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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Arousing tanning salon potus
  01/21/18
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  01/21/18
was she hot?
dark territorial weed whacker
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
dark territorial weed whacker
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
of course.
dark territorial weed whacker
  01/21/18
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Arousing tanning salon potus
  01/21/18
...
Hairraiser trailer park partner
  01/21/18
Lol
Costumed address national security agency
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Floppy Mexican Property
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
dark territorial weed whacker
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Saffron toilet seat
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Saffron toilet seat
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Saffron toilet seat
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Saffron toilet seat
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
CR
Arousing tanning salon potus
  01/21/18
lololol
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  01/21/18
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Pearly keepsake machete public bath
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Insanely creepy trust fund
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
lol
dark territorial weed whacker
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Insanely creepy trust fund
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Pearl Cruise Ship
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18
how did she die/
dark territorial weed whacker
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
free-loading crusty center quadroon
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Arousing tanning salon potus

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: elite ultramarine jewess new version



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: dark territorial weed whacker

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: dark territorial weed whacker

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: dark territorial weed whacker

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Arousing tanning salon potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Hairraiser trailer park partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Costumed address national security agency

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Floppy Mexican Property

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: dark territorial weed whacker

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Saffron toilet seat

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Saffron toilet seat

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Saffron toilet seat

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Saffron toilet seat

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Arousing tanning salon potus

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: spectacular soggy blood rage school

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Pearly keepsake machete public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Insanely creepy trust fund

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: dark territorial weed whacker

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Insanely creepy trust fund

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Pearl Cruise Ship

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: dark territorial weed whacker

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: free-loading crusty center quadroon

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)