the general, reasonable rules of workplace attire in her workplace.

Keep your request pleasant, say it once, and don’t overexplain or overapologize. She sounds like a reasonable, thoughtful employee, and odds are excellent that this is a conversation you’ll only ever have to have once.

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Date: July 23rd, 2017 5:41 PM
Author: crusty pink bawdyhouse

lol at this ubercuck running to his wife to tattle on a 19yo in her underwear. Unless shes fat in which case it was warranted

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Date: July 23rd, 2017 8:11 PM
Author: mahogany vivacious heaven

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Date: July 23rd, 2017 8:16 PM
Author: lake public bath patrolman

lol'd irl at your 2nd sentence, ty

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Date: July 25th, 2017 10:11 AM
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Date: July 23rd, 2017 8:20 PM
Author: Supple Gas Station

100% chance she was fat



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Date: July 23rd, 2017 9:37 PM
Author: bonkers abnormal office newt

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Date: July 25th, 2017 9:57 AM
Author: Chest-beating Adulterous Parlor

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Date: July 25th, 2017 9:57 AM
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Date: July 25th, 2017 10:06 AM
Author: Territorial Erotic Masturbator Candlestick Maker

Definitely fat,

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Date: July 25th, 2017 9:56 AM
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Date: July 25th, 2017 9:58 AM
Author: Confused awkward stag film haunted graveyard

Dear Prudence is 100% flame letters and has been for years. I only liked the first Prudence, who was a fulanoesque gay man.

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Date: July 25th, 2017 9:58 AM
Author: Well-lubricated Peach Rehab

2% chance this isnt flame

and 0% the girl is attractive if not flame

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