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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Racy opaque office people who are hurt
  01/21/18
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Lake cocky tanning salon
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
of course.
Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage
  01/21/18
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Racy opaque office people who are hurt
  01/21/18
...
Laughsome azn heaven
  01/21/18
Lol
multi-colored maniacal pistol telephone
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
supple fiercely-loyal temple
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
bull headed sanctuary
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
bull headed sanctuary
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
bull headed sanctuary
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
bull headed sanctuary
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
CR
Racy opaque office people who are hurt
  01/21/18
lololol
Hideous Smoky Library Dopamine
  01/21/18
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Maize insanely creepy persian water buffalo
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
silver contagious wagecucks
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
lol
Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
silver contagious wagecucks
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
out-of-control rebellious church building hissy fit
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Racy opaque office people who are hurt

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Lake cocky tanning salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Racy opaque office people who are hurt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Laughsome azn heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: multi-colored maniacal pistol telephone

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: supple fiercely-loyal temple

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: bull headed sanctuary

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: bull headed sanctuary

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: bull headed sanctuary

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: bull headed sanctuary

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Racy opaque office people who are hurt

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Hideous Smoky Library Dopamine

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Maize insanely creepy persian water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: silver contagious wagecucks

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: silver contagious wagecucks

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: out-of-control rebellious church building hissy fit

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Startling Odious Stag Film Blood Rage

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Vivacious Hell Kitty Cat

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)