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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
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  01/21/18
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diverse infuriating tattoo
  01/21/18
was she hot?
fantasy-prone forum
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
fantasy-prone forum
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
of course.
fantasy-prone forum
  01/21/18
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adventurous effete range fat ankles
  01/21/18
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splenetic crackhouse ape
  01/21/18
Lol
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  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
tan slap-happy affirmative action
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
fantasy-prone forum
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
bonkers hall
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
bonkers hall
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
bonkers hall
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
bonkers hall
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
CR
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  01/21/18
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  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Orchid telephone
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
lol
fantasy-prone forum
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Orchid telephone
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Amber principal's office
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Contagious snowy idea he suggested
  01/21/18
how did she die/
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  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: adventurous effete range fat ankles

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: diverse infuriating tattoo



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: fantasy-prone forum

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: fantasy-prone forum

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: fantasy-prone forum

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: adventurous effete range fat ankles



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: splenetic crackhouse ape



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac sound barrier travel guidebook

Lol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: tan slap-happy affirmative action

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: fantasy-prone forum

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: bonkers hall

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: bonkers hall

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: bonkers hall

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: bonkers hall

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: adventurous effete range fat ankles

CR

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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Drab House-broken Dysfunction Personal Credit Line

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Olive Field Gaming Laptop



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Orchid telephone

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: fantasy-prone forum

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Orchid telephone

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Amber principal's office

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: fantasy-prone forum

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Contagious snowy idea he suggested

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)