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submitted 13 hours ago * by berkeleybrah I feel sick when...
judgmental disgusting nowag house
  11/18/17


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Date: November 18th, 2017 5:51 PM
Author: judgmental disgusting nowag house

submitted 13 hours ago * by berkeleybrah

I feel sick when I see so many WMAF couples in the bay area. Although white guys date up and down, a lot of them end up with hot asian girls (fobby and americanized).

I am a good-looking asian man. I am sick of the fact that I hit on girls regularly, in person, and end up with relatively little success. I've been with a few dozen girls and probably 30% have been western girls / american asian. the others fob. i hook up with probably 5% of girls i approach. i'm only giving these statistics because I need to explain that I'm decent with women, yet it seems I have to work much harder for girls that aren't as attractive.

I have not gotten one single very hot asian american girl.

My white friend gets way better matches on tinder. At least one time he's had a decently hot asian american girl come straight to hookup without much trouble. our looks are about the same yet the same girls don't even match with me. I get bothered when I see so many hot asian girls being openly sexual in their tinder pics and shutting me down for whatever reason when i approach in person. it's quite jarring to me that an IRL innocent asian girl is prowling for white D online... that really bothers me that as asian males we're missing on that hookup characteristic unless we get really buff. (*NOTE: I hope to hear from asian guys who are killing it on tinder. it's very possible I'm just not having the right pics. But compared to my white friend, it's ridiculous how much better his results are).

I am also bothered by the idea that asian/asian american girls seem to be more willing to be polygamous and hookup with white guys and if they are even into asian guys they make them wait and date. I know some asian guys can have cute girlfriends, but I want to see multiple women, and it's very fucked if white guys are able to do that much more often than asian.

Maybe part of this is in my head. I think it's cause I don't have any asian american male friends who are killing it on tinder, and I’m not, so I assume all the hot asian girls on there must be going for white guys. But part of it is certainly reality, I see tons of those WMAF relationships you see just walking around.

What is the healthy way of dealing with these feelings? It just makes me feel bad whenever I strike out with an asian girl that there's racial shit going on. and the idea that due to race some guys are having a way different experience with the same girl and that I have to work "harder".



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