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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Dull senate dog poop
  01/21/18
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Mustard Submissive Old Irish Cottage
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Nofapping antidepressant drug
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Nofapping antidepressant drug
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
of course.
Nofapping antidepressant drug
  01/21/18
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Dull senate dog poop
  01/21/18
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Overrated shaky site lettuce
  01/21/18
Lol
vengeful poppy nowag
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
thriller affirmative action
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Nofapping antidepressant drug
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Cordovan gas station fortuitous meteor
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Cordovan gas station fortuitous meteor
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Cordovan gas station fortuitous meteor
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Cordovan gas station fortuitous meteor
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
CR
Dull senate dog poop
  01/21/18
lololol
Fuchsia Gaping
  01/21/18
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Fluffy kitchen
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Startling Institution
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
lol
Nofapping antidepressant drug
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Startling Institution
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Jet school
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Nofapping antidepressant drug
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Dull senate dog poop

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Mustard Submissive Old Irish Cottage



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Nofapping antidepressant drug

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Nofapping antidepressant drug

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Nofapping antidepressant drug

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Dull senate dog poop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Overrated shaky site lettuce



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: vengeful poppy nowag

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: thriller affirmative action

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Nofapping antidepressant drug

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Cordovan gas station fortuitous meteor

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Cordovan gas station fortuitous meteor

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Cordovan gas station fortuitous meteor

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Cordovan gas station fortuitous meteor

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Dull senate dog poop

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Fuchsia Gaping

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Fluffy kitchen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Startling Institution

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Nofapping antidepressant drug

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Startling Institution

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Jet school

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Nofapping antidepressant drug

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: aphrodisiac apoplectic hairy legs lay

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)