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The Indian fixed marriage thing is so weird to me
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:13 AM Author: bright theatre These guys announce their arranged marriages and expect everyone to congratulate and celebrate with them. But non-Indians just think it's creepy. If you're going to work in the US then keep your backwards sensibilities to yourself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708799) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:02 PM Author: Violet gunner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709590) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 3:51 PM Author: Pale stead What else are you gonna do with a race of people that is to unatractive? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34711544) |
Date: November 17th, 2017 10:15 AM Author: provocative kitchen associate Protip: their marriages have a much better chance of not ending in divorce than yours. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708814) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:16 AM Author: transparent disturbing legend /thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708817) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:45 AM Author: diverse theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709448) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 4:01 PM Author: Garnet dashing knife community account (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34711638) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 5:47 PM Author: Arousing bipolar milk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34712482) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 7:53 PM Author: ungodly flesh striped hyena (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34713349) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:19 AM Author: Mischievous Chrome Organic Girlfriend Masturbator (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708836) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:20 AM Author: bright theatre Im not married, I don't give a shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708841) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:21 AM Author: provocative kitchen associate Then I'll add: "assuming you even manage to get married." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708854) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:03 AM Author: orchid soul-stirring sandwich (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709203) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:43 AM Author: rambunctious location round eye (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709439) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:48 AM Author: aquamarine national (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709471) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:48 AM Author: histrionic lay when did you go pumo, Paulie? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709476) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:17 AM Author: Aromatic Lemon Really Tough Guy Azn Yeah, man. They're just ASSIGNED a match with someone and make it work. Real romance requires us to find&wife a used up Tinder shrew after Chads are done with her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708822) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:23 AM Author: provocative kitchen associate "I would never let some system pick who I date/marry!" he said, before seeing what Tinder throws on the screen... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708867) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:27 AM Author: bright theatre This is just a false dichotomy, classic low IQ tell. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708901) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:11 AM Author: crusty 180 plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709250) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:13 AM Author: vigorous sick parlor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709263) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:18 AM Author: white anal house its strange, but its a bit misunderstood in the west. the parents set the children up with 'suitable' people, but they do have a period of courtship which is essentially dating to see if things work out. its not like dudes just marry whoever. if it doesnt work out, thats fine. its just the introduction is a bit odd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708827) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:51 AM Author: hairraiser hunting ground this. There was some documentary, it had Patel in the title, that followed some dude through this process. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709501) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:19 AM Author: razzle-dazzle plum giraffe it doesn't seem strange to. indians smell, haggle too much, are annoying and grating, but the marriage thing is ok. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708834) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:19 AM Author: Mischievous Chrome Organic Girlfriend Masturbator it's weird but you cannot deny that it's effective (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708837) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:20 AM Author: Electric Haunting Feces Sound Barrier OP: fires up tinder to meet slores. stayed unmarried till 40 when finally wifes some used-up fat feminist shrew. adopts dog because chobani.
Pradeep: arranged marries docile sahw at 25 who cooks and cleans. gives him human kids. all in all a normal family.
OP flails arms backwarth backwarth!! |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:22 AM Author: provocative kitchen associate *points at Pradeep* "So weird! So backward!" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708863) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:24 AM Author: big-titted trip brunch OP: Doesn't smell like shit and curry 24/7 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708870) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:27 AM Author: aphrodisiac fiercely-loyal casino turdskin: comes home to clean house, a homemade feast, and his nuclear family you: hovel of filth lit up only by glow of homosexual pornography |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:50 AM Author: Stimulating Electric Furnace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709487) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:52 AM Author: buff mexican messiness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709512) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:55 AM Author: aquamarine national (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709535) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:46 AM Author: Tan Partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709455) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:50 AM Author: Electric Haunting Feces Sound Barrier LOL, aren't you the guy having marital issues right NOW? How is that non-fixed marriage working out for you? Hahahahahaha. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709495) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:51 AM Author: aquamarine national Gape (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709505) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:09 PM Author: pink thirsty rigpig Indian arranged marriage would not have helped him on any frontier of possibility. 1) If the issue lies with ethnicity of wife/culture of married couple: Indian chicks are often professionally successful but batshit crazy physicians, just like Mrs. Collins. 2) Arranged marriage is speedy marriage, leaving less than optimal time to do due diligence, just like with the Collinses. 3) Arranged marriage suffers from the same lack of organic hs/college gf bonding that is inherent to all fraudlie late marriage. |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:23 AM Author: misunderstood irradiated scourge upon the earth garrison How else are these guys going to find wives? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708864) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:29 AM Author: Self-centered background story therapy Seems cr actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708909) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:31 AM Author: lascivious nighttime step-uncle's house thread not going as expected (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708925) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:32 AM Author: bright theatre Honestly if the guys responding in this thread are white then xo is weird and aspie even for me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708932) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:42 AM Author: Big wine piazza lol outted as self hating turdskin who cant even get an arranged marriage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709033) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:53 AM Author: Metal flatulent set doctorate It's quite charming to see the matrimonial sites with ads written by parents. "Pleasant Mumbai area girl seeks respectful, kind university graduate - doctor, accountant, or lawyer. Telugu speaker. 50 lakh rupees dowry. Please contact Lakshmee at 09624317." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709132) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:09 AM Author: Green ticket booth It's a perfect system for painfully undesirable people like Indians. They're all 2s on the human scale and would likely delude themselves into thinking they are 7s and would hold out past the point of fertility.
Compare to a city like DC to get my drift. |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:46 AM Author: Tan Partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709457) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:12 AM Author: crusty 180 plaza I an extremely pro parents lending their life and cultural wisdom to help very young and usually naive people make the most important decision of their lives (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709261) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 3:51 PM Author: bright theatre parents do not have "life and cultural wisdom". just look at the boomers for fucks sake. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34711537) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:13 AM Author: Passionate boistinker queen of the night I told my current divorce mess to my Indian doctor. He was like why didn’t your parents find you someone suitable? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709264) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:15 AM Author: Electric Haunting Feces Sound Barrier Man, this doctor seems aspie and completely unaware of American culture. I would change doctors immediately. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709281) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:51 AM Author: buff mexican messiness It's a little odd to me, too, of course but denying the wisdom of your parents on such an important decision seems senseless. They still get to date a bit and can turn them down. There are conventions for Indians in the US for this sort of thing, too, just a bit less formal -- suitable families can meet each other. I wish my parents had steered me away from the dumb girl I wasted HS and college with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709506) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:11 PM Author: pink thirsty rigpig how would your life have been better off without an organic hs gf? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709633) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:53 PM Author: buff mexican messiness She influenced my decision on where to go to college to my detriment.
I have 0 friends from HS because I was too busy being her bitch.
I have 2 friends from college for the same reason.
I was one of those guys who did nothing other than go to school and then spend hours on the phone with my gf in the evening. It's ridiculous looking back at it.
I could have been figuring out what I want and what I like better if I wasn't wasting time with this dumb girl. She was legitimately dumb -- like low-900s SAT dumb. (She's now teaching children...also well on her way to a nice pension.)
The pros are nearly entirely sexual, which was fun, and I loved her body, but I'd trade it for the above. I was really naive at the time. |
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Date: November 18th, 2017 7:13 AM Author: Curious Impertinent Halford Pro tip: you’d still be a little bitch without her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34715708) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:54 PM Author: buff mexican messiness I would have liked an organic HS gf just not the one I had. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709920) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 3:04 PM Author: Poppy frisky clown I'm not ethnic but my mom set me up with a few chicks back in the day and they were all great dates, i can see the appeal. One of them was the daughter of my moms college roommate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34711068) |