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Q for bros who refuse to marry and have babby
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:41 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood How will you deal with most of your friends and acquaintances being married and having babby?
Even though I personally feel good about being unmarried and childless, I hate the fact that I am the overwhelming minority in most of my circles. Like it or not, it feels strange to be "different", to not adapt to social convention.
Heck, I have acquaintances who prefer to be in a shitty as fuck relationship than having no relationship at all.
It's a real pain to be in this position, society sucks balls.
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:33 AM Author: khaki aromatic incel Just lecture them on how they need to check that “marital privilege”. Youll get a column on huff post. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34532041) |
Date: October 25th, 2017 7:42 PM Author: wonderful mint volcanic crater field They'll be too busy with their families to care what you do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528322) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:56 PM Author: exhilarant turquoise state goyim toxic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528414) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:59 PM Author: wonderful mint volcanic crater field Not my intent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528426) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:03 PM Author: exhilarant turquoise state goyim it's cool i'll probably just get buried with my parents when the surviving parent dies. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528456) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:17 PM Author: wonderful mint volcanic crater field Boomers are increasingly demanding this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528525) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:34 PM Author: exhilarant turquoise state goyim how else could I pay down the debt i'll inherit? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528657) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:40 PM Author: wonderful mint volcanic crater field Good point. I'm taking an xo break. See you all in a few. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528704) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 10:14 PM Author: titillating bright market ding ding ding (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34529459) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:47 AM Author: chrome ticket booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530952) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:42 PM Author: dashing bearded plaza Met an MD like that at are bank today. He makes due with his millions of dollars I suppose. For the proles who do this...just killselves, bros. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528323) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:45 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood You mean proles should be married and have babby? Not getting your reasoning. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528341) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:46 PM Author: dashing bearded plaza Babby is a major, major comfort. For people who dont have millions of dollars it basically become the sole thing in life worth living for, bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528345) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:59 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood Babby is also a major major burden. A tiny monster that sucks up all your time, money and energy. But then again, some families feel so proud of having 4+ of those little monsters. As if each one were a work of art by them that they can feel proud of. Disgusting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528432) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:20 PM Author: comical property Have a kid and you won't care about any of that shit. And they aren't THAT expensive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528546) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:24 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood (Babby-haver) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528564) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:28 PM Author: comical property I have two. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528605) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:44 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead all of my friends already are married with kids except for one. what do you mean "how do I deal"? I just have a beer with them and say "how's things" and make funny faces at their kid or whatever. it isn't a big deal unless you make it one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528330) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:48 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood Are you single and childless? Do you attend celebrations and shit where you're the only single, childless person there? Yes, how do you feel. It's not about having a beer, it's about participating in events where you're the exception to the rule. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528360) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:49 PM Author: Curious hyperventilating rigpig It's not that big of a deal and if you're cool plenty of them are jealous of you
You will have to de depressed and alone for a few hours later, but then you'll wake up and do what the fuck you want instead of being owned by other people |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:05 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood They might be jealous of you when they get home and have to deal with their families and marriage. But at the event, they know they're pwning and you're losing. It's all about appearances. Even the shittiest family will pretend to be happy as fuck at social events. I've seen it happen. Cousin megapoasting everybody-happy family vacation on FB, divorcepwned 3 months later. Faked it till the last minute. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528462) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:07 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead is that what you want, to keep up appearances? it honestly means nothing to me. if it bothers you then you probably really do want the traditional family life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528473) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:12 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood It's not that I want to. I'd be happy if I had 2-3 friends or relatives in a similar situation. The thing is, I don't have even one ally. They're all into this bs. I stand out and it's annoying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528493) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:15 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead you have to stand on your own two feet if you're gonna do this. need to be comfortable alone or even prefer it. most men can't stomach the idea of not doing what the majority does. you won't find many allies. but like I said, as long as you're chill and irreverent in conversation, people don't really mind. if they detect that you're envious or bitter then they'll want to stay away. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528516) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:53 PM Author: Brass beta church Have you ever "been" with a woman before? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528804) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 9:06 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood So many I lost the count, are you an actual virgin? This isn't what the thread is about, in any event. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528937) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:50 AM Author: chrome ticket booth just wait for the divorces, then you'll have some guys to hang out with (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530958) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:51 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead Yes, and proud of it. There's the occasional doofus at work who will bring it up and try to make you feel small about it but it is ALWAYS some fat slob so I don't care. And even those guys, you just shrug it off and joke around with them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528381) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:44 PM Author: Curious hyperventilating rigpig Half of them will get life pwned with divorce, another 1/4 will be miserable and the happy few are really lame, awful people (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528332) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:45 PM Author: dashing bearded plaza TBF even the divorced one will have kids they can enjoy. You will have a cat who will eat your face after you die. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528343) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:47 PM Author: Curious hyperventilating rigpig Kids you don't live with seem like a realllly expensive cat
Anyway I do intend to be with somebody long term, the market is slim enough that I can hope to take kids and marriage off the table though. I'm very happy not dating a umc shrew |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:43 AM Author: Cyan jet-lagged laser beams principal's office this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530939) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:49 PM Author: sexy tanning salon Friends? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528364) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:53 PM Author: salmon heaven idiot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528395) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:56 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood I feel happier when I don't hang out with them, so no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528410) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:35 AM Author: lascivious sepia university (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531305) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:18 AM Author: Umber Pit Electric Furnace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531974) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:50 PM Author: federal aggressive black woman nobody has kids anymore. i think one of my friends from college just got his wife pregnant. he lives 3k miles away and started dating her like 13 years ago. then a jewish couple im friends with had a couple kids mid 20s and they live in cheap as fuck are country. thats about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528373) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:52 PM Author: Irradiated Messiness Yep. None of my successful, educated friends have kids. I do because I'm poor and dumb. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528385) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:52 PM Author: wonderful mint volcanic crater field Wonder who will get the last laugh lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528387) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:48 PM Author: brilliant excitant reading party do you actually have any successful, educated friends? they don't sound very successful, or you're like 25 or something. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528757) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:55 PM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus Not a concern of mine. I can get ample fulfillment in relative solitude and I do social stuff that doesn't require having a wife or children.
Getting married or having children simply to fit in is absurd and would simply result in bungling both of them. Better to do those for the right reasons or not at all. |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 7:57 PM Author: wonderful mint volcanic crater field "Right reasons[?]" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528416) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:19 PM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus Marry because you want to build a shared life with another person. Have children as part of that shared life, or as a fruit of your love for one another, or because you want to do your part to raise productive citizens who contribute to society, or because you think it fulfills a duty to God, or for whatever reason you think best. But don't fucking have them to fit in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528539) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:20 PM Author: amethyst sound barrier travel guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528540) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:25 PM Author: wonderful mint volcanic crater field It's just this type of overthinking that leads thoughtful fellows like yourself to delay or avoid having kids, to society's detriment. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528581) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:32 PM Author: ruby house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528633) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:33 PM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus Maybe, but tbh the only reason I'm not having kids is that I've never dated at all (an attitude I'm reconsidering). If I did date and found a good person, I'd probably marry relatively quickly (dating 3+ years before marrying is silly; if you're deliberately looking you should know within 16 months or so), and I'd have children sooner rather than later because XO's "u need 800k to have a kid" viewpoint is flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528650) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:35 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead his not having kids is a product of him being a thoughtful person. if he was like you then he wouldn't be Charles, he'd be just some guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528668) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:35 AM Author: brilliant excitant reading party yeah, come on charles. friend of mine is a nerdy, stodgy, ultra conservative catholic bro (even went to your UG). he's got a hot wife and five kids.
get after it man. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:42 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus Lucky him, I guess. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531090) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:43 AM Author: brilliant excitant reading party plenty of time, friend. hit the gym and try to be more social. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531100) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:55 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus I've gotten in dramatically better shape over the past couple years and that's still on an upward trajectory. Becoming more sociable is harder because that's a matter of basic personality.
Not actually sure I do have plenty of time, though. I feel like the people I'd wanna marry get snapped up fast or else become sad casualties of GC and the sexual revolution by the time they reach 25 or so. And frankly I am not sufficiently sociable, attractive, or chadly to swing some 21-year-old. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:02 AM Author: brilliant excitant reading party the time thing isn't as much of a problem since you're a guy. you can date mid-20s girls into your 30s comfortably, and (no matter what people on the bort tell you) not all girls are completely terrible. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531182) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:33 AM Author: Mauve exciting sex offender tank people need to do way more "overthinking." look at most people's lives (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34532037) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:36 AM Author: Rusted galvanic center (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34532046) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 9:35 AM Author: magical know-it-all feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34532409) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:00 AM Author: Citrine apoplectic boiling water theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530993) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:04 PM Author: flesh judgmental lay becky i know i'll eventually regret not having a kid. but i just can't afford to raise one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528458) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:07 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood Are you a lawyer? One kid should be affordable even with a totally average job. Look at all those Mexicans reproducing like rabbits on low-wage jobs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528472) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:20 PM Author: flesh judgmental lay becky i'm a former shitlawyer.
as an attorney i never made more than 60k in a year.
i absolutely hated the legal profession.
i tried teaching, but they only would pay me 37k, so i quit when i found out they wouldn't pay me more. it was also pure hell.
i tried a sales job, and i was really good at it, but they wanted people on the phone the entire day, every day, and i can't do that. so i quit, even though i performed very highly in a short period.
i then found another job that employs many former lawyers. it was probably the worst job of my life. i had to work at least 10 hours per day (in 2 separate shifts) and every single second was work. No breaks. No talking to anyone. No internet. I've never performed so much pure work in a job in my life. And any little mistake you were just reamed out. I was competent, and they were overexpanding and understaffed, so they kept piling more on me, and I finally broke down. You basically never even had a day off. Felt like it was your life. I still, when I fall asleep, dream I'm doing the job, and doing something wrong.
Anyway, so now I'm unemployed. And from prior experience, it could take quite a while to find something. Places aren't interested in hiring 37 year old former lawyers for non-law jobs; all the interviewers say they always dreamed about going to law school, and think there's something wrong with me that i'd do it, pass a hard bar, and then quit.
so babby can't happen. if i weren't crushed in law debt, it could. |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:30 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead what the fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528618) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:49 PM Author: brilliant excitant reading party see if you can still enlist in the air force (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528766) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:52 PM Author: flesh judgmental lay becky my eyesight, not flame, is -8.5
i think my life is some kind of cruel sims game where ppl laugh at me |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:47 AM Author: olive motley set nibblets get PRK (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530953) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:52 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood This sounds rough, man. If you ever need to talk drop me an email. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528800) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 9:02 PM Author: flesh judgmental lay becky ty. i appreciate that.
i'm trying to be hopeful.
it's been a week since i quit the latest horrific GC slave labor job. i'm starting to come around. trying to feel hopeful i'll find something better one of these days. |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 9:07 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood What's your email, bro? I've had similar job experiences, I'd like to hear your story if you don't mind. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528956) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 9:38 PM Author: flesh judgmental lay becky not doobs? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34529194) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 9:42 PM Author: flesh judgmental lay becky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34529222) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 10:24 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood Ty. Yes, doobs. Will email you nonstop until you have to cancel that email acct.
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Joke, no doobs. Ty |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 10:10 PM Author: Crystalline Corner Queen Of The Night i'm not trying to be a dick. but it sounds like you just have below average coping skills. an employer would be far more suspicious of the jumping around in multiple industries than just quitting a single one (law) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34529427) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:29 AM Author: flesh judgmental lay becky not a bad point. but i also have had several absolutely horrendous jobs that are notorious for people leaving in a very short period such as i did. the sales job, 2 other people left the week after i did. the most recent job, i hear the average is 6 months, which is how long i made it. one of my law jobs churns through associates all the time in under a year. teachers are notorious for bailing in months.
this isn't simply a case of me flapping my arms and flying away at any little pressure. i've had some really, really, really bad jobs. |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:11 PM Author: bearded misunderstood home pocket flask Why are you so concerned with what other people think of you? That’s a thing most people get over by the time they’re 21 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528485) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:17 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood This is very false, especially among families that are extremely socially conservative. My circles are way too conservative, no matter their age. One of my friends got pregnant and simply lived with her bf and kids. Then when the rest of the group began to get married, she resented it so much she threw a lavish as fuck wedding that cost her a shiton of money, already into her 30's and having lived with bf and babby for over 5 years. These are my circles, as shitty as they sound. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528523) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:11 PM Author: Appetizing dopamine prole Sure, "refuse," "friends," right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528486) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:29 PM Author: Aquamarine Talented Rigor Theater Childfreemo here. Life without babby is lived purely according to what I want to do at any given moment. And it's 180. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528613) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:32 PM Author: Cordovan indecent keepsake machete going to imitate my uncle who is 91 childless and no married; dude gave a toast to my brother at his engagement party, "After you get married tomorrow, I'll be having more sex than you." Brother admitted he was right, he owns 3 homes, walks 4 miles a day (in great health) and scores with widows lookin for dat silver fox; told me his wish is to die in the middle of sex but he's actually high IQ too, speaks 5 different languages and was a spy during the Korean war; probably one of the few Americans who has been in North Korea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528634) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:37 PM Author: Aquamarine Talented Rigor Theater 1-8-0 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528688) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 8:39 PM Author: Cordovan indecent keepsake machete to be fair, he could very well have kids somewhere (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528702) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:43 PM Author: Aquamarine Talented Rigor Theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538267) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 9:08 PM Author: ruby house your uncle is cooler than a polar bear's toenail (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34528973) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 9:31 AM Author: Cordovan indecent keepsake machete what do you call a chad from the silent generation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34532365) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 11:49 PM Author: Charismatic Angry Address never married? Damn, sounds CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530135) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:23 PM Author: Cordovan indecent keepsake machete he lived with a woman in France for 8 months; said he wanted to blow his brains out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538072) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 9:45 PM Author: Offensive stirring range fortuitous meteor what a weird womanly question. why would you outsource the direction of your life to what you think other acquaintances might be thinking of you? jesus christ. have some independent spirit and do as you wish. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34529248) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:55 AM Author: chrome ticket booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530980) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:03 PM Author: Cordovan indecent keepsake machete (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34537902) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 9:54 PM Author: Passionate institution must read
https://aeon.co/essays/having-children-is-not-life-affirming-its-immoral |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 10:12 PM Author: Crystalline Corner Queen Of The Night seems to me you can't rationally decide to not have kids and not become comfortable with this fact. that's life; most people will have families/babbies. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34529448) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 10:32 PM Author: floppy fanboi I've been an isolated pariah my entire life so this won't be a huge departure (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34529580) |
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Date: October 25th, 2017 11:56 PM Author: arrogant fiercely-loyal school cafeteria Unmarried guys in their mid-late 30s seem to be regarded as either losers or gay.
So if I were you I would embrace gay and download grindr. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:17 AM Author: Blue mildly autistic weed whacker box office I don't mind people thinking I'm gay, as long as they don't think I'm a loser
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Date: October 26th, 2017 12:08 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell I don't refuse, but it seems less and less likely as time goes on. Seems like a lot of people my age don't want kids either, so just find a MGTOW community I guess? Keep poasting, fuck the innumerable shrew women who fucked up and can't/won't reproduce or marry, poast on xo, eat myself to death, etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530276) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:04 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell oh and modern tech will probably just let us thrive in some VR paradise anyway so whatever. Gonna make Asuna my waifu (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530725) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:22 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus This sounds suboptimal, friend. Being unmarried is no reason to embrace one's baser instincts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530827) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:35 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell That's true. There is scholarship to pursue. But I'm a horribly insecure manchild and don't know how I'd avoid such a spiral into depravity without pursuing having a family (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530901) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:35 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus Virtue is the project of a lifetime, friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530905) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:36 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell I don't even know what virtue is anymore (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530908) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:38 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus We can quibble over the details, but hopefully we can agree that smashing interchangeable throwaway shrews and gorging oneself to death is not virtuous. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530917) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:40 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell indeed, indeed which era of history should I start learning about for funsies |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:46 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus Whatever you want, man. Personally I feel like French history gets shafted a lot in the popular consciousness (especially outside French Revolution/Napoleon). Pick just about any era and something crazy is going on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530948) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:02 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell I was thinking maybe ancient Rome, or the dark ages (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530998) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:09 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy space potus Ancient Rome is 180 if you haven't read much on it yet. If you know nothing just get some very basic history (hell, even something like this: https://www.amazon.com/Historical-Atlas-Classical-World-500/dp/076071973X ) and just find periods that interest you where you want to learn more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531027) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:16 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell I still have remnant vignettes from like 7th through 10th grade (and then AP American history), fall of Rome and dark ages intrigue me so that book looks like a good start, tyty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531037) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:40 AM Author: Cyan jet-lagged laser beams principal's office I'm 30+ and most of my friends aren't married (or even in serious relationships) so it's not really an issue for me. I also live in a large city where finding single people, even those in the 30s/40s, to hang out with is pretty easy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530928) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:42 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell but what will you do in 10, 20 years as everyone recedes into solitude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34530936) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:56 AM Author: Cyan jet-lagged laser beams principal's office If you live in a large city, you'll come to realize that there are always people who are single...whether it's because they've just never been married, are divorced, etc. It's not the same as being in some random suburb or are country.
Also, it doesn't seem like most of my friends are marriage-minded so my guess is that a good percentage of them will still be single even 10-20 yrs from now. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:04 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell you'll just keep meeting up with your bros till you die? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531003) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:17 AM Author: Cyan jet-lagged laser beams principal's office Yes, why wouldn't I? Big city living is much different than suburban/are country living where people gravitate towards traditional values/lifestyles. My metro area has at least 5 million people, so at any given time, there's going to be at least 100k+ 30/40/50/60 yr old folks who are not married.
Worrying about not finding people to hang out with in the coming years isn't even a concern of mine and should really only be a concern for those who plan on carving out a life in suburbia or a rural town. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:20 AM Author: Blue mildly autistic weed whacker box office Just become a regular at 1-2 bars and join a country club. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531048) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:24 AM Author: transparent dysfunction hell I guess so, I guess so (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34531057) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:05 AM Author: Chest-beating Emerald School The Saudi thing is a useful cover.
"I just can't find an American woman who wants to come here hehehehehehe" as the Sickly Family rolls their eyes in the background |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 12:29 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34533630) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:05 PM Author: Mauve exciting sex offender tank "friends" lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34537919) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:09 PM Author: bipolar national security agency stock car how old are you? deep down, I wish to be that way, but society and so many pressures push me in the opposite (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34537957) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:13 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood 30s
You mean you are getting married / are married due to social convention? This is what other poasters claim they don't give a shit about. |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:33 PM Author: bipolar national security agency stock car I am unmarried but in an LTR. It seems some posters care and others don't. I romanticize being able to just live my life without a nagging woman and all the trouble of relationships, but I always find myself getting snagged back into one. I am a good beta provider--or at the least, I am a good boyfriend, so it's not that I fuck a ton of hot chicks and love it. I just eventually get a 6 or 7 (debatable) ready to "settle down" and every couple of years it's a new gf. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538163) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:22 PM Author: Fishy infuriating national place of business It is difficult for a guy making 100-250k consistently for a career to pull this off, unless physician. The BS pressure to fit in as a family man is too present for any straight guy. Those who want to advance will join the club. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538063) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:27 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood So how come about 4 poasters ITT claim it's all stupid bs and they can easily fit in at family gatherings despite being the only single ones? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538108) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:30 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead it is BS, guys who claim this are just ones who gave in to pressure and want to drag others down with them. they are a dime a dozen. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538133) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:33 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood Wait, who are the retards of the story? Marriedmos or singlemos? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538155) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:34 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead we're all retards on this Earth. The question is, do you want to create more retards? I know I don't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538165) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:34 PM Author: bipolar national security agency stock car that implies there are a ton of single dudes out there in that situation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538171) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:37 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead I meant that marrieds who claim you can't "advance" unless you're a family man are just weak-willed and will passive-aggressively try to sway you into their reality. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538202) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:40 PM Author: Fishy infuriating national place of business Wrong. A guy trying to do this in late 30s/early 40s who is not Chad, not divorced, or whose wife didn't die in a plane crash, comes off as weird and unsettled to everyone around him. If Chad, sure NBD, he's a "player". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538237) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:41 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead you only come across as weird if you behave weirdly or have no social graces or charisma. otherwise, nobody gives a fuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538250) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:46 PM Author: Fishy infuriating national place of business Nah. People become skeptical of even the older single Chad types in a normal workplace, much less the non-Chad who has good jokes. They can have normal convos, do cool things, sound cool, date, but they are still the dood who never could settle down. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538303) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 10:47 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead god forbid a bunch of wagecucks should become 'skeptical' of me, don't know how I'd go on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538316) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 11:32 PM Author: Fishy infuriating national place of business This is easy to say at 28. Much more difficult at 42 to 58 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538686) |
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Date: October 26th, 2017 11:37 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood By then he'll be close to retirement, why should he care what those wagecucks think? Just imagine him asking a random woman to marry him so that his wagecuck colleagues can see him as belonging and fitting in. LJL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34538734) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 4:12 PM Author: primrose juggernaut stead If you say so champ. I'll take whatever comes my way with a shit-eating smirk. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34543567) |
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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:37 PM Author: Sable step-uncle's house mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774590&forum_id=2#34542573) |