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Just turned down employer for job I had originally accepted, they were PISSED

Some of you have been following this story. I accepted a job...
Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven
  10/13/17
If I were them, I would permapwn you by suing your current e...
zombie-like plaza
  10/13/17
Oh well, you got more money, right? Fuck them. They can of...
Abusive Cuck Fat Ankles
  10/13/17
just say "match the offer and I'm in, but otherwise I h...
supple hominid
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*creditors
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I sent them a follow up email with again saying, I am sorry ...
Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven
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why didnt you let them counter? it makes you look like more...
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did you go to your current employer before accepting the off...
Flushed Curious Half-breed Point
  10/13/17
That'd be pretty stupid.
Arrogant Canary Mediation
  10/13/17
why? If you had an outstanding offer that you could accept t...
Flushed Curious Half-breed Point
  10/13/17
Offer could get pulled before you accept.
Arrogant Canary Mediation
  10/13/17
that seems kinda unlikely, especially if you ask about a dea...
Flushed Curious Half-breed Point
  10/13/17
Never tell your employer about another job offer before acce...
Arrogant Canary Mediation
  10/13/17
This is not the credited advice. I have never had an offer p...
marvelous set reading party
  10/13/17
I just can't think of a scenario where they would pull an of...
Flushed Curious Half-breed Point
  10/13/17
I've seen it.
Arrogant Canary Mediation
  10/13/17
give concrete examples or stfu
Flushed Curious Half-breed Point
  10/13/17
I know someone who was offered a job and then the employer c...
Arrogant Canary Mediation
  10/13/17
that just sounds completely made up pumo breh
Flushed Curious Half-breed Point
  10/13/17
only a complete moron would argue that this cannot happen.
Arrogant Canary Mediation
  10/13/17
okay there is always some remote possibility it *could* happ...
Flushed Curious Half-breed Point
  10/13/17
informing your current employer after you accept transfers t...
Arrogant Canary Mediation
  10/13/17
lol at risk "adverse"
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  10/13/17
I can think of at least two instances in the high-paying in ...
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  10/13/17
They're not going to pull an offer, that makes no sense. I'v...
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I've seen it a handful of times. bad financial results = dir...
overrated stage
  10/14/17
1) receive offer 2) talk to employer 3) i) if employer ma...
vibrant orchestra pit
  10/13/17
if you end up at 3.ii.b, you can kiss your bonus goodbye, at...
Arrogant Canary Mediation
  10/13/17
I did that exact thing and got a counteroffer
insane institution
  10/14/17
oh maybe you should have done this
vibrant orchestra pit
  10/13/17
I simultaneously "accepted" the offer and used the...
Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven
  10/13/17
fuck them, you do what's best for you.
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At Wil Employment works both ways. You can bet your ass if t...
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this. lol @ boomers that expect "loyalty"
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this is of course the credited response
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Now you know that you would have been working for assholes.
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Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven
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they would sell you+your entire family like cattle why do yo...
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passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency
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Why? Don’t be a bitch.
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passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency
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There are way too many instances of that unspoken social con...
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(Guy who thinks Mad Men is based on a true story)
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my concern is future industry events where I see tehm
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This types of shit happens all the time. I know two people w...
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  10/13/17
They've got no compensable damages and cost of suing vastly ...
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Hr costs, recruiting fees, other related materials. Shit add...
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More fundamentally no breach of duty. At will employment ca...
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By the EMPLOYER yes. Applicant still has duty of good faith ...
overrated stage
  10/14/17
Grow a beard
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Time to go pumo Oh wait
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Green karate pocket flask
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cr i did this and got sued and lost everything
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(1L who didn't yet learn about damages)
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don't listen to these MAF risk averse biglawyers. EPAH could...
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  10/13/17
Wrong! Just like an employer is estopped from claiming emplo...
low-t bawdyhouse brethren
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  10/13/17
What you did wrong in this instance is that you should've al...
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  10/13/17
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If they wanted to make an offer, they'd have said, "can...
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  10/13/17
not a nutella fan/sockpuppet, but this is 100% right
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I used new job offer's letter to get current employer to pay...
Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven
  10/13/17
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zombie-like plaza
  10/13/17
ok calm down qui-gon jinn
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  10/13/17
You just fucked yourself so hard.
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  10/13/17
how so -- at will employee, most people ITT agree with me th...
Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven
  10/13/17
he meant with that thing your generation keeps shoving up it...
supple hominid
  10/13/17
People agree with you in the sense of "it is what it is...
marvelous set reading party
  10/13/17
I'm still ir8 at this employer; how fucking dare they act li...
Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven
  10/13/17
sounds like they avoided a disaster too so win win
supple hominid
  10/13/17
I'm a good keed didnu nuffin
Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven
  10/13/17
seriously. OP sounds unhinged.
marvelous set reading party
  10/13/17
holy shit calm down. they were annoyed and owed you nothing,...
multi-colored jet hall
  10/13/17
You seem like a nightmare. Holy fuck
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  10/14/17
why would you accept a counter-offer? enjoy your job unt...
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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:49 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

Some of you have been following this story. I accepted a job, then immediately got a huge raise and package to keep me at my current job. I called the other people back and explained that I am sorry, it's unprofessional, I know it puts them in a tough spot, blah blah, but that I can't pass up what my current employer is offering me.

They were like, "I can't believe you'd do this to us." I tried to explain more, but they were totally silent, then just said, "OK. Goodbye."

Not even one iota of trying to be professional or even fake "well, this sucks for us, but I understand, goodluck."

Part of me feels like total shit. Not only for hurting them but also now I have an industry enemy.

Part of me feels happy I am not working for people that get so angry and emotional when they really should remember it's fucking at-will employment and shit happens. I can't be the first, or last person, to have a CEO step in and want to keep me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435917)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 8:56 PM
Author: zombie-like plaza

If I were them, I would permapwn you by suing your current employer for the damages caused by the employee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437566)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: Abusive Cuck Fat Ankles

Oh well, you got more money, right? Fuck them. They can offer you more money if they want to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435924)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: supple hominid

just say "match the offer and I'm in, but otherwise I have a family to think about".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435925)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: domesticated trump supporter

*creditors

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436060)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:18 PM
Author: Seedy school cafeteria round eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436162)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:23 PM
Author: Haunting cracking corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436200)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:02 PM
Author: Hyperventilating dark voyeur



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436426)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: amethyst razzmatazz cruise ship legend



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:42 PM
Author: federal tanning salon affirmative action

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437119)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:24 PM
Author: Amber rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437681)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:32 PM
Author: odious spruce box office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440737)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:38 PM
Author: Sapphire Center Selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440770)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:40 PM
Author: sooty excitant keepsake machete



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442517)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:16 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

I sent them a follow up email with again saying, I am sorry for how this puts you in a bind, please know I did not take this lightly, I was shocked by my CEO's offer and again, sorry

jfc if that's not enough contrition then they're psycho

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436531)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:18 PM
Author: supple hominid

why didnt you let them counter? it makes you look like more of a prick just saying sorry not sorry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436542)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: amethyst razzmatazz cruise ship legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436615)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:23 PM
Author: passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436572)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 9:27 AM
Author: fuchsia exciting becky



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

did you go to your current employer before accepting the offer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435929)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

That'd be pretty stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436009)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

why? If you had an outstanding offer that you could accept the next day and gave your current employer a chance to counter. I don't think it'd be that dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436021)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:02 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

Offer could get pulled before you accept.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436046)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:03 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

that seems kinda unlikely, especially if you ask about a deadline.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436053)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

Never tell your employer about another job offer before accepting. Trust me. Offers get pulled all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436063)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: marvelous set reading party

This is not the credited advice. I have never had an offer pulled in the 20 years I have worked in different fields.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436087)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:10 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

I just can't think of a scenario where they would pull an offer unless you fucked up somehow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436104)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

I've seen it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436181)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

give concrete examples or stfu

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436194)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

I know someone who was offered a job and then the employer changed their mind about filling the position at all.

I don't know how concrete you expect me to be on here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436217)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

that just sounds completely made up pumo breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436227)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:30 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

only a complete moron would argue that this cannot happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436257)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

okay there is always some remote possibility it *could* happen, but it's no reason to be a risk adverse faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436268)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

informing your current employer after you accept transfers the risk to your new employer, informing before puts the risk on you. only an idiot chooses the latter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436302)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:06 PM
Author: bateful principal's office mood

lol at risk "adverse"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437614)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:44 PM
Author: Apoplectic Snowy Hospital Cuckold

I can think of at least two instances in the high-paying in house job category where an offer was pulled. The company doesn't need the role anymore, an internal candidate emerges and they want to save $$$, you name it. Everything should be signed/sealed/delivered before notice is given.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436338)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:22 PM
Author: white submissive sanctuary nibblets

They're not going to pull an offer, that makes no sense. I've never heard of that happening to anyone in any industry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436567)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:28 AM
Author: overrated stage

I've seen it a handful of times. bad financial results = directive from the top to freeze hiring or cut positions. Happens unexpecedtely, sometimes changing things from one day to the next

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439704)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: vibrant orchestra pit

1) receive offer

2) talk to employer

3)

i) if employer matches -> decline offer

ii) if employer does not match

a) if offer still in place -> accept offer then resign

b) if offer not still in place -> do not resign

but yes slightly more risky

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436076)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

if you end up at 3.ii.b, you can kiss your bonus goodbye, at the very least.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436463)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:11 PM
Author: insane institution

I did that exact thing and got a counteroffer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442301)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:00 PM
Author: vibrant orchestra pit

oh maybe you should have done this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436022)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

I simultaneously "accepted" the offer and used the offer letter with my current employer when they said, voluntarily, "anything we can do to keep you?"

so they used that offer letter as proof of a market salary, then offered me a little more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436618)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: wonderful fear-inspiring piazza

fuck them, you do what's best for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435930)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: impressive stock car



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:51 PM
Author: passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:51 PM
Author: Fluffy jet-lagged gas station water buffalo



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:27 PM
Author: blue faggotry



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:53 PM
Author: Green karate pocket flask

At Wil Employment works both ways. You can bet your ass if the company needed to save money by eliminating your job they wouldn’t think twice.

Fuck them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435952)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:54 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

this. lol @ boomers that expect "loyalty"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435960)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:57 PM
Author: supple hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435992)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: impressive stock car



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436012)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:14 PM
Author: Cordovan business firm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436138)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: Sapphire Center Selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436140)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: galvanic field tattoo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436183)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:27 PM
Author: blue faggotry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436235)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:04 PM
Author: glittery pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436445)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

THIS is where my anger comes from!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436630)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: amethyst razzmatazz cruise ship legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436634)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:00 PM
Author: Awkward flirting potus brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437593)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:39 PM
Author: Motley iridescent community account stag film



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437992)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:37 PM
Author: stirring pervert dilemma

this is

of course

the credited response

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440766)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:54 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

Now you know that you would have been working for assholes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435970)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:55 PM
Author: passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435973)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: vibrant orchestra pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436011)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: Exhilarant codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436264)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

THIS is what is making me so happy! I dodged a fucking bullet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436636)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:02 PM
Author: plum aromatic market mental disorder

they would sell you+your entire family like cattle why do you care about these vultures at all

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436040)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Cordovan business firm

(Guy buying into the flame that loyalty begets loyalty)

Be loyal to yourself and your family. Everyone else is meat on the table.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436071)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: supple hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436080)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436095)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:14 PM
Author: Cordovan business firm

Why? Don’t be a bitch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436136)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436318)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:46 PM
Author: impressive stock car

There are way too many instances of that unspoken social contract being broken. Employers are not family - treat them as prey because you need to eat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436345)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:23 PM
Author: Cordovan business firm

(Guy who thinks Mad Men is based on a true story)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440702)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:58 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

my concern is future industry events where I see tehm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436401)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436458)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: Fragrant Tank



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436081)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: low-t bawdyhouse brethren

They could sue you if they suffered damages by acting in reliance on your acceptance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436096)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:09 PM
Author: supple hominid

no they couldnt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436098)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:30 PM
Author: amethyst razzmatazz cruise ship legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436638)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:10 PM
Author: passionate judgmental university international law enforcement agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436108)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:11 PM
Author: Green karate pocket flask

(Faggot Boomer middle manager)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436117)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:12 PM
Author: Cordovan business firm

(1L who just got wrecked by his contracts professor)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436121)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: Sapphire Center Selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436142)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: low-t bawdyhouse brethren

This types of shit happens all the time. I know two people who ended up settling for several grand just to avoid court. OP definitely exposed himself to unnecessary risk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436143)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:19 PM
Author: Sapphire Center Selfie

They've got no compensable damages and cost of suing vastly exceeds any expected value of suit. LJL at this being a litigation risk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436169)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Seedy school cafeteria round eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436186)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:30 PM
Author: low-t bawdyhouse brethren

Hr costs, recruiting fees, other related materials. Shit adds up. They also clawed back finders fees which complicated the whole thing. It's pretty fucked up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436260)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Haunting cracking corner

they can charge you hourly fees for using their conference room etc too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436274)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:35 PM
Author: low-t bawdyhouse brethren

It's obvious bullshit but I'm guessing they know you won't go through the effort to fight it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436288)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:43 PM
Author: Sapphire Center Selfie

Hats off to you, this is top-notch flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436738)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:03 PM
Author: Swashbuckling faggot firefighter

More fundamentally no breach of duty. At will employment can be terminated at any time, including before it starts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436434)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:32 AM
Author: overrated stage

By the EMPLOYER yes. Applicant still has duty of good faith and fair dealing, and many times duty of loyalty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439712)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Seedy school cafeteria round eye

Grow a beard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436182)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:24 PM
Author: Cordovan business firm

Time to go pumo

Oh wait

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436201)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:25 PM
Author: supple hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436208)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: Green karate pocket flask



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436216)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Haunting cracking corner

cr i did this and got sued and lost everything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436246)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: Cordovan business firm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436262)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: low-t bawdyhouse brethren

Yeah, it's pretty fucked up and I never considered it until someone actually told me about their experience. These fuckers haven't a clue.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436279)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:34 PM
Author: Flushed Curious Half-breed Point

lol brother.

now you really need to grow a beard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436284)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:47 PM
Author: primrose rigor chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442556)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:01 PM
Author: Swashbuckling faggot firefighter

lol no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436424)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:03 PM
Author: Hyperventilating dark voyeur

(1L who didn't yet learn about damages)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436440)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:04 PM
Author: glittery pistol

don't listen to these MAF risk averse biglawyers. EPAH could take this case to $600,000 jury verdict

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436451)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:57 PM
Author: low-t bawdyhouse brethren

They'd rather rollover and meekly whine "it was at-will!!!" As they spread their cheeks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436833)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:48 PM
Author: Sapphire Center Selfie

*parade of HR shrews testify they got soft-tissue damage processing application*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437163)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:23 PM
Author: white submissive sanctuary nibblets

nigga you can't sue someone just because you relied on them. you can only sue if you relied on a CONTRACT YOU MADE WITH THEM. there's no fucking contract here, it's at-will employment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436576)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:01 PM
Author: low-t bawdyhouse brethren

Wrong! Just like an employer is estopped from claiming employment is at will when employee detrimentally relies on offer letter, start date, etc, same goes for the employee. A lot of employers don't bother and eat their losses but plenty more who feel slighted will absolutely go after the employee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436861)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: Sapphire Center Selfie

ya ya which is why i said there's no compensable damages or AT VERY MOST compensable damages far, far below the cost of bringing suit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437168)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:47 PM
Author: histrionic mahogany circlehead

What you did wrong in this instance is that you should've allowed the new employer to counter and said "my employer gave me a substantial raise and I'd like to speak with you to see if you're interested in countering. Otherwise I'm inclined to stay at current employer since it's a difficult offer to refuse." By just saying, "I'm staying at current employer," you closed off the option for them to counter.

But honestly don't feel bad, you're not the first or last person to renege on an offer and they will fuck you in an instant so you should only worry about yourself. Also if they wanted you enough, they would've at least asked what the offer was and considered matching or exceeding it. Fuck them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436350)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:21 PM
Author: Drab Free-loading Personal Credit Line Immigrant

THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436562)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:44 PM
Author: blue faggotry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436742)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:07 PM
Author: amethyst razzmatazz cruise ship legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436905)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:41 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

If they wanted to make an offer, they'd have said, "can we make an offer?" all I said was "I really don't think I can turn down what my CEO is offering"

but yes, thank you, they'd fuck me at a moment's notice and I am so ir8 that these people think I owe them shit ... we're at will employees and if you're talented, OF COURSE the fucking current company is going to try and keep me, so they need to build that into their hiring decisions ... e.g. don't assume someone is starting until they actually start

I just hope they dont try to fuck me over in the future somehow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437116)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:42 PM
Author: Arrogant Canary Mediation

not a nutella fan/sockpuppet, but this is 100% right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437121)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:47 PM
Author: Sapphire Center Selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437159)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:50 PM
Author: Sick Lavender Parlor Associate

Just about to do this same thing next week 180 thread thank for advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436368)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:31 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

I used new job offer's letter to get current employer to pay me more but made CURRENT EMPLOYER think it was THEIR idea because I was like "I really don't want to leave!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436651)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:00 PM
Author: zombie-like plaza

I don't know who you are. I don't know what you want. If you are looking for more money I can tell you I don't have money, but what I do have are a very particular set of skills. Skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436417)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: white submissive sanctuary nibblets

ok calm down qui-gon jinn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436581)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: useless stage

You just fucked yourself so hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436466)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:30 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

how so -- at will employee, most people ITT agree with me they're being fucking assholes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436645)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:09 PM
Author: supple hominid

he meant with that thing your generation keeps shoving up its ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436920)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:09 PM
Author: marvelous set reading party

People agree with you in the sense of "it is what it is. at will employment." People do NOT agree with you that they are being assholes. They have every right to be mad at you. You are the one acting unprofessionally here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437846)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:40 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

I'm still ir8 at this employer; how fucking dare they act like children when I am acting like the adult about AT WILL EMPLOYMENT

If you're a good VP or whatever, you WAIT until I actually START, not two weeks out, to ding all the other applicants. You shouldn't assume SHIT even when I give the two weeks to a current employer. You should ASSUME that TALENT is going to have people trying to keep them. What fucking assholes. Like I intentionally went around trying to fuck them over. No. My CEO wants to keep me and made me an offer I had no idea was coming my way. Fuck these guys. I'm glad I don't work for them--they'd be real assholes when things go wrong, apparently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437107)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: supple hominid

sounds like they avoided a disaster too so win win

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437172)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 8:03 PM
Author: Indigo twinkling uncleanness heaven

I'm a good keed didnu nuffin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437276)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:07 PM
Author: marvelous set reading party

seriously. OP sounds unhinged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437838)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:28 PM
Author: multi-colored jet hall

holy shit calm down. they were annoyed and owed you nothing, just like how you felt you owed them nothing when you fucked them over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437699)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Cordovan business firm

You seem like a nightmare. Holy fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442760)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:37 PM
Author: rough-skinned regret lay

why would you accept a counter-offer? enjoy your job until they find a replacement

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437982)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:34 AM
Author: up-to-no-good theater stain

Hehe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439716)