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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
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Female law partner? LJL
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was she hot?
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I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
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  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
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haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
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of course.
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PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
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cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
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  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
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yes, yes, this is very helpful..
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  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
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  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
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  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
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  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
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  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
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  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
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  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
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  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
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your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
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Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
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lol
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i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
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Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
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I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
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how did she die/
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Bull headed stag film boltzmann

Female law partner? LJL

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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: haunting stage mental disorder



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Appetizing Business Firm Persian

was she hot?

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Appetizing Business Firm Persian

clearly the daughter.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Appetizing Business Firm Persian

of course.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Bull headed stag film boltzmann



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: self-centered aromatic public bath



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Comical chapel mood

Lol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Grizzly Stock Car Trump Supporter

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Appetizing Business Firm Persian

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: hilarious effete office

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: hilarious effete office

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: hilarious effete office

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

a year & couple of months.

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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: hilarious effete office

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Bull headed stag film boltzmann

CR

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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: saffron patrolman bbw

lololol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Ultramarine Fat Ankles Lettuce



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: filthy honey-headed marketing idea

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Appetizing Business Firm Persian

lol

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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: filthy honey-headed marketing idea

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: thriller harsh tattoo piazza

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Appetizing Business Firm Persian

how did she die/

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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted headpube

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)