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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Frisky Hateful Cruise Ship
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Chestnut beady-eyed stead
  01/21/18
was she hot?
dashing at-the-ready space regret
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
dashing at-the-ready space regret
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
of course.
dashing at-the-ready space regret
  01/21/18
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Frisky Hateful Cruise Ship
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thirsty charcoal international law enforcement agency place of business
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Lol
Provocative peach native legend
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Alcoholic slimy genital piercing
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
dashing at-the-ready space regret
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Nudist Brunch Pistol
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Nudist Brunch Pistol
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Nudist Brunch Pistol
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Nudist Brunch Pistol
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
CR
Frisky Hateful Cruise Ship
  01/21/18
lololol
Thriller Voyeur
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Jade Irradiated Locale
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
fighting community account mediation
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
lol
dashing at-the-ready space regret
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
fighting community account mediation
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
internet-worthy heady parlour
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
how did she die/
dashing at-the-ready space regret
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Frisky Hateful Cruise Ship

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Chestnut beady-eyed stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: dashing at-the-ready space regret

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: dashing at-the-ready space regret

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: dashing at-the-ready space regret

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Frisky Hateful Cruise Ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: thirsty charcoal international law enforcement agency place of business



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Provocative peach native legend

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Alcoholic slimy genital piercing

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: dashing at-the-ready space regret

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Nudist Brunch Pistol

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Nudist Brunch Pistol

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Nudist Brunch Pistol

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Nudist Brunch Pistol

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Frisky Hateful Cruise Ship

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Thriller Voyeur

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Jade Irradiated Locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: fighting community account mediation

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: dashing at-the-ready space regret

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: fighting community account mediation

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: internet-worthy heady parlour

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: dashing at-the-ready space regret

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Marvelous Mustard Lodge Old Irish Cottage

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)