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At what point did you lose your 'passion' for work and realized it was flame?

For me it had to be when I realized how many companies are v...
Cream Big Old Irish Cottage
  08/22/17
Second year of biglaw
Supple navy stock car
  08/22/17
misspelled "day"
metal jap
  08/22/17
Lol the second I started working an office job I died inside
aromatic sienna field
  08/22/17
hai me
Ruby idea he suggested
  08/22/17
but SALES
Cream Big Old Irish Cottage
  08/22/17
17
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  08/22/17
LJL @ people that have a passion for their bullshit as self ...
Ruby idea he suggested
  08/22/17
So...you DON'T have a passion for discussing color codes for...
Jet elastic band
  08/22/17
Try telling workaholics about how this is flame and it makes...
Cream Big Old Irish Cottage
  08/22/17
Lol at this litfag. You mad you couldn't cop in-house lil br...
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  08/22/17
First job in HS
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objection. assumes facts not in evidence
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The root of the word "passion" is suffering, so I ...
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  08/22/17
law firms are kind of unique in the modern white collar worl...
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  08/22/17
Agreed. I think most people in law firms are pretty blunt a...
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  08/22/17
part of that is because they are all aspie to be fair. But ...
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  08/22/17
They also have a vested interest in burning out most of thei...
metal jap
  08/22/17
The attitude is very much, you're a professional, we expect ...
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  08/22/17
...
Cream Big Old Irish Cottage
  08/22/17
The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life can begin
Passionate messiness
  08/22/17
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-08-21/people-st...
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  08/22/17
this checks out. though for me having a kid was the moment ...
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  08/22/17
Realizing work is flame has been very liberating for me. I ...
metal jap
  08/22/17
About 3 weeks into BIGLAW. Been that way ever since. 20 c...
Soul-stirring startling toaster
  08/22/17
Haven't lost it
Spruce Background Story
  08/22/17
2nd divorce
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all one needs to survive is a passion for distraction in som...
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3 months in. It's usually some old geezer who's been there s...
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The sooner you realize that there is no such thing as "...
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  08/22/17
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Cream Big Old Irish Cottage
  08/22/17
Before I ever started work
orchid confused indirect expression
  08/22/17
Ah, starting out ahead.
Cream Big Old Irish Cottage
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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:41 PM
Author: Cream Big Old Irish Cottage

For me it had to be when I realized how many companies are very similar to each other culturally and nothing you experienced in the workplace was essentially unique.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045495)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: Supple navy stock car

Second year of biglaw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045497)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: metal jap

misspelled "day"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045733)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: aromatic sienna field

Lol the second I started working an office job I died inside

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045504)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:44 PM
Author: Ruby idea he suggested

hai me



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: Cream Big Old Irish Cottage

but SALES

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045597)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:45 PM
Author: aquamarine community account meetinghouse

17

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045534)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:46 PM
Author: Ruby idea he suggested

LJL @ people that have a passion for their bullshit as self important office jobs

chefs, athletes, folks in the arts, coaches and even some teachers i get. being senior vp of ibm biz development or tax dept is laughable though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045543)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:48 PM
Author: Jet elastic band

So...you DON'T have a passion for discussing color codes for budgets in some spreadsheet?????

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045565)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:50 PM
Author: Cream Big Old Irish Cottage

Try telling workaholics about how this is flame and it makes for an interesting argument

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045585)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: Walnut pungent stain

Lol at this litfag. You mad you couldn't cop in-house lil brej?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045729)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:47 PM
Author: Costumed lodge

First job in HS

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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: flushed ungodly plaza puppy



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: Motley Cerise Temple

objection. assumes facts not in evidence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045599)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: Misunderstood 180 persian home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045604)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:53 PM
Author: Massive Cobalt New Version Tank

The root of the word "passion" is suffering, so I feel that many of us have a great deal of passion in our work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045617)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:02 PM
Author: ivory razzmatazz legal warrant genital piercing

law firms are kind of unique in the modern white collar world, in that they don't cram a lot of Rah-Rah Go Team! crap down your throat. This chick I know works for a company with a stuffed animal mascot that "travels" from department to department every month. When it's you're month your department all takes a picture with the stuffed animal and - not flame - writes a paragraph about what XYZCorp means to you. (The animal's name is XYZie of course).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045674)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:05 PM
Author: fuchsia principal's office

Agreed. I think most people in law firms are pretty blunt about how much the job sucks and they are just doing it for the money. Even rainmaker partners.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045694)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: amethyst cerebral gay wizard kitchen

part of that is because they are all aspie to be fair. But yes it was nice that no one pretended that it was anyone's dream job

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045727)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:12 PM
Author: metal jap

They also have a vested interest in burning out most of their new employees in 3-5 years and then harvesting a fresh crop, so it's not exactly coming from a place of honesty and good will.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045757)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: ivory razzmatazz legal warrant genital piercing

The attitude is very much, you're a professional, we expect you to act like professionals and deal with it. Lawyers are self-driven workaholics so it works.

If you tried that in 98% of office situations it would be chaos.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045889)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: Cream Big Old Irish Cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046763)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:06 PM
Author: Passionate messiness

The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life can begin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045703)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:07 PM
Author: amethyst cerebral gay wizard kitchen

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-08-21/people-start-hating-their-jobs-at-age-35

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045711)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:57 PM
Author: galvanic space haunted graveyard

this checks out. though for me having a kid was the moment the switch really flipped. little dude seems so much more important than the relatively insignificant shit i deal with day in and day out. if i could not work and just hang with him all the time i would do it a f'n heartbeat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047262)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:16 PM
Author: metal jap

Realizing work is flame has been very liberating for me. I used to wonder why I could get away with slacking sometimes and not others, and think my supervisors were, with few exceptions, supersmart workaholics. Now that I understand that they're all as mediocre and depressed as me and have basically developed different strategies to fake it with their peers and supervisors, it allows me to be a lot less anxious minute to minute and day to day at work. It's also hilarious to realize that this is how normal people think of work, and only aspie lawyers think they're "rigorous scholars" who earn every penny they make with the force of their intellects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045795)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:17 PM
Author: Soul-stirring startling toaster

About 3 weeks into BIGLAW. Been that way ever since.

20 consecutive years of education in preparation for a "real" career, and 3 weeks into it I realized it was all flame and completely unhealthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045810)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Spruce Background Story

Haven't lost it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045826)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: azure stead karate

2nd divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045877)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac Water Buffalo Bawdyhouse

all one needs to survive is a passion for distraction in some form, really

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046771)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:00 PM
Author: mentally impaired shimmering jewess market

3 months in. It's usually some old geezer who's been there several years who complains to you about how shitty the organization is under the guise of showing you the ropes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046822)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:24 PM
Author: Mint locale coffee pot

The sooner you realize that there is no such thing as "passion" for 99% of jobs out there, the better. The lower your expectations are on deriving meaning from your job, the better. To make good money but also have time to spend outside work with friends and family is the "passion."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047015)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:53 PM
Author: Cream Big Old Irish Cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047233)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: orchid confused indirect expression

Before I ever started work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047271)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 6:47 PM
Author: Cream Big Old Irish Cottage

Ah, starting out ahead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34048024)