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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
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talented hyperventilating cruise ship boltzmann
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Diverse Theater
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Diverse Theater
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
of course.
Diverse Theater
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Bat-shit-crazy mewling elastic band
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  01/21/18
Lol
yapping lettuce
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
carnelian national
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Diverse Theater
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Haunting nubile organic girlfriend locale
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Haunting nubile organic girlfriend locale
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Haunting nubile organic girlfriend locale
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Haunting nubile organic girlfriend locale
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
CR
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  01/21/18
lololol
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your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
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  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
lol
Diverse Theater
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
beta ivory property hairy legs
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
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  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
concupiscible tripping gaming laptop
  01/21/18
how did she die/
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  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy mewling elastic band

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: talented hyperventilating cruise ship boltzmann



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Diverse Theater

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Diverse Theater

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Diverse Theater

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy mewling elastic band



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Pink Zippy Jap Background Story



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: yapping lettuce

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: carnelian national

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Diverse Theater

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Haunting nubile organic girlfriend locale

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Haunting nubile organic girlfriend locale

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Haunting nubile organic girlfriend locale

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Haunting nubile organic girlfriend locale

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy mewling elastic band

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: razzle brass mad-dog skullcap brunch

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: sable windowlicker abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: beta ivory property hairy legs

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Diverse Theater

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: beta ivory property hairy legs

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: cruel-hearted thriller liquid oxygen indirect expression

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Diverse Theater

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: concupiscible tripping gaming laptop

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)