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When is too soon to take days off in biglaw?
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Date: November 16th, 2017 10:11 AM Author: Aphrodisiac ebony masturbator I just started in late sept, and I haven’t taken any days off (obviously). Unfortunately there was a death in my family - not someone I was close to - and while I don’t really feel like I have to be there, I do think my family might appreciate it. I’d probably have to take a couple days off. How bad would this look to take off so early in the game? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34699711) |
Date: November 16th, 2017 10:12 AM Author: aqua heaven dopamine tell people a close family member died and take the fucking time off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34699716) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 10:16 AM Author: Aphrodisiac ebony masturbator I’m worried there’s a risk people might think I’m using this as cover to get a vacation to go home since it’s thanksgiving time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34699749) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 10:16 AM Author: aqua heaven dopamine be confident, have backbone, dont waver. youll gain respect. not flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34699755) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 10:32 AM Author: Aphrodisiac ebony masturbator lol. unfortunately my grandma died almost 10 yrs ago so they’ll have to take someone else (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34699868) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 1:25 PM Author: Demanding love of her life You are debating whether to go to your grandfather's funeral? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701301) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 2:59 PM Author: Aphrodisiac ebony masturbator I know it sounds ridiculous, especially if you have a normal relationship, but I was just being honest that we were not close at all. It’s just how it was - we were totally different people. I know grandfather would sound like a reasonable funeral to go to, I know I’m good in that area. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34702089) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 3:00 PM Author: Galvanic Corner close this thread and walk away for 20 minutes. revisit, and reflect on how pathetic you sound right now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34702095) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 3:36 PM Author: Aphrodisiac ebony masturbator I get people have different relationships with their grandparents than I did... that ship has sailed at this point though lol. Just take my word for it that we were not close. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34702391) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 3:40 PM Author: Demanding love of her life It's your grandfather. You go unless he was estranged from the family or something. This isn't about the strength and quality of your relationship with him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34702416) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 6:28 PM Author: Aphrodisiac ebony masturbator Look, I get that. That’s why I’m deliberating over this so extensively. There are other factors that make this tough. I’m far from home. Frankly, I just didn’t need this headache so soon to starting, but yeah I hear you. I’ll probably just go. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34703587) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 10:39 AM Author: Flushed associate There probably is a risk of that. Now you have to decide whether you’re going to be one of those spineless sacks that goes through life concerned about the risk of offending your psychopath overlords. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34699924) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 10:36 AM Author: Insane titillating double fault If it's not your funeral, they really don't see any valid reason for you to attend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34699902) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 10:49 AM Author: Frozen hominid azn In the end it's unlikeky to impact you in the long haul. One thing though - are you busy with something? Like if you have a deal closing the week after thanksgiving that'll obviously be a bit riskier. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34700004) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 1:12 PM Author: costumed twinkling native jew standard is March/6 mos in before first >1 week vacation. nobody considers a death in the family/going to a funeral to be a vacation though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701166) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 1:24 PM Author: Aphrodisiac ebony masturbator Interesting, thanks for the data point. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701282) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 1:13 PM Author: Brass Twisted Feces My fellow summers took Fridays off to attend weddings. It's never too early! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701174) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 1:23 PM Author: Razzmatazz pocket flask Is this a serious question? Just tell them you're taking time off due to a family death and do it. It's that simple. Don't be a pussy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701277) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 1:31 PM Author: canary french weed whacker office You can always take the day off, so long as you remain reachable and able to do work at all times. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701372) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 2:18 PM Author: thriller lay It’s a terrible profession. Take the time off. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701788) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 2:19 PM Author: slap-happy disrespectful rehab gay wizard take as much bereavement leave as you can and then never go back (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701800) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 2:27 PM Author: Brass Twisted Feces he should kill himself to take advantage of indefinite bereavement leave (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34701853) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 3:08 PM Author: underhanded wonderful people who are hurt casino This industry is mentally ill. Take the time off and go home.
If you approach this job with that kind of insane fear of acting like socially normal human being, you won't last long.
Nutella was always completely correct on this topic. If you are a normal person and not one of those psychotically driven workaholic billable monsters, then you need to establish work-life boundaries and learn to assert yourself.
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Date: November 16th, 2017 3:38 PM Author: Abnormal glittery meetinghouse Two years. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34702408) |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 7:09 PM Author: Aromatic set degenerate Rule #17494 of biglaw: don’t ask for permission to go, just tell them “my grandfather died and I’ll be gone x dates. I’ll be available to work other than (time of actual funeral).”
It doesn’t matter you were not close to your grandpa. Going to the funeral is more about spending time with your family than anything else. 10 years from now, the path that your career takes will not reflect whether you took this trip or whatever else days you take off for whatever reason.
If you don’t take the time off, however, you may deeply regret 10 years from now not spending time with your family. People can die suddenly. Family is all you have in life. |
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Date: November 16th, 2017 7:09 PM Author: Boyish Amethyst Legal Warrant Mental Disorder Once you've made partner you may take a day off. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3799166&forum_id=2#34703884) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:31 AM Author: 180 range You just started so are not that important anyway. People will forget you took the time off shortly after you take the time off. You aren't making partner anyway. It is your grandfather who died. You will regret not attending, but you will not regret missing a couple days of work. Be a man.
So, in short, take the time. |