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Just turned down employer for job I had originally accepted, they were PISSED

Some of you have been following this story. I accepted a job...
spruce halford incel
  10/13/17
If I were them, I would permapwn you by suing your current e...
vigorous frisky psychic wrinkle
  10/13/17
Oh well, you got more money, right? Fuck them. They can of...
Brindle people who are hurt private investor
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just say "match the offer and I'm in, but otherwise I h...
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I sent them a follow up email with again saying, I am sorry ...
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did you go to your current employer before accepting the off...
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That'd be pretty stupid.
learning disabled passionate lettuce
  10/13/17
why? If you had an outstanding offer that you could accept t...
glittery tattoo weed whacker
  10/13/17
Offer could get pulled before you accept.
learning disabled passionate lettuce
  10/13/17
that seems kinda unlikely, especially if you ask about a dea...
glittery tattoo weed whacker
  10/13/17
Never tell your employer about another job offer before acce...
learning disabled passionate lettuce
  10/13/17
This is not the credited advice. I have never had an offer p...
Out-of-control Therapy
  10/13/17
I just can't think of a scenario where they would pull an of...
glittery tattoo weed whacker
  10/13/17
I've seen it.
learning disabled passionate lettuce
  10/13/17
give concrete examples or stfu
glittery tattoo weed whacker
  10/13/17
I know someone who was offered a job and then the employer c...
learning disabled passionate lettuce
  10/13/17
that just sounds completely made up pumo breh
glittery tattoo weed whacker
  10/13/17
only a complete moron would argue that this cannot happen.
learning disabled passionate lettuce
  10/13/17
okay there is always some remote possibility it *could* happ...
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informing your current employer after you accept transfers t...
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lol at risk "adverse"
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I can think of at least two instances in the high-paying in ...
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  10/13/17
They're not going to pull an offer, that makes no sense. I'v...
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I've seen it a handful of times. bad financial results = dir...
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  10/14/17
1) receive offer 2) talk to employer 3) i) if employer ma...
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  10/13/17
if you end up at 3.ii.b, you can kiss your bonus goodbye, at...
learning disabled passionate lettuce
  10/13/17
I did that exact thing and got a counteroffer
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  10/14/17
oh maybe you should have done this
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  10/13/17
I simultaneously "accepted" the offer and used the...
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  10/13/17
fuck them, you do what's best for you.
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this. lol @ boomers that expect "loyalty"
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  10/13/17
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  10/14/17
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cr i did this and got sued and lost everything
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  10/13/17
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  10/13/17
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  10/13/17
not a nutella fan/sockpuppet, but this is 100% right
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  10/13/17
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  10/13/17
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  10/13/17
You just fucked yourself so hard.
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  10/13/17
how so -- at will employee, most people ITT agree with me th...
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  10/13/17
he meant with that thing your generation keeps shoving up it...
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  10/13/17
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  10/13/17
I'm still ir8 at this employer; how fucking dare they act li...
spruce halford incel
  10/13/17
sounds like they avoided a disaster too so win win
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  10/13/17
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spruce halford incel
  10/13/17
seriously. OP sounds unhinged.
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  10/13/17
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  10/13/17
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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:49 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

Some of you have been following this story. I accepted a job, then immediately got a huge raise and package to keep me at my current job. I called the other people back and explained that I am sorry, it's unprofessional, I know it puts them in a tough spot, blah blah, but that I can't pass up what my current employer is offering me.

They were like, "I can't believe you'd do this to us." I tried to explain more, but they were totally silent, then just said, "OK. Goodbye."

Not even one iota of trying to be professional or even fake "well, this sucks for us, but I understand, goodluck."

Part of me feels like total shit. Not only for hurting them but also now I have an industry enemy.

Part of me feels happy I am not working for people that get so angry and emotional when they really should remember it's fucking at-will employment and shit happens. I can't be the first, or last person, to have a CEO step in and want to keep me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435917)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 8:56 PM
Author: vigorous frisky psychic wrinkle

If I were them, I would permapwn you by suing your current employer for the damages caused by the employee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437566)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: Brindle people who are hurt private investor

Oh well, you got more money, right? Fuck them. They can offer you more money if they want to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435924)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: ruby cerebral roommate

just say "match the offer and I'm in, but otherwise I have a family to think about".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435925)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Salmon hospital

*creditors

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436060)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:18 PM
Author: Mind-boggling generalized bond house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436162)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:23 PM
Author: Frozen henna base rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436200)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:02 PM
Author: beady-eyed stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436426)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: galvanic native headpube



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:42 PM
Author: Puce metal menage voyeur

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437119)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:24 PM
Author: dead clown church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437681)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:32 PM
Author: Boyish Masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440737)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:38 PM
Author: Contagious university dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440770)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:40 PM
Author: french regret



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442517)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:16 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

I sent them a follow up email with again saying, I am sorry for how this puts you in a bind, please know I did not take this lightly, I was shocked by my CEO's offer and again, sorry

jfc if that's not enough contrition then they're psycho

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436531)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:18 PM
Author: ruby cerebral roommate

why didnt you let them counter? it makes you look like more of a prick just saying sorry not sorry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436542)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: galvanic native headpube



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436615)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:23 PM
Author: self-absorbed tan doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436572)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 9:27 AM
Author: Motley alcoholic marketing idea



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439890)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

did you go to your current employer before accepting the offer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435929)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

That'd be pretty stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436009)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

why? If you had an outstanding offer that you could accept the next day and gave your current employer a chance to counter. I don't think it'd be that dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436021)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:02 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

Offer could get pulled before you accept.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436046)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:03 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

that seems kinda unlikely, especially if you ask about a deadline.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436053)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

Never tell your employer about another job offer before accepting. Trust me. Offers get pulled all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436063)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: Out-of-control Therapy

This is not the credited advice. I have never had an offer pulled in the 20 years I have worked in different fields.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436087)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:10 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

I just can't think of a scenario where they would pull an offer unless you fucked up somehow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436104)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

I've seen it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436181)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

give concrete examples or stfu

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436194)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

I know someone who was offered a job and then the employer changed their mind about filling the position at all.

I don't know how concrete you expect me to be on here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436217)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

that just sounds completely made up pumo breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436227)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:30 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

only a complete moron would argue that this cannot happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436257)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

okay there is always some remote possibility it *could* happen, but it's no reason to be a risk adverse faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436268)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

informing your current employer after you accept transfers the risk to your new employer, informing before puts the risk on you. only an idiot chooses the latter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436302)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:06 PM
Author: electric box office national security agency

lol at risk "adverse"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437614)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:44 PM
Author: razzle bawdyhouse friendly grandma

I can think of at least two instances in the high-paying in house job category where an offer was pulled. The company doesn't need the role anymore, an internal candidate emerges and they want to save $$$, you name it. Everything should be signed/sealed/delivered before notice is given.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436338)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:22 PM
Author: bonkers narrow-minded liquid oxygen

They're not going to pull an offer, that makes no sense. I've never heard of that happening to anyone in any industry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436567)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:28 AM
Author: Floppy nursing home nowag

I've seen it a handful of times. bad financial results = directive from the top to freeze hiring or cut positions. Happens unexpecedtely, sometimes changing things from one day to the next

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439704)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: underhanded water buffalo pit

1) receive offer

2) talk to employer

3)

i) if employer matches -> decline offer

ii) if employer does not match

a) if offer still in place -> accept offer then resign

b) if offer not still in place -> do not resign

but yes slightly more risky

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436076)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

if you end up at 3.ii.b, you can kiss your bonus goodbye, at the very least.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436463)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:11 PM
Author: laughsome hyperactive orchestra pit

I did that exact thing and got a counteroffer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442301)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:00 PM
Author: underhanded water buffalo pit

oh maybe you should have done this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436022)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

I simultaneously "accepted" the offer and used the offer letter with my current employer when they said, voluntarily, "anything we can do to keep you?"

so they used that offer letter as proof of a market salary, then offered me a little more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436618)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: Vivacious cyan field

fuck them, you do what's best for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435930)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: Cerise Razzmatazz Parlor Associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436008)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:51 PM
Author: self-absorbed tan doctorate



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:51 PM
Author: drunken indian lodge



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:27 PM
Author: Pale arousing den hominid



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:53 PM
Author: histrionic whorehouse rigor

At Wil Employment works both ways. You can bet your ass if the company needed to save money by eliminating your job they wouldn’t think twice.

Fuck them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435952)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:54 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

this. lol @ boomers that expect "loyalty"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435960)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:57 PM
Author: ruby cerebral roommate



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: Cerise Razzmatazz Parlor Associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436012)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:14 PM
Author: zombie-like giraffe lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436138)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: Contagious university dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436140)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: umber big chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436183)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:27 PM
Author: Pale arousing den hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436235)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:04 PM
Author: Diverse plum quadroon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436445)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

THIS is where my anger comes from!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436630)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: galvanic native headpube



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436634)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:00 PM
Author: multi-colored black legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437593)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:39 PM
Author: navy hilarious useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437992)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:37 PM
Author: fighting insane resort main people

this is

of course

the credited response

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440766)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:54 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

Now you know that you would have been working for assholes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435970)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:55 PM
Author: self-absorbed tan doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435973)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: underhanded water buffalo pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436011)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: titillating deer antler



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436264)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

THIS is what is making me so happy! I dodged a fucking bullet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436636)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:02 PM
Author: aggressive hairraiser candlestick maker philosopher-king

they would sell you+your entire family like cattle why do you care about these vultures at all

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436040)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: zombie-like giraffe lay

(Guy buying into the flame that loyalty begets loyalty)

Be loyal to yourself and your family. Everyone else is meat on the table.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436071)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: ruby cerebral roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436080)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: self-absorbed tan doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436095)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:14 PM
Author: zombie-like giraffe lay

Why? Don’t be a bitch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436136)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: self-absorbed tan doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436318)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:46 PM
Author: Cerise Razzmatazz Parlor Associate

There are way too many instances of that unspoken social contract being broken. Employers are not family - treat them as prey because you need to eat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436345)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:23 PM
Author: zombie-like giraffe lay

(Guy who thinks Mad Men is based on a true story)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440702)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:58 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

my concern is future industry events where I see tehm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436401)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: self-absorbed tan doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436458)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: Stimulating party of the first part



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436081)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: violent principal's office cumskin

They could sue you if they suffered damages by acting in reliance on your acceptance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436096)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:09 PM
Author: ruby cerebral roommate

no they couldnt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436098)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:30 PM
Author: galvanic native headpube



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436638)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:10 PM
Author: self-absorbed tan doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436108)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:11 PM
Author: histrionic whorehouse rigor

(Faggot Boomer middle manager)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436117)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:12 PM
Author: zombie-like giraffe lay

(1L who just got wrecked by his contracts professor)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436121)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: Contagious university dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436142)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: violent principal's office cumskin

This types of shit happens all the time. I know two people who ended up settling for several grand just to avoid court. OP definitely exposed himself to unnecessary risk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436143)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:19 PM
Author: Contagious university dragon

They've got no compensable damages and cost of suing vastly exceeds any expected value of suit. LJL at this being a litigation risk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436169)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Mind-boggling generalized bond house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436186)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:30 PM
Author: violent principal's office cumskin

Hr costs, recruiting fees, other related materials. Shit adds up. They also clawed back finders fees which complicated the whole thing. It's pretty fucked up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436260)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Frozen henna base rigpig

they can charge you hourly fees for using their conference room etc too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436274)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:35 PM
Author: violent principal's office cumskin

It's obvious bullshit but I'm guessing they know you won't go through the effort to fight it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436288)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:43 PM
Author: Contagious university dragon

Hats off to you, this is top-notch flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436738)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:03 PM
Author: Sticky supple abode

More fundamentally no breach of duty. At will employment can be terminated at any time, including before it starts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436434)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:32 AM
Author: Floppy nursing home nowag

By the EMPLOYER yes. Applicant still has duty of good faith and fair dealing, and many times duty of loyalty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439712)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Mind-boggling generalized bond house

Grow a beard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436182)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:24 PM
Author: zombie-like giraffe lay

Time to go pumo

Oh wait

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436201)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:25 PM
Author: ruby cerebral roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436208)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: histrionic whorehouse rigor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436216)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Frozen henna base rigpig

cr i did this and got sued and lost everything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436246)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: zombie-like giraffe lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436262)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: violent principal's office cumskin

Yeah, it's pretty fucked up and I never considered it until someone actually told me about their experience. These fuckers haven't a clue.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436279)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:34 PM
Author: glittery tattoo weed whacker

lol brother.

now you really need to grow a beard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436284)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:47 PM
Author: House-broken doobsian crackhouse trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442556)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:01 PM
Author: Sticky supple abode

lol no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436424)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:03 PM
Author: beady-eyed stage

(1L who didn't yet learn about damages)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436440)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:04 PM
Author: Diverse plum quadroon

don't listen to these MAF risk averse biglawyers. EPAH could take this case to $600,000 jury verdict

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436451)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:57 PM
Author: violent principal's office cumskin

They'd rather rollover and meekly whine "it was at-will!!!" As they spread their cheeks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436833)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:48 PM
Author: Contagious university dragon

*parade of HR shrews testify they got soft-tissue damage processing application*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437163)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:23 PM
Author: bonkers narrow-minded liquid oxygen

nigga you can't sue someone just because you relied on them. you can only sue if you relied on a CONTRACT YOU MADE WITH THEM. there's no fucking contract here, it's at-will employment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436576)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:01 PM
Author: violent principal's office cumskin

Wrong! Just like an employer is estopped from claiming employment is at will when employee detrimentally relies on offer letter, start date, etc, same goes for the employee. A lot of employers don't bother and eat their losses but plenty more who feel slighted will absolutely go after the employee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436861)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: Contagious university dragon

ya ya which is why i said there's no compensable damages or AT VERY MOST compensable damages far, far below the cost of bringing suit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437168)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:47 PM
Author: charismatic garrison

What you did wrong in this instance is that you should've allowed the new employer to counter and said "my employer gave me a substantial raise and I'd like to speak with you to see if you're interested in countering. Otherwise I'm inclined to stay at current employer since it's a difficult offer to refuse." By just saying, "I'm staying at current employer," you closed off the option for them to counter.

But honestly don't feel bad, you're not the first or last person to renege on an offer and they will fuck you in an instant so you should only worry about yourself. Also if they wanted you enough, they would've at least asked what the offer was and considered matching or exceeding it. Fuck them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436350)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:21 PM
Author: Marvelous Piazza

THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436562)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:44 PM
Author: Pale arousing den hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436742)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:07 PM
Author: galvanic native headpube



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436905)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:41 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

If they wanted to make an offer, they'd have said, "can we make an offer?" all I said was "I really don't think I can turn down what my CEO is offering"

but yes, thank you, they'd fuck me at a moment's notice and I am so ir8 that these people think I owe them shit ... we're at will employees and if you're talented, OF COURSE the fucking current company is going to try and keep me, so they need to build that into their hiring decisions ... e.g. don't assume someone is starting until they actually start

I just hope they dont try to fuck me over in the future somehow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437116)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:42 PM
Author: learning disabled passionate lettuce

not a nutella fan/sockpuppet, but this is 100% right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437121)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:47 PM
Author: Contagious university dragon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437159)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:50 PM
Author: aphrodisiac site

Just about to do this same thing next week 180 thread thank for advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436368)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:31 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

I used new job offer's letter to get current employer to pay me more but made CURRENT EMPLOYER think it was THEIR idea because I was like "I really don't want to leave!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436651)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:00 PM
Author: vigorous frisky psychic wrinkle

I don't know who you are. I don't know what you want. If you are looking for more money I can tell you I don't have money, but what I do have are a very particular set of skills. Skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436417)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: bonkers narrow-minded liquid oxygen

ok calm down qui-gon jinn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436581)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: Citrine Jewess Hall

You just fucked yourself so hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436466)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:30 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

how so -- at will employee, most people ITT agree with me they're being fucking assholes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436645)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:09 PM
Author: ruby cerebral roommate

he meant with that thing your generation keeps shoving up its ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436920)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:09 PM
Author: Out-of-control Therapy

People agree with you in the sense of "it is what it is. at will employment." People do NOT agree with you that they are being assholes. They have every right to be mad at you. You are the one acting unprofessionally here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437846)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:40 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

I'm still ir8 at this employer; how fucking dare they act like children when I am acting like the adult about AT WILL EMPLOYMENT

If you're a good VP or whatever, you WAIT until I actually START, not two weeks out, to ding all the other applicants. You shouldn't assume SHIT even when I give the two weeks to a current employer. You should ASSUME that TALENT is going to have people trying to keep them. What fucking assholes. Like I intentionally went around trying to fuck them over. No. My CEO wants to keep me and made me an offer I had no idea was coming my way. Fuck these guys. I'm glad I don't work for them--they'd be real assholes when things go wrong, apparently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437107)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: ruby cerebral roommate

sounds like they avoided a disaster too so win win

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437172)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 8:03 PM
Author: spruce halford incel

I'm a good keed didnu nuffin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437276)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:07 PM
Author: Out-of-control Therapy

seriously. OP sounds unhinged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437838)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:28 PM
Author: brass heady stead ape

holy shit calm down. they were annoyed and owed you nothing, just like how you felt you owed them nothing when you fucked them over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437699)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: zombie-like giraffe lay

You seem like a nightmare. Holy fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442760)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:37 PM
Author: smoky jap tanning salon

why would you accept a counter-offer? enjoy your job until they find a replacement

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437982)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:34 AM
Author: lascivious lavender background story

Hehe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439716)