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Etiquette advice please..

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Mustard Abnormal Knife
  01/21/18
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heady institution voyeur
  01/21/18
was she hot?
magenta excitant liquid oxygen
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
magenta excitant liquid oxygen
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
of course.
magenta excitant liquid oxygen
  01/21/18
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Mustard Abnormal Knife
  01/21/18
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fragrant circlehead
  01/21/18
Lol
Cordovan passionate regret
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Up-to-no-good ape
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
magenta excitant liquid oxygen
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
hilarious brunch fanboi
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
hilarious brunch fanboi
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
hilarious brunch fanboi
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
hilarious brunch fanboi
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
CR
Mustard Abnormal Knife
  01/21/18
lololol
ocher big range potus
  01/21/18
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Disrespectful Bawdyhouse Feces
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
dashing sexy antidepressant drug location
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
lol
magenta excitant liquid oxygen
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
dashing sexy antidepressant drug location
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
vibrant chocolate stead useless brakes
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18
how did she die/
magenta excitant liquid oxygen
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
bearded appetizing pisswyrm
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Mustard Abnormal Knife

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: heady institution voyeur



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: magenta excitant liquid oxygen

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: magenta excitant liquid oxygen

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: magenta excitant liquid oxygen

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Mustard Abnormal Knife



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: fragrant circlehead



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Cordovan passionate regret

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Up-to-no-good ape

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: magenta excitant liquid oxygen

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: hilarious brunch fanboi

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: hilarious brunch fanboi

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: hilarious brunch fanboi

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: hilarious brunch fanboi

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Mustard Abnormal Knife

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: ocher big range potus

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Disrespectful Bawdyhouse Feces



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: dashing sexy antidepressant drug location

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: magenta excitant liquid oxygen

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: dashing sexy antidepressant drug location

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: vibrant chocolate stead useless brakes

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: magenta excitant liquid oxygen

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: bearded appetizing pisswyrm

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)