Rate my sister's mental illness
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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:54 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
Her first long-term bf, she berated him for scooping new peanut butter out of the middle of the jar instead of the sides. Berated him for placing coffee stirring spoons on the counter without a napkin. Was engaged. He left her a month before the wedding because he couldn't take the abuse.
Next bf, I witnessed her saying she hated him when she was drunk and he was trying to drive her home. He had spent months buying her tons of nice stuff. They ended up broken up.
next bf she accused of attacking her. pretty sure she attacked him and he just tried holding her back. she still contacted him and hung out with him after that for a long time.
Next bf, she got engaged to in 3 months. She hit him in the face for not paying enough attention to her; accused my brother's gf of being a "whore" and said "no one in my family liked her" (not true), threw my brother's gf's pocketbook all over a parking lot, then barricaded herself in her bf's apartment, locked the door, and refused to leave. somehow, they still got married. divorced in less than a year. she apparently told him, a cop, she hoped he died one day before he went to work.
next bf she manipulated to the point of where he ended up in a mental hospital. she told him she hoped he died there. she refused to let him see his family after he got out. he said he couldn't go back to his job, because he was too embarrassed and she flipped out at him. mind you, she hasn't worked in years or even looked. finally he broke up with her. she stopped him from hanging out with his friends, made him stop his hobby he loved, saying he didn't spend enough time with her. she broke into his apartment after he started ignoring her. my brother was there. he flipped out on her. she punched him 3 times in the face.
anyone ever deal with someone like this? hope not.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858429)
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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:07 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
i've dealt with some crazy gfs, and they can certainly be crazy and possessive and manipulative as fuck, but i think she's about 100th percentile.
i've never witnessed anything to this degree. she got a bad gene from my father. it's sad, but scary.
my brother and i are nothing like it. granted, i ended up with alcohol problems from trying to deal with how horrible everything is. i have another sister who has dealt with anxiety problems, but wouldn't in a million years act like a monster. it's just scary. hate knowing there are people like this out there, and i don't know if their thought process is so twisted that they think they are right, or they are just evil.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858489) |
Date: December 7th, 2017 1:05 AM Author: geriatric nibblets skinny woman
how is she able to enter that many relationships?
is she hot?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858478) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:19 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
She would probably try to kill me. I talked to my brother tonight, which is how I got some of the latest info (and my write up did not do any of the full stories justice, btw, i was just trying to type it out as quickly as possible) and he's convinced she's going to kill him. If nothing else, it would end up a huge family fraction that would destroy my mother, who has already had to bear the brunt of dealing with my sister's problems for years, to the point of it hurting my mother's physical health.
There's no reasoning with my sister. And she's unbearably selfish and does everything in her power to turn the blame to everyone else.
And yes, I told my brother tonight, this is getting critical mass, because she just blew her latest good thing because she can't stop her insanity, and her options are going to start going to fall off a cliff soon. She has aged incredibly well. But she knows her clock is ticking big time now, and I honestly wouldn't be surprised if she kills herself. And writes a note blaming my parents for it.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858547) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:35 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
sometimes i don't like to talk about it.
sometimes, like tonight, when i get new info that just puts it into another level, i share with my xo friends because it makes me feel better, for whatever reason.
i know i have my own poasting style. and i'm not a flame poaster. and it's certainly not for everyone. but sometimes you need an outlet, and i appreciate what i will take as a compliment.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858599) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:43 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
get this:
a not flame story.
she went to marriage counseling with the cop husband.
as part of it, he agreed to go to a psychiatrist.
apparently, he got diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.
my sister was saying, "this all makes sense!"
she texted my mother.
my mother exchanged a couple texts, then texted my other sister, "she says he was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, but she doesn't see it in herself."
except my boomer mom accidentally texted that to the wrong sister.
everyone knows she's the one with the worst personality disorder in the world. she refuses to see it or recognize it, and blames it all on everyone else.
anyway, that became quite a family ordeal.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858630) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:29 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
it's one reason i feel a real affinity with corporate slave. his wife reminds me so much of my sister it is frightening (except my sister is even worse).
deeply rooted control issues plus anger issues plus their own lack of self esteem.
now, don't get me wrong, i think environment is a huge factor. i was raised in a terribly controlling household with a father who was often very mean and volatile. that causes problems, especially for those who are super observant and sensitive to emotions. she is, and i am. but i think it's more that she got those bad genes. the rest of the kids have their own issues, but nothing like hers. she has blown up one engagement a month before the wedding. one marriage in under a year. and two marriage track relationships. because she can't help herself from going berserk and trying to control every second of her s/o's life.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858586) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:37 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
she's threatened it on the phone to my mother and sister several times.
i assume she's probably doing it again now.
women don't usually go through with it. i'd expect an attempt she knows will fail is her next step.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858607) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:51 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
well, she's very smart.
she's had good jobs.
she left her last job when she got engaged. 3 years ago. the idea was she'd be a SAHM. (i'm 100% sure she manipulated a quick marriage so she could quit her job and pursue this).
of course, she blew up the marriage in under a year and lived off the man's earnings for a year. the divorce finally went through, and she has lived with my parents for 8 months now. still hasn't looked for a job. instead latched onto the latest bf, whom she finally drove to a mental hospital, not flame. she was trying to work the same angle -- marriage, kids, SAHM. that's why she berated him for not wanting to return to his job after the mental hospital visit out of his embarrassment and wanting to find a new one. all she cared about was her not working and him supporting her.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858657)
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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:32 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
thanks, charlie.
it's tough, because when you feel a lot of pain, it's natural to want to numb it. this is why i will never, ever jump into the "occasional" heroin game, because i know for sure i'll end up dead. i didn't even get drunk for the first time until i was 24. and even then it wasn't until i was 30 that things started to go downhill.
but almost every day of my life through age 24 was rough, and i think you only have so much willpower (there are studies on that), and your brain gets depleted, and you look to soothe that gap.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858826) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:55 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
i appreciate that greatly, friend.
i think most of my life i've been very mentally tough.
but more recently i've fallen into spells of depression and binge drinking, and i feel like a weakling.
there are many tougher than i. believe me.
still hoping i will claw my way back out. your support helps a lot. i'm doing better. xo has helped. finding a new job (don't care what it pays) that doesn't kill me, having a creative outlet, maybe finding a pleasant woman -- all things that could get me back on track. we'll see. i'll keep poasting.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858894) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 3:11 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
she's two years younger than i am.
it's not a stretch to say (and i come from a four-child home) that 95% of fights involved her in some way.
my mother would usually take her side. i'd get punished. one time my father, who honestly she takes after and caused a lot of strife himself, at least acknowledged, "do you not see the common denominator here?"
that's a long way of getting to the point that we've had a ton of bad arguments, as has everyone with any lengthy experience with my sister. but we've had some good moments. the bigger problem is, you can't accuse my sister of doing anything wrong without her becoming a cobra ready to strike. she takes no blame, and strikes at you. we all just learned to avoid interacting with her, until those few occasions we can't take it anymore.
so, while we generally can get along, it always feels like a tightrope, and no one wants to deal with the explosion.
Ever see LOST where they are walking with the unstable dynamite? Best analogy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858920) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 3:20 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
she has at least twice ruined christmas for my family.
last year, as she was going through her divorce, my mom (meaning well, but somehow still not grasping my sister -- second i saw the card, i thought, "here we go....") gave her a supermarket gift card as one of her xmas gifts.
my sister took that opportunity to make a huge scene, blowing up xmas morning, by spending an hour crying in my parents' bathroom by saying they were rubbing her impending divorce in her face by knowing she'd need money for food.
years before that on xmas, my brother accidentally put a slight elbow in a pie she made on a trip to our grandparents' and she needed to be brought back to my parents' to threaten suicide while being locked up in her room. somehow my brother's accidental denting of her pie had to do with her blowing up her first engagement by being a complete asshole.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34858932) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 4:03 AM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
you're right, charlie. you always give good advice.
everyone, i think, by now, knows my sister has a serious personality disorder. this, which i just learned about but fully expected, is the icing on the cake for some.
My brother and I have talked about it for years. Tonight, the question was, "Does she really think, in her mind, she's right, or is she just evil?" That's the question that really bothers me right now.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34859049) |
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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:53 PM Author: Cream Volcanic Crater French Chef
i honestly try to stay away as much as possible.
the horrible part is that she gets most of her bfs from my friend circle. it's part of her insidiousness.
her former husband? he was a friend of mine (now he hates my family because of what she did to him). she met him at a halloween party of my friends.
her two other most recent bfs? one, a good friend of mine that she snared, the latest one that she drove to a mental hospital was my brother's best friend of 12 years, who had to stop hanging out with him because of her.
i'm telling you, she's like a computer virus. i have no doubt she's going to go back to one of my good friends now, which means she's going to keep invading my social circle. which makes me not want to hang out with my friends, because i know when she's around it's dynamite just waiting to explode.
i've tried to get her to do tinder, etc., but all she wants to do is go after my friends. it's horrible.
needless to say, btw, she has no friends of her own. my idiot friends invite her to things because they're dumb males who think she looks good and these are the results.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34862094) |
Date: December 7th, 2017 3:03 PM Author: Ivory kink-friendly stain
Not flaming, you should kill her.
Your parents failed when she was younger. Now it's your responsibility.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34862159)
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Date: December 7th, 2017 3:54 PM Author: razzmatazz hominid
Is she a pale redhead or blonde with a longish nose? I'd do it anyway, the high before is soooo good
BTW, this might be interesting (it's not exactly the same behavior but probably explains how she reels them in)
https://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/28/magazine/confessions-of-a-seduction-addict.html
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820517&forum_id=2#34862620) |
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