My wife INSISTED on moving to Southern California for a job ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
What did she see on the nanny cam?	arrogant deranged ape	10/26/17
Babby crying and nanny ignoring her while talking on the pho...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Unfortunately nannies texting and ignoring baby is almost th...	cordovan house	10/26/17
lol yep, of course your decision to dump your kid with a min...	shivering set	10/26/17
24 year old white woman with a college degree in child devel...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
pics?	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
Don't have any, but she is a bubbly blonde with an 8 face th...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
probably should just keep her around	shivering set	10/26/17
...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
Divorce wife immediately, get custody of child, shack up wit...	Disrespectful really tough guy	10/26/17
Lol and pay child support?	wonderful iridescent nursing home	10/26/17
he's going to pay either way. he should have divorced while ...	Disrespectful really tough guy	10/26/17
...	Spectacular juggernaut trailer park	10/26/17
Nah state mandated guidelines are 4:1 ratio and I pay for wh...	cordovan house	10/26/17
after 1, part time away at a nursery is ideal for most kids....	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
lol every shrew mom rationalizes dumping their kid with tran...	shivering set	10/26/17
Again, I had a choice. My mom was fine watching him 5 days/...	cordovan house	10/26/17
if my only other choice was being around you or your mom i'd...	shivering set	10/26/17
Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking shit on ...	cordovan house	10/26/17
"Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking sh...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
True. It’s my goal to raise him not to become one.	cordovan house	10/26/17
Nightmare on XOXO: My Son is a Pumo!	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
"You think that's bad, mine is a quotemo!"	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
*pan to Maury audience members shaking heads in dismay*	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
TMF and MND's half-retarded kid walks out, Montell calls in ...	excitant stag film	10/31/17
go ahead and make little nutelliot an account on r/hapas	big place of business meetinghouse	10/26/17
Instead you will school him in the art of only using pumos t...	sapphire organic girlfriend	10/26/17
Nutelliot, this is how you sock-puppet	Chartreuse sanctuary idiot	10/26/17
"No son, those people are haters, and they are #neverwi...	sapphire organic girlfriend	10/26/17
Don't you also use pumos to sock puppet? So in addition bei...	shivering set	10/26/17
...	big place of business meetinghouse	10/26/17
in this particular case i'm not sure babby isn't BENEFITING ...	violet church	10/27/17
LMAO, never not obsessively trolling for the way you choose ...	sapphire organic girlfriend	10/26/17
>I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit. ...	Adventurous depressive hall	10/27/17
"I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit...	excitant stag film	10/31/17
i think he meant per month.	Supple crimson internal respiration locus	10/31/17
lmao never change xo, "wife sees nanny being shitty, ta...	excitant stag film	10/31/17
how many kids you planning?	stirring unhinged hospital	10/26/17
After this bullshit, I don't think I am going to double down...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
the investment obviously becomes better with MORE kids, wors...	stirring unhinged hospital	10/26/17
It becomes more expensive to have two kids when you are divo...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
true, but then just hie to a country that isnt shiTTT	stirring unhinged hospital	10/26/17
This isn't a real option for 99% of white people.	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Don't want my kid(s) to grow up without a dad.	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
oh they'll have a dad alright. lots and lots of "dads&...	exhilarant indian lodge	10/26/17
...	Ivory Property	10/26/17
lol at your kids being raised with only one tiny pink pe...	stirring unhinged hospital	10/26/17
cr, OP's kids will have a "darker" perspective.	abnormal arousing party of the first part temple	10/26/17
...	erotic people who are hurt	12/19/17
move back	narrow-minded step-uncle's house generalized bond	10/26/17
the only cr	Bat Shit Crazy Police Squad Doctorate	10/26/17
I just got a new job here and don't think I can get my old j...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
on 2nd thought congrats on escaping Austin	Bat Shit Crazy Police Squad Doctorate	10/26/17
LOL. Fuck that over-hyped humid shithole	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Better than SoCal	Ivory Property	10/26/17
IDK about that. I am not in tech and got a better job here. ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
You can get a nice 1br in a safe part of Austin for $1k 20 m...	Ivory Property	10/26/17
Where are you talking about living? Right by Round Rock?	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
From the 45 to the 103. South of there until downtown prices...	Ivory Property	10/26/17
http://www.bestplaces.net/cost-of-living/los-angeles-ca/aust...	Ivory Property	10/26/17
Give her your resume and email password, and tell her she ne...	indecent demanding lodge prole	10/26/17
LOL	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
You the guy who occasionally poasts about regretting moving ...	arrogant deranged ape	10/26/17
Yeah	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
You guys need to have a serious discussion about making deci...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
No shit. She is incredibly impulsive and makes rash decision...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Try speaking to her in a somewhat more stereotypically femal...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
what's the game plan? to get her to go back to work or to ge...	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
Those are short-term, surface problems. I think the bigger ...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
Yea agreed.	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
lol, talk about things that will never happen.	Chartreuse sanctuary idiot	10/26/17
Well, maybe. Can't know until you seriously try, though.	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
...	Supple crimson internal respiration locus	10/31/17
...	Chartreuse sanctuary idiot	11/14/17
(guy who thinks his wife would never impulsively divorce him...	Geriatric kitty	10/27/17
Congrats. Having a true SAHM will be awesome. You should ...	Electric Carmine Bawdyhouse	10/26/17
*spits out coffee* tyft. OP, your workload will manage...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Cr. I have reconciled myself to living in filth.	exhilarant indian lodge	10/26/17
lmao	Thriller costumed orchestra pit personal credit line	10/26/17
Is this from a 1932 NYT column?	topaz aphrodisiac faggot firefighter theater stage	10/26/17
You don't even have to go back that far.	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Sadly true	exciting parlour	10/26/17
...	Amber University	10/26/17
lol	exhilarant indian lodge	10/26/17
...	Ivory Property	10/26/17
LMAO. She will be shoving our daughter in my face at 6:00 sa...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Bix44C1EzY	insane mexican	10/26/17
...	topaz aphrodisiac faggot firefighter theater stage	10/26/17
she handles the money? how do you know you can trust her?	stirring unhinged hospital	10/26/17
I handle the money. Everything goes on charge cards where I ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
lol	shivering set	10/26/17
...	harsh olive marketing idea	10/26/17
<>	aromatic gold karate	10/26/17
180 poast	scarlet cruise ship feces	10/26/17
I was thinking of this thread last night as I sat in my easy...	exhilarant indian lodge	10/27/17
OUT the foreign language	violet church	10/27/17
...	Supple crimson internal respiration locus	10/31/17
wasn't she a doctor? i think the writers are getting a littl...	violet church	10/26/17
She is a doctor. TBF, she is proposing working one day a wee...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
6k net or gross? If net, that’s awesome and go for it. I...	cordovan house	10/26/17
Gross. She doesn't want to do it long-term. But it will like...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
I think it’s obvious she needs to stop unilaterally make dec...	cordovan house	10/26/17
Yes, this is 100% correct. She is a 100% emotion-driven deci...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
hope she’s not a surgeon	Concupiscible rigor	10/26/17
She is in a BS lifestyle specialty	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
stop talking shit about neurology	Self-absorbed Wagecucks	10/26/17
Sounds like doctor material to me.	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
This is why educating women is wasteful	Ivory Property	10/26/17
...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
...	curious area	10/26/17
...	Mind-boggling fiercely-loyal plaza circlehead	10/26/17
*gets out calculator* *types some numbers* "That's ...	stirring unhinged hospital	10/26/17
...	exciting parlour	10/26/17
Unless you make $30K/month, you should be the SAHM.	Azure new version yarmulke	10/26/17
We shouldn't be here is my point. Our baby could be taken ca...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Medicine is literally the definition of a job that can be do...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
Yeah, but the market is weird. You can make tons more in Tex...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Not really, depending on specialty	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
This is quite a twist	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
...	insanely creepy orchid church building partner	10/26/17
move to omaha bro	trip scourge upon the earth goyim	10/26/17
I told her that was what we needed to do before the baby. We...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
:( your son could've been a future Millard North standout	trip scourge upon the earth goyim	10/26/17
Creighton Prep standout actually	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Uh wut....she can’t just unilaterally decide to quit. she’s...	cordovan house	10/26/17
why is SGV hell isn't there good food and schools	violet church	10/26/17
It's hot there and OP is white.	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Yeah, this is no place for people like me	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Good food, but terrible weather and awful suburban sprawl. ...	cordovan house	10/26/17
ted H turned out just fine. after grinding at AZN high i'd ...	violet church	10/27/17
...	Mind-boggling fiercely-loyal plaza circlehead	10/26/17
LOL @ moving for the woman's job opportunity jfc	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
Marriage is insane	Purple heady library hissy fit	10/26/17
...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Marriage is insane if you let it get insane	hairless glassy telephone senate	10/26/17
There's two people in every marriage bro. I mean, congrats i...	Purple heady library hissy fit	10/26/17
Yeah, I am in a living nightmare	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Avoiding complete insanity isn’t that difficult if you watch...	Chartreuse sanctuary idiot	10/26/17
Marriage is insane if you marry the wrong person or for the ...	cordovan house	10/26/17
Sure, but (1) that's often only apparent in retrospect, plus...	Purple heady library hissy fit	10/26/17
Nah there are always warning signs before marriage but peopl...	cordovan house	10/26/17
Why You Won’t Be the Person You Expect to Be You Won’t Stay...	Purple heady library hissy fit	10/26/17
Yes people change over time, priorities change, different li...	cordovan house	10/26/17
agreed. i remember when my first friend from high school ...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
To be fair, I was talking more about priorities than persona...	Purple heady library hissy fit	10/26/17
I was a better and smarter person overall before 21, but inc...	violet church	10/27/17
Can confirm. I am late thirties now and she is in her early ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
It's cognitive bias. You see it now so clearly but if it wor...	Purple heady library hissy fit	10/26/17
Probably CR...but I was infatuated with her, lonely and afra...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Having been married to a 180 wife for over ten years, I am s...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
agree with this like 95% - for the most part the pre-marriag...	Concupiscible rigor	10/26/17
"People don’t fundamentally change past early-mid 20s.&...	sapphire organic girlfriend	10/26/17
...	vibrant coldplay fan	10/27/17
If find that there are two kinds of people who give this adv...	house-broken mauve useless brakes	10/26/17
I'm actually on board with Nutella's point here.	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
Yes, because you're perfectly content as a marriedmo. People...	sapphire organic girlfriend	10/26/17
As I've stated elsewhere in this thread, "marriage"...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
cr A good marriage is great.	scarlet cruise ship feces	10/26/17
Does anyone dispute this? You guys are so hilariously de...	sapphire organic girlfriend	10/27/17
i sure hope her legal advice is better than this	violet church	10/27/17
...	Supple crimson internal respiration locus	10/31/17
No, this is the ego-fed view of it, amounts to no more than ...	sapphire organic girlfriend	10/27/17
...	erotic people who are hurt	11/22/17
Something to be concerned about is when she decides in 2 wee...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
"it's exhausting, no breaks, etc." I LOLed.	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
I LOLed at this once, too, IRL. I learned to never LOL at i...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Isn't the kid sleeping 15 hours per day?	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
yeah, she is sleeping right now. She sleeps all the damn tim...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Throw all of this out the window and repeat: There is nothi...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Lol you work from home. You should know how exhausting it i...	cordovan house	10/26/17
I'm exaggerating slightly. My wife is (mostly) level-headed...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
dealing with only one baby is basically a vacation	shivering set	10/26/17
There are some women who are laid back and would just laugh ...	Purple heady library hissy fit	10/26/17
I told her that last night. And now we are stuck in a lease ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Lmao so much to unpack here. She caused you guys to move ...	Mind-boggling fiercely-loyal plaza circlehead	10/26/17
Correct on all accounts. We moved this summer a month before...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Whoa, she dumped her OBGYN in the last MONTH of pregnancy? A...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
It has been a nightmare brother. Her mom died recently and s...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
That should've caused alarm bells to ring in your head befor...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
Yeah, they were going off but she was pregnant	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
But you needed to get that last raw pump in, right?	dun box office indirect expression	10/26/17
lolwtf? You moved a month before the baby was due? You g...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
*impossible	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Kids need their mom. You shouldnt have got her pregnant if a...	Appetizing Apoplectic Business Firm	10/26/17
...	Ivory Property	10/26/17
For the third month in a row, prospective homebuyers in Los ...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
Lol at any home in LA for $575k being worth buying	Purple heady library hissy fit	10/26/17
Yea that's just median. Most neighborhoods are bad. Most pla...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
Hey dickhead, I was fine with her being a SAHM. I was not fi...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Didn't she want to go to the beach and stuff as one of her r...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
LMAO. We have gone twice and it has been a fucking nightmare...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Aren’t all the beaches just filled with mexis now?	Ivory Property	10/26/17
Yeah, they are pure trash. Disgusting.	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
...	Mind-boggling fiercely-loyal plaza circlehead	10/26/17
If the move was such a bad idea then why did you agree to it...	Lemon Hominid Address	10/26/17
medicine pwns law so she has authority to cuck him at all ti...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
Harsh, but fair. I am not a lawyer, but have a good job and ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
and now both of you are totally unhappy. thanks, feminism...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
As a doctor, if maximizing income were the goal, you’d move ...	cordovan house	10/26/17
"So we have an irrational, emotion-driven woman making ...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
Well, maybe now that she wants to quit that won't be the tru...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
Only silver lining here...the relocation decision is going t...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
I'm sympathetic to the notion that family decisions should a...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
Are both your families from the same area (Omaha?) Take your...	arrogant deranged ape	10/26/17
Are her parents rich? How can you just toss a MD into the ga...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
...	Mind-boggling fiercely-loyal plaza circlehead	10/26/17
Does seem a little hasty. If they move near family, she can ...	arrogant deranged ape	10/26/17
"she can transition to full time work if she wants"...	hairless glassy telephone senate	10/27/17
MD is paid off, she has no loans. She could work part-time a...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Good Lord.	curious area	10/26/17
man, we all warned you about this	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
Yeah, I have myself 100% to blame unfortunately.	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
:( we feel for you breh	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
wow	Mind-boggling fiercely-loyal plaza circlehead	10/26/17
Think of the alimony payment OP will be getting soon	frozen vigorous gaming laptop	10/26/17
I think Thunder Collins needs to have a little chat with dir...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
...	seedy contagious brunch queen of the night	10/31/17
She is from the East coast and has two brothers in Atlanta. ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
She won't consider Omaha because she thinks it is prole and ...	arrogant deranged ape	10/26/17
It's also "his" and not "hers" and the l...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
Bingo. She would be "sacrificing" for me and would...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
I once floated the idea of moving back to Buffalo (my hometo...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Yeah, it sucks. I really wanted to move to Denver because I ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Has she even seen Mork & Mindy?	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
I dunno, Buffalo is pretty bad. Denver sounds great though.	cordovan house	10/26/17
I NO RIKE A BUFFARO	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
I no rearry rike a buffaro either, tbf, but being hugged by ...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Staying here worked out but by pure luck. Buffalo would h...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
It's also complete shit. lol at living in Omaha	histrionic ruddy digit ratio	10/26/17
I am pretty easy about where I live. Lincoln seems like it w...	arrogant deranged ape	10/26/17
It is not bad at all, especially if you have family/friends ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
she can re-enter easily in medicine no? don't let it get to...	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
Man this shit is T*O*X*I*C	curious area	10/26/17
Agreed, let my life be a warning to others	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
XO: Hey Charles get off your ass and try to get a wife. A...	curious area	10/26/17
don't trust any chick to keep her job after form babby unles...	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
Just do marry a woman of childbearing age who also makes at ...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
or just don't need an extra paycheck. or just REALLY need th...	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
tbh I have no expectation that my wife actually make substan...	curious area	10/26/17
fwiw, not all women are like that. and a lot of women once t...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
OFS, I'm not a lunatic "all women suck" MGTOW, but...	curious area	10/26/17
I can do it for you. I'm really good at stuff like this.	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
...	Concupiscible rigor	10/26/17
LOL, noted. Will CharlesXII's future wife be able to pass *T...	curious area	10/26/17
She is totally irrational Charles. Purely emotion driven and...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Now you know how libs feel about Trump!	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
CharelsXII, You are doing the right thing by being select...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
...	Concupiscible rigor	10/26/17
Thank. Tips for finding the right life partner and evalua...	curious area	10/26/17
I got nothing for you there. My wife and I fell in love in ...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
What type were you looking for and how does she not match th...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
I had recently broken up with a good-girl religious type and...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
what happened in the interim breakups? would you say 40-50x?	violet church	10/27/17
Will make a suitable mother. Not all women (and not all goo...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
I'll co-sign some of this, but I think prioritizing similari...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
I dunno, the crazy ass women I know who drive their husbands...	cordovan house	10/26/17
You'll never hear me advise anyone to get married. As far a...	house-broken mauve useless brakes	10/26/17
ouch	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
His wife is a 9, too.	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
My wife's pregnancy tits are the most amazing things I've ev...	house-broken mauve useless brakes	10/26/17
ungh, pics?	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
...	Supple crimson internal respiration locus	10/31/17
Maybe for you. For me it's making me appreciate my life. A...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
I mean, same here. My life is pretty 180 right now. It's tox...	curious area	10/26/17
It's impossible to judge "marriage." You can only...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
Proof ITT that MD pwns JD or whatever OP's toilet degree is....	Duck-like sick incel native	10/26/17
MBA, definitely true.	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
eh, it does in some ways, but not in others.	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
(Rowan)	Duck-like sick incel native	10/26/17
...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
Can you just not practice law for 5 years then easily slide ...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
i know women who can slide back into say $150k a year jobs. ...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
you don't understand the upper end of MD	big place of business meetinghouse	10/26/17
well then explain it to me, and then we can compare.	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
All those fancy finance jobs lost in the recession never cam...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
MD definitely has certain advantages, i take no issue with t...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
Tommy Turd did it But women who transition from biglaw as...	vivacious grizzly rehab	10/26/17
A contrarian viewpoint: Feel blessed that he has strong p...	orange cruel-hearted boiling water reading party	10/26/17
Moving and changing OBGYNs in month 8 is ridiculous and nega...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
She just had a kid. Both her brain chemistry and life priori...	orange cruel-hearted boiling water reading party	10/26/17
She can't take FMLA because she just started the job.	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
The she should ask for a few weeks off work using PTO. Or yo...	orange cruel-hearted boiling water reading party	10/26/17
She has one day of PTO and I just started my job and have li...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
You should take this as a blessing in disguise and run for L...	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
cr, maybe some good can be made of this. Still, he'd have...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
they'd trade 1.5M shitbox for 500K mcmansion potentially. th...	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
I am not moving now. It makes no sense. In 9 months or so wh...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
So move in 9 months. You have the option to correct that mis...	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
twist: the nanny cam is a time machine and was recording you...	big place of business meetinghouse	10/26/17
summon: Charles now *this* is toxic	Concupiscible rigor	10/26/17
...	abnormal arousing party of the first part temple	10/26/17
...	Plum sadistic locale	10/27/17
real talk: in OP's wife's mind, she settled for OP. he's a b...	Cerebral tantric range trust fund	10/26/17
Oh fuck off bro. You don't know me. I have a good job and ma...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Describe what she did in past relationships.	curious area	10/26/17
"The difference is they cut her loose when she acted th...	Duck-like sick incel native	10/26/17
The toxicity is out of control ITT.	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
...	Concupiscible rigor	10/26/17
Update: She found a job paying $200K a year where she would ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Chances she decides within 6 months that "I can't handl...	curious area	10/26/17
100%	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
roflmao holy shit what an incredibly alpha woman. What's her...	Duck-like sick incel native	10/26/17
I'm sorry, dude. Jesus.	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
LOL your big problem is you let her moved y'all to Cali not ...	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
OP is literally a white man who moved to SGB. not sure why x...	big place of business meetinghouse	10/26/17
Those of us who aren't from CA can't even comprehend what ce...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
I had no idea. It was the logical midpoint between our jobs ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Wtf that’s weird since weekends are the only time you can sp...	cordovan house	10/26/17
i'm just gonna leave this here for the OP https://www.red...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
We never have sex anymore. I am already in a dead bedroom ma...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Yeah it’s not a good sign that they’re not hat day into marr...	cordovan house	10/26/17
Apparently. She just said it won't be every weekend, but mos...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
"The difference is they cut her loose when she acted th...	Cerebral tantric range trust fund	10/26/17
...	Ivory Property	10/26/17
Why is this thread so long wtf is going on	Floppy Forum	10/26/17
XO making a heroic effort to keep me on the path of celibacy...	curious area	10/26/17
...	seedy contagious brunch queen of the night	10/26/17
a woman other than spaceporn's wife FUCKED UP BIG TIME	Concupiscible rigor	10/26/17
What's the tldr here I thought we liked SAHMs	Floppy Forum	10/26/17
man lacks control over life	magenta offensive halford crackhouse	10/26/17
Not when they force you to move to a high COL hellscape for ...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
lol, cr. OP sounds like he'd be pretty flexible so long a...	razzmatazz spot bbw	10/26/17
Having your wife turn on you right after birth to extract ma...	provocative school cafeteria	10/26/17
Agreed, cliffs pls	frozen vigorous gaming laptop	10/26/17
terrified this will happen to me once kid arrives in january	multi-colored national security agency	10/26/17
lulzy as fuck thread.	beady-eyed striped hyena theatre	10/26/17
nothing to add except my sympathy	talented giraffe round eye	10/26/17
TY	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
So if there is a lesson to be learned here, (1) don't marry ...	Plum sadistic locale	10/26/17
I think you've got to insert "if you do marry a crazy w...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
JFC this thread	frozen vigorous gaming laptop	10/26/17
Sorry for your pain OP but this is a fun thread. Do you stil...	maize soul-stirring stage	10/26/17
Yeah, but this has been unbelievably difficult. There is mor...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Damn, that sucks man. Elaborate?	curious area	10/26/17
in a meeting while simultaneously feeding baby...will elabor...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Details: She routinely threatens divorce and has said she wi...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Dude... :(	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
I know. I don't know WTF to do. It is awful. This would be a...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
This is not going to end well. The milk is sour. You don't p...	abusive mildly autistic tanning salon death wish	10/26/17
This might be the best option objectively and you've seen mo...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
She's been making his life a living hell. He doesn't even fu...	abusive mildly autistic tanning salon death wish	10/26/17
Is there someone other than you that she trusts that could a...	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
You probably have to keep your head down for a few months an...	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
...	exhilarant indian lodge	10/27/17
lol	tan shrine	11/14/17
? how is her life stressful...wtf	vivacious grizzly rehab	10/26/17
Mom just died and went through a nasty dispute with her brot...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Holy shit she's going through so much and here you are blami...	Duck-like sick incel native	10/26/17
We are both stuck in a nightmarish situation. I love her an ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
My condolences, brother. I've been there, too. For a while a...	Duck-like sick incel native	10/26/17
I am trying to get her into therapy and on mood stabilizing ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
why the fuck would you agree to the move? grow some balls an...	Lake Den	10/26/17
Yeah, she is definitely treating me that way. There is no pa...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
SAHM is just the symptom. At the core the real issues are th...	Lake Den	10/26/17
lol at having "a talk". I'm gonna be blunt with...	beady-eyed striped hyena theatre	10/26/17
damn lol	Mind-boggling fiercely-loyal plaza circlehead	10/27/17
she sounds like she made some poor life choices, but her lif...	vivacious grizzly rehab	10/26/17
She freely admits she has zero desire to be a doctor	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Jesus, is this the best flame thread ever?	Self-centered Odious Mediation	10/26/17
Mr Wubby / hot little sister one is GOAT flame thread.	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
wtf are you talking about? that thread said NOT FLAME, and h...	violet church	10/27/17
?	seedy contagious brunch queen of the night	10/31/17
I wish	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
If it's flame it's been building for a while because TC has ...	curious area	10/26/17
Bro, if she ever initiates the divorce, you will 100% get DV...	abusive mildly autistic tanning salon death wish	10/26/17
She will absolutely lie and try to destroy me. There is no q...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Bro, the best thing you can do is hit record on your phone i...	abusive mildly autistic tanning salon death wish	10/26/17
OP: CA is a dual consent state.	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Not many people know this, but you cannot use an illegal rec...	abusive mildly autistic tanning salon death wish	10/26/17
Do you miss practicing this at all?	Saffron buck-toothed background story corner	10/26/17
Yeah, man, every day.	abusive mildly autistic tanning salon death wish	10/26/17
TITMFCR	seedy contagious brunch queen of the night	10/26/17
...	beady-eyed striped hyena theatre	10/26/17
You're doing God's work in this thread, brother	Plum sadistic locale	10/27/17
...	Supple crimson internal respiration locus	10/31/17
You should seek to have her hospitalized before she kills yo...	Crawly Quadroon	10/26/17
She would never harm our kid	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
She clearly needs DAT LITHIUM and refusal to take such thing...	Crawly Quadroon	10/26/17
(Rusty Yates)	curious area	10/26/17
...	Crawly Quadroon	10/26/17
I still hope this is all flame but if it is I've got to tip ...	Plum sadistic locale	10/27/17
Didn't you mention previously your wife was azn? Also, di...	Disrespectful really tough guy	10/26/17
No, she is white. Yes, I saw red flags before marriage, but ...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Wait, did you rush into marriage because you knocked her up?...	curious area	10/26/17
Yes	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
How long were you with her before? And simply because it ...	curious area	10/26/17
We dated for a year before we got married and had like a 4-5...	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
Lmao cot Damn I'm sorry man. She hooked you when you were vu...	Disrespectful really tough guy	10/27/17
"wanted to get marriied and have a family too." ...	big place of business meetinghouse	10/27/17
My life is a cautionary tale.	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
I choose to believe that OP is flame.	Lascivious impertinent crotch cumskin	10/26/17
Life is dark. This is not flame. I really fucked my life up.	Diverse awkward point	10/26/17
363 POASTS - awesome trigger topic	scarlet cruise ship feces	10/27/17
Almost no blank-bumps either. Just a fascinating and horrify...	curious area	10/27/17
Just read the updates - she clearly has PPD and needs help.	talented giraffe round eye	10/27/17
She recognizes she has PPD, but "doesn't have time"...	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
wtf is she doing all day?	Fragrant genital piercing codepig	10/27/17
Working for now, but she told me again this morning she is g...	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
lol, didn't she just finish residency so this is her first y...	vivacious grizzly rehab	10/27/17
IDK, she was talking about working part time this year becau...	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
when you went to babby's early follow-up appointments did do...	Concupiscible rigor	10/27/17
No, that never happened	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
https://pesnc.org/wp-content/uploads/EPDS.pdf	Concupiscible rigor	10/27/17
TY, I will talk to her about this	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
Real talk: it isn't PPD. It's a permanent change. You ...	slate masturbator	10/27/17
Dude...I need some hope here	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
mine recovered, and didn't have PPD for the later kids. So t...	talented giraffe round eye	10/27/17
This is easy to solve. Hire :D as the nanny for a few weeks,...	Bespoke base	10/27/17
Someone bump, and also copy/paste, the subthread where op is...	violet church	10/27/17
Please don't...I have suffered enough	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
...	Mind-boggling fiercely-loyal plaza circlehead	10/27/17
what have you considered the most useful bit of insight in t...	Concupiscible rigor	10/27/17
I need to protect myself and have no illusions about the sit...	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
At least you can use this thread as evidence of your then-ex...	Hot whorehouse	10/27/17
hahahahaha	Supple crimson internal respiration locus	10/31/17
the MAJOR takeaway is never marry a woman who makes more tha...	violet church	10/27/17
Yeah, having a woman out-earn you is TOXIC for a relationshi...	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
there should be a balance. Like I was in a long term relatio...	Razzle disturbing shitlib principal's office	10/27/17
Credited split is like the man making $200K plus and the wif...	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
marriages where the wife is a nurse or teacher seem to work ...	vivacious grizzly rehab	10/27/17
this. My wife makes a third of what I make, but still makes...	maroon deep goal in life	10/27/17
Holy shit! This exists? Kinda weird that we can see the rise...	arrogant deranged ape	10/27/17
it's total 180 and why pumos should be banned. that said i ...	violet church	10/27/17
Do you know what thread it was in?	curious area	10/27/17
his post in the 37 year old meeting 34 year match fianc&eacu...	talented giraffe round eye	10/27/17
I started to feel sick when I read it earlier today	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
...	Brilliant bat-shit-crazy dysfunction messiness	10/27/17
...	frozen vigorous gaming laptop	10/27/17
dam this thread must have broken all sorts of xoxo records	vengeful pale center	10/27/17
you married someone who you are "sure" would lie a...	abnormal arousing party of the first part temple	10/27/17
I don't know if I would say for sure. Just she would really ...	Diverse awkward point	10/27/17
that last sentence is so sad your wife sounds like a real...	Concupiscible rigor	10/27/17
You must be a woman.	abusive mildly autistic tanning salon death wish	10/27/17
my poast is not womansplaining if anything is going to ma...	Concupiscible rigor	10/27/17
Give him credit for being honest with himself.	provocative school cafeteria	10/27/17
...	Carnelian site french chef	11/03/17
I love how this is the #1 substantive thread (hardly any bla...	scarlet cruise ship feces	11/03/17
Would trigger just about any sane person. But it’s like bloo...	Chartreuse sanctuary idiot	11/03/17
it is the ultimate nightmare scenario take ONE|WRONG|MOVE, ...	hairraiser painfully honest home puppy	11/03/17
...	Wine 180 lay	03/07/18
Best of luck to you. Sounds like an absolutely terrible situ...	underhanded jew school	11/03/17
...	cracking volcanic crater sneaky criminal	11/17/17
OP, if you didn't have a 3 month old, I would advise you to ...	sienna heaven	11/22/17
lmao forgot you posted this best of luck friend	swashbuckling haunting mother famous landscape painting	12/22/17

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:02 PM Author: Diverse awkward point My wife INSISTED on moving to Southern California for a job opportunity over my objections that it was too expensive and we have no support network. We have a three month old and moving further away from family/friends at this time seemed stupid (because it was). Last night she saw some things on the nanny cam she didn't like, freaked out and decided that she was going to quit her new job. Leaving me with sole responsibility to pay for this mistake. JFC. I am so irate right now. She fired the nanny and now I am trying to work from home, with a bunch of conference calls all day, and taking care of the baby. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533895)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:08 PM Author: arrogant deranged ape What did she see on the nanny cam? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533976)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:13 PM Author: Diverse awkward point Babby crying and nanny ignoring her while talking on the phone. Nanny spending the day on Netflix and texting. Ignoring specific directions she gave her. Also, the nanny didn't show up one day last week with minimal notice and had two friends cover for her. The nanny sucks and needs to go, but we have an au pair that is on her way in 4-6 weeks and can just hire another one in the interim or fly my parents out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534035)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:21 PM Author: cordovan house Unfortunately nannies texting and ignoring baby is almost the norm. I see so many nannies at the playground just zoned out ignoring the kids. I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit. It’s hard to get a good nanny, that’s why my kid is in daycare because nobody is on a phone and there’s constant stimulation and activities. But I wouldn’t do daycare til at least age 1 once they’re walking around. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534128)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:15 PM Author: shivering set lol yep, of course your decision to dump your kid with a minimum wage nigerian who's also watching 10 other kids is the 100% perfect decision. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534547)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:18 PM Author: Diverse awkward point 24 year old white woman with a college degree in child development actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534585)

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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:25 PM Author: Diverse awkward point Don't have any, but she is a bubbly blonde with an 8 face that is maybe 10 pounds overweight. Super cheerful as I walk out the door for my hour commute. Makes me want to kill self. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534649)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:28 PM Author: shivering set probably should just keep her around (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534682)

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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:34 PM Author: Disrespectful really tough guy Divorce wife immediately, get custody of child, shack up with bubbly blonde. Problem solved. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535727)

Date: October 26th, 2017 7:25 PM Author: wonderful iridescent nursing home Lol and pay child support? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536858)

Date: October 26th, 2017 7:46 PM Author: Disrespectful really tough guy he's going to pay either way. he should have divorced while she was still working. actually, that's a better ploy. wait til she's working again and then divorce and thus she has to pay. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537005)

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