\
  The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
BackRefresh Options Favorite

Etiquette advice please..

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Learning Disabled Cream Meetinghouse Stock Car
  01/21/18
...
twinkling appetizing karate cumskin
  01/21/18
was she hot?
soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
of course.
soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal
  01/21/18
...
Learning Disabled Cream Meetinghouse Stock Car
  01/21/18
...
slap-happy vivacious location keepsake machete
  01/21/18
Lol
excitant heaven weed whacker
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
irradiated coiffed community account
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Carmine contagious stead
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Carmine contagious stead
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Carmine contagious stead
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Carmine contagious stead
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
CR
Learning Disabled Cream Meetinghouse Stock Car
  01/21/18
lololol
Glassy talented menage alpha
  01/21/18
...
frisky partner
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
exciting opaque stag film idea he suggested
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
lol
soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
exciting opaque stag film idea he suggested
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
titillating mint hall
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18
how did she die/
soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Brindle parlor
  01/21/18


Poast new message in this thread



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Learning Disabled Cream Meetinghouse Stock Car

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: twinkling appetizing karate cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Learning Disabled Cream Meetinghouse Stock Car



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: slap-happy vivacious location keepsake machete



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: excitant heaven weed whacker

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: irradiated coiffed community account

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Carmine contagious stead

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Carmine contagious stead

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Carmine contagious stead

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Carmine contagious stead

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Brindle parlor

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Learning Disabled Cream Meetinghouse Stock Car

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Glassy talented menage alpha

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: frisky partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: exciting opaque stag film idea he suggested

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Brindle parlor

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: exciting opaque stag film idea he suggested

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: titillating mint hall

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Brindle parlor

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: soul-stirring ticket booth son of senegal

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



Reply Favorite

Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Brindle parlor

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)