I'm really confused at the moment. Part of me feels like I should let her try fucking another chick, so long as it stays just sex. But Im worried about her forming an emotional connection and leaving me. I've thought about maybe letting her experiment with a hooker. And then she could just fuck hooker chicks when she had the urge.

I'd rather she not do anything, but I'm sure she will resent me and do it behind my back anyway. She basically said as much. She said she needed to share it with me before she started living a deceptive life.

Our family life really works in my opinion. We need each other and I think we are a good parenting team. I don't want a divorce, but I would not be cool with a polyamorous lifestyle.

What say you XOers?

PS: we ended up having really great sex last night. I think knowing that she wanted to do this made me somehow care less about how I treated her in bed, so I just fucking destroyed her from behind while buzzing her clit with a vibrator. She was basically crying in pleasure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34835789)

make it clear you're 100% not okay with it so if you catch her doing it you have more ammunition for the divorce. a cuckold relationship with your future dyke wife is poison and will destroy you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34835821)

After you fuck around one or two dozen trannies in your marital bed I think this will get her under control.

also this is NOT legal advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34835815)

In other words, she is telling you she wants to fuck chicks because she thinks there's a better chance you'll be okay with it. In reality, she is going to fuck dudes.

hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34835864)

Your marriage is 100% done here and FYI, she's already fucking other chicks. She's already emotionally attached. Women don't tell you these things until they've got someone lined up on the horizon. Also, now that she's told you her feelings, in her mind the marriage as you knew it is over.

Get an attorney ASAP.

If you want some honest CR advice, email me at xojoedirtexo@gmail.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34835880)

If you want to know the truth, recover her text messages and place a voice activated recorder in her car. Also check her phone and text usage for any unusual activity.

If you want to try to repair this relationship, you need the truth and your wife needs individual therapy. Even if she agrees to that, the odds are not good.

Consulting with a divorce attorney to know your options is something you really need to consider. DO NOT let your wife know you are doing this.

Good luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34836317)

marriage is clearly over so might as well parlay this into a threesome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34836617)

She said she didn't want to even talk about it but her friends told her it would as unfair to me to keep it a secret.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34836819)

Better to be from a broken home than to grow up in one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34837158)

A good part of 7 years. It was like 3-4 times a year during that span. I think we went 10ish months at one point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34837406)

Have you let yourself go, per chance?

I would have thought something was up/wrong with 3-4 times sex a month, let alone a year. Why are you still in this? You were basically nosexed throughout your prime.

I like this new slow spin on an old flame. Keep it up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34838630)

The deal is she can fuck any woman, any time, as long as she tells me all of the details and occasionally initiates 3somes with the women. The interesting part is that she's used tinder with her face blurred out and gotten A LOT of women that way. Most of the time they just eat each other out and kiss a lot, but a few were into strap on play and one of them was obsessed with being a "unicorn" so she insisted on fucking us both

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34838797)

I also grilled her on whether she had cheated and she swore she hadn't. I believe her. Then she told me that our cute younger neighbor (the one I had a tryst with last December), who she is very close with and hangs with a lot in the evenings, asked her husband if she could mess around with other chicks and he said he was cool with it. Then my wife said, "don't worry, we haven't done anything other than cuddle and watch movies together. we're like sisters." My wife and her have planned this outing to a silent disco house party for the four of us next Saturday and lined up overnight babysitters for our kids, so we'll see what kind of shenanigans go down next week.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34860931)

you're done here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34861069)

Beware.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3817695&forum_id=2#34862586)