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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
fishy den dysfunction
  01/21/18
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provocative step-uncle's house
  01/21/18
was she hot?
amethyst dashing parlor love of her life
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
amethyst dashing parlor love of her life
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
of course.
amethyst dashing parlor love of her life
  01/21/18
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fishy den dysfunction
  01/21/18
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Medicated Meetinghouse Genital Piercing
  01/21/18
Lol
massive candlestick maker
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Vibrant yarmulke
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
amethyst dashing parlor love of her life
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
talking library
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
talking library
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
talking library
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
talking library
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
CR
fishy den dysfunction
  01/21/18
lololol
Apoplectic Hell
  01/21/18
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Shimmering stag film
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Motley Orchestra Pit Filthpig
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
lol
amethyst dashing parlor love of her life
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Motley Orchestra Pit Filthpig
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Opaque Disgusting Site Goal In Life
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18
how did she die/
amethyst dashing parlor love of her life
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
cracking flirting tanning salon
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: fishy den dysfunction

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: provocative step-uncle's house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: amethyst dashing parlor love of her life

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: amethyst dashing parlor love of her life

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: amethyst dashing parlor love of her life

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: fishy den dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Medicated Meetinghouse Genital Piercing



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: massive candlestick maker

Lol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Vibrant yarmulke

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: amethyst dashing parlor love of her life

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: talking library

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: talking library

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: talking library

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: talking library

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: fishy den dysfunction

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Apoplectic Hell

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Shimmering stag film



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Motley Orchestra Pit Filthpig

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: amethyst dashing parlor love of her life

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Motley Orchestra Pit Filthpig

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Opaque Disgusting Site Goal In Life

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: amethyst dashing parlor love of her life

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: cracking flirting tanning salon

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)