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Just turned down employer for job I had originally accepted, they were PISSED

Some of you have been following this story. I accepted a job...
dull office
  10/13/17
If I were them, I would permapwn you by suing your current e...
abusive appetizing newt
  10/13/17
Oh well, you got more money, right? Fuck them. They can of...
dashing nighttime set
  10/13/17
just say "match the offer and I'm in, but otherwise I h...
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I sent them a follow up email with again saying, I am sorry ...
dull office
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did you go to your current employer before accepting the off...
curious queen of the night
  10/13/17
That'd be pretty stupid.
insane kitty cat electric furnace
  10/13/17
why? If you had an outstanding offer that you could accept t...
curious queen of the night
  10/13/17
Offer could get pulled before you accept.
insane kitty cat electric furnace
  10/13/17
that seems kinda unlikely, especially if you ask about a dea...
curious queen of the night
  10/13/17
Never tell your employer about another job offer before acce...
insane kitty cat electric furnace
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This is not the credited advice. I have never had an offer p...
charismatic pit affirmative action
  10/13/17
I just can't think of a scenario where they would pull an of...
curious queen of the night
  10/13/17
I've seen it.
insane kitty cat electric furnace
  10/13/17
give concrete examples or stfu
curious queen of the night
  10/13/17
I know someone who was offered a job and then the employer c...
insane kitty cat electric furnace
  10/13/17
that just sounds completely made up pumo breh
curious queen of the night
  10/13/17
only a complete moron would argue that this cannot happen.
insane kitty cat electric furnace
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okay there is always some remote possibility it *could* happ...
curious queen of the night
  10/13/17
informing your current employer after you accept transfers t...
insane kitty cat electric furnace
  10/13/17
lol at risk "adverse"
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I can think of at least two instances in the high-paying in ...
Vengeful plaza
  10/13/17
They're not going to pull an offer, that makes no sense. I'v...
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  10/13/17
I've seen it a handful of times. bad financial results = dir...
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  10/14/17
1) receive offer 2) talk to employer 3) i) if employer ma...
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  10/13/17
if you end up at 3.ii.b, you can kiss your bonus goodbye, at...
insane kitty cat electric furnace
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I did that exact thing and got a counteroffer
White crotch
  10/14/17
oh maybe you should have done this
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I simultaneously "accepted" the offer and used the...
dull office
  10/13/17
fuck them, you do what's best for you.
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this. lol @ boomers that expect "loyalty"
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More fundamentally no breach of duty. At will employment ca...
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Grow a beard
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Time to go pumo Oh wait
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cr i did this and got sued and lost everything
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(1L who didn't yet learn about damages)
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beady-eyed meetinghouse
  10/13/17
Wrong! Just like an employer is estopped from claiming emplo...
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  10/13/17
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dull office
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  10/13/17
You just fucked yourself so hard.
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how so -- at will employee, most people ITT agree with me th...
dull office
  10/13/17
he meant with that thing your generation keeps shoving up it...
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  10/13/17
I'm still ir8 at this employer; how fucking dare they act li...
dull office
  10/13/17
sounds like they avoided a disaster too so win win
spectacular station
  10/13/17
I'm a good keed didnu nuffin
dull office
  10/13/17
seriously. OP sounds unhinged.
charismatic pit affirmative action
  10/13/17
holy shit calm down. they were annoyed and owed you nothing,...
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  10/13/17
You seem like a nightmare. Holy fuck
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  10/14/17
why would you accept a counter-offer? enjoy your job unt...
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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:49 PM
Author: dull office

Some of you have been following this story. I accepted a job, then immediately got a huge raise and package to keep me at my current job. I called the other people back and explained that I am sorry, it's unprofessional, I know it puts them in a tough spot, blah blah, but that I can't pass up what my current employer is offering me.

They were like, "I can't believe you'd do this to us." I tried to explain more, but they were totally silent, then just said, "OK. Goodbye."

Not even one iota of trying to be professional or even fake "well, this sucks for us, but I understand, goodluck."

Part of me feels like total shit. Not only for hurting them but also now I have an industry enemy.

Part of me feels happy I am not working for people that get so angry and emotional when they really should remember it's fucking at-will employment and shit happens. I can't be the first, or last person, to have a CEO step in and want to keep me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435917)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 8:56 PM
Author: abusive appetizing newt

If I were them, I would permapwn you by suing your current employer for the damages caused by the employee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437566)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: dashing nighttime set

Oh well, you got more money, right? Fuck them. They can offer you more money if they want to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435924)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: spectacular station

just say "match the offer and I'm in, but otherwise I have a family to think about".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435925)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: razzmatazz pale library cumskin

*creditors

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436060)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:18 PM
Author: Adventurous Irate Quadroon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436162)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:23 PM
Author: pearl reading party weed whacker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436200)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:02 PM
Author: Brilliant lay personal credit line



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: vibrant scarlet menage



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:42 PM
Author: Primrose Round Eye

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437119)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:24 PM
Author: marvelous yellow prole windowlicker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437681)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:32 PM
Author: floppy skinny woman mediation



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:38 PM
Author: infuriating concupiscible cuck



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440770)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:40 PM
Author: mauve dopamine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442517)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:16 PM
Author: dull office

I sent them a follow up email with again saying, I am sorry for how this puts you in a bind, please know I did not take this lightly, I was shocked by my CEO's offer and again, sorry

jfc if that's not enough contrition then they're psycho

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436531)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:18 PM
Author: spectacular station

why didnt you let them counter? it makes you look like more of a prick just saying sorry not sorry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436542)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: vibrant scarlet menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436615)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:23 PM
Author: lascivious autistic nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436572)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 9:27 AM
Author: titillating blue trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439890)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

did you go to your current employer before accepting the offer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435929)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

That'd be pretty stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436009)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

why? If you had an outstanding offer that you could accept the next day and gave your current employer a chance to counter. I don't think it'd be that dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436021)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:02 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

Offer could get pulled before you accept.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436046)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:03 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

that seems kinda unlikely, especially if you ask about a deadline.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436053)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

Never tell your employer about another job offer before accepting. Trust me. Offers get pulled all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436063)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: charismatic pit affirmative action

This is not the credited advice. I have never had an offer pulled in the 20 years I have worked in different fields.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436087)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:10 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

I just can't think of a scenario where they would pull an offer unless you fucked up somehow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436104)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

I've seen it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436181)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

give concrete examples or stfu

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436194)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

I know someone who was offered a job and then the employer changed their mind about filling the position at all.

I don't know how concrete you expect me to be on here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436217)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

that just sounds completely made up pumo breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436227)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:30 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

only a complete moron would argue that this cannot happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436257)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

okay there is always some remote possibility it *could* happen, but it's no reason to be a risk adverse faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436268)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

informing your current employer after you accept transfers the risk to your new employer, informing before puts the risk on you. only an idiot chooses the latter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436302)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:06 PM
Author: Misanthropic soul-stirring striped hyena school cafeteria

lol at risk "adverse"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437614)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:44 PM
Author: Vengeful plaza

I can think of at least two instances in the high-paying in house job category where an offer was pulled. The company doesn't need the role anymore, an internal candidate emerges and they want to save $$$, you name it. Everything should be signed/sealed/delivered before notice is given.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436338)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:22 PM
Author: beady-eyed meetinghouse

They're not going to pull an offer, that makes no sense. I've never heard of that happening to anyone in any industry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436567)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:28 AM
Author: fantasy-prone cuckold jew

I've seen it a handful of times. bad financial results = directive from the top to freeze hiring or cut positions. Happens unexpecedtely, sometimes changing things from one day to the next

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439704)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: vivacious charcoal site therapy

1) receive offer

2) talk to employer

3)

i) if employer matches -> decline offer

ii) if employer does not match

a) if offer still in place -> accept offer then resign

b) if offer not still in place -> do not resign

but yes slightly more risky

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436076)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

if you end up at 3.ii.b, you can kiss your bonus goodbye, at the very least.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436463)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:11 PM
Author: White crotch

I did that exact thing and got a counteroffer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442301)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:00 PM
Author: vivacious charcoal site therapy

oh maybe you should have done this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436022)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:28 PM
Author: dull office

I simultaneously "accepted" the offer and used the offer letter with my current employer when they said, voluntarily, "anything we can do to keep you?"

so they used that offer letter as proof of a market salary, then offered me a little more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436618)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:50 PM
Author: Tantric 180 stead

fuck them, you do what's best for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435930)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: Coral unholy keepsake machete



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436008)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:51 PM
Author: lascivious autistic nowag



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:51 PM
Author: sick vigorous useless brakes mad-dog skullcap



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:27 PM
Author: spruce chest-beating travel guidebook



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:53 PM
Author: transparent trust fund

At Wil Employment works both ways. You can bet your ass if the company needed to save money by eliminating your job they wouldn’t think twice.

Fuck them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435952)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:54 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

this. lol @ boomers that expect "loyalty"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435960)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:57 PM
Author: spectacular station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435992)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: Coral unholy keepsake machete



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436012)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:14 PM
Author: cobalt center becky



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436138)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: infuriating concupiscible cuck



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436140)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Motley Mischievous Hominid Headpube



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436183)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:27 PM
Author: spruce chest-beating travel guidebook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436235)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:04 PM
Author: racy well-lubricated mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436445)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: dull office

THIS is where my anger comes from!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436630)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: vibrant scarlet menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436634)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:00 PM
Author: zippy contagious turdskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437593)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:39 PM
Author: ivory den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437992)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:37 PM
Author: insanely creepy electric brethren

this is

of course

the credited response

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440766)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:54 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

Now you know that you would have been working for assholes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435970)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:55 PM
Author: lascivious autistic nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34435973)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 4:59 PM
Author: vivacious charcoal site therapy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436011)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: Talking Painfully Honest Institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436264)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: dull office

THIS is what is making me so happy! I dodged a fucking bullet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436636)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:02 PM
Author: bright thriller kitchen national security agency

they would sell you+your entire family like cattle why do you care about these vultures at all

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436040)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: cobalt center becky

(Guy buying into the flame that loyalty begets loyalty)

Be loyal to yourself and your family. Everyone else is meat on the table.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436071)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: spectacular station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436080)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: lascivious autistic nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436095)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:14 PM
Author: cobalt center becky

Why? Don’t be a bitch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436136)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: lascivious autistic nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436318)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:46 PM
Author: Coral unholy keepsake machete

There are way too many instances of that unspoken social contract being broken. Employers are not family - treat them as prey because you need to eat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436345)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 12:23 PM
Author: cobalt center becky

(Guy who thinks Mad Men is based on a true story)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34440702)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:58 PM
Author: dull office

my concern is future industry events where I see tehm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436401)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: lascivious autistic nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436458)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:06 PM
Author: bateful faggot firefighter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436081)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:08 PM
Author: provocative disrespectful theatre gaming laptop

They could sue you if they suffered damages by acting in reliance on your acceptance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436096)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:09 PM
Author: spectacular station

no they couldnt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436098)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:30 PM
Author: vibrant scarlet menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436638)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:10 PM
Author: lascivious autistic nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436108)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:11 PM
Author: transparent trust fund

(Faggot Boomer middle manager)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436117)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:12 PM
Author: cobalt center becky

(1L who just got wrecked by his contracts professor)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436121)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: infuriating concupiscible cuck



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436142)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:15 PM
Author: provocative disrespectful theatre gaming laptop

This types of shit happens all the time. I know two people who ended up settling for several grand just to avoid court. OP definitely exposed himself to unnecessary risk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436143)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:19 PM
Author: infuriating concupiscible cuck

They've got no compensable damages and cost of suing vastly exceeds any expected value of suit. LJL at this being a litigation risk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436169)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Adventurous Irate Quadroon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436186)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:30 PM
Author: provocative disrespectful theatre gaming laptop

Hr costs, recruiting fees, other related materials. Shit adds up. They also clawed back finders fees which complicated the whole thing. It's pretty fucked up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436260)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: pearl reading party weed whacker

they can charge you hourly fees for using their conference room etc too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436274)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:35 PM
Author: provocative disrespectful theatre gaming laptop

It's obvious bullshit but I'm guessing they know you won't go through the effort to fight it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436288)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:43 PM
Author: infuriating concupiscible cuck

Hats off to you, this is top-notch flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436738)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:03 PM
Author: rose really tough guy feces

More fundamentally no breach of duty. At will employment can be terminated at any time, including before it starts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436434)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:32 AM
Author: fantasy-prone cuckold jew

By the EMPLOYER yes. Applicant still has duty of good faith and fair dealing, and many times duty of loyalty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439712)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Adventurous Irate Quadroon

Grow a beard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436182)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:24 PM
Author: cobalt center becky

Time to go pumo

Oh wait

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436201)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:25 PM
Author: spectacular station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436208)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:26 PM
Author: transparent trust fund



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436216)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: pearl reading party weed whacker

cr i did this and got sued and lost everything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436246)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: cobalt center becky



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436262)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: provocative disrespectful theatre gaming laptop

Yeah, it's pretty fucked up and I never considered it until someone actually told me about their experience. These fuckers haven't a clue.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436279)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:34 PM
Author: curious queen of the night

lol brother.

now you really need to grow a beard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436284)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 4:47 PM
Author: exhilarant pocket flask hairy legs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442556)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:01 PM
Author: rose really tough guy feces

lol no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436424)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:03 PM
Author: Brilliant lay personal credit line

(1L who didn't yet learn about damages)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436440)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:04 PM
Author: racy well-lubricated mad cow disease

don't listen to these MAF risk averse biglawyers. EPAH could take this case to $600,000 jury verdict

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436451)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:57 PM
Author: provocative disrespectful theatre gaming laptop

They'd rather rollover and meekly whine "it was at-will!!!" As they spread their cheeks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436833)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:48 PM
Author: infuriating concupiscible cuck

*parade of HR shrews testify they got soft-tissue damage processing application*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437163)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:23 PM
Author: beady-eyed meetinghouse

nigga you can't sue someone just because you relied on them. you can only sue if you relied on a CONTRACT YOU MADE WITH THEM. there's no fucking contract here, it's at-will employment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436576)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:01 PM
Author: provocative disrespectful theatre gaming laptop

Wrong! Just like an employer is estopped from claiming employment is at will when employee detrimentally relies on offer letter, start date, etc, same goes for the employee. A lot of employers don't bother and eat their losses but plenty more who feel slighted will absolutely go after the employee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436861)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: infuriating concupiscible cuck

ya ya which is why i said there's no compensable damages or AT VERY MOST compensable damages far, far below the cost of bringing suit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437168)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:47 PM
Author: Cracking genital piercing

What you did wrong in this instance is that you should've allowed the new employer to counter and said "my employer gave me a substantial raise and I'd like to speak with you to see if you're interested in countering. Otherwise I'm inclined to stay at current employer since it's a difficult offer to refuse." By just saying, "I'm staying at current employer," you closed off the option for them to counter.

But honestly don't feel bad, you're not the first or last person to renege on an offer and they will fuck you in an instant so you should only worry about yourself. Also if they wanted you enough, they would've at least asked what the offer was and considered matching or exceeding it. Fuck them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436350)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:21 PM
Author: Lilac cruise ship

THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436562)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:44 PM
Author: spruce chest-beating travel guidebook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436742)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:07 PM
Author: vibrant scarlet menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436905)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:41 PM
Author: dull office

If they wanted to make an offer, they'd have said, "can we make an offer?" all I said was "I really don't think I can turn down what my CEO is offering"

but yes, thank you, they'd fuck me at a moment's notice and I am so ir8 that these people think I owe them shit ... we're at will employees and if you're talented, OF COURSE the fucking current company is going to try and keep me, so they need to build that into their hiring decisions ... e.g. don't assume someone is starting until they actually start

I just hope they dont try to fuck me over in the future somehow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437116)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:42 PM
Author: insane kitty cat electric furnace

not a nutella fan/sockpuppet, but this is 100% right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437121)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:47 PM
Author: infuriating concupiscible cuck



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437159)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 5:50 PM
Author: Magenta sticky foreskin

Just about to do this same thing next week 180 thread thank for advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436368)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:31 PM
Author: dull office

I used new job offer's letter to get current employer to pay me more but made CURRENT EMPLOYER think it was THEIR idea because I was like "I really don't want to leave!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436651)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:00 PM
Author: abusive appetizing newt

I don't know who you are. I don't know what you want. If you are looking for more money I can tell you I don't have money, but what I do have are a very particular set of skills. Skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436417)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: beady-eyed meetinghouse

ok calm down qui-gon jinn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436581)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: self-centered chapel boltzmann

You just fucked yourself so hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436466)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 6:30 PM
Author: dull office

how so -- at will employee, most people ITT agree with me they're being fucking assholes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436645)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:09 PM
Author: spectacular station

he meant with that thing your generation keeps shoving up its ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34436920)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:09 PM
Author: charismatic pit affirmative action

People agree with you in the sense of "it is what it is. at will employment." People do NOT agree with you that they are being assholes. They have every right to be mad at you. You are the one acting unprofessionally here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437846)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:40 PM
Author: dull office

I'm still ir8 at this employer; how fucking dare they act like children when I am acting like the adult about AT WILL EMPLOYMENT

If you're a good VP or whatever, you WAIT until I actually START, not two weeks out, to ding all the other applicants. You shouldn't assume SHIT even when I give the two weeks to a current employer. You should ASSUME that TALENT is going to have people trying to keep them. What fucking assholes. Like I intentionally went around trying to fuck them over. No. My CEO wants to keep me and made me an offer I had no idea was coming my way. Fuck these guys. I'm glad I don't work for them--they'd be real assholes when things go wrong, apparently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437107)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: spectacular station

sounds like they avoided a disaster too so win win

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437172)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 8:03 PM
Author: dull office

I'm a good keed didnu nuffin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437276)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:07 PM
Author: charismatic pit affirmative action

seriously. OP sounds unhinged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437838)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 9:28 PM
Author: Balding Boyish Son Of Senegal

holy shit calm down. they were annoyed and owed you nothing, just like how you felt you owed them nothing when you fucked them over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437699)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: cobalt center becky

You seem like a nightmare. Holy fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34442760)



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Date: October 13th, 2017 10:37 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle amethyst school

why would you accept a counter-offer? enjoy your job until they find a replacement

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34437982)



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Date: October 14th, 2017 8:34 AM
Author: hyperventilating sneaky criminal

Hehe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3763252&forum_id=2#34439716)