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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Chestnut Vivacious Nibblets
  01/21/18
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useless sienna locale newt
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Fragrant resort mexican
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Fragrant resort mexican
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
of course.
Fragrant resort mexican
  01/21/18
...
Chestnut Vivacious Nibblets
  01/21/18
...
Drab boistinker mad-dog skullcap
  01/21/18
Lol
Tantric Seedy Masturbator Address
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
excitant bearded stage ceo
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Fragrant resort mexican
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
sable internet-worthy factory reset button
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
sable internet-worthy factory reset button
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
sable internet-worthy factory reset button
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
sable internet-worthy factory reset button
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
CR
Chestnut Vivacious Nibblets
  01/21/18
lololol
Unhinged boiling water
  01/21/18
...
Stirring Rebellious Quadroon Brunch
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Arousing pearly gas station karate
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
lol
Fragrant resort mexican
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Arousing pearly gas station karate
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
carmine impertinent generalized bond
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Fragrant resort mexican
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
mahogany forum
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: mahogany forum

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Chestnut Vivacious Nibblets

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: useless sienna locale newt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Fragrant resort mexican

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: mahogany forum

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Fragrant resort mexican

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: mahogany forum

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Fragrant resort mexican

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Chestnut Vivacious Nibblets



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Drab boistinker mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Tantric Seedy Masturbator Address

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: excitant bearded stage ceo

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: mahogany forum

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Fragrant resort mexican

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: mahogany forum

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: sable internet-worthy factory reset button

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: mahogany forum

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: sable internet-worthy factory reset button

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: mahogany forum

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: sable internet-worthy factory reset button

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: mahogany forum

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: sable internet-worthy factory reset button

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: mahogany forum

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Chestnut Vivacious Nibblets

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Unhinged boiling water

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Stirring Rebellious Quadroon Brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Arousing pearly gas station karate

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: mahogany forum

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Fragrant resort mexican

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Arousing pearly gas station karate

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: carmine impertinent generalized bond

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: mahogany forum

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Fragrant resort mexican

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: mahogany forum

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)