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wife is having babby #2 in June - how fucked?

our kid will be 3 1/2 when the new dude comes. two boys.
rusted range
  01/16/18
Dude you’ve already had one so you know what to expect. As y...
lemon friendly grandma
  01/16/18
yea i can't imagine the tantrums going forward. my only hop...
rusted range
  01/16/18
kiss your free time goodbye
stimulating den
  01/16/18
already did that 3.5 years ago BROTHER
rusted range
  06/16/18
Depends, are you the father?
trip drunken hairy legs
  06/16/18
allegedly but i do not know for sure
rusted range
  06/16/18
...
Frisky Half-breed
  06/16/18
i was kidding brother. but who ever REALLY knows.
rusted range
  06/16/18
...
Frisky Half-breed
  06/16/18
whats you're wife like right now as a pregnant mom? one p...
tantric knife hall
  06/16/18
she has no energy, in pain all the time. i have two brief...
rusted range
  06/16/18
those two are going to fight all the time.
soul-stirring field
  06/16/18
cr to have #1 out of diapers before #2 pops
charismatic shrine becky
  06/16/18
yeah having two in diapers would be TTT. #1 is hyperactive ...
rusted range
  06/19/18
On the other hand, #1 still in diapers means you don't have ...
sticky selfie heaven
  06/19/18
I will have 2 in diapers :(. Tried to potty train a littl...
Beady-eyed dun locale party of the first part
  06/19/18
We tried again and potty trained our 2.75 year old when wife...
Pea-brained Aphrodisiac Gaming Laptop Blood Rage
  08/04/18
Congrats !
Deep harsh sanctuary marketing idea
  06/19/18
next friday at 7:30 AM is the scheduled c-section. FML.
rusted range
  06/19/18
congrats. you prob think oh shit another baby means twice t...
appetizing market
  06/19/18
Toxic
Contagious mischievous jew
  06/19/18
:(
rusted range
  06/19/18
Depends on the specific kids and their personalities. Sound...
Pea-brained Aphrodisiac Gaming Laptop Blood Rage
  06/19/18
Wait, why does it need to be c-section? That's pretty hard.
trip drunken hairy legs
  06/19/18
first was a c section. i think they heavily recommend just d...
rusted range
  06/19/18
oh okay. that's pretty hard on your wife. thoughts and pray...
trip drunken hairy legs
  06/19/18
Congrats on the sex
supple violent antidepressant drug national
  06/19/18
, i lisped to the bull
rusted range
  06/19/18
congrats to the father
Fuchsia mewling goyim
  06/19/18
First on the way in mid-August. The more I read and talk to ...
Contagious mischievous jew
  06/19/18
Quit complaining about awesome kids
Ivory Partner
  06/19/18
the first 3 or so months is total hell. i seriously consider...
rusted range
  06/19/18
Goddamn. We have MiL coming to stay with us until we get ...
Contagious mischievous jew
  06/19/18
that will be good. any help is good. we have no family livin...
rusted range
  06/19/18
That's a good thing as long as she actually likes babies and...
Pea-brained Aphrodisiac Gaming Laptop Blood Rage
  06/19/18
Thoughts and prayers. Same here but in sept. My son is a h...
Beady-eyed dun locale party of the first part
  06/19/18
yea our 3.5 year old is in a daycare that is $1500/mo (down ...
rusted range
  06/19/18
It's because he is insecurely bonded with you because he see...
Pea-brained Aphrodisiac Gaming Laptop Blood Rage
  06/19/18
Yeah I love my Tiguan and BR wardrobe more than life itself
Beady-eyed dun locale party of the first part
  06/19/18
You still banging escorts?
Shaky University Multi-billionaire
  06/19/18
...
Soggy French Preventive Strike
  06/19/18
Took a break
rusted range
  06/19/18
...
rusted range
  08/03/18
...
dark weed whacker people who are hurt
  08/04/18
Whos the father?
Maize elite parlour
  08/03/18
Our neighbor. He’s a Trumpmo
rusted range
  08/04/18
better keep abusing cocaine lol
Fuchsia mewling goyim
  08/03/18
I have been but pretty infrequently. The day we got home...
rusted range
  08/04/18
Fucking 180.
Pale narrow-minded school cafeteria
  08/04/18
...
electric grizzly ceo trust fund
  08/04/18
180
dark weed whacker people who are hurt
  08/04/18
Also had an all nighter with the client in MA, which I poast...
rusted range
  08/04/18
One baby is basically a vacation compared to two but congrat...
appetizing market
  08/03/18
Mfcr
aromatic philosopher-king bawdyhouse
  08/04/18
So far it isn’t bad apart from the baby not sleeping theoug...
rusted range
  08/04/18


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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:39 PM
Author: rusted range

our kid will be 3 1/2 when the new dude comes. two boys.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169253)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:03 PM
Author: lemon friendly grandma

Dude you’ve already had one so you know what to expect. As your dealing with your newborn, you’ll probably have less patience for your toddler’s tantrums and other bad behavior, but you’ll have to deal with it.

Kids are great, so you’re not fucked. But it’s going to be even more work and less free time. Buck up and congratulations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169437)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: rusted range

yea i can't imagine the tantrums going forward. my only hope is that they slow the fuck down as he approaches age 4 but that probably won't happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169582)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:03 PM
Author: stimulating den

kiss your free time goodbye

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169441)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: rusted range

already did that 3.5 years ago BROTHER

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256684)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: trip drunken hairy legs

Depends, are you the father?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256841)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:51 PM
Author: rusted range

allegedly but i do not know for sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256848)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:02 PM
Author: Frisky Half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256904)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:08 PM
Author: rusted range

i was kidding brother. but who ever REALLY knows.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256927)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:15 PM
Author: Frisky Half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256944)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:59 PM
Author: tantric knife hall

whats you're wife like right now as a pregnant mom?

one positive after my wife shat out kid #3 a couple months back was that she actually had more energy as a sleep deprived mom of a newborn than she did 7+ months pregnant. its not all bad brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256886)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:01 PM
Author: rusted range

she has no energy, in pain all the time.

i have two briefs due that i'm trying to get done before the 29th (which is when the c section is scheduled) and i'm worried she;s gonna go into labor early.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256899)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:09 PM
Author: soul-stirring field

those two are going to fight all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256929)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:41 PM
Author: charismatic shrine becky

cr to have #1 out of diapers before #2 pops

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36257047)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: rusted range

yeah having two in diapers would be TTT. #1 is hyperactive and throws tantrums tho, not looking forward to that shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36272977)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: sticky selfie heaven

On the other hand, #1 still in diapers means you don't have to drop everything (including putting #2 somewhere screaming) to run him to the bathroom, deal w accidents, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273717)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:45 PM
Author: Beady-eyed dun locale party of the first part

I will have 2 in diapers :(.

Tried to potty train a little after he turned 2 and it just ended up being a lot of tears and him holding it in. Will try again after new baby is here since no point in doing so 3 months before new one and he’ll just regress.

He already wants to be a baby and started crawling around the house making goo goo gah gah noises and wanting to use the baby bottles I took out. Also the other night he said to me “hold me like a baby mommy.” I rocked him for a long time and then cried like a baby myself afterwards. I feel kinda sad that we won’t have all that one on one time anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273820)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:33 AM
Author: Pea-brained Aphrodisiac Gaming Laptop Blood Rage

We tried again and potty trained our 2.75 year old when wife was 4-5 months pregnant with #2 and it was soooooooooo cr bc #2 was colicky and screamed for five hours every evening/night. If I had been also changing the manshit diapers of a 3.5 year old while the colic was going on I would've just walked out to my car and driven away at some point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551571)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: Deep harsh sanctuary marketing idea

Congrats !

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36272994)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:28 PM
Author: rusted range

next friday at 7:30 AM is the scheduled c-section. FML.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273017)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:35 PM
Author: appetizing market

congrats. you prob think oh shit another baby means twice the work. really it's like 3x-4x the work. onebaby is basically a vacation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273054)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:29 PM
Author: Contagious mischievous jew

Toxic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273428)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: rusted range

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273450)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Pea-brained Aphrodisiac Gaming Laptop Blood Rage

Depends on the specific kids and their personalities. Sounds like his first is a pain in the ass, but could be normal toddler behavior of toddler who spends all his time with nannies/preschool and gets only small 1-2 hour pockets of attention from parents.

Our first was really easy and so #2 felt like 3x-4x the work if not more. We also have two boys and almost the exact same age gap. Overall I'm more thankful that my oldest is so chill and positive, since he's a good influence on the younger one. We have close family that have it the other way around and it drives them crazy to see their younger, nicer kid being turned into a shit because they idolize their asshole older sibling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273659)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:27 PM
Author: trip drunken hairy legs

Wait, why does it need to be c-section? That's pretty hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273418)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:28 PM
Author: rusted range

first was a c section. i think they heavily recommend just doing future babbies by c section if that's the case.

first time around sucked. she was in labor for like 15 hours and then they gave up trying to pull him out and just cut.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273422)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: trip drunken hairy legs

oh okay. that's pretty hard on your wife. thoughts and prayers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273452)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:31 PM
Author: supple violent antidepressant drug national

Congrats on the sex

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273032)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:31 PM
Author: rusted range

, i lisped to the bull

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273037)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: Fuchsia mewling goyim

congrats to the father

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273104)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:29 PM
Author: Contagious mischievous jew

First on the way in mid-August. The more I read and talk to people, the less excited I become.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273434)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: Ivory Partner

Quit complaining about awesome kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273454)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:35 PM
Author: rusted range

the first 3 or so months is total hell. i seriously considered suicide or just changing my identity and abandoning the family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273473)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:04 PM
Author: Contagious mischievous jew

Goddamn.

We have MiL coming to stay with us until we get into daycare. Not sure if that will make things better or worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273640)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: rusted range

that will be good. any help is good. we have no family living in the area (i'm from DC but everyone moved away/died), and that was utter hell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273664)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: Pea-brained Aphrodisiac Gaming Laptop Blood Rage

That's a good thing as long as she actually likes babies and can take over and give you both a break for a while. Kid will always love her. But if she shows up just to gab with your wife and is just another mouth to feed, then you need to find a way to get her out faster. Flag this with wife now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273665)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:03 PM
Author: Beady-eyed dun locale party of the first part

Thoughts and prayers. Same here but in sept. My son is a handful at 2.5 and demands all the attention.

We just hired a nanny for the infant to help my aging mother for $50k/year once I go back to work. Son goes to $20k daycare/preschool. A lot of money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273631)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: rusted range

yea our 3.5 year old is in a daycare that is $1500/mo (down from $1900/mo for infants). new one is going to break me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273668)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: Pea-brained Aphrodisiac Gaming Laptop Blood Rage

It's because he is insecurely bonded with you because he sees that you love your car and clothes more than him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273669)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: Beady-eyed dun locale party of the first part

Yeah I love my Tiguan and BR wardrobe more than life itself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273688)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: Shaky University Multi-billionaire

You still banging escorts?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273731)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:49 PM
Author: Soggy French Preventive Strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273851)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: rusted range

Took a break

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36274195)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: rusted range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550177)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:11 AM
Author: dark weed whacker people who are hurt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551641)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:29 PM
Author: Maize elite parlour

Whos the father?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550184)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:19 AM
Author: rusted range

Our neighbor. He’s a Trumpmo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551544)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:30 PM
Author: Fuchsia mewling goyim

better keep abusing cocaine lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550187)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:06 AM
Author: rusted range

I have been but pretty infrequently.

The day we got home from the hospital my friend had to stop by to drop something off. I jokingly texted him “bring cocaine.” This guy doesn’t really do cocaine and never buys it. Lo and behold, he shows up with an eightball. I did a few bumps in my bathroom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551527)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:09 AM
Author: Pale narrow-minded school cafeteria

Fucking 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551530)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:30 AM
Author: electric grizzly ceo trust fund



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551563)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:12 AM
Author: dark weed whacker people who are hurt

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551644)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:18 AM
Author: rusted range

Also had an all nighter with the client in MA, which I poasted about the other day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551657)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: appetizing market

One baby is basically a vacation compared to two but congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550192)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:47 AM
Author: aromatic philosopher-king bawdyhouse

Mfcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551587)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:02 AM
Author: rusted range

So far it isn’t bad apart from the baby not sleeping theough the night, but I’m sure it’ll get bad. Our 3 year old isn’t as difficult as I expected.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551604)