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At what point did you lose your 'passion' for work and realized it was flame?

For me it had to be when I realized how many companies are v...
kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain
  08/22/17
Second year of biglaw
brindle blathering round eye area
  08/22/17
misspelled "day"
cracking hyperventilating church building
  08/22/17
Lol the second I started working an office job I died inside
Bearded coiffed pistol property
  08/22/17
hai me
Self-absorbed idea he suggested
  08/22/17
but SALES
kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain
  08/22/17
17
Supple lettuce
  08/22/17
LJL @ people that have a passion for their bullshit as self ...
Self-absorbed idea he suggested
  08/22/17
So...you DON'T have a passion for discussing color codes for...
Appetizing duck-like tattoo
  08/22/17
Try telling workaholics about how this is flame and it makes...
kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain
  08/22/17
Lol at this litfag. You mad you couldn't cop in-house lil br...
Electric dopamine
  08/22/17
First job in HS
provocative big-titted whorehouse
  08/22/17
...
Narrow-minded mad cow disease
  08/22/17
objection. assumes facts not in evidence
Pearl hell
  08/22/17
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doobsian startling azn pit
  08/22/17
The root of the word "passion" is suffering, so I ...
Drunken low-t principal's office partner
  08/22/17
law firms are kind of unique in the modern white collar worl...
anal death wish
  08/22/17
Agreed. I think most people in law firms are pretty blunt a...
opaque harsh address
  08/22/17
part of that is because they are all aspie to be fair. But ...
motley fear-inspiring stage
  08/22/17
They also have a vested interest in burning out most of thei...
cracking hyperventilating church building
  08/22/17
The attitude is very much, you're a professional, we expect ...
anal death wish
  08/22/17
...
kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain
  08/22/17
The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life can begin
Adulterous kitchen
  08/22/17
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-08-21/people-st...
motley fear-inspiring stage
  08/22/17
this checks out. though for me having a kid was the moment ...
multi-colored abnormal university striped hyena
  08/22/17
Realizing work is flame has been very liberating for me. I ...
cracking hyperventilating church building
  08/22/17
About 3 weeks into BIGLAW. Been that way ever since. 20 c...
boyish cruel-hearted sanctuary
  08/22/17
Haven't lost it
Rough-skinned frum organic girlfriend business firm
  08/22/17
2nd divorce
exciting canary mediation
  08/22/17
all one needs to survive is a passion for distraction in som...
internet-worthy big native
  08/22/17
3 months in. It's usually some old geezer who's been there s...
Mildly Autistic Umber Nibblets
  08/22/17
The sooner you realize that there is no such thing as "...
fantasy-prone tan depressive
  08/22/17
...
kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain
  08/22/17
Before I ever started work
wonderful chestnut heaven private investor
  08/22/17
Ah, starting out ahead.
kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain
  08/22/17


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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:41 PM
Author: kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain

For me it had to be when I realized how many companies are very similar to each other culturally and nothing you experienced in the workplace was essentially unique.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045495)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: brindle blathering round eye area

Second year of biglaw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045497)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: cracking hyperventilating church building

misspelled "day"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045733)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: Bearded coiffed pistol property

Lol the second I started working an office job I died inside

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045504)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:44 PM
Author: Self-absorbed idea he suggested

hai me



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045531)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain

but SALES

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045597)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:45 PM
Author: Supple lettuce

17

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045534)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:46 PM
Author: Self-absorbed idea he suggested

LJL @ people that have a passion for their bullshit as self important office jobs

chefs, athletes, folks in the arts, coaches and even some teachers i get. being senior vp of ibm biz development or tax dept is laughable though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045543)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:48 PM
Author: Appetizing duck-like tattoo

So...you DON'T have a passion for discussing color codes for budgets in some spreadsheet?????

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045565)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:50 PM
Author: kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain

Try telling workaholics about how this is flame and it makes for an interesting argument

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045585)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: Electric dopamine

Lol at this litfag. You mad you couldn't cop in-house lil brej?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045729)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:47 PM
Author: provocative big-titted whorehouse

First job in HS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045557)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: Narrow-minded mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046767)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: Pearl hell

objection. assumes facts not in evidence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045599)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: doobsian startling azn pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045604)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:53 PM
Author: Drunken low-t principal's office partner

The root of the word "passion" is suffering, so I feel that many of us have a great deal of passion in our work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045617)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:02 PM
Author: anal death wish

law firms are kind of unique in the modern white collar world, in that they don't cram a lot of Rah-Rah Go Team! crap down your throat. This chick I know works for a company with a stuffed animal mascot that "travels" from department to department every month. When it's you're month your department all takes a picture with the stuffed animal and - not flame - writes a paragraph about what XYZCorp means to you. (The animal's name is XYZie of course).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045674)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:05 PM
Author: opaque harsh address

Agreed. I think most people in law firms are pretty blunt about how much the job sucks and they are just doing it for the money. Even rainmaker partners.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045694)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: motley fear-inspiring stage

part of that is because they are all aspie to be fair. But yes it was nice that no one pretended that it was anyone's dream job

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045727)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:12 PM
Author: cracking hyperventilating church building

They also have a vested interest in burning out most of their new employees in 3-5 years and then harvesting a fresh crop, so it's not exactly coming from a place of honesty and good will.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045757)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: anal death wish

The attitude is very much, you're a professional, we expect you to act like professionals and deal with it. Lawyers are self-driven workaholics so it works.

If you tried that in 98% of office situations it would be chaos.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045889)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046763)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:06 PM
Author: Adulterous kitchen

The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life can begin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045703)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:07 PM
Author: motley fear-inspiring stage

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-08-21/people-start-hating-their-jobs-at-age-35

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045711)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:57 PM
Author: multi-colored abnormal university striped hyena

this checks out. though for me having a kid was the moment the switch really flipped. little dude seems so much more important than the relatively insignificant shit i deal with day in and day out. if i could not work and just hang with him all the time i would do it a f'n heartbeat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047262)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:16 PM
Author: cracking hyperventilating church building

Realizing work is flame has been very liberating for me. I used to wonder why I could get away with slacking sometimes and not others, and think my supervisors were, with few exceptions, supersmart workaholics. Now that I understand that they're all as mediocre and depressed as me and have basically developed different strategies to fake it with their peers and supervisors, it allows me to be a lot less anxious minute to minute and day to day at work. It's also hilarious to realize that this is how normal people think of work, and only aspie lawyers think they're "rigorous scholars" who earn every penny they make with the force of their intellects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045795)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:17 PM
Author: boyish cruel-hearted sanctuary

About 3 weeks into BIGLAW. Been that way ever since.

20 consecutive years of education in preparation for a "real" career, and 3 weeks into it I realized it was all flame and completely unhealthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045810)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Rough-skinned frum organic girlfriend business firm

Haven't lost it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045826)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: exciting canary mediation

2nd divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045877)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: internet-worthy big native

all one needs to survive is a passion for distraction in some form, really

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046771)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:00 PM
Author: Mildly Autistic Umber Nibblets

3 months in. It's usually some old geezer who's been there several years who complains to you about how shitty the organization is under the guise of showing you the ropes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046822)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:24 PM
Author: fantasy-prone tan depressive

The sooner you realize that there is no such thing as "passion" for 99% of jobs out there, the better. The lower your expectations are on deriving meaning from your job, the better. To make good money but also have time to spend outside work with friends and family is the "passion."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047015)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:53 PM
Author: kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047233)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: wonderful chestnut heaven private investor

Before I ever started work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047271)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 6:47 PM
Author: kink-friendly bateful scourge upon the earth stain

Ah, starting out ahead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34048024)