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Wife gets depressed when looking at FB friends taking trips

our HHI is ~$300k and we save $7-8k/month in savings/investm...
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"thrown"
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scat play is diverse, ok
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ugh women and social media
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my facebook is just constant 24/7 binge travel. it doesnt ev...
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FB working exactly as designed Only real way to combat th...
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"we are going to come out at the end in a better positi...
Carnelian ticket booth
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idk, I'm just saying we'll have more money than her "fr...
Pungent Stubborn Meetinghouse Juggernaut
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Jokes on you you're "retirement" is gonna get rape...
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she’s more depressed that you don’t lavish her with gifts of...
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How often do you travel?
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0 these days post meeting husband and pre-babby, one big ...
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Lol yuuuge PROLE tell
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I’m a happy prole
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  10/23/17
Don’t you have any places in the world you want to see
spectacular organic girlfriend electric furnace
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sure, plenty - I am not chill enough to travel to those plac...
Misanthropic Emerald Mad-dog Skullcap Trump Supporter
  10/23/17
lol. women are so fucking retarded. how can it be that t...
Bistre jet-lagged house friendly grandma
  10/23/17
That's what gets me too. But some of them really do believe ...
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  10/23/17
lol
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I've discussed this before on the bort. Your message is corr...
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massive lascivious twinkling uncleanness
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LMAO at marriedmos holding "summits" so their wive...
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A rational discussion to set and refocus goals is good for e...
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(guy with a rational wife)
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It's good for both of us, brother.
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true. she does understand the importance of saving but just ...
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  10/23/17
Throw her a bone bro. Send her for a spa day or something. S...
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you can go on trips and have fun without spending that much ...
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Couldn't you add another trip? You're banking quite a bit ea...
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The key is to stay off social media.
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  10/23/17
this. it's designed to make you miserable
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*the Internet.
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:52 PM
Author: Pungent Stubborn Meetinghouse Juggernaut

our HHI is ~$300k and we save $7-8k/month in savings/investment/retirement funds. she sees her "friends" on FB poast pics of their lavish trips and she gets depressed. she says these friends don't really have great jobs or come from rich families, so why can they take these trips and we can't (we do take about one trip a year)? I tell her it's because we are going to come out at the end in a better position because of our savings. I'm not sure if this is cr advice to give and maybe we should just spend like her "friends" do, at least they are enjoying life more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509661)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:55 PM
Author: brindle seedy community account pocket flask

Remind her that several of them are literally having poop thrown on their chest by Saudi princes so they can take these trips

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509700)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:56 PM
Author: henna den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509704)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: rambunctious maroon library reading party



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509712)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM
Author: Sable Racy Cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510451)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: Marvelous Hateful Property Cuckoldry

"thrown"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510527)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:47 PM
Author: vivacious snowy persian potus

scat play is diverse, ok

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510574)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: massive lascivious twinkling uncleanness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510536)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:45 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal step-uncle's house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510563)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: rambunctious maroon library reading party



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509713)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: metal fat ankles

ugh women and social media

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509716)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM
Author: Talented Lake Dog Poop Karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510450)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:58 PM
Author: exciting apoplectic abode chad

my facebook is just constant 24/7 binge travel. it doesnt even look fun, but tbf im a straight man. once/year is more than enough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509722)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:59 PM
Author: Well-lubricated azure locus nibblets

FB working exactly as designed

Only real way to combat this is to keep fucking her all the time, even when you dont want to, and get her pregnant. Then, after babby, keep fucking her all the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509729)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:17 PM
Author: Carnelian ticket booth

"we are going to come out at the end in a better position"

what do you imagine is your end

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510387)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:19 PM
Author: Pungent Stubborn Meetinghouse Juggernaut

idk, I'm just saying we'll have more money than her "friends" when we're older and in a better position to retire comfortably relative to them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510399)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: flirting violent toaster

Jokes on you you're "retirement" is gonna get raped and pilaged to pay for the proles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510601)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:22 PM
Author: Misanthropic Emerald Mad-dog Skullcap Trump Supporter

she’s more depressed that you don’t lavish her with gifts of travel than that her friends are going places

she wishes you wanted to do those things with her, despite savings goals

she’s thinks other couples are happier than you two are

as another poaster noted: facebook doing just as intended — equating strategically shared snippets of life with reality

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510414)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:26 PM
Author: spectacular organic girlfriend electric furnace

How often do you travel?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510426)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:28 PM
Author: Misanthropic Emerald Mad-dog Skullcap Trump Supporter

0 these days

post meeting husband and pre-babby, one big trip and 3-4 long weekends to random cities in US each year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510447)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:30 PM
Author: spectacular organic girlfriend electric furnace

Lol yuuuge PROLE tell

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510458)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:31 PM
Author: Misanthropic Emerald Mad-dog Skullcap Trump Supporter

I’m a happy prole

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510463)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: Marvelous Hateful Property Cuckoldry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510534)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:44 PM
Author: spectacular organic girlfriend electric furnace

Don’t you have any places in the world you want to see

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510557)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:46 PM
Author: Misanthropic Emerald Mad-dog Skullcap Trump Supporter

sure, plenty - I am not chill enough to travel to those places with a baby/toddler, though

excited to take lots of trips with the kid when he’s older

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510572)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:24 PM
Author: Bistre jet-lagged house friendly grandma

lol.

women are so fucking retarded. how can it be that they know how to play the facebook game, but can't recognize when others are playing the same game?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510419)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:32 PM
Author: Sick Contagious Business Firm

That's what gets me too. But some of them really do believe that they're exaggerating and that everyone else is doing it naturally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510470)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: sadistic purple stage blood rage

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510611)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:39 PM
Author: dun alcoholic mexican

I've discussed this before on the bort. Your message is correct but make sure u present it persuasively. I work up spreadsheets on savings n investments, how much we'll have in x years, how much the 20k we'd blow on Somme safari would be worth in x years, and we hold regular summits to recommit to our shared savings goals.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510524)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:41 PM
Author: massive lascivious twinkling uncleanness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510540)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: sooty voyeur bawdyhouse

LMAO at marriedmos holding "summits" so their wives don't bankrupt them with their whims

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510548)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: dun alcoholic mexican

A rational discussion to set and refocus goals is good for everyone involved, including me. I could go cop an m5 tonight, no sweat. I'd love to. Having a shared plan that we are both responsible for helps me avoid agonizing over retarded shit like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510582)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: Anal Tank

(guy with a rational wife)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510549)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: dun alcoholic mexican

It's good for both of us, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510587)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: Pungent Stubborn Meetinghouse Juggernaut

true. she does understand the importance of saving but just hates how we worked so hard to get where we are today just to live the same type of lifestyle as her "friends" who haven't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510633)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:59 PM
Author: dun alcoholic mexican

Throw her a bone bro. Send her for a spa day or something. She can take some pics and it won't break the bank. Then get back to stacking cheddar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510665)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: translucent geriatric center

you can go on trips and have fun without spending that much money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510592)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:03 PM
Author: Misanthropic Emerald Mad-dog Skullcap Trump Supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510697)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: Sick Contagious Business Firm

Couldn't you add another trip? You're banking quite a bit each month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510604)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: sadistic purple stage blood rage

The key is to stay off social media.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510608)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:56 PM
Author: Slap-happy sneaky criminal prole



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510650)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: pearly exhilarant hospital place of business

this. it's designed to make you miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510653)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: vermilion cerebral old irish cottage dragon

*the Internet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510728)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:15 AM
Author: sienna self-centered generalized bond menage

This.

Wife is seeing everyone's highlight reel. Their life is (generally) no more exciting then hers.

My ex used to do this all the time, despite us going on many Vegas weekends, trips to Napa/Maui, etc. Nothing was ever enough for her to "compete" with her friends. She would get pissed when I didn't want to "compete" with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514655)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:09 AM
Author: Indigo Affirmative Action Orchestra Pit

yep, you will be able to bank all that money while grinding and not having fun when youre young, and hope that one of you dont beceome sick and die or unable to travle when you are 60-65 years old like that guy from UP :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514613)