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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
passionate school cafeteria circlehead
  01/21/18
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French Marvelous Forum Milk
  01/21/18
was she hot?
orchid hell
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
orchid hell
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
of course.
orchid hell
  01/21/18
...
passionate school cafeteria circlehead
  01/21/18
...
twisted hot ticket booth black woman
  01/21/18
Lol
Stimulating juggernaut
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Violet pervert crackhouse
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
orchid hell
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
rusted massive theatre gaping
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
rusted massive theatre gaping
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
rusted massive theatre gaping
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
rusted massive theatre gaping
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
CR
passionate school cafeteria circlehead
  01/21/18
lololol
Yapping Space
  01/21/18
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swashbuckling field
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
bat-shit-crazy market elastic band
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
lol
orchid hell
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
bat-shit-crazy market elastic band
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
white windowlicker deer antler
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18
how did she die/
orchid hell
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: passionate school cafeteria circlehead

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: French Marvelous Forum Milk



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: orchid hell

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: orchid hell

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: orchid hell

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: passionate school cafeteria circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: twisted hot ticket booth black woman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Stimulating juggernaut

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Violet pervert crackhouse

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: orchid hell

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: rusted massive theatre gaping

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: rusted massive theatre gaping

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: rusted massive theatre gaping

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: rusted massive theatre gaping

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: passionate school cafeteria circlehead

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Yapping Space

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: swashbuckling field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: bat-shit-crazy market elastic band

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: orchid hell

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy market elastic band

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: white windowlicker deer antler

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: orchid hell

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: rebellious fear-inspiring yarmulke persian

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)