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At what point did you lose your 'passion' for work and realized it was flame?

For me it had to be when I realized how many companies are v...
self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater
  08/22/17
Second year of biglaw
Aqua Hairraiser Half-breed Chad
  08/22/17
misspelled "day"
Light Spot
  08/22/17
Lol the second I started working an office job I died inside
Frozen rebellious locus
  08/22/17
hai me
haunting filthpig
  08/22/17
but SALES
self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater
  08/22/17
17
Misunderstood piazza corn cake
  08/22/17
LJL @ people that have a passion for their bullshit as self ...
haunting filthpig
  08/22/17
So...you DON'T have a passion for discussing color codes for...
frum geriatric foreskin point
  08/22/17
Try telling workaholics about how this is flame and it makes...
self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater
  08/22/17
Lol at this litfag. You mad you couldn't cop in-house lil br...
obsidian stimulating abode rigpig
  08/22/17
First job in HS
big senate
  08/22/17
...
Umber cerebral cuck tank
  08/22/17
objection. assumes facts not in evidence
Emerald resort legal warrant
  08/22/17
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Adventurous insane party of the first part
  08/22/17
The root of the word "passion" is suffering, so I ...
soggy soul-stirring elastic band tanning salon
  08/22/17
law firms are kind of unique in the modern white collar worl...
judgmental aromatic university mediation
  08/22/17
Agreed. I think most people in law firms are pretty blunt a...
crawly office wrinkle
  08/22/17
part of that is because they are all aspie to be fair. But ...
bearded jet address death wish
  08/22/17
They also have a vested interest in burning out most of thei...
Light Spot
  08/22/17
The attitude is very much, you're a professional, we expect ...
judgmental aromatic university mediation
  08/22/17
...
self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater
  08/22/17
The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life can begin
Self-centered pozpig
  08/22/17
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-08-21/people-st...
bearded jet address death wish
  08/22/17
this checks out. though for me having a kid was the moment ...
naked wonderful step-uncle's house
  08/22/17
Realizing work is flame has been very liberating for me. I ...
Light Spot
  08/22/17
About 3 weeks into BIGLAW. Been that way ever since. 20 c...
angry bawdyhouse
  08/22/17
Haven't lost it
Coral Irradiated Parlour Striped Hyena
  08/22/17
2nd divorce
autistic gold jew
  08/22/17
all one needs to survive is a passion for distraction in som...
dead spruce factory reset button set
  08/22/17
3 months in. It's usually some old geezer who's been there s...
odious french chef
  08/22/17
The sooner you realize that there is no such thing as "...
Shaky gunner
  08/22/17
...
self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater
  08/22/17
Before I ever started work
Orchid love of her life keepsake machete
  08/22/17
Ah, starting out ahead.
self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater
  08/22/17


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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:41 PM
Author: self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater

For me it had to be when I realized how many companies are very similar to each other culturally and nothing you experienced in the workplace was essentially unique.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045495)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: Aqua Hairraiser Half-breed Chad

Second year of biglaw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045497)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: Light Spot

misspelled "day"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045733)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: Frozen rebellious locus

Lol the second I started working an office job I died inside

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045504)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:44 PM
Author: haunting filthpig

hai me



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater

but SALES

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045597)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:45 PM
Author: Misunderstood piazza corn cake

17

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045534)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:46 PM
Author: haunting filthpig

LJL @ people that have a passion for their bullshit as self important office jobs

chefs, athletes, folks in the arts, coaches and even some teachers i get. being senior vp of ibm biz development or tax dept is laughable though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045543)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:48 PM
Author: frum geriatric foreskin point

So...you DON'T have a passion for discussing color codes for budgets in some spreadsheet?????

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045565)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:50 PM
Author: self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater

Try telling workaholics about how this is flame and it makes for an interesting argument

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045585)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: obsidian stimulating abode rigpig

Lol at this litfag. You mad you couldn't cop in-house lil brej?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045729)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:47 PM
Author: big senate

First job in HS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045557)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: Umber cerebral cuck tank



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: Emerald resort legal warrant

objection. assumes facts not in evidence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045599)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:51 PM
Author: Adventurous insane party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045604)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 1:53 PM
Author: soggy soul-stirring elastic band tanning salon

The root of the word "passion" is suffering, so I feel that many of us have a great deal of passion in our work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045617)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:02 PM
Author: judgmental aromatic university mediation

law firms are kind of unique in the modern white collar world, in that they don't cram a lot of Rah-Rah Go Team! crap down your throat. This chick I know works for a company with a stuffed animal mascot that "travels" from department to department every month. When it's you're month your department all takes a picture with the stuffed animal and - not flame - writes a paragraph about what XYZCorp means to you. (The animal's name is XYZie of course).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045674)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:05 PM
Author: crawly office wrinkle

Agreed. I think most people in law firms are pretty blunt about how much the job sucks and they are just doing it for the money. Even rainmaker partners.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045694)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: bearded jet address death wish

part of that is because they are all aspie to be fair. But yes it was nice that no one pretended that it was anyone's dream job

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045727)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:12 PM
Author: Light Spot

They also have a vested interest in burning out most of their new employees in 3-5 years and then harvesting a fresh crop, so it's not exactly coming from a place of honesty and good will.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045757)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: judgmental aromatic university mediation

The attitude is very much, you're a professional, we expect you to act like professionals and deal with it. Lawyers are self-driven workaholics so it works.

If you tried that in 98% of office situations it would be chaos.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045889)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046763)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:06 PM
Author: Self-centered pozpig

The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life can begin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045703)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:07 PM
Author: bearded jet address death wish

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-08-21/people-start-hating-their-jobs-at-age-35

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045711)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:57 PM
Author: naked wonderful step-uncle's house

this checks out. though for me having a kid was the moment the switch really flipped. little dude seems so much more important than the relatively insignificant shit i deal with day in and day out. if i could not work and just hang with him all the time i would do it a f'n heartbeat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047262)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:16 PM
Author: Light Spot

Realizing work is flame has been very liberating for me. I used to wonder why I could get away with slacking sometimes and not others, and think my supervisors were, with few exceptions, supersmart workaholics. Now that I understand that they're all as mediocre and depressed as me and have basically developed different strategies to fake it with their peers and supervisors, it allows me to be a lot less anxious minute to minute and day to day at work. It's also hilarious to realize that this is how normal people think of work, and only aspie lawyers think they're "rigorous scholars" who earn every penny they make with the force of their intellects.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045795)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:17 PM
Author: angry bawdyhouse

About 3 weeks into BIGLAW. Been that way ever since.

20 consecutive years of education in preparation for a "real" career, and 3 weeks into it I realized it was all flame and completely unhealthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045810)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Coral Irradiated Parlour Striped Hyena

Haven't lost it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045826)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: autistic gold jew

2nd divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34045877)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: dead spruce factory reset button set

all one needs to survive is a passion for distraction in some form, really

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046771)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:00 PM
Author: odious french chef

3 months in. It's usually some old geezer who's been there several years who complains to you about how shitty the organization is under the guise of showing you the ropes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34046822)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:24 PM
Author: Shaky gunner

The sooner you realize that there is no such thing as "passion" for 99% of jobs out there, the better. The lower your expectations are on deriving meaning from your job, the better. To make good money but also have time to spend outside work with friends and family is the "passion."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047015)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:53 PM
Author: self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047233)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: Orchid love of her life keepsake machete

Before I ever started work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34047271)



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Date: August 22nd, 2017 6:47 PM
Author: self-absorbed seedy dysfunction theater

Ah, starting out ahead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3708690&forum_id=2#34048024)