Wtf?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3806452&forum_id=2#34753428)

And I'm not like crazy about this stuff. We have a maid coming in every couple of weeks now. But Thanksgiving dinner is special, doesnt seem right to cater that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3806452&forum_id=2#34753563)

This is actually sick and twisted (assuming you'd already agreed she'd cooked and there's no horrific incident you're not telling us about). Love generally involves wanting to help and contribute and 'give' as much as possible. These argument-ridden relationships where housework is seen as a humiliation, how far are they from the ideal? I mean obviously nobody hits the ideal completely, but this is so far off it's like the opposite, like instead of love these households are STEEPED IN HATRED.

Anyway onto the practical side.

As a man you have one practical move you can try before asking questions about the future of the relationship. Try being insanely on top of the chores to the point that she's shamed into either admitting the complaints were about something unrelated, or dropping it. Handle NOT ONLY your half, but all of them, for maybe a few weeks. Be like Mr. Chores who's buzzing around the house every hour not at work, doing literally everything. If this doesn't shame her into some sort of 'confession' or at least some emotional reaction that signifies a change, she's just crap, and you need to move forward with the divorce.

Don't go down the argument path. That's a loser for men. Women have a forte in emotions like men do in physical strength, guys never win these things for that reason.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3806452&forum_id=2#34753504)

AND it's gonna be awesome. Heavy on mushy foods, but awesome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3806452&forum_id=2#34753612)

Were going to cook all of our stuff on Saturday and watch college football all day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3806452&forum_id=2#34755144)