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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
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  01/21/18
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aromatic narrow-minded jewess whorehouse
  01/21/18
was she hot?
bespoke shaky roommate tattoo
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
bespoke shaky roommate tattoo
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
of course.
bespoke shaky roommate tattoo
  01/21/18
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supple rehab
  01/21/18
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Disturbing police squad
  01/21/18
Lol
Elite titillating wrinkle
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Nighttime shitlib national security agency
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
bespoke shaky roommate tattoo
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
razzle-dazzle corner
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
razzle-dazzle corner
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
razzle-dazzle corner
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
razzle-dazzle corner
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
CR
supple rehab
  01/21/18
lololol
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Dun Trip Principal's Office
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
big shimmering stag film
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
lol
bespoke shaky roommate tattoo
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
big shimmering stag film
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Glittery Brunch
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18
how did she die/
bespoke shaky roommate tattoo
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Multi-colored wild azn locale
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: supple rehab

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: aromatic narrow-minded jewess whorehouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: bespoke shaky roommate tattoo

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: bespoke shaky roommate tattoo

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: bespoke shaky roommate tattoo

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: supple rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Disturbing police squad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Elite titillating wrinkle

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Nighttime shitlib national security agency

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: bespoke shaky roommate tattoo

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle corner

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle corner

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle corner

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle corner

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: supple rehab

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: zippy plum orchestra pit private investor

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Dun Trip Principal's Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: big shimmering stag film

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: bespoke shaky roommate tattoo

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: big shimmering stag film

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Glittery Brunch

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: bespoke shaky roommate tattoo

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Multi-colored wild azn locale

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)