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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Talking Frisky Home
  01/21/18
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alcoholic autistic church deer antler
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Flirting silver personal credit line theater
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Flirting silver personal credit line theater
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
of course.
Flirting silver personal credit line theater
  01/21/18
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Talking Frisky Home
  01/21/18
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rambunctious heaven
  01/21/18
Lol
Comical psychic
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
pink sick national security agency step-uncle's house
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Flirting silver personal credit line theater
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Irate laser beams jewess
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Irate laser beams jewess
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Irate laser beams jewess
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Irate laser beams jewess
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
CR
Talking Frisky Home
  01/21/18
lololol
Topaz aromatic location
  01/21/18
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Buck-toothed fortuitous meteor library
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
obsidian zombie-like international law enforcement agency
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
lol
Flirting silver personal credit line theater
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
obsidian zombie-like international law enforcement agency
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Lilac Church Building
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Flirting silver personal credit line theater
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Talking Frisky Home

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: alcoholic autistic church deer antler



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Flirting silver personal credit line theater

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Flirting silver personal credit line theater

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Flirting silver personal credit line theater

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Talking Frisky Home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: rambunctious heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Comical psychic

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: pink sick national security agency step-uncle's house

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Flirting silver personal credit line theater

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Irate laser beams jewess

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Irate laser beams jewess

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Irate laser beams jewess

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Irate laser beams jewess

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Talking Frisky Home

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Topaz aromatic location

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Buck-toothed fortuitous meteor library



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: obsidian zombie-like international law enforcement agency

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Flirting silver personal credit line theater

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: obsidian zombie-like international law enforcement agency

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Lilac Church Building

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Flirting silver personal credit line theater

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Turquoise lascivious philosopher-king

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)