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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
fragrant geriatric parlor persian
  01/21/18
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Boyish free-loading french chef
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
of course.
Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry
  01/21/18
...
fragrant geriatric parlor persian
  01/21/18
...
Balding library mood
  01/21/18
Lol
twisted forum
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Motley house ladyboy
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Impressive beady-eyed kitchen tattoo
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Impressive beady-eyed kitchen tattoo
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Impressive beady-eyed kitchen tattoo
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Impressive beady-eyed kitchen tattoo
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
CR
fragrant geriatric parlor persian
  01/21/18
lololol
Racy double fault abode
  01/21/18
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White police squad potus
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Aggressive dead theatre
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
lol
Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Aggressive dead theatre
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Umber razzle prole
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
indigo lascivious home corn cake
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: fragrant geriatric parlor persian

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Boyish free-loading french chef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: fragrant geriatric parlor persian



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Balding library mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: twisted forum

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Motley house ladyboy

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Impressive beady-eyed kitchen tattoo

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Impressive beady-eyed kitchen tattoo

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Impressive beady-eyed kitchen tattoo

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Impressive beady-eyed kitchen tattoo

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: fragrant geriatric parlor persian

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Racy double fault abode

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: White police squad potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Aggressive dead theatre

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Aggressive dead theatre

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Umber razzle prole

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Bat shit crazy diverse pit dingle berry

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: indigo lascivious home corn cake

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)