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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Claret Bateful Nibblets
  01/21/18
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mustard violent halford
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Magical theater stage
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Magical theater stage
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
of course.
Magical theater stage
  01/21/18
...
Claret Bateful Nibblets
  01/21/18
...
razzle-dazzle piazza
  01/21/18
Lol
Bipolar Scarlet Famous Landscape Painting
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
hairraiser cyan skinny woman national
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Magical theater stage
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
misunderstood dull university
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
misunderstood dull university
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
misunderstood dull university
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
misunderstood dull university
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
CR
Claret Bateful Nibblets
  01/21/18
lololol
territorial lilac point goal in life
  01/21/18
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titillating wrinkle
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
mahogany lay
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
lol
Magical theater stage
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
mahogany lay
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Hilarious Glittery Depressive Meetinghouse
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Magical theater stage
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Crystalline Galvanic Station
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Claret Bateful Nibblets

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: mustard violent halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Magical theater stage

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Magical theater stage

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Magical theater stage

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Claret Bateful Nibblets



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Bipolar Scarlet Famous Landscape Painting

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: hairraiser cyan skinny woman national

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Magical theater stage

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: misunderstood dull university

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: misunderstood dull university

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: misunderstood dull university

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: misunderstood dull university

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Claret Bateful Nibblets

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: territorial lilac point goal in life

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: titillating wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: mahogany lay

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Magical theater stage

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: mahogany lay

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Hilarious Glittery Depressive Meetinghouse

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Magical theater stage

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Crystalline Galvanic Station

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)