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Hearing the devastation of #metoo from many courageous women...
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Date: October 19th, 2017 2:42 AM
Author: Vermilion sickened background story coldplay fan

Hearing the devastation of #metoo from many courageous women I know and love. Feeling the enormous scale of our male culture's illness. Trying to allow space for my grief and your grief to be held. Eventually, inquiring into cause and effect.

I have been reflecting on the great desire male energy holds for bountiful softness and touch in our culture. And the huge deficit of that voluptuous embrace within male experience. So much of american boy ritual includes a hardening to the world, a toughening of skin and a preparation for contest. The allure of dissolving into sensual union can feel so foreign and quarantined in male worlds, that it becomes desperate and explosive.

When I try to magnetize feminine presence towards me, I'm sometimes met with a maze of confusion. Should I be vulnerable? Should I be cool? It's hard to ask for what I want! Trying to pull closer what I lack or desire always seems to involve subtle (or vast) violence. Remembering to invite the fullness of feminine blessings into my life is so much more satisfying.

Listening to the effect of male aggression in countless daily actions, remorse wells up. I vow to cultivate awareness of women that doesn't feel separate from them, and invites women from kindness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3768448&forum_id=2#34477301)



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Date: October 19th, 2017 2:45 AM
Author: Violent frum dilemma



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