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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
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  01/21/18
was she hot?
Irradiated Office Hissy Fit
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Irradiated Office Hissy Fit
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
of course.
Irradiated Office Hissy Fit
  01/21/18
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Embarrassed To The Bone Pocket Flask Stock Car
  01/21/18
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bateful messiness
  01/21/18
Lol
mint ceo
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
gold indirect expression fanboi
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Irradiated Office Hissy Fit
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
vivacious headpube
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
vivacious headpube
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
vivacious headpube
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
vivacious headpube
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
CR
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  01/21/18
lololol
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  01/21/18
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  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
self-absorbed address
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
lol
Irradiated Office Hissy Fit
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
self-absorbed address
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Doobsian exciting community account
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
gay well-lubricated theatre
  01/21/18
how did she die/
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  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Pocket Flask Stock Car

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Hilarious cerise menage milk



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Irradiated Office Hissy Fit

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Irradiated Office Hissy Fit

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Irradiated Office Hissy Fit

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Pocket Flask Stock Car



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: bateful messiness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: mint ceo

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: gold indirect expression fanboi

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Irradiated Office Hissy Fit

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: vivacious headpube

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: vivacious headpube

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: vivacious headpube

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: vivacious headpube

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Pocket Flask Stock Car

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: lavender misanthropic shrine

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: honey-headed new version factory reset button



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: self-absorbed address

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Irradiated Office Hissy Fit

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: self-absorbed address

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Doobsian exciting community account

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Irradiated Office Hissy Fit

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: gay well-lubricated theatre

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)